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FreeSpirited:
Slap ke? How will I descend so low...but then,
The day a woman I date does that, understandably, I will return it in harder measure and put her in her place. And plan to jilt her sorry ass for a more reasonable person in no distant time unless.... I can't even imagine.
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I once dated a girl, many years ago back in school, whom we were all good for a couple of months that she was so perfect that I couldn't find anything against her. Too good to be true by my own standard, at least she must have a weakness.
Lo and behold, I found out weeks later. In the middle of a heated argument, a political argument, I ridicule the political figure she supports and feel passionate about, I called him stupid. To my shock and consternation, she exposed herself in the heat of the argument and return the insult..'that I was stupid too'...Ewww!.
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At that moment I dropped cold and still, and doubted my ears, still in shock, I looking into her eyes with a demanding gaze asking if she actually let loose that statement. She read my stunned eye language and her body language drooped into remorse but she was to deny it verbally.
I finally mustered the courage to ask her if she actually said 'i was stupid'...She defended herself that she never said that, she almost gaslighted me that I heard something else. And will not admit nor apologise.
Right there I found her weakness and told myself I would jilt this gal in no distant time.
It became obvious few weeks that she was actually insultive by nature and violent. So her first few months of good behavior was a front to lock me in.

You see, redflag are always there in relationship no matter how subtle. if we don't close our eyes to them we will be saving ourselves of future heartbreak. That's how I broke her heart when I was tired of her pvvsy. She was surprised when I pulled the trigger not knowing I made up my mind the first day she insulted me and she never proved me wrong of her bad behavior......
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A woman who hits you can never respect you! Don't ever allow it as a man, she hits you, you hit her and put her in her place and better still jilt her sorry arse too.

u is a smart man.

lol..... asking this typa question is just like asking a primary school pupil of he wants to eat biscuit..... women are emotionally fragile.....they get carried away with words easily...their vulnerability is on a high! u wanna hear the truth? I bleeped 3girls who claimed that I was their bestie....

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yinkaOdutuyo:
Man I see you... thanks for the assist.

but while at it....make sure u set your priorities right tho....Money over everything,that's part of the redpill yunno....if u go completely broke like this,her love go diminish straight up.....but judging from what u typed...u disvirgined her,u got her mumu button....baba she be wife material
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omo....na the redpill wey u reason am make her fall....don't over do it now that she has falling for u completely...... reciprocate the love but dont overdo it like a simp would......

Zzor:
so swallowing the nonsense redpill is the solution abi

look ...I'm not the type that goes with your chit chats and bs....this thread is not for you...so get the fvck out

So something happened to someone I know and the thing dey burst my head like this......this guy was in a relationship with a very pretty lady,they were both going lovey dovey and all dah....even posted their love life on the internet and all.... infact,I thought they were going to get married on the long run.
So early this year they had an altercation..a very big one,to the point that they had to break up.....then all of a sudden this girl accused her ex that he raped her...wow! raped? she went on to Twitter and blew everything... every one except me and some other guys believed because I've never liked listening to one side of a story.....then the guy took his time to reply cos he was traumatized hearing people tag him a rapist....he was like the girl travelled all the way from osun state to warri to visit him,they lodged in a hotel and had sex....when they were making out...the girl told him she felt pain down there...that was all.
this guy even shared screen shots of their chat after the sex where the girl never talked about she being raped or anything....not until they broke up........Bitter Ex.
when the said girl was questioned for lieing about being raped,she alleged that during the sex,she told him she felt pain....and expected him to stop the penetration at that instance....wow!! this hoes tho.
make I burst una head completely,the girl got married to a new guy(beta male) yesterday.....she broke up with her ex 3months ago..she married a new guy yesterday.... are u thinking what I am thinking? she probably had this beta male for keeps all along while her ex was nacking her steady,when she realized the fact that she couldn't have him,she decided to destroy him(an acuusation everyone believed) but thankfully her ex had receipts...when we tell y'all that this girls are almost the same( excepting a very few like 0.2 outta 10) .....swallow the redpill,u won't hear...... funnily enough I had a similar situation recently,she wanted me for keeps hence telling her friend this BS so I could consider her....me wey don dey game since I was a teen........

if she's actually what u described...give it a shot.

Pamfresh:
What was the age difference? Were u willing to settle down with her if it had come to that?

4yrs....yes I was willing to settle down......she was a virgin.

people still dey toast babe?

nuelsam:
u no wise oga

I've been in some sort of relationship with a lady quite older than I was.....I tell u, that was one of the best relationship I ever had....mature, pretty,intelligent and quite reserved......it never felt awkward that I was dating a lady older than me....we just had to break up when she moved to another country...ive never been a fan of LDR .....we still talk tho.

Juliusmomoh:
Lai lai... I can't marry someone older than me... During s*x, it whould look as if am doing it with grandmama

u no wise oga

JIMMY1393:
How is your cgpa releated here...your story is just full of pride...I finished with a higher cgpa I don't go around ending all my post with cgpa scores...if you had finished with 2.2 you won't have said so oh

u missed his point actually.

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u can only be depressed cos of the fake lifestyle of people due to peer pressure...as for me,I no send anybody....I wear what I can afford and post it anytime I seem fit...I just love my life fam,my mindset....so simple, my clique...so simple
... if u tryna compete with me,I cancel u straight up.... faking lifestyle to impress people who don't give a flying Bleep about u is basically stupidity.

I guess I'm not....STFU and stop generalizing

ubunja:
problem is not the women. Women are hoes and we'll screw them hoes but marry the virgins.

The problem is Simps. These simps can't stand for female nature to be revealed. Once you tell them women are this, this and that, in the simps' minds you're a woman Hater. Why are you not speaking Glowingly of women? Why are you not bending your knee?

In the Red Pill threads it's ALWAYS the men fighting the hardest against the RedPillers. It should tell a lot. They hate the Red Pillers and the RedPillers hate them. Some RedPillers like myself will Bleep a simp's woman any time. Without a second thought. Personally that's how much I hate simps. I will Bleep your wife dear simp. And You'll raise an ubunja baby with your hard-earned money. Until you wake up.

These simps ignore all the truths about women's true sexual nature that are around us. I always laugh when a simp kills himself over women problems. Death will be their wakeup call if they ignore the Red Pill.

Death To Simps.
Long Live Masculinity.

exactly what Lord future did.

Fvcknigga:
lol Scottie pippens wife cheated with future the thing is u gotta learn to secure your bitch else she'd fvck another nigga in your house

death to Simps

ublight:
what a typical simp would say.

baba...leave that one...we know their type

MARKone:
Lol, I've had my fair share of women, once married, truth is, we might not fully understand women, and assumptions kills a relationship faster than the deed itself. OP take control of your relationship don't let anyone here confuse you, I'm telling you from experience.

na so

MARKone:
You are just behaving like the Simp these boys here are calling you, a lot of them calling you a simp, will easily forgive their girlfriend if she's caught pants down with a guy. Take control and define your relationship oga, the idea of going on dates and what not, makes the relationship look open. You know your woman, only you know what she is capable of doing or not, fact is, there is a chance that the guy didn't straff her.

na dem

YoungLionken:
So your mom actually gave birth to "8",jeez! That's way too much,kai!!

just shut up if you've got nothing good to say instead of questioning his mums choice.

I just love my life fam...I love my mindset..... people I've been privileged to help this year have been my family and my male friends...yunno why? I know in one way or the other they'll feel indebted to me but u see this vagina people,they see any form of assistance rendered to em as an entitlement...talmabout having fish brain, mtcheew...and as for social media validation,I haven't any liked nor comment on a girls post after I was redpilled....guess what? my Facebook and Twitter pages gets more than 100comments mostly girls on every post....look it's not rocket science,this is how they're wired......don't give a f about em,be classy,be confident,be rude..... they'll chase u,they wanna know why u different from other Simps.
Recently,one was chatting me up and was like "do u have a girlfriend?" ...I replied..."I don't have a girlfriend...I have girlfriends... hundreds of em"
she's been pestering me for sex since then

Rawhumper:
Bro please i seek your advice,nobody knows it all thats why i need you to clarify this: Plz be patient to go thru it.

There is this chick i met somewhere,she should be around 20.
She has turned down multiple guys that have been asking her out.

I want to bleep not inlove with her,so i met her one day and told her i find her attractive and would like to take her out far away from the Estate where nobody will see us together.

She told me all those girls that call me on phone whenever i was in her workplace,am i not satisfied?

I told her its my nature,thats why am telling her am not in love with her cos if i said that i would be lying and also put her thru many hurts.

Las las she agreed and gave me her number,she said we only hang out when she is on leave cos she works from monday to monday and comes back 8pm everyday,truly no chance but whats bothering me is she doesnt call me nor reply my texts but told me to call her not later than 8:30pm in the night.

I seldom call her,but she makes me feel she isnt into me by all this though she accepted to have a fling with me(Even requested we spend time in a place far from our area when she is free).

Note during that time i told her if she doesnt want she should just tell me no so that i can move on,since love or sex is by force but she said i should be calling her from time to time to know when she will have leave,that she wont call me to inform me if i didnt call her.

I will appreciate your advice alot...
Thanks alot












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And this is why the player always have an edge over others. When a woman sees you have many women at your disposal, she believes you must be special, and like a prize, she tries to get you for herself. She tries to win you over. Unlike guys, she isn't in the least bit concerned if the guy is a flirt or not. She just wants that guy every lady wants. This is why the player will always have more women to his side, lol. With women, he gets MORE women. It's just the gospel truth. But the good guy, who tries to stick to one girl and be faithful to her will always have nothing but tears.

Truly women don't reason like men. They reason with their emotions.

you fumbled....I mean, big time

GeneralKoko:
Lmao , no be say I worwor oh she was using me to make her self feel better

I be boy wey even her close friends dae dread but she just wanted to put me down by all means

which she did....A battle u woulda easily won.

skimena:
The good thing is that it will enable me find my true love. not a pretender or a conditional love

and where do u intend to find this true love when u still hustling to pay your bills .... is it oshodi Manchester? or katangura ? or Nigeria? I want to check something...I hope it's not Nigeria tho

mtcheew....gtfo

Skepticus:
I was about to touch on this lately observing the pattern of comments that female and their simping cucks make when a thread is opened or a comment emphasizing the red pill. I'm glad you picked on it.

You all might be familiar with this scenario.

Nairaland Thread: Woman cries for justice after she slaps and pour drinks on a man at a party without provocation and get beaten in return

Red Piller makes a comment: She deserves what she got. Women need to start taking responbilities for their action and live with its consequences

first female drops her comment in a mention of that of the red piller's: All these small Nairaland boys sef. Why should someone lay hands on a woman? Only weak men do that

Second female makes a joining sequel: Don't mind these small nairaland boys. They are still living in their father's house eating mummy's food

(Notice how the women deliberately avoided responding directly to the issue by deflecting and age-shaming even though they are unaware of the red piller's age).

Their Beta Cucks steps in for major simping:

Male Simpleton 1: That's irresponsible of the boy. Even though it's unprovoked, he should be a man by withstanding abuse from ladies. Only weak men do that

Male Simpleton 2 (quoting first female): I can bet on it that the boy you mentioned is not married. I have been married for 100 years and I get slapped by my wife everyday but I endure because in life and marriage, you have to let some things go for the sake of peace. He is a small boy. He would learn when he gets married.

Male Simpleton 3 (who is obviously, a clueless, thirsty goat with no game, quoting the second female): You write very well. You are very intelligent. You must be a writer, I guess. I like your profile picture. Check your mail. I just sent you a mail

Smh.

u said my mind ....I mean completely....when I see em old f.ags tryna shame guys cos they know they in that cage called marriage and probably there ain't no way out..... that shitty line is what they use to console themselves..."he's still a boy,I'm sure when he's married... he'll understand"
understand what actually? understand the need to worship this vagina people and tolerate their bullshits just so I could save the marriage?
fucking losers!

very interesting thread....one thing I'll forever be grateful to the internet for ....I learnt how this hoes are wired at a very early age.. massive dub!

op....like someone said up there,just go incommunicado with her... she'll come around if she really loves ya....reduce the calls,texts and pestering...u kinda sound desperate to get her and also afraid to lose her(despite the fact that she's not your girl yet).....have the mindset that there are many single girls out there with the same potential as hers.
Las Las,u go dey alright.