why is the title of the news different from the story? From the story, Boko haram attacked and soldiers killed them but your title is misleading

frankleesehi:
Troops of 143 Battalion, 28 Task Force Brigade, Sector 1 Operation Lafiya Dole deployed in Madagali, Adamawa State had on Saturday, 9 February 2019 successfully dealt a big blow to Boko Haram Terrorists(BHTs) following an attempted attack by the terrorists to infiltrate the Camp.

The terrorists who stormed the location in gun trucks and met their waterloo through stiff resistance coupled with massive fire power from the troops and inflicted serious casualty on the terrorists and their equipments. The troops in their effort successfully held their ground, disorganised the terrorists who later lost momentum and retreated in disarray.

Continue Reading: https://www.hgsmediaplus.com.ng/2019/02/boko-haram-killed-soldier-after-trying.html?m=1

A branch office of Ikeja Electricity distribution Company assigned to Orile-Agege axis Disconnected a transformer serving several streets citing reasons that some houses have not paid their bills for 6 month.

It is sad how people who have been paying their bills are made to suffer.

Letter written to IKEDC has not been responded to while we remain in darkness

We want to use this medium to reach out to the appropriate authority to come to our aid

cc: lalasticlala
Seun Osewa

are my eyes paining me? where is the crowd?

the poster, the mode that brought this to front page and all the commenters are all mad.

watch the video and you will see it is acting... So why demonize ladies because of a skit?

All of you saying this guy is too young, Nigeria is wasting you away. A boy in india started coding when he was 5 years old, by the time he was 9, he already built an OS. now he is 13 and works with google...he earns the naira equivalent of 450Million... Allow people grow at their pace

Nuelmatic:
Please Lord, Bring an helper to this lads way and take him out of this useless country so he can be very useful to the world at large...Helper if you are out there...this is for you. For now, I don't have the resources to do this but if I can, I will

Please Lord, Bring an helper to this lads way and take him out of this useless country so he can be very useful to the world at large...Helper if you are out there...this is for you. For now, I don't have the resources to do this but if I can, I will

Dockaysworld:
Warri boy who smashed waec and jamb denied admission.

David okorogheye, the delta state boy who floored his jamb and waec with 336 and 9A1's respectively has been denied admission into the university of lagos to study medicine, on the ground of his young age.
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The 15-year-old who stunned the general public by his outstanding performance, was not allowed to take part in the post UTME exams, he has been asked to try again next year when he comes of age.
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Efforts to contact relevant authorities as to whether he could be considered for special admission has proved abortive as authorities say the law must be followed.

The lad however has come to terms with the surrounding suituations and says he will wait for the next year's admission.

According to sun news, David who hopes to become a neurosurgeon, had his passion activiated when he watched doctors battle to save the life of his late father when he was 8 years old, and since then vowed to study medicine so he can save lives.
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With his father late, david is currently been sponsored by his mother and family members who are proud of him.

Source;
https://www.dockaysworld.com/2018/09/06/warri-boy-smashed-waec-jamb-denied-admission/

I want to bring to the notice of unsuspecting job applicants to a job application which I am currently processing and I did a little research and realized it was a scam.

I came across a job vacancy in a pdf format asking for applicants to forward their cv's to recruiting@un-crd.org. In the pdf, different positions were listed. After sending my cv, I received 2 detailed form of about 8 pages. one contains a form called a P11 form and another with interview questions. After filling and submitting, I received a medical form of 4 pages asking me to visit a general hospital to run some test. Now these tests will cost some money. I am not yet sure if I got a job by just filling some forms, so I decided to do a little research.

I googled "United Nations Centre for regional development" and I saw on the website an announcement denouncing such advert (find attached). Then I decided to check the domain name that has the email address, which is "un-crd.org" and I concluded it was a scam. Now, I am expected to forward the medical form on or before 22 August 2018. Well, I am glad, I haven't spent money for those tests. Maybe because I am a Chartered Accountant and when I want to spend money, my brain starts to work...lol....

lalasticlala
cc:
seun osewa

I am not a muslim but I won't reduce myself this low. A death of an Elderly man you are making such derogatory statement about. Statements like this are gradually making you a demon and you will not recognize until it is too late. repent

CapitanS:
So his prayer was not acceptable or what?

With an investment of this magnitude and the time lag between commencement and ceasation of operation, I can conclude that it is either there was no strategic document to back this investment or the strategic document was poorly done.

Some of these analysis we take for granted have far reaching consequences. PESTEL analysis, Porter's Diamond analysis, 5 year Financial forecast and several scenario analysis etc. You may want to believe that because it is a big company, they might have crossed their t's but you will be shocked this wasn't done.

If I were engaged to investigate the cause of this, I will begin from the above

peeps4u:


https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/274899-exclusive-pg-to-shut-down-300-million-nigeria-production-plant-one-year-after-launch.html?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C8855754542

First things first,

DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE. no matter how bad it gets.

Tell them the truth, no matter whose ox is gored.

Whatever comes out of it, Chart your own legitimate course and not that expected by your parent

Make up your mind to be successful

Wishing you the best in advance

Tommy34:
I'm a 22 years old boy who's been constantly torn apart from within, I have always been seen as the black sheep in the family, I mean everything I do comes back to haunt me. I finished secondary school 2013, took Jamb but didn't get through, then 2015 came and got a pre-degree form for Adekunle ajasin University located in Ondo. I scaled through the exams, got admitted but I need was to pass Jamb for the same year. I didn't make the cut off.
  I was so ashamed of myself but I believed I still had time, so I came up with a lie, what I was going to do was pretend I actually got admitted to the school, then with the money given to me, I would get another Jamb, pass it and be a student...
  Unluckily for me, I got found out by my cousin in school who told my family, now they are requesting for my matric number and password, which I don't have. I'm too deep in the lie to say the truth because I know I'm most likely going to be disowned (my dad has made that clear). Now I'm thinking about cutting ties, staying in school and try to come up with some money so I can really be in school and study.. only then can I tell them what happened.. I don't know, I'm pretty confused and would be grateful to any advice, I'm lost but I'm hoping to find my way..

"I didn't not" simply means you did

We are all hypocrites in this part of the world. Do we have dual laws in a country? how can a set of persons restrict other peoples movement in a city like Lagos. if this is done in villages, we will forgive their ignorance but not a city like Lagos that suspended Saturdays environmental sanitations to boost productivity of residents to allow this nonsense to stand.

I even heard if a lady is caught, she is killed. how can we allow this to stand? Where are the feminist? this is a fight you should pick up

You said you will accept insults right?

YOU ARE STUPID

Have a great day

lalasticlala:
A Nairalander who seriously needs advice sent in this mail. Please read and advise her. Thanks


"I Am still in love with my ex but I am married to a stranger


I wish to seek advice from nairalanders. I will accept insults. I just got married 2 months ago.

Let me start by saying I dated my ex for 4 years. We loved ourselves but you know as the year went by, my ex started showing some attitudes like hiding his phone when sleeping. Also his parents came up that we can't marry, simply becauss I am not same state with him.

While all this played out, this friend of mine connected me to a guy whom came back from abroad to marry. I saw the guy but didn't like him but before we met. I already informed my parents about this guy from abroad who likes me a lot. Without seeking for my approval. My parents got carried away and insisted that it's him they want, not my ex anymore. Out of fustration and pressure I married this new guy but I feel no love for him. My ex also wants me back and I want same because I love him.

I plan to divorce my husband because I can't stand that he Will be my husband for life. I don't love him.

Please advise me."

I still drive a manual but I won't lie to you. I wish it was auto. I have suffered in traffic. it has its good side Sha. if the car breaks down, I can push and start it. lol

lmao. who else saw that guy at the back put his hands on his head?

kimbraa:
Funny enough, Freeze calls himself a Christian and some stupid enough Christians are cheering him. Just imagine someone calling Africans uncivilized simply because a miracle was performed and people believe and the same set of fools forgot that Western Nations have men of God like Joel, Benny Himm etc.

I won't call them fools, otherwise I won't be any different from them. Rather, I will pray God to open their eyes to see that they are only fulfilling endtime prophesies. ooh! woe be onto me, that I be found on the other side of the divide, fulfilling devils mission in the end-time. "in the end, the love of many will wax cold" yes, If you find yourself laughing at the Holy spirit when Freeze speaks. It is so your love for God should wax cold. is it a coincidence, freeze...Cold...hmm! think!!

it is a pity that mocking the power of God has become the order of the day. I am sure if you guys were with Elijah, you will doubt the miracle God performed through him. Let me ask, which is easier, to raise the dead or to multiply oil as Elijah did. tell me, what is the difference between what Elijah did and this woman's testimony?. God never changed. he is the same yesterday, today and forever. aprons from apostles Paul's body were used to perform miracles. Be it onto you according to your faith. Canal mind is death. he who has ears, let him hear. it is not by speaking English and making people laugh, mocking the Holy spirit.

Dagger made NYSC Camp experience beautiful back then in kaduna camp. a very hyperactive soldier and love his job

how could you bring a fake story from ranthq to NL and it made FP. NL is beginning to feel like poo

ok

This dude shared a video on how he met his bride to be and their wedding date.

click the link below

https://www.facebook.com/ikwoche.emmanuel/videos/10216189545036366/

Beautiful Story
Lalasticlala
Seun Osewa

You have 95% of the blame. I think you made a lot of mistakes that got the whole situation deteriorated. You should have supported her dreams. her dreams doesn't have to be what you think/expect. she wants to buy and sell, that is where you missed it. However, it is still possible you guys heal your relationship. When you reach her, tell her you have decided to support her dreams and desires. apologize for that and remind her of how you guys started.

kunleajaye:
Hello peeps. It's with a heavy heart that I have to say that my marriage is on it's last legs(or so I think). Sometimes last year I made a post asking for advice and things actually got a bit better afterwards (https://www.nairaland.com/3415462/dont-feel-attracted-wife-anymore), but alas, it didn't last.

My wife returned to her cold self and it just went downhill from there. We started arguing again over the tiniest of reasons. Some of the reasons for our petty arguements was the issue of her engrossing herself in school activities that sometimes took her attention from home duties. I told her a couple of times that i wasn't against her doing things like what she did and wasn't in the way of her achieving her desires and goals, but she shouldn't forget she's a mother and wife and one of her primary duties is her family. Sometimes she'd spend so much time in one fruitless meeting or the other, and when she gets home, she'll be too tired to do anything. It got to a point I had to do alot of cooking for the house so that the kids won't be hungry. It's not that she didn't do her duties. It's just the inconvenience of it all and the way her outside activities affected us that really got to me.

Another thing that got on my nerves was her attitude to her degree. Agreed, with all the things she did, she still maintained a very good GPA and was one of the best students in her department. Her lecturers would at times request she take their classes for them while they attended to other pressing issues. It was a good thing and i felt proud, but in her mind the main thing she wanted to do was business. Buying and selling like she did when we first got here and before she started school. She wanted to set up a store where she'd import and sell african prints. There were days during the summer when I'd plan on doing Uber to supplement the little I brought in as a paycheck, only for her to tell me she'd registered for one event or another to display her wares. I'll just have to stay back at home with the kids till she returned later in the night. It really did get me upset and I once asked her what the point of the degree she had studied for if all she wanted to do was sit in a store and sell stuff? We had this argument several times on end.

What eventually broke the camel's back was something she said that I'll never forgive her for. One evening, after putting the kids to bed, she approached me and said she wanted to apply for a loan. I asked her what she needed the loan for. She said for her shop. How much does she need? Ten thousand dollars. How does she expect to apply for ten thousand dollars when we have no way of paying back? Besides, where does she expect me to get the collateral from? She said someone would stand in for her. I told her I don't support the idea and she should be patient. At least after her graduation, she would be able to work full time and earn a better pay which she could then channel to doing whatever she wanted. She said no. She doesn't want to work, but sell her stuff. We started bickering back and forth about this cos I was already fed up of the whole issue, and at some point she screamed, saying I do not support her as a husband, and maybe she would have been better off marrying Awwal. [/color]


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Awwal was another guy who fancied her when we met during our youth service in camp; she had once told me that back then she loved him as much as she loved me, and if she had to choose, she would have picked him instead of me. I asked her why she then chose me, and she said her late mother had advised her "don't make a future husband into an ordinary boyfriend, and don't make an ordinary boyfriend into a husband." In other words, don't confuse lust for love.
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[color=#000099]She realized what she said and immediately began to apologize. I don't know how I kept my cool, and I walked away quietly. It only got worse after then. We no longer talked liked we once did apart from the necessary exchanges. I let her do whatever pleased her. Our arguements continued and sometimes we wont speak for days. I started keeping late nights, staying more in the lab after school or sometimes driving to a bar to drown my sorrows. I tried getting a marriage counselor, but the damage had already been done. Our sex life became virtually non-existent. We just remained together because of the kids.

A man has needs, and if he wasn't getting them at home, he'd start looking outside. I'm not proud to say this, but during some of my late nights out, I'd visit a discrete gentleman's club. It was on one of these outings I met one of the girls who danced there. She was a young college kid in her junior year. Over the next week or so she gave me a listening ear and I poured my heart out to her. She invited me over to her place one evening (she shared a three bedroom house with two other girls), one thing led to another and she was giving me a full n@ked massage with her body. We didn't have penetrative sex, but she gave me the sexual release my wife had denied me for such a long time. I offered to pay for her services afterwards, but she told me not to, as it was just her way of showing she cared. We ended up making similar arrangements a few more times, and each time we took it a bit further. The furthest we went was the time we had a 69 on her bed, and she came all over my face while I splooged her mouth. I always had to wipe myself off properly and take a shower once I got home to rid of all the oil and smell of pheromones on my person.

I guess my wife suspected something was going on cos she asked me one day if i had been seeing anyone. I asked her why she asked, and she shrugged, murmuring something to the fact that it was unusual of me not to have disturbed her for sex in such a very long time. I told her since she had decided to control when and the frequency we had sex, I had accepted my plight. I told her if she wanted sex, she knew where to find me. That night, I woke up to her snuggling up to me. It was the first time in a long while she would come to me. Try as much as I could, I just couldn't achieve an erection. My time with the stripper girl had taken away the sexual affection I had for my wife. She noticed this and started crying, saying i don't love her anymore. I simply told her it was just the stress. The following day, she was back to her normal self.

Last month, she finally graduated. I was happy that at least she would get a place to work and earn some money. But what she told me a few days later came as a shocker. She told me she wanted to go back to Nigeria. Her plan was to fulfill her dream of setting up a clothings line and since i don't want to support her, she'd rather go on without my support. I asked her if she was joking, but i could see she was dead serious. I asked who would take care of the kids if she leaves, and she said she intends going with them. infact, she had already told her sister to start looking for a nice school for them at home. I just couldn't believe it. Why make that kinda decision without consulting me first? She just told me her mind was made up. I tried changing her mind, but she remained adamant. Unknown to me, she had already booked their flight back home a long time ago. I had to call my parents to talk some sense into her, but afterwards they just told me to let her come home, that she may just need the change of environment for a while. I called and asked her sister why she didn't tell me about the plan knowing how close we were, but she simply said it was her sister's decision.

They left two days after Christmas. To date I'm yet to receive a call from her. I've sent her several emails but she hasn't responded to even one. She told my mum she hasn't had the chance to get a line yet, but I know that's a lie. It doesn't take you more than a week to get a phone and a line in Nigeria. Sadly, I may have to accept the conclusion that my marriage is over.

There was no love lost between the Special adviser to the president and his daughter, Moremi OJUDU when the later took to her Facebook page to lament on the state of the economy. Things fell apart between them

https://www.nairaland.com/3810302/basket-tomatoes-n25k-lagos-moremi.

Many Months after, Moremi took to her Facebook page to apologize to her father


https://www.nairaland.com/4195452/moremi-ojudu-apologizes-father-babafemi

Today, we saw a smiling Moremi and her father on her page with the caption

" Words Fail Me...Glad to have my Daddy.
# EverADaddy'sGirl"

It appears the feud is over

https://mobile.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10214627709383470&id=1144549330&refid=17&_ft_=og_action_id.10214627709503473%3Atop_level_post_id.10214627709383470%3Atl_objid.10214627709383470%3Athrowback_story_fbid.10214627709383470%3Athid.1144549330%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1514793599%3A-1730061217203105644&__tn__=%2AW-R#footer_action_list

lalasticlala
Seun

Lmaoooo!! you don't know as much as I know...Before now, I am a master smasher. Yeah, I know you guys here always say bitches aint loyal but I am willing to take the risk for this one

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I am getting married in March next year to a lady I met last year on facebook. we have never had sex because she said no sex before marriage and i know she is going to be my wife. we do every other thing like kiss and romance but not sex. sometimes, during the romance, she feels weak and wants the sex but I know at that point, she is only vulnerable by my actions but that was not what she ask for so i wont do it. Why the rush, she will marry me

savvy12:
Pls guys,I need your advice.
No insults please.

I have two men in my life right now.

The first one is a medical doctor at nauth in nnewi. According to him, he is 37 years old(10 yes older than me) but I still don't believe him cos he looks much older than his assumed age. He looks 40ish. And he is sort of secretive. He doesn't like talking about himself.we started dating last year before I lost my dad.

Things have been going well but the problem is that he has been pestering me for sex. But I'm not ready to have sex with him cos I'm not attracted to him. I went to his apartment as usual last week Sunday and he tried to initiate sex but I refused and told him I wasn't ready for it. He got angry and drove me to the park where I entered bus to my house. Since then he hasn't called or spoken to me.

I'm worried right now. I feel like he will leave me after he succeeds in having sex with me. That's why I refused him sex.

pls note,I'm not a goldigger cos I'm not the type that demand money from guys.He gets angry whenever he offers me money and I refuse.

I am also dating a second guy who is abroad. He lives in Canada. I got his number through his sister who is a friend of mine. We have been chatting for 3months now and he seems like a nice guy. He said he will come back to Nigeria after applying for his citizenship card next year.

I'm confused right now.I don't know whether to forget about the doctor and focus on the abroad guy or should I beg the doc and allow him have sex with me.
I have not had any relationship for a maximum of 2years cos the guys I meet always want from me even I try not to demand anything from them.
pls I need advice.

I would have loved to answer you but you already have a biased mind and nothing I say will help you. All I will say is Pastor Chris is a product of the word. the word of God come alive in our day. The word of God demonstrated before our eyes and not boring religious practices. I was a catholic, I bless the day I ran into his message on channels TV in 2001

Seun:
I’m trying to understand how Pastor Chris became more handsome with age..

He lost the moustache.

He was born with an undersized forehead, so as his hairline receded, his face became more proportionate.

His cheeks have expanded greatly, making him look very well-fed, which he is, thanks to your tithes and first fruits.

Despite this, his belly has remained perfectly flat, making him look fit.
He must have gotten several tummy tucks (stomach fat removal surgeries).

His more recent photos were taken by professionals who used better lighting and cameras, chose his best angles, and asked him to smile.

More expensive fitted suits and hair products.

i am a man. men don't cry. why am I having tears in my eyes after reading this?

"Moses has been asked to reach out to his office and relative to come take him on bail."

https://politicsngr.com/2017/12/06/moses-motoni-released-nigerian-police-photos/
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and they said bail is free. you see that they are mad

Awesome. God bless you all for allowing God use you to bring Rhema filled songs to Christians all over the word. The devil don't like what's happening. there is a release. God has poured out his spirit upon us and the devil is mad.

quite unfortunate you are the first to display your stupidity.

Papiikush:
Same oyedepo that collect tithes from gullible zombies then place a curse on anyone who doesn't give him money (tithe) that same oyedepo?

The one that said God will place smelling mouth on anyone who speak against his word (oyedepo's) that same oyedepo?

Abegi... Na to promote him business.. December is around the corner and "daddy wants to buy a new car"

Just make sure you so your Thanksgiving (with money) in his church

Ijaya123:

So you agree that Tstv is a scam

yes, unless proven otherwise.

I must confess, your writeup is deep and very apt. I love the picture you used, great sense of humour.

I however want to correct some of your assertions as they are based on assumptions and some obvious facts were overlooked by you.

Firstly, On your number 1 point, she never accused her dad of being responsible for Nigerians woos but like every Nigerian, she only voiced her concern for the sufferings of Nigerians, directed at the president but because her dad serves under the presidency, then can we assume she was directing the outburst to her dad?. you may say she should have done it privately because her dad is involved, should it be so? then, when can we really learn to speak the truth irrespective of who is involved? why can we not take criticisms constructively but rather see all criticisms as destructive with "enemy at work" mentality.

secondly, your assertion about her mum is just a mere home video assumption as I can say you watch a lot of home videos. no fact.

Thirdly, a genuine apology doesn't have to be you rolling on the floor, crying and screaming "ejo" Nothing wrong in trying to recap all that has transpired and weigh your assertions then tender your apology.

thank you

Excuzeme:
OPEN LETTER TO MOREM OJODU

Let me use this forum to address you, Moremi Ojodu. in your own interest.

1.) Your Dad is not the President but just one of the "employees of the State" so, he is not personally responsible for ALL that happened. If you see anything WRONG with the Govt, all you need to do si to approach your Dad IN PRIVATE and tell him how you feel.

2.) You actually wanted to embarras your Dad, hence the need to make it Public.
You also felt you have "arrived" and can show your hatred/arrogance by thrashing your own Dad, who laboured on you (as you made known in your post) for many years.
The Yorubas will say, "No matter how a younger one claims to have Rags, he/she cannot have rags that are as old of that of an Elder".
You are still a "Learner" when it comes to Politics and Governance hence you misfired!

3.) From your post, it is apparent that you were also "acting under the influence of your Mother" because her and your Dad are ESTRANGED and your Dad has a new family (wife and children).
It is obvious that you finally saw an opportunity, under the tutelage of your Mother, to get back at your Dad and hurt him where it will hurt the most.
This is not about you 'taking a stance on the side of the masses', this is about Vengeance. Be honest and say so!
You wanted him to be dropped from his appointemnt as a result of your silly outburst (and l am sure you wont be apologising today, if he has been rubbished and dumped as a result of your senseless rants), which is what would have happened in any Western Country!
But luckily, he was not. Now, you and your mother are shamed.

4.) Just like your Mother used you to embarass your Dad, you are also trying to use your own Daughter to further embarass him, by bringing her into this rubbish, on Social media.
if your duaghter (and she is innocent in all these but you are manipulating her to your own advantage) is very desirious of 'talking to Grandpa', why not just drop her in-fornt of his house and let us see whether "grandpa" will drive her away?
I am sure Mr. Ojodu is matured enough to see through your antics.

5.) Your father has no problem with your daughter and you are actually just "a front" being used to tey and bring your father down, the real problem, the "Egungun/MAsquerade" behind this whole[b] charade is YOUR MOTHER.
Tell her to move-on and stop being bitter; Love is made, Love grows and Love dies![/b]
At least they are both alive and free to do whatever they want, better than being stabbed to death in one's sleep.
If she was a good Mother, she would have cautioned you against "Going Public" against your father, on something he has "no personal and total control over"!
But then, how would she, when she is the one stoking the fire behind a smoke screen.

6.) Now, l am looking at this your apology and l will quote it first, before commenting:


It does not take much intelliegence to see that YOU ARE NOT ACTUALLY SORRY NOR DO OYU ACCEPT THAT YOU WRONGED YOUR FATHER.
That is really very sad!
Your usage of the phrase "If", "Did l", shows that you dont even beleive in your own apology but you just have to say it..... for some reasons you are yet to make public.
Maybe you are restrategising to get even closer to him so that you can inflict a "Deeper Wound" than you already did?
Maybe you see that you have some 'benefit' to gain or are losing and you just cant afford to keep losing it!

But it is damn obvious you are not anything near REMORSEFUL.

If you want to chart your own course in life, please do, you are a full grown adult, with a child (and probably a husband, if you have not followed in the footsteps of your Mother ), NO NEED TO KEEP UISNG YOUR FATHER, AS A LADDER OR FOOTMAT!
Fulfill your "sense of purpose" on your own afterall, many people without a father in govt do such and we dont hear about it.
Moreover, your father wont be in Govt forever, so learn to stand on your own two legs.

Finally, it is obvious you are one of those children that have a faulty upbringing and it is not rocket science to see that the family breakup and you living with your Mother alone, is responsible for this.
Women should please, even when you fall-out with your husband, allow your children to have the "training and inputs" of their father, in their Life because that is what will make them a complete Adult in later years.
That you detest your former husband does not mean you should ruin the "psychological balance" of the children you both sired.
When you prevent them from seeing or having anything to do with their Dad (either through physical separation or poisoning their mind with bad stories), you are DAMAGING YOUR OWN CHILDREN AND DOING DAMAGE TO THEIR FUTURE.

I am sure your Dad does not hate you (No father hates their daughter), he is only wary and cautious of what DAMAGE you can be used to to in his life!
Give him SPACE and let him be the one to decide when and how he wants to gradually let his guards down, concerning you.
ONCE beaten, TWICE SHY!