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[quote author=Omo_Alata]I wish someone will just ban 2sexy from this thread. This thread is supposed to be a safe haven for the abused. His mouth is just so vile[/quote]We may have to report him! Lots of abused people out there may never come to this thread because of some silly and uncut fellows.

registered: DONT BLAME 2SEXY. WAIT TILL YOU SEE HOW KOFSY AND HER COEFOE ID INSULT PEOPLE ON THIS WEBSITE UNA GO SHIVER. NO BE KOFINSKY? I KNOW THE ANIMAL TOO WELL. THERE WAS PEACE IN BATCH C EXCHANGING WORDS WITH PIAGET, SENSUALMAN. MAKE SHE PACK HER BLACK FACE FOR BUSH VERY DRY LUNÅTIC. WHERE IS PIAGET?

Please speak ENGLISH so we can understand your plight.

Hahahahahaha! Kai, this man has suffered o!

[quote author=2s£xy]I hope you had enough beating today, didn't you? Go meet your man to pound you again jor while he goes cheat on you with that beautiful damsel cos you can't offer the taste of what she give him. See who is talking.

I warned you last time not to refer to me.[/quote]Am really shocked at your outburst. It was not necessary and it says a lot about you. So disappointed. I know you will attack me now but you know what I really don't care. You need to grow up sincerely speaking.

Don't mind them. I speak Igbo very well and my accent hasn't changed. Nonsense, let some parents keep fooling themselves. How many of these Europeans and Americans they want their children to be like learn and speak our indigenous languages?

childless: congratulations to daddy triplets,
how i wish my lord will use this house to direct me on what next to do to get pregnant
becos am fed up with every thing,
i did not know about this tread until yesterday when i sign into ttc tread and someone
sugested that this tread will be of a help to my problem

i got married since 2002, did sugery to remove fibroid six month bf wedding, tried for 3 yrs after weding no result.
i went for scan and they saw another five big fibroid after removing it with invasive surgery,
no child, we headed for ivf, when running the necessary test, they discoverd fluid and blockage
in one tube the tube was cut off to enable ivf sucees after first and second failed cycle, they discover endo,
they did some procedure to
eliminate endo, since 2009 after endo was treated till now i have not missed my menses for one day,
even as the docs promise me that i can conceive with one good tube, two months ago i went for pelvic scan,
hsg another fibroid was seen again,
the one and only tube is blocked, have i come to the end of the road?
can i still get pregnant in this type of situation? does any woman has my
type of problem and later conceive in this house? pleas i need your suport.

My dear, God can do all things but we need to trust him to do that. He enjoys doing the impossible . But I want you to start by changing your name from childless to mummychildren. Blendy and other sisters will help out with other medical questions and suggestions. Xoxo

Biko, what is a PASTOR doing with 4 private jets? Hia, ooooooo!

coogar: of course, it's not funny.
i just don't think it's feasible for you to have booked an appointment @ the chinese embassy in tanzania, done your interview & get authentication within one week. it's either the entire story is a cöck & bull story or you are a chinese citizen.

Honestly, whatelse do you people want from this lady? If you don't have any positive words of encouragement to offer her, just don't talk at all. She has opened up her life in the public for us to encourage her not to diasect her like this. Go back to her previous posts and stop all these incessant attacks on her personality abeg. You people should stop abeg. It is hurtful.

kenyattamoore: Babyosisi why don't you use English? From what I understand some of you think my situation is something to laugh about. This is not funny at all!! I know you are a grown up please act as one.
I am in my friend place now , I know some of you will not believe , look for a way to prove later but my word should be enaf. I am tired and very emotions now, I need to rest.

Thank you Lord. My darling, welcome and well done for leaving that bast.ard. I have always believed and trusted you to do the right thing. Pls rest, when you are alright, do send us some proof. May God keep you! Amen

[quote author=king's daughter]after 10years of marriage; 3 naturally conceived miscarriages; 5 IVF cycles; mockery from friends and some family members; stretched misunderstandings in the home; God still stood by us to give us this miracle, He is really faithful.

I had to go all the way back to all your posts....This Level of faith...Jehovah that is never too late, always on time, Restorer of the years!!!! answered your prayers...God is Faithful.....Big Congratulations to you. May they grow in the knowledge and love of God.[/quote]Honestly, I never see a man with so much faith in recent time. He renewed my trust in God and I applied one hundredth of his faith and I got my reward. God will keep and shower more money on him o because these babies will not lack anything o. Amen

Idowuogbo: Oh God!!!! Make una translate ur ngbatic na!

Am sure you are at work now. Don't bother asking for translation o!

ileobatojo: They need to move all their Igbo to the culture section or move the ikworikwo talk to sexuality section! Enough with all the Igbo abeg, there are many other readers of this thread. Too much of some thing is not good.

Supported! You naughty wives should move to sexualit.y forum o while you hold your husbands to ransom this minute. We patiently wait for Kenya's call.

Well, Kenya is heading to China now while you naughty wives are busy messing up the thread with some naughty things. God dey.

inwangobio: Thanks so much sisters, am grateful for all d show of love. Am humbled at the level of love showered on me. The Lord who Has removed this reproach from my family will do for all my sisters in God's waiting room. You are next in line for this same miracle.
My boy weighs 2.74kg n d sisters 2.36 n 2.54kg respectively. But holding up till wk 36 n 4days wasnt easyoo i must confess. I thank God so much.
@labella12, yea my wife was d number one, Dr Rais n his team did a very gud job by God's grace,

Chei! i was privileged to hear the good news this afternoon and I have not stopped dancing Bro! Heyyyyyyy! He is a good Lord! This is just the beginning of good news in your home! You are a man of faith, in fact, your level of faith amazes me. God who has removed this reproach from your family will do greater and mightier things in the lives of these amazing children, my beautiful Aunty and you bro. God bless you real good. Warming up to come down to Abuja for the D-Day!
I pray these blessed and wonderful babies will fulfil their destinies on Earth, they shall bring you and Aunty joy,divine favour and connections. I use them as a point of contact to every woman and man on this forum. None shall be called barren! This year 2013, everyone on the waiting list shall conceive and carry to term , those who are pregnant already shall not miscarry. We all shall carry our babies to term like Aunty did and come bak for testimonies like you my Big brother just did in Jesus Mighty Name! AMEN!!!!!!!!!
ABUJA, HERE I COME O!

The Lord has done it o! Testimonies are flying in so soooonnnnn! Dancing with so much joy here! He has done it, He is the Alpha and Omega#singing#

I have always suspected this guy called Ike~lips. God don catch am! Thank you for digging this up. Yeye boy

smiler: Amen!

Sis how body? Just shared your testimony on the TCC thread. Beautiful pregnancy and delivery is your birthright my dear.

We are doing great by the Grace of Almighty God. Thanks so much my dear sis. God shall remember you soonest! Just believe!

We shall have great testimonies this week, this month and the rest of the year in Jesus Name! Amen!

Phema: Lol. She aint going anywhere! I know her type. Na today?

I believe she will leave, never doubted her for once.

disunriches: pls can anyone help me to usa.am really tired of dis place.ASUU and d rest.i think i need to leave dis country for now.i hope to get help from one of u guys.my email...disunriches@yahoo.com;+2348163394517...may god bless u all

You are setting yourself up to be duped!

Pls don't go gaga Vivianc! Maybe I have to set you up on a date with someone fast! #match-making things uploading#

@Vivianc, it is well. The right man will locate you but you need to quit blaming yourself for being good. And tell the truth at all times.

Machines do the washing. The latino guys who don't have papers clean inside when the car is out, and you have to tip them.

So correct! Machines wash cars abroad o! Let them go and see that there is a difference between harmattan and winter. Abroad is where I pay a visit and runs back home sharply! Can't afford to live in debt all my life abeg.

I believe she's leaving irrespective of the result of her test. We will get the good news soonest. Kenyatta reporting LIVE FROM CHINA.
Hahahaha! This your reverse psychology must work o @ babyosisi

babyosisi: Excuses excuses excuses
People are wasting time advising you really
What was the result of the pregnancy test BTW
It takes less than a minute after you pee on the stick
This is 24 hrs and we are still waiting

Biko, free this babe! Even if she tells you she's pregnant, how do you intend to help her? The most important thing for her and us is her safety till she gets the ticket and leaves the guy forever. Whatever she decides with the pregnancy is none of our business really!

vivianc: Ok, i'm being too hard on you, I know.

But i'm not mad at you for not marrying the guy, nah. I'm mad at you for leading him on all these years.
Sweetie, why didn't you say something? Maybe in your second year, or third.
I'm sure you had room mates, i know how school scenario is in Nigeria. And i'm sure this man visited you in your hostel or off campus, did you ever tell your friends about him and how you felt about him? Did anyone advise you at all?

This life get as e be o my dear.

Honestly, it is very painful. Let your yes be yes in life and your no be no. You don't lead a man on for good five years! God dey shaaa.

[quote author=king's daughter]I didnt want to say anything about this yesterday and am glad pple shared their experience. just when we thought i was d carrier of all the issues in the world, DH was diagnosed of abnormal sperm morphology ( teratozoospermia) caused by varicocele and we already read about it online before seeing an urologist. the Moment the urologist mentioned surgery as the only option we fled without looking back. We have read enough journals online to know surgery isnt exactly the way forward for a ttc couple. na to begin gather money for AR remain. God is on the throne.
Meanwhile I have a testimony. AF came naturally yesterday after absconding for 1 whole year since last year october that it was induced. Its more or less rushing like a tap![/quote]See my darling, the Lord who surprised and blessed me will do the same for you. There's nothing he cannot do. Let your hubby try this supplement- fertilaid for men. While you take fertilaid for women. Hubby and I have been on it since January or February and we conceived naturally with the help of God. Whose report do you believe in? If you see hubby's report medically, it was bad but God's report became the ultimate in his life. JUST BELIEVE.

[quote author=2s£xy]Omo girl free me... Which one be ur own? Haba... She deserve it. Shuo. No b d same thing Vure wan do another guy so? Which kind rubbish talk u dey spew?

if una no like guy, no even think of collecting his 1kobo, no even accept to date am. It's selfishness in the part of most girls out there.


abeg no make me vex o because that girl nearly make me hate women, I mean all women. Fact!

I have said it before, i use it so that people can learn na which one b ur own?

U no wetin? Tell Vure make she dump d guy... Tell her make she follow another dude just like that. All this wey she dey yarn na story. She done get another dude wey she love. I pray make d guy no do anything stupid.

[/quote]E se jare! Some women are just too gullible!

David Moyes need to do the needful now- BRIBE THE REFEREES- . It was evident that without their help, ManU wouldn't have achieved much during Ferguson's era. My one penny advise.

Thank you @ Safe06. God will hear all our prayers ! Amen

Honestly, I feel so sad for him. They are all to be blamed, including Vure. The whole thi g started when she was 17, now she's 21. Why didnt she end. It whilst in school? Anyway, all the best to the young man. God will bless him with a more sincere and deserving wife. The one that will bring peace, love and happiness in his life.

babyosisi: I feel for you
I find you a victim here.A victim of poverty
Please permit me to use the word poverty to describe the situation that led your mother to receive financial help from this man.
I don't see the man as evil since you tell us he never took advantage of you ,I believe he may have dreamed of marrying you eventually and patiently waited for you to grow into a young woman before he made his move.That is a man with good moral character IMHO.
The age difference doesn't automatically mean he will be abusive

Your words above however tell me you don't love him enough ,you feel indebted for all he has done for you and so obligated to pay him back with marriage.
That is a disaster waiting to happen.you should love and be in love with some before you marry them.

I got married young,I was 23 so your age is not an issue
You have to be ready
It seems to me you are not ready from what you write and certainly this man is not the right one for you ,if he was right,you wouldn't feel the way you do.
He is not a bad man from what I read from you,he is just not the right one for you
Don't feel obligated to marry him then


Plan of action

1. Tell your mother exactly how you feel
2.you and your mother must let him know

I am being careful not to speak ill of your mom but what she did here is very wrong.
There is no mother that wouldn't have known where this may eventually lead not minding how you feel about it.

This young man will feel a lot of hurt
He will feel used and rightly so
He may have invested on you with hopes of marrying you and now you are bailing out on him.
Nobody will be happy with you and your mom on hearing his story,most people will be sympathetic to him so you must be prepared for that backlash.
I hope he is not a violent man because if he is,he may not take this news kindly.

I wish you well

Nna mennnnn! After solid 5 years! Some girls shaaaa! This man has been sooooo financially abused, now they want to physically,morally, spiritually and psychologically abuse him! So unfair! I HATE ANY FORM OF ABUSE. I JUST CAN'T STAND IT! God dey shaa.