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Lamanii22:
Did they eventually got married If no, then he deserved what you called him.....

she dumped him 3months after

Dobson43:
Certain relationships whether childhood or not are already dead on arrival. I once had this friend back then who I mistook for a real brother from a another mother. We were all good right from the start back then. We were practically inseparable. He even encouraged me to date his lovely junior sister.



Well, here was the thing which I overlooked then. He loved to copy me during exams. I didn't call it a thing. It was just one of those things as far I was concerned. We then separated after secondary school and went our separate ways.



After university days, we reunited but I found out the friendship was solely running based on my input. My guy nor send. Then I found out he practically spends his time with another dude who he actually wanted something from. My friend is a world class ass kisser. He practically charmed his way into this guy's heart. Then the favor he wanted from this guy failed to materialize. My friend dropped that guy like a bad habit.


I then realized that when we were younger, this dude was in a relationship with me because of what he can get. Before we became friends he struggled to pass his exams. After we became friends, it was a breeze for him.



There is an igbo adage. It's only when you get super close to a person, you can perceive his mouth odour



You weren't really friends then. You were just strange bedfellows. When maturity sets in, you would move on from such unequally yoked people.

you right.

pyrex23:
Well he actually is..

ofcourse he was but I thought should have minded my business because that statement destroyed our friendship (since childhood) but we move.
PS: the girl dumped him at last.

i think the meanest word I have ever told someone outta annoyance was when I called my friend "A dumb douchebag" when he used his school fees to pay for this girlfriends house rent.......that statement literally destroyed our friendship (6years).

Exmilitant:
I adviced my elder brother to biuld a house on a swamp during dry season then the rain came, the house got flooded and the walls cracked... He hasn't spoken to me for over 12yrs now.... Many years ago, my cousin was offered two jobs, Mobil and Wilbros. He came for advice on the one to pick, i told him to go for Wilbros, he did and 2 months later, Wilbros left Nigeria. Its 15yrs now my cousin has never gotten a solid job.... Family members think me enemy of progress.

systematically...you are

smh.....deal with it. y'all think with your dicks.

wait...a girl you haven't walked on the aisle is giving u this typa heartache and u still contemplating on whether to dump her sorry ass or live with her toxicity...wow! just wow! u gave her the audacity to be honest...if u had put her back to her place making her realise the obvious fact that she's your girlfriend and not your wife,she wouldn't have the gut to pull this Kanye.
op don't mistake her action as love...it's basically toxicity.
when u eventually tie the knot with her,she might make u cut ties with your immediate family.....
you've been a weak man all along,stand your ground.
don't be scared to lose any lady in a relationship,there are thousands of good girls out there.
Be a man of high value and build your self esteem.... girls will run after u.

19years...300k

EwuGambia:
Yeah....a Honda baby boy that she shows off on ig, it's an old car and not even a big deal at all. Having a car doesn't make one rich, it's a necessity, not a luxury.

I checked her instagram page out, she seemed to be doing okay.

Though i feel her showoff is too much, showing her account balance sometimes. I've come to realize that it's people that dont have anything that have most of this behaviours.

u smart bro....u be OG.

sex against the mans will - Rape
extortion against the mans will- theft
this should be a criminal offence but this bitches are even bold with this act lately.....I told my friend (A girl) that I wasn't ever going to bang any girl putting that shii y'all called "fashion" around her waist,she thought I was bluffing.
the d day came,we was gonna bang but then I saw the bead around her waist.... my D fell straight...omo I walked her out Las Las.
most girls putting on waist beads are fetish!

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op even said she should come out clean so they could finalize and settle everything ....lmao
simping get levels abeg

MrEazi223:
I've been following this thread since just decided to keep mute but now I think I need to contribute my quota.
I'm currently battling the same issue imagine someone we both have plan for the future and I just spent over 40K on us last month (May) when my salary is just 50K still have the guts to ask me for money yesterday, she even mentioned that I've never done anything for her in my life though I dumped her for that statement.

My advice to my fellow guys never spend anything on girlfriend rather spend it on your mother or siblings because most of them (girlfriends) are ingrate they will never appreciate your effort and will later tell you what did you ever do for them.

A word should be enough for the wise.

For those of you that may be doubting my story check pictures below.

ouch....seems you are new in the game....albeit you haven't come across this famous quote"no matter how hard u try,u can never satisfy women" .....dude,most of em deal with choices.... judging by that statement she made,it's obvious she'll leave u for a guy who's got more money....that dough u spent on her would go a long way in transforming your life if u spent it on your mum.
this hoes ain't loyal!

Petyprincess:
Same way nothing dey ur head nd pocket! imagine lacking both as a man, it's funny how you guys will start barking when we give our opinions,only broke guys like you will get offended by my post. Bt welcome to nairaland that every guy wants to sound savage bt ended up sounding stupid!

I no get time to dey chat shit with a skinny and a local looking riff Raff.....I only pointed out the obvious.... nothing dey your head and u just affirmed my claim once more.....shameless liability.

Petyprincess:
We ladies dnt have time for long talk! The lady had probably cited your brokness hence the ignoring attitude! So it's either u move on to another girl or leave us alone!!

nothing dey your head...not even shame.
I wonder who's gon take a liability serious.

xendra:
shut up there, look who's talking about having something upstairs

na Ego dey ruin una, so a lady sees you for the bullshit you are full of now means she doesn't know what she wants
at least she knows what she doesn't want, your type.

stop defending em blindly...that guy made a point.

ruggedtimi:
the reason u created a thread is absolutely for comments.

I didn't create this thread actually...she did and apparently she's being emotional over the rape issue instead of being logical.
I can't deal.

missimelda01:
What are you saying? Please read your comment again

doo

ruggedtimi:
your friend is not saying yes to rape....is main argument is everyone needs a fair hearing. The accused might be a victim of false allegations.

missimelda01:
What are you saying? Please read your comment again

u don't tell me what to do.... if u can't comprehend what I wrote up there....then bounce.

rape is evil,no doubts....rape is a treacherous crime,no doubt...that guy ain't no animal and he's only trying to make a point a reasonable one at that but not in the case of rape(in my own opinion).....infact no matter how grave a girls offence towards a man is... raping her should never be an act of payback.....A normal human being shouldn't stoop so low to result to raping his female counterpart, nah that's gross.
by the way,I ain't making this seem like a gender war tho but anyone caught in the act of rape and anyone who lay a false rape accusation should be punished the same way.

WakeNbaked:
Given your age in days? That's just stupid.

no...that's a slick thing only an intelligent person can decipher....too bad she doesn't know shit.

U bought her an iPhone and even rented an apartment for her while u use Android 9pie....I'm damn sure u bought none of your siblings a phone as expensive as iPhone....u deserve every I'll treatment u got...since u no wan get sense.

don't do shit....save yourself the stress. she'll unblock u soon.... talking from experience.

ElasmoBranchii:
Work on your confidence bro, you won't need any girl to approach you. If you are confident enough you can get any girl you want.

If you don't work on your confidence when a girl finally shows interest you will Bleep it up.

Look at me, two girls approached me on the street. I'll summarize by saying what played out later was embarrassing for me. They were expecting me to take charge since they worked up the courage to approach.

Bro awkward silence everywhere. I have lot more stories like this I've Bleep up many times. I see it as a problem, I'm working on my confidence now.


Also If you are addicted to PMO try hard stop it. Cause I'm addicted to PMO(trying to stop) so I don't have any interest in real life girls.

u valid..

AFvckingAlpha:
Mine is quite similar. She didn't want to make the proposal, she forced me to do it. Now i broke up stating we should be best of friends as we was before. This girl started acting cold towards me, i was shocked. Me that was even begging her again after the break up. Wetin this girls want sef?

mad.....she kinda manipulated u obviously.

Stephenmoka4:
I have never been in your shoes, I wish.
A beautiful girl for that matter; wow. Even in my sleep girls have never asked me out.

it's a Norm bro, nothing quite special....it depends on the way u carry yourself....your value and your self esteem.
if u ever want to experience such...do not make girls your top priority at all.

ElasmoBranchii:
They always say just joking . It's only one that said she hates me.

just joking indeed

Kfaaji:
Yeah, I did just of recent but stylishly. I just ignore the chat for like three days. I didn't reply her. After three days my reply was to bring another topic up totally different from her request of dating me. She doesn't want to make a mess of herself. She just had to reply me based on what I sent her. That was how we buried the matter.

smooth

DenreleDave:
I once turned down a very popular American celebrity, the next day, she went for a surgery operation and changed her sex organ to male...

When I ask her why, she said she is on a revenge mission

oshey ...I believe you.

dangermouse:
Mine was more of morals. My childhood and best friend till date has this ebony and beautiful sister. We became friends and would spend some time with her jisting whenever i visit and my guy is not arround. I must have led her on without realising cos on such evening visits with my guy not being home i left with her excorting me. When we were about to part ways, she held my hand and pointedly told me how much she loved and would like to date me. I told her there and then that she is my friend already and would remain so and that we cant take it futher than that cos the senior bro will not be in support. She is married now and we are still best of friends till date.

now that's rare.....cos a random naija babe can't handle rejection at all.

EmzyT:
My brother, it always ends in Hatred, jealousy, painting you black around others and Malice I once turned one down recently and she blocked me on all social media she had me in.. I no blame her at all, if that's her own way of handling rejection and getting me off her mind, then Fine..


them no dey fit handle rejection at all, they always think every guy wants them.. as if no be the same rejection wey we guys dey go through almost everyday

I swear bro..they can't handle rejection..all thanks to these guys asslicking em and giving em a sense of entitlement.

so yeah..theres this girl in my school...we've been friends for like three years now(distant friends tho) but we got closer late last year....so recently out of the blue, she asked me out but then I turned her down and insisted we keep being friends which she vehemently rejected and told me it's either she's my girlfriend or nothing else...that she got closer to me cos she wanted to be in a relationship with me and not just friends....I was adamant tho and she blocked me on all social. media networks immediately...e shock me!!! I forgot bouh the whole brouhaha and moved on.
Three days later she unblocked and messaged me...bruh! I couldn't help but laugh....too bad we in a society whereby most girls outchere think they can have their way effortlessly because of their beauty.
let's hear yours
no lies....be real

Bros over hoes.....you'll learn the hard way.