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Mali Kiyah: So I should let her getting accused falsely!? That's not how I function.
As for the other part of your epistle blah blah blah! The day you will stop taking your friend side and tell it like it is I will respect your opinion . I am not attacking everybody , you said something in igbo about me and I ignored it.
I came back because people asked for updates, I thought I owed it to them. I never wanted to make this thread about me. Check my history, I had been on here before this thread.
This will be my last post on here.
Maybe it's time for somebody else to get butchered by you and your coward and immature friend.
To everyone else , thanks once again and my apologies for my '' mouth '' i had to do it lol.

Please, make sure you post it for them to see before you log out.
As for me, am not done! You do not touch the tail of a sleeping lion! Who does tribal thing? I don't. They should have considered am Igbo too before that empty head accuses me falsely and continue to bark. Like I said earlier, I am her Waterloo.

Mali Kiyah: If you want I can post the messages from where I got the translation .

My dear, you can post it for all to see because I am not going to take it likely on that bigot.

babyosisi: Looks like my posts intimidate you
Expose me?
Hahahahaha
When I joined naira land your senior citizen was yet to carry your wine
Give it your best shot I say since anadikha and okija are yet to answer you
Head to ijebu ode and try from there

You can only intimidate yourself! You can't intimidate even the lowest person on earth. Mind you, as a proper Okija indigen that I am, I don't need Ijebu Ode. But I won't trail that line because of a nonentity like you! I know how to deal with your type and place you where you rightly belong!

Mali Kiyah: You have been abused so you think that gives you the right to mock my situation? Don't think so
I am talking to you because I am not a coward like you , when I have something to say to you I will quote you and say it directly.

Ma cherie, don't respond to all messages directed at you. I don't think you need that now! Go and heal, get help and bounce back. If possible, leave this forum for now. Some of us can reach you privately through pms and other means. Pls leave the forum and heal first.

kikelomoje: @ Nogen, thks so much for ur help

You are most welcome!

@Ile, you are yet to prove your friend was abused in the entire 5 year relationship, then you have no right to accuse me unjustly! She rather abused the man! Like I said before, case closed! And I pray someone treats you the way that girl treated the man! AMEN! Then you will understand that abuse comes in different ways and forms! How can a girl open her mouth so wide for five solid years eating from a man without being harassed sexuall.y, and then got her a fabulous job! All of a sudden, she realises he is not her type! Instead of quiting the relationship jeje, she ran here to murder the man's character, looking for traces of abuse in the man that she couldn't and didnt see in 5 years! Rubbish!!!!

ileobatojo: I will hand it to you, you sure are good at side stepping an issue when you know you are wrong. You have repeatedly refused to address the main question I've been asking.

Now to the side show. Why can't we compare with Kenya? The fact is, if Kenya had come here at the point in time when he was sponsoring her education with fears about him being an abuser, you would have told her he can never be an abuser because he is empowering her.

@Ile, never compare Kenya's case with that girl's case! Did Kenya's man empower her? Hell No! That's why he pulled her out of school- sign he's absuive. Did your friend's boyfriend pull her out of school?- Capital NO! Did he allow her finish Uni?- YES! Did he get her a fantastic job upon finishing school? YES! No abuser does that! Your friend was the one who abused the man! PERIOD. Case closed

kreami diva: Nogen,i sincerely think her "virgin status" was over-hyped. She knew the man would find out that she was not a virgin when they eventually get married and was looking for a way to bale out! IMO o

In fact, 'your head dey there'. You got the whole picture! MtcheEeew!
@Ile, never compare Kenya's case with that girl's case! Did Kenya's man empower her? Hell No! That's why he pulled her out of school- sign he's absuive. Did your friend's boyfriend pull her out of school?- Capital NO! Did he allow her finish Uni?- YES! Did he get her a fantastic job upon finishing school? YES! No abuser does that! Your friend was the one who abused the man! PERIOD

kreami diva: Nogen and Kenya,how do you people feel discussing in French? I remember gisting with vivianc in igbo and how we were asked by Illeobatojo to go to the culture section and that too much of everything is bad.

Pls this thread isn't for catch up things.

No vex o! I was excited when I saw her post about growing up in Congo and I knew she can speak my 2nd language. Sorry dear. By the way, am igbo too.

ileobatojo: No need to shout. I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy of your post.

The bottom line is even if we assume her odds of getting beaten are the same as the general population (they are actually higher), if she later starts getting physically abused, she will not be able to come to this thread for her own succor, no thanks to you.

Am not hypocrite please and watch your tongue too! I am against any form of abuse! It is not only women who are abused, men too get abused from their wives or girlfriends and I will never support any form of abuse irrespective of the gender of the abused! AN ABSUIVE MAN WILL NEVER EMPOWER HIS WOMAN! So, how is the man abusive? In fact, the chances of him being one is ZERO! He could have married her when she was 18, made her have all the babies he wanted before she turned 21! He did nothing of such! She wants to quit the relationship and ran here to shout of abuse! She's just an abusive person! Period!

ileobatojo: The one that you yourself helped to chase away nko? If she marries him in a few months and he starts panel beating her, do you think she will be able to come here for succor and advice?

Pls let's not go into that argument now because SHE OBVIOUSLY WAS NOT IN ANY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP! She opened her mouths wide, allowed a man train her in the University for years and got her a very good job without taking advantage of her for a minute! All of a sudden, she realise the man abuses her! Abeg don't even start that baseless argument here! YOUR FRIEND CLEARLY ABUSED THE POOR MAN!

kenyattamoore: oui je suis vraiment surprise , tu t'exprimes très bien en tout cas . je me porte très bien, mon amie aussi.
Des gros bisous à toi aussi!

Lols! J'adore la langue.

If we except some abused peeps to come here for succour and advise henceforth , we must be dreaming. You know why? Some idiiotss have insulted, abused and castigated the ones who came here for succour and advise. The main reason why this forum was created by Swagg Qeen has been rubbished by some people who have nothing to offer the abused. They think it is fun to mock them. It is no fun at all, maybe until you have a relative who suffers abuse, then you will understand it is no joke. While some of those idi.ots actually need counselling and help, but they are ALWAYS IN DENIAL, YET THEY COME HERE TO MOCK AND THROW INSULTS ON THE ONES WHO OPENLY ASKED FOR OUR HELP!

kenyattamoore: Coucou Nogen,je vais tres bien et toi?tu es d'ou?contente qu'il y ai aumoins quelqu'un qui parle une langue que je maitrise mieux,Je suis tres contente!

Moi aussi chérie. Je suis nigériane. Surprise? Oui, une nigériane qui s'exprime très bien en français . Je suis enseignante Fle ici au Nigeria. J'espère que tu te portes très bien en Chien, et ton amie? Un gros bisous pour elle de ma part.

kikelomoje: Good morning to everybody here.
@ Nogen,thks for ur reply. Pls, at what cost can i get it

You are most welcome. Go with 16k for the two! Male and women's but you will go home with some balance. You can only get them at this rate in Medplus, in other pharmacies, they are more expensive.

@Kenya, tu parles francais alors? Comment vas-tu? J'espere que tu te reposes tres bien! Ne t'inquiete pas, ca ira! Coucou!

kikelomoje: Pls, can someone tell me where to get fertilaid product in lagos. Thks

Check Medplus pharmacy

childless: good morning all, i so much appreciate all your life restoring responses
to me, bear with me to change my user name as soon as i conceive i took that
user name bcus am tire of saying it is well when it is not well
i am tired of pretending.

mamas pls i have a question i was asked to come for tube flushing since one tube is remaining and one was choped off but i planed to used the castoroil
methods i read my quest. is did any one with blocked tube conceived here after tube flushing or should i comence the castor oil method instead
am asking bcus every thing i have ever done to get pregnant without asking questn
did not work, so i prefare to ask questn bf doing anything again.

sory 4 my lenghty post

At Mamachildren, try to call this woman, Mama Helen on 07066968188 or 08023259582. God has used her to treat both men and women infertility problems and He is still using her. One of us Redeemsaves also went their and got her positive result. I did too because I wanted to cleanse my system before embarking on the 4th IVF journey. While I was taking the cleansing herbs, I took in. By then, hubby hadn't started taking his treatment. Hubby has since started taking his eventhough God has answered us and he is seeing lots of improvement. He will be going for medical analysis soon. With the bad report he got from the hospitals, I still conceived. Do not lose hope please.

jumzzy448: What is all these rubbish for Godsake? Mods should please come and clean the mess from this thread. This thread is meant to be of help to those in abusive relationship, but now it has been hijacked by abusers. If you know you can't give advice or give your opinion without resulting to insult, then this thread is not meant for you.
At 2sexy, I'm highly disappointed cos I can't believe you'll use someone's predicament to insult the person later.

I believe the mod will soon come and clean up the poo some fellows did here and have them banned for a longtime if possible!