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Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by Nutworks100: 6:43am On Mar 23, 2019
Thanks for your advices brother, please for someone Moving to Konstanz what are your advice regarding studies and working,
dolpaz:



Hi guys, Long Post Alert !!!

Sorry for the long silence. Man gats hustle, study and make some cheddars. You know, money makes the world go round, but still one has to be careful cos the same money is the root of all evil.

Now, as promised I want to drop some experience about dating here in DE. I want to use this medium to appeal to everyone that this is just MY OPINION and personal experience here in DE.

First, everyone would probably need either a Romeo or Juliet at some point in life. This is normal ! I heard at the earliest stage in DE that most Germans respect blacks alot and when they see one, they regard us as Black American and before you know, the flows and likeness comes into play. but these days, that opportuinty has vanished into thin air as they mostly see blacks as opportunist thanks to our African Brothers who chase these ladies towards papers. Truth is an most western lady (German, American, Austrian, etc) either blows hot and in most cases very hot or cold/extremely cold. Reason best known to them. I think its because of the cultural differences between us, hence the reason why we could not withstand these differences. You could be dating a white lady and you guys could have a lil misunderstanding and within the twinlke of an eye, she can ask you to leave even in the middle of the night, she doesnt care! and if you refuse to leave, she could call the Police. so as omo boy, you go just bounce to avoid stories. Moreso, if you end up dating the strict ones and she understands english, she could command you not to speak any other language apart from english or German. But because of the fear of loosing her and the advantages accrued with dating her, you´ll bow to her demand.

These and many more which inlcudes food, Religion, lifestyle (Party, smoking, clubbing,) etc. The big question is: are you ready to tilt towards the differences because of paper? when a black dates a German she faces alot of criticism from her colleagues. They criticize them so much by saying to him/her Jokingly that "You´re dating a black guy/girl right, dont worry he´ll impregnate you, get the papers from you and dump you for his African woman" and truly, this is what the african guys do alot because we cant get controlled by a lady for the rest of our lives.. so, after getting the papers they file for divorce and go for the real African woman. When these happens, the news spread easily like wildfire and the caution/hatred spread also. If you want to marry a German, you´ll go through some series of verification which could span across months. If you impregate a German without marriage, my brother be ready to pay through your Nose. You´ll be asked to pay a certian money (Around 800€) for verification from your country of origin to proof that you don´t have a child/family back home. after this verification is complete, you´ll pay your child and Baby mama a certain percentage from your monthly salary. So lets assume you earn 1200, you could end up with 520 at the end of the month or even less cos your Renten(Pension) and Insurance will increase while your Taxes will reduce because you have a kid. Even though, you are registered as a father to a German child, Yet it doesn´t translate to getting permanent paper immediately. Most foreign office will give you 3 years at first, and if you don´t err in taking care of the mother and kids, then they give you permanent residency. But during this three years, you´ll be at the mercy of your baby mama cos any report from her... He don set be that. so you´ll be as humble as a lamb.....! Also, you have to keep working to sustain the support and during this process, school will heavily suffer cos you have to make so much in order to keep up with Bills and life.

The same scenario is applies to ladies as well. But not as extensive as in the case of guys. You just need to find someone who understand what it means to be inter-racial lovers. I have a girl around me thjough who keeps complaining about a German guy she´s dating. she said the guy is unpredictable and most times, he doesn´t want to even see her around him. Like I said earlier on, both guys and girls face heavy criticism from their German colleagues because of experiences from the past or from what they´ve heard or seen. Even the blacks born here will hardly give you a chance cos most of them are already soaked into the german system and culture. So when you approach, they give you alot of conditions and my brother, these conditions no be here. (Not in all cases though) so they tend to me very careful.

Pros of Marrying/dating a whity:
1) Your status gets changed... You´re given between 3-5 years at first, then Permanent Residency follows
2) You get unlimited work permit
3) Your woman gets Kindergeld and Muttergeld from the Government (Assuming you´re not working)
4) Fastest way to get PR (if responsibilities are taken and met)

Cons Marrying/dating a whity:
1) You face emotional, psychological and at times physical torture
2) Your studies could suffer
3) Cultural differences
4) Be ready to withstand the awkward look when you´re pushing around a white baby in the Kinderwagen smiley
5) Your dietary could change because with Bread, cheese, Currywurst and maybe Beer, these guys are OK.
6) They tend to look older than their age (My observation though) etc


There are other nationalities though that are not as strict as the Germans... The Poles, Czech, Romania, Bulgaria, etc but if we have kept our house (Nigeria) in order, We are better than these countries. They are just better because of the affiliation with EU. (My opinion)

My advise to anyone who has a stable partner (Stable means there´s a commitment and/or legally binding) is to hold on to it and keep communication open. dont because of "I am going abroad" end a fruitful relationship. It could hunt you such that you may regret it. Most especially if you have a hardworking partner, The sky will be your limit because opportunities are boundless here.

Pros of Bringing your partner (Student):
1) You understand each other
2) You eat your favourite continental dishes.
3) You can jointly train up your child without cultural clashes.
4) You both work and save to have a better future
5) You support each other in times of need
6) No/few religious, Cultural, Lifestyle differences etc

Cons of Bringing your partner (Student):
1) You don´t get a permit immedaitely which means your child depends on the parents status. But if one of the parent gets a PR, everyone gets it as well.
2) Your child doesnt get Kindergeld (Depends on cities though) but If your partner comes via Family reunion, the mother gets mutterGeld while the child gets Kindergeld
3) Your status stays and your partner will have to find a way to take care of the family.

You could also bring your GF/BF if you can vouch your church mind for him/her. **

My verdict: The German Government has given us the opportunity to experience world class education at a great price. Lets not abuse this opportunity. Also, The German Government has made residency kinda easy to get.. Finish your studies, during your study period, try and attain German B1 with a corresponding certificate, Apply for a job (There are jobs everywhere), work for 21 months, File for your permanent residency. #Lobatan. Its sounds/looks hard but its doable. I have lots of guys who are on this path. If they can do it, you can do it. The ball is in your court to decide what you want. According to the Bible Micah 6:8

In all, if you think you are mentally ready for inter racial dating, you can go for it. I decided to write this as a Benchmark. The above are just scenario you could experience while dating a westerner. Its a 2 edged sword thingy.

PS: This is my OWN Opinion/Observation.

My english these days sef.. German don kaputt my sentence construction

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Travel / Re: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 6 by Nutworks100: 12:13pm On Mar 22, 2019
Good day,

Please for someone Moving to Konstanz, is it possible to get student jobs in Konstanz,

Insights will be appreciated

Thanks..
Travel / Re: The Adventures Of A Village Scholar In Germany by Nutworks100: 9:35pm On Mar 20, 2019
Boss, I have someone who just got admitted to Konstanz University, are there possibilities of student jobs in konstanz?
Braket:

First picture is an aerial view of London
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 5:28am On Jun 06, 2018
@slysite4real what are the documents to be submitted for both D visa and TRP for someone using India Route?
Can you please give me a comprehensive list of the documents I will have to submit at the Esti Embassy in New Delhi?
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 1:20am On May 04, 2018
Is there any veteran here that went through Georgia?
Travel / Re: Nigerian's In Nicosia Is It Advisable To Study And Work In Nicosia by Nutworks100: 9:40pm On Apr 11, 2018
If you well boxed and you have parents or a family member that is willing to sponsor you through out your studies why not, but if not don't near, since the cyprus economy crisis the country hasnt recover. forget browsing cyprus minimum wages on Google cos even the citizens are receiving a lot lesser salaries this days, there's not enough job for citizens talkless of students from the 3rd countries,
Bosinguwa:
i mean cyprus country

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Travel / Re: My Regretfull Journey To Europe ( How It All Started ) by Nutworks100: 6:25pm On Apr 05, 2018
Please don't stop... grin
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 3:47pm On Apr 04, 2018
@Miles300, I sent my documents to Tallinn University, how will I know that the right person has received it (academic Affairs Office) are they going to mail me they've got it?
Travel / Re: My Regretfull Journey To Europe ( How It All Started ) by Nutworks100: 1:50am On Apr 03, 2018
Or maybe he has other tasks at hand, I kept refreshing the page for the continuation...
Thegamingorca:



Yup...I was pissed at the length. Maybe he is getting tired
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 6:40am On Mar 18, 2018
@miles300 been sending you PMs but no response yet from you, can you please mail me so that we can talk better need to get more details on that Tax stuff

Oemma450 @ gmail .com
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 10:32am On Mar 15, 2018
Well you could easily get that on Google, moreover everyone is not earning the same, earlier this year the minimum wages increased to 500eu per-month
chaiks:
@miles 300, please like how much is the wages per hour in Estonia ?
Celebrities / Re: Ifu Ennada Wows In Bikini Photos by Nutworks100: 10:27am On Mar 15, 2018
Well she's pretty, but who cares? Will that help Naija Economy? cheesy grin
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 10:18am On Mar 15, 2018
@Miles300 Thanks a lot Bro!

Just wanna ask you some questions and will be happy if you can shed some light on it,
What's studying like in Tallinn University and Estonia in General?

How many days per week do you attend classes and I heard attendance is very important.



Also mixing work with school how has that been working for you and what kind of advise can you give to a self sponsored person.
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 6:13am On Mar 15, 2018
@Miles300 Thanks a lot Bro!

Just wanna ask you some questions and will be happy if you can shed some light on it,
What's studying like in Tallinn University and Estonia in General?

How many days per week do you attend classes and I heard attendance is very important.



Also mixing work with school how has that been working for you and what kind of advise can you give to a self sponsored person.

quote author=Miles300 post=65805115] congrats ! TLU ! Photo copies of ur school doc , include Waec scratch cards as well if u are coming for degree ! Copy of passport data page and ur online application for in dream apply ! Notarize ur skool doc before sending [/quote]
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 2:56pm On Mar 13, 2018
@Miles300 conditionally accepted!

Where to send documents? TLU or ERIC NARIC
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 6:27am On Mar 11, 2018
Well, that's different.. You could see clearly on the school website the requirements needed for getting admission and be rest assured they won't make exceptions, the English test is a very vital requirement, that was the reasons the Last year Euroakedemiea students were deprived of TRP
fwallex4truth:


My Bros!

But, there isn't available nearby day.Beside, man! ga little or no money for the stuff again.

A cousin of my that study in UK, said most EU/ Non-EU member that came to study together with them in UK, scored below average in their TOEFL/IELT and secure admission compare to them that scored 80s and above yet the refused to give the job after there graduation.

I hope they will look in to that and chill
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 11:20am On Mar 10, 2018
Ha, person chop beans be that, but still with a good explanation you never know,..quote author=slysite4real post=65715540]

All these my Igbo friends. Don't go and say Biafra ooo.[/quote]

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Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 6:03am On Mar 10, 2018
Just normal questions, why Tallinn University, your future prospects, how are you going to fund your Education, your country's present government, your motivation, adjusting to new environment and seeing yourself as a student, the interview was around 30-40 minutes
Uglyboy2015:
Pls what’s was your interview like?
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 12:29pm On Mar 09, 2018
@Miles300 How long does someone has to wait before getting feedback after interview, Had my interview days ago, when am I likely to hear back from Tallinn University.
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 1:53am On Mar 05, 2018
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Travel / Re: Nigerians In Georgia (tbilisi) Show Yourself by Nutworks100: 5:18am On Mar 01, 2018
Hello, is there anybody that has been to Georgia of recent? What's the country like ? Planning on visiting on a Tourism/Business purpose.
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 5:15am On Mar 01, 2018
Am going to be having my Interview soon, when am I likely to be ask about the Embassy I will be using? Is it going to be during the interview or after? Just want to be proactive with things,
Am thinking of using India Route or Georgia am not residing in Nigeria, is there anyone out here that has used any of those routes?
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 3:18pm On Feb 18, 2018
Who else is having scheduled interview with Tallinn University,..?? grin
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 8:45pm On Feb 06, 2018
You are mouthed Bro, thanks for the info...
Miles300:
Why did u choose the course and why Tallinn university ? What are your expectations? U could say u hope to further on and possibly conclude with a phd ! Few questions might be asked from your essay ! And u will be asked if u will go back to your country after ur programm ! U better say yes ! Even as me and u know say na lie ! Lol ! Best of luck bro ! Hope to see u in summer
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 8:09pm On Feb 06, 2018
Politics and governance,...Tallinn University..
Miles300:
which course ?
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 6:55pm On Feb 06, 2018
@Miles, Interview fixed,..kindly help with interview questions

Kosere ni Moscow!!
Miles300:
yes your documents are okay ! U will Be up for an interview ! When they contact u let me know . After the interview u will be asked to forward ur credentials for verification .. and that take 1 month
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 10:03pm On Feb 05, 2018
I received a positive feedback from Tallinn University almost a week ago, haven't heard anything back from them since then, does anyone has the idea of when they are going to contact me regarding the admission exam.
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 3:19pm On Jan 30, 2018
Miles300:
if all documents are uploaded , they will contact u for an interview afterwards u will be asked to forward all your documents to dem via courier !
@Miles300, I got a positive feedback from them today, and I was told I will be contacted regarding the admission exam, does that mean my documents are Ok?..
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 6:32pm On Jan 29, 2018
Miles300:
o yes , we just started lectures today tho , after that heading to my work place
how long does it take to get a response back from Tallinn University after applying on dreamapply, Application fees paid, and all docs uploaded
Travel / Re: Lets Talk About Estonia by Nutworks100: 5:29pm On Jan 12, 2018
That's because their Tuition is a lot expensive compare to other schoolsquote author=Suplexx post=64134407]

Someone who attends the school told me that until most of them crossed over from Euroacademy last year, the school has very few blacks. He said you can easily count them, and whether only one or two from Nigeria. [/quote]

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