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An average northern woman is very faithful, it hurts them when their husband cheats

ConsultFenty:
Do you mean the video?




If you meant the video... Well the video is valued at N5,000(no jokes here) but I'm granting smart people FREE access to it simply because I want to help my fellow Nairalanders become aware but...



When a certain amount of people get access to this video for FREE... I'm sorry but not sorry...


It probably won't be available to you on a platter of gold by then.



I hope this answers your question.

Nonsense!

spice123:
Let me give you a candid advice as a married man:
1. Maintain your teaching job. You are a mother with two lovely kids. Don't let those children suffer for your careless mistake.

2. Talk to him to move to Abuja with you. You are already settled with a job and stable so he too needs to support you by joining you to start looking for job opportunities at Abuja.

3. If he insists in staying in his comfort zone (Zaria) without making effort to get a job, please leave him and go back to Abuja and continue your job.

4. A man cannot be talking of marriage when he does not have a stable income. I was a teacher earning 30k in the east when I met my wife in Lagos. My wife was earning twice my salary. I had move down to Lagos because we wanted to get married. We postponed our wedding by 3 months until I got another job that was paying 45k. That was 8 years ago. No matter how little the salary is, let your man have something doing.

My one piece advice.

You spoke well, I am my husband save our alawee and got married immediately after NYSC, today the story is different.
If the man is a good person, let her.m move with him, from my experience, marriage brings favor o

SageOfChelsea:
You dey try. I'm single and I earn 70k and yet I goa borrowing be4 27th of the month. I'm not getting married until I am earning 200k plus. And future wife must be earning 100k plus.

Baba nor be so o.
Don't wait. Good women dey North, even with your 50k salary, as long as them love you, I married my husband with nothing, he was scared, sometimes when I sense the pressure on him, I just pack to his mum place and stay with her, my mom in law is the best, she understand, I ate anything I wanted... Today our story is like a dream.

Just position yourself for Love.
All the best.

I'm Hausa Christian, my Husband is Igbo.

Blessedmercy8:
These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

Stop being useless.
Continue your body counts. Or what's stopping you from marrying a man that earns more monthly, or you are not their class. Una go suffer later ehn, but we dey church dey wait una

Demigod22:
I am posted to Bera, Gokana local government. Senator Magnus Abe's community.

Thanks for the advice, I will keep it in mind and enjoy my service, although the place is so empty and dry.

Na just one year,, I served in Borno. Zero ur mind. Enjoy your year

Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

Leave that girl, I repeat, leave that girl

Ebi2233:
Its Ijaw.
It's called Bini meaning water in Ijaw.
Most Ijaw come from this dispersal centre.
It was a big dispersal centre for many Ijaw clans then.

Mad people

guobe:
I didn't go to work on time today because of this episode.I said I must watch it till the end.The leopards mum was even angry with it as she now had two new born leopards.she drove her son away.

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Then you don't know cats

PavillionEnergy:
Hello Nairalanders,
I need advice regarding this opportunity.

I applied for an Engineering Graduate Trainee Position recently. I wrote the aptitude and technical tests and passed. I also attended the interview and I was successful.

The Contract Form was sent to me and I saw some clauses that I need to discuss here before I append my signature.

1. The training runs for two years before conversion to a full staff.

2. You cannot terminate the contract for the training once you sign. You must stay for the full two years.

3. There is a canteen at the factory, but you have to buy the food.

4. There is no full HMO benefits but the factory has a clinic to attend to medical needs of the trainee.

5. The gross pay for the first year is 50K. The gross pay for the second year is 70K and from the third year, you earn 100K.

6. The company does not offer accommodation for the trainees.

7. I am not sure if the company uses staff bus.

8. Work is Monday to Saturday. 9:00AM to 6:00PM. Although Saturday work ends by 1:00PM

NOTE: I stay in the FCT so I would need to relocate. The company is in Lagos.

Lapo

treesun:
Just seven years, APC and Buhari are more evil than imagine!

Funny enough, he has served about 3 already from it, he just have less than 2 years to go.

This is sad

TheGidRedpiller:
TRP IS GOLDEN!!

Can I be a redpiller as a female?
TRP IS GOLDEN!!!

Rosrozz:
Seek help first before writing on anything marriage. A broken man is not fit to lecture others on marriage issues. My prayers are with you.Shalom

But he said the truth, I'm not a redpiller yet, but my brothers are going through all he wrote there.
This marriage na just God and Luck.
I'm a good woman, I move with pride fa

pocohantas:
For better for worse.

Thankfully she died married. I like to think there is a special place in heaven for women who die married.

Someday people would learn that humans must talk. They don’t even care about the quality of your marriage. They just want you to ENDURE it long enough to take family pictures at 70yrs and cook oilless soup for your darling osuband.

Learn from your mother, she kept her home and raise a dustbin like you

TastyFriedPussy:
If you were 21, extremely broke (zero naira in your account) and just got admission into a University this year to be sponsored by your parents who would only pay your school fees and no feeding money since you'll be going to school from home..

would you rather forfeit the admission for this year, then work at a place where you'll earn 60k a Month for one year, then after the one year, you use some of the money you've saved(500k+)to start up a business that will be running while you go to school next year.. or you'll just accept the admission?

You can do both, you will be shocked at what you are capable of doing

JackDaAlienz:
See as Tanzania Police Station Fresh
And Nigerians are calling Tanzanias POOR

While your Nigerian Police Station
Look like Old Testament Prison.

Enter cell, body go tell u

Antihypocrite:
I have been married for 3 years now, I have known my wife for 5 years altogether. She was and is still the best thing that ever happened to me.

I don't know where to start from, I can't come to terms with the fact that my wife is leaving.

Guys, I think the problem started last year after some hoodlums stole my bike. That was my major source of livelihood apart from some home lessons that I used to do, but stopped due to health reasons.

It's been difficult financially and I honestly don't know what else to do.

Shortly after my bike was stolen, I got a loan from lapo and added with my little savings to enter palm oil business. I wish I had not done so as I ended up losing about 80k because the guy I worked with cheated me whole heartedly.

My wife had to get a job as a teacher in a private primary school. I told her it was just temporary as I was working to raise money for her start a poultry.

In order to clear the lapo loan, I had to do odd jobs and take loan from loan apps. My wife's little salary of 20k became the major source of feeding while I battled to clear the loan.

Sometimes I would borrow from friends to pay the loan app to be able to borrow a higher amount from the loan apps again. This was a mistake and a trap cos now I am so much indebted to these loan apps. I am even owing some friends and right now I am unable to pay back.

I have been in debt for over 8 months now to these loan apps. They have tarnished my Image to all my contacts.

I even stopped going to church because most of my church members who received messages from these loan apps did not even care to hear me out. They believed the loan apps that I am a fraudster on the run.

My wife started feeling ashamed of me. She stopped associating with me in public spaces. I know she has tried. Nobody deserves to pass through what she is passing through.

This afternoon when she came back from work, she told me that she would be going back to her parents house

She said that it is best she goes back to her people until I am able to sort my self out.

Guys I have tried to be strong for so long. Right now I don't think I can hold on anymore. I have always believed that things would turn out well, but right now I am in a low place. I don't know how long I can hold on again.

Last month I tried to even get a security job that pays 25k monthly. But I feel so discouraged to do the job. How long will I work to clear a loan of 320k that keeps adding interest daily.

Thoughts of suicide have been crossing my mind today. I really need help

What can I do? I don't even have the energy to pray. Has anyone ever been in my shoes? If yes how did you come out?

Maan up...
Your wife dey ment...
Woman wey Love u go die with u

emmanuelbrown26:
Head slammers, na only noise. Una think say Israel na una mate. One thing I like Israel is that they don't talk nor make noise, they will just do their thing and go back home. Any country that shares border with all these headslammers tends to fight I don't know why.

Lol... They stick with the mosaic Law, and this their new PM na baddest Jew

God1000:
But this is heartbreaking bro, imagine losing your loved ones every now and then.

Israel cannot defeat Iran in a conventional warfare

Which one is conventional? All is fair in love and war... Israel will wipe out iran

motayoayinde:
THIS WON'T GO ON FOREVER.

ISRAEL IS TAKING A LOAN IT WILL PAY BACK ONE DAY.

THE PALESTINIAN MUSLIMS WILL NEVER FORGET.

Monkey

196O:
I don't like the idea of foreign coaches but it seems there's a technical coaching deficit among our ex players. Eguavoen clearly showed that...

The only local coaches that gave manageable results were Onigbinde and Siasia.

Kesh

Okonandmary:
Most of the Christians on islamic thread spend their times abusing Mohammed and islam. I am a Christian but it evil when we provoke Muslims to anger online

Foolish eye service church goer.
Seun is a fool

pachigo001:
So aboki de get mind for Lagos to kill and Yorubas will leave them make them try that their rubbish for east here

They won't dare in East.
Lagos na no man's land

an0daGuy:
Hmm, na who be these ones again?

Seems like It’s cash out season in the north

Those people need all the help they can get

OhBritannia:
Let me give guys a life advise.
No matter what you do in life, try your best and make peace with all women, especially the ones you have or had sexual relationship with.
( Only the wise will understand)

Baby talks... Which peace, pls say another thing abeg. So it was tonto curse that make them demolish the house. A woman don't have power over a man, even spiritualy.

See e add weight again.
Thanks to God

drmuchin:
THE WAY OF JESUS LEADS TO ETERNAL LIFE
THE WAY OF MUHAMMAD IS TANTAMOUNT TO JIHAD, SUICIDE BOMBING, BEHEADING, BURNING OF INNOCENT PEOPLE ETC

Mohammed is a rapist

Fasindo:




Emergine a world without Islam

Muslims will tell u that isIam means peace and Allah is all forgiving, but that is only in theory but in reality the reverse is the case

Allah is a beast

Agozie48:
Someone who has esteem issues would not be a popular event host

U know nothing