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6pack:
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I have not been able to get her out of my mind.

She moved on got dumped by the guy in less than one month and she contacted me 5 days ago and I responded today. I tried settling it out and she said I responded late. That it can't work now. She even said she was going to see another guy . Like wtf.

What type of useless mind game is this please.
The fact is I love her so much. She is not the type that is after money or material things.
And I don't believe in double dating. We have been moving alone for 5 years now. I don't know how to get her off my mind. I have watch countless YouTube videos on how to get an ex off your mind but non is working. I have tried having sex with different girls just to get her thoughts off but its not working. This thing is affecting my hustle seriously.

Damn, let me drink some beer.
Life has been unfair to me relationship wise

Mumu... She is not materialistic but she cheats... Cheating is the apex of materialism

MrBrownJay1:
the issue of single mothers is very simple... if you have no problem with it, then meet them and enjoy your life with her....and if you have a problem with it, then dont date/marry single mothers, et voila!

a woman with a child shouldnt be an issue, unless that woman is a bad person....sadly, many people will automatically view a single mother as a bad person, while many others wont/dont, and will instead judge that woman on the go or her character. some single mothers are fantastic women who became single mothers because of a bad union, a death and/or an accident. you cant possibly judge a woman negatively on the sole act of having a child unmarried (unless of course, you are one of them religious holier than thou hypocrites who forgot that even JESUS mother was a single mother, lol!)

Mary wansnt a single mum
Make ur senseless point without involving Christ

PortHarcourt1st:
Our port Harcourt is a glorified village despite huge oil revenues

So roofs are your measurement for development.

I can show you shanties in America.
Don't be childish

Ayed44:
What kind of rubbish is this?

She said the truth

VenumX:
His mum/dad couldn't help him...it's now you that thinks you can change him.

I pity you.

He has money... I'm sure.
Op has no idea what marriage is, even perfect one dey tire person once once

Brytexbaby:
Good morning everyone.

I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.

We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.

He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.

My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.

What are the side effects of this drug?

How can I help him with this addiction?

Please help!
Thank you

Lol
Loller
lollest


Keep changing, I'm sure he has money, you eyes go soon clear. U have no idea what marriage is,

CruiseCity:
Ever since I got into my new apartment. My landlady has been pressing me with too many bills. Always begging me for money which has been given her.

She doesn't pay light bills anything. I and my next neighbour pay because we share one meter

Ever since I decline her last bills, I have discovered a hatred for me. I will greet her she will not answer and I'm been respectful because she's an elderly woman who also is old enough to be my mother.

I discovered she's a witch. Don't ask me how ( I did my findings )

I started having set back lately. I went broke as never. I experience sex in the dream, eating in the dream, strange movement in my room which is invisible at night. I live with my samoyed puppy. Most times, he barks at nothing and it makes me wonder what's going wrong.

I consulted my pastors and elders and I was told to leave the house that she's bewitching me.
Apparently I'm broke. I've been running from my own apartment I paid with my money.

I've been sleeping in a cheap hotel and now back to a friends house. Imagine this life.

Go and give ur life to Christ and run from sin

Pacesetterz:
Really?

You don't know u are devils right?
Evil beings

Ogbeni2000:
There's a certain argument that you shouldn't marry unless you're financially ready.

When exactly is a man financially ready? Lots of people lose whom they love chasing when they're financially ready.

Please I need matured contribution on this.

You guys are becoming boring with this childish questions everyday, my husband and I married on Npower/NYSC.
Today story is different, everything is very soft

Enjoykoko:
Hmmm. It is well. This guy is someone i know in Ankpa stadium. No one believes me because everyone already painted him a scammer. If he is frustrated it is because he may be tired trying to make you all believe him. It is his loss not yours

Pls leave those poor devils.
I know this guy is real, I have been in a tight corner before, certain questions wid make u wanna suicide

Miracletech:
@ Dominique https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ps9b0YyZCOdC13gryom7ey-DJIaThhoO/view?usp=drivesdk

Bro I believe you.
Nigerians are devils.

Never be at their mercy... Beg God.

Betterprospect:
Good day Nairalander. I'm single, 30 years old. I studied agriculture related course at University level, and I presently worked in that field and I earned about 120k monthly.

I feel unfulfilled and I'm lacking interest day after day. The unfulfillment brewed mostly from my bosses egoistic and narcissistic approach to his employee, the insane working hours, and the lack of liberty, and most importantly, I feel I could do better. Now I have a meagre 2 million naira saved up, small? I know. Buy I'd like to pursue my passion in tech albeit from ground zero.

Now my dilemma is:

1. Seeing that I'm old and already past my prime for a career change at 30 yrs old, does a pursue of another career make sense?

2. Knowing that 2 million is small and would not last long. Does is it make sense to just up and leave?

3. I have a small biz I ideal which I feel could give me close to 50k monthly, but thing is, this is Nigeria and I might be wrong.

4. Should I just suck it up and continue for another year or two? Everyone I asked seems to think I should.

P,S. I worked 12 hours a day and its impossible I merge the two together.

You are not old bro.

30 is young, face your life, things can change, what if u were dead?

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

Open your cage na
Till u get Belle.

Wish I had a brother who did that for me

Candidlady:
You ain't financially buoyant to father a child but that didn't stop you from getting erection and dividing in raw!!! You and girl are both silly..


Wicked beings

Modified: you met her January started dating February had sex that same month ?

Where do you guys find people like this? Is love that cheap?

That girl is a nonsense girl !!!

Sex is cheap... Love is not

We need a revolution

OBALOLA55:
THAT’S CHRISTIANITY FOR YOU

Jesus never did... He is a pastor, not a Christian

natosjahdi:
It is no news that Kirra obidi Is one of the many controversial influencers in Nigeria social media space. Being heavily pregnant is not even a window for her not to twerk for the gram.
We all see her family as a happy one and the husband so supportive of her contents but hey! You're wrong.
They had an altercation on live video of over 1.2k viewers. However, the husband came online yesterday to affirm the event and called her out for cheating.
I guess some of us were really wishing to have her kind of husband and family�.
"If dem put everybody problem for the table na still your problem you go pick"- proverb.

Her husband is okay na

This was just after the 1st coup, why was it removed from govt

nickyj19:
The only solution to this is JESUS.
Is the prince of peace,both of you need to accept
jesus christ as your lord and your personal savour.

Stop that.. Did she say she was an unbeliever. Christians suffers because we don't help each other. Read ur Bible, the early church had Christ , yet still sold all they had and distributed the wwealth in the spirit of equity

Kingpee2:
Congrats man ,forget sha na because money o too dey ,Most Nigerians like to dey show off grace of God when they find it ...I wish you well but like I said earlier na because money no too dey ...

Show me dbanj wedding pictures.
Under 12.

MamiTer:
Hello good people of nairaland, I have a pressing issue and I really need your help.

A couple of years back I broke up with my boyfriend whom I really loved due to distance barriers. Getting over him was difficult for me so I had to go into a relationship with one of my toasters in order to get him off my mind.

I achieved my aim after a couple of months but the current guy was unwilling to let go, I didn't love him and couldn't get myself to love him despite trying to. I know I was selfish and opened up to him but he insisted that I would warm up to him with time and grow to love him.

The relationship was far from perfect, I was in it solely for what I benefited but we weren't compatible and it was from one issue to another. We were always at logger heads all the time. He insults me and my family at any given opportunity and talks down on me using secrets I shared with him as leverage each time we quarrel. He shredded my self-esteem.

He was insecure and attacked my male friends at any given opportunity including my lecturers, he would access my social media accounts and send derogatory message to any male contact he feels is making a pass at me.
All these attitudes made me fed up with him and I decided to breakup for good.

Early this year I met a guy online and somehow we vibed together quickly, we met physically for the first time and it felt like we've known for ages. Everything moved so quickly with this new guy that I started developing serious feelings for him. I was scared because I never knew I would feel something like that again after I broke up with my other ex.

This new guy makes me happy and treats me like a woman, anytime spent with him is always memorable and I don't feel like leaving. The chemistry that we share is super strong and everything seems so perfect.

Now to my issue, this new guy is a fresh graduate and not yet stable, I don't have issues with his financial status because he made me realize a Lady can actually be happy without money being thrown at her. But I'm still scared of going all full into the relationship he might go for service and never come back to me. I don't just want a repeat of my previous relationship that got shattered after my ex relocated.

On the other hand, the other guy is hell bent on getting me back, he's been pleading and sending people to beg me even though I told him I've moved on and has even had sex with the new guy but he still wants me back.

I'm confused and don't know what to do, my heart is with the new guy but the other guy is making things so difficult for me and almost driving me insane. Can I still grow to love him?? Though I've been unable to after almost a year.

Should move on with the new guy?? I've known him for barely two months but it seems I've known him for ages, my feelings are exploding and I can hardly control them which is making me scared.

I'm sorry for the long epistle but I had to let it all out.
Please advice me.

You will always have a plan B.
You are not ready for any man now.
And I believe u are just a young child

orohbiro:
I met this guy last year at the shopping more we became an item, he even bought me iPhone pro max on my birthday he has be showing me care and all that.

But for the past 3 weeks the attention has reduce I think he is seeing another Lady he normally send me money month Ending to make my hair but he didn't send me money this past February he work at a construction company I don't want to loose him and I don't want to fight with another lady because of a man if I find him with any.

What should I do please and getting tired of the whole thing. It took him 2 months to win my heart.

U have been used

TheNiceGuy:
Has the man been caught yet

He's your name sake o

NigeriaZoo:
Putin is feeling the heat. At least this is a step in the right direction.

Which heat, wasn't that the condition since.. Abeg

Drsnives:
Good morning nairaladers, pls pardon my errors.

I met this girl late last year, she's nice, godly and has most of the qualities i want in a wife. i love her, though her dad is late and her mum should be in her late thirties.

Yesterday we were chatting and she was like her dad didn't do the necessary rites on her mum and hence according to tradition i will have to pay her mum's bride price to her family before i will be allowed to start her own (my babe) marriage rites. I just weak cos have never heard of such. Where i won see the money for double bride price?

Pls nairaladers, have any of you come across such ridiculous tradition or she's making it up herself cos i feel like quiting the whole thing.
I just tire. Your opinions are welcomed

Modified: she's from obiaruku in ukuwani local government area of Delta State.

When u enter covenant ehn, your mind go dey

MrMacinterchi1:
you and your 94+ likers are no different from the op, you're more far from knowing the Jesus you claim you know. Hypothetical humans.

Lol... Enjoy ur righteousness

MadamVanessa:



A vice president relegated to a mere commissioner position who commissioned things for survival.

Remember what timaya said, "collabo follow for promo"

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