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Any sane forward thinking company will not open HQ in a dying country like Nigeria.

Boasting about FB is nothing. FB that's owned by a government controlled puppet.

Make naija continue. When other African countries gap it after the decline of oil, e eyes go shine.

I love twitter more for picking a working African country like Ghana.

A country that's working towards being the North Korea of Africa is where an internet company should have its HQ? A country that has its top political member sue the owner is where it should set up HQ? Mtcheew. Kudos to Jack

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HONESTFACT101:
All this people with eye link sef......signing out

As in. Most likely linking to a site with virus and annoying pop up ads. Might not even see an actual story related to the post headline

Spiritual or not. True curse for whoever that clicks the link

If you really care about this your post, want interaction, and want clicks to your site, post the list/content here and refer to your site as a source &/or link for more related content. I'm not clicking that link, and I'm sure few will.

Organic backlinking is better than this old un-working trick you're doing

#2Cents

OP just tell her you can't handle her past, but thank her for opening up to you.

Saying ladies shouldn't open up is wrong. Imagine if she didn't and you ended up marrying her just to find out gradually or late into marriage when maybe abortion complications or trauma or some shit rises up?

Ladies, pls open up. It'll save you from mistakes. OPs reason for wanting to marry her self is a selfish one, tbh.

Just that child abuse act could have been the reason she's been promiscuous and overly sexual. No one talks about mental health in this country. Before you know it someone will mention deliverance or some quick fix bs. Who knows if you OP wouldn't have been planning to sleep with this same girl before marriage.

Since she's from a rich home, tell her you can't handle her past, but advice her to go for therapy to personally handle it. You're probably a mistake she's also making from deep trauma. No one is perfect or the holiest.

Bahamas95:
The major reason why I wanna get married is just to have children.....Even at that nothing on earth can stop me from conducting a DNA test.

Bro. Whether the vid is staged or not, the point isn't a lie. Globally, nowadays, loyalty is seen for the week. If man doesn't find that 1% gem, which is very likely, it's to go through egg donors list for intelligence, and have your kid through an in-house 24/7 monitored surrogate. Doubt you'll spend as much as some lady's "dream marriage", and you'll escape paying lifelong salary to a baby mama that'll tarnish your image while raising the kid.

lilvicky68:
Girls always act the opposite way when they say stop they mean continue.. but if you touch and you receive dirty slap..no be me send you oh..

The kind of mentality leading to rape cases.

If she says stop. Oga, stop.

If deep down she means the opposite, she'll learn to say yes/continue. If she goes to another guy, you've saved yourself from public property.

OP, I believe you've gotten your touchy touchy answer.

Do you really love her for you to allow age be your problem? You sef you think you're young ne? She seniors you with just 2 yrs.

Guess you believe she won't be able to have kids from 35 and above, or marrying someone older is bad, so let her go.

You're not ready for marriage now, but you don't want to marry her in 5 years time. Better let her go. Let her date a real man within the next 5 years.

Someone that truly loves his gf will be avoiding excuses and face age related problems when the time comes, if it comes. Older women are still giving birth. But with your mindset now, even if you manage to make it within the next 5 years, if she doesn't give birth soon after marriage, you'll blame her and start cheating. Maybe deep down you're looking for a younger babe, or you care what other people think.

Let her go now, pls. For her sake. You never love yet. You just think you do.

If with all this, you still doubt letting her go because you really love her, then I say settle down with what you can, and enjoy your love. Work hard to fend for your family. Don't have more than one kid while still hustling.

Some say blessings come after starting a family.
Just make sure you really love the lady and forget age.

Lol only seen ladies support the guy or attack men that don't. Non has answered the question if they'll be comfortable with those two if the guy is their bf/husband.

The topic isn't about besties. It's about the date and those pictures.


A relationship where one isn't besties with their significant other is either heading for doom or management-lifestyle

For most bestie pair of opposite sex, one or both have hidden feelings and fears ruining a good friendship, or one of them is gay.

All it takes is a fight with their partner and the "weather"/"mood" with a comforting bestie and they're having a till death "never to happen again" secret.

PatriotExact:
When you see an animal charging at people, its end is near.

When you see this thing call the CCT chairman doing this, its because the gods have cursed him to plot his own fall.

I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this, but nothing will happen. Do you know how he got the position? Do you think he's the only "man in power" that does things like this?

This is what normal Nigerians that have "power" do to ordinary Nigerians.

Shey one governor's police beat/slapped and arrested some boys for booing the "whole" governor, some days ago? Like there's no freedom of speech?

It's simply the pride against "rudeness" that brought about all this headache for him. He's just unlucky his own made news, but it will die down. No fall will happen to the piece of sh!t.

And people should stop turning this to tribal feud. Igbo & Yoruba men with the same power to command or pay police do the same. Even ordinary citizen that has "boys" in any force will do the same.

Is it not an ordinary citizen that made front-page for beating up a cultist that slapped his sister? I read it thinking I'll see something to be proud of, but he paid soldiers 100k. Poverty helps no one. Simple sad truth. Same happens in other nations, and some try to help the lower class, but Nigeria is the farthest from trying to do such.

Who knows what cuts/fees the owner of bannex will collect behind the scenes for having his lawyer do all this work?

I spit on this country. Divided or not. I SPIT ON NIGERIA!

Amaechi2023:
the percentage at which the elites are dying is almost above the masses.
this should be a warning sign to all other politicians to reconsider humanity once more.

see the way buhari was disrespected in London with British police looking away as though it's no one's business.
imagine a whole country's president.
the only hope they have now is to remain in power cos if they leave power..
they may likely get the ekweremadu treatment abroad and at home the bandits they are overlooking would most likely comeback to bite them..

Which almost above the masses? Don't exaggerate exaggeration abeg, even if it's compared to percentage of that of the masses.

British police aren't Nigerian police. They make sure peaceful protests stay peaceful, not being to ones to disrupt the peace! Even if it's protest against the queen, they'll still let it hold, and make sure it remains peaceful, not shoot at them to call it off. Who gaf if it's Nigeria's president they're protesting against.

meobizy:
I have none. Relationships scare me so I pump and dump. If I get the itch for a relationship, I backtrack mentally to my needy phase of life and relive how weak it made me. Counting my many acts of stupidity back then straighten me for the better.

Lol. Why'd you choose to use "pump & dump"?

Not defending the guy or saying weed doesn't have negatives, but do a drug test on him, and I'm sure you'll see other substances in him. No one should say it's weed that made him do that. It's something else, or he's a natural hot head with weapon. Sober or not

fatymore:
i can't see anything of such

[url=https://www.google.com/search?q=Ikeja+accident&client=ms-android-hmd-rev2&biw=424&bih=755&tbs=qdr%3Aw&sxsrf=ALeKk02gOzzGFwec_iK1PxfTW65qh_XlRw%3A1617173576480&ei=SBxkYLLFHNrlgweQ-JygAw&oq=Ikeja+accident&gs_lcp=ChNtb2JpbGUtZ3dzLXdpei1zZXJwEAMyBAgjECcyAggAMgYIABAIEB46BAgAEEdQxUBYxUBgskRoAHABeACAAaECiAGhApIBAzItMZgBAKABAcgBCMABAQ&sclient=mobile-gws-wiz-serp]Google search[/url]

Search the same thing on twitter, then tap/click "recent tweets"

Again, it's not your guy. The headline is about a woman being interviewed saying she was told by people to dump the body and run.

But like someone said; they saw your guy's news on Facebook. Try searching the same way on Facebook. Don't have an FB account to do that.

Sorry for your loss. I feel how y'all are hunting for closure.

Searched twitter and Google for "Ikeja accident". Refined by past week. Only a woman that hit a lady came up, and that was 5 days ago. It probably didn't make the news or go online.

150k unaccounted for

fatymore:
Mortuary

Sorry bout the loss. Entered your profile from a fp comment asking for mods to push it.

Regardless, life is gone, but the body should be examined for bruises, stabs and/or gun shot wound.

Still try tracking the phone's IMEI and last SIM ping/location if it's still missing. Who dropped the body or where was he found? All that to try and get justice. Could be robbery. Maybe after withdrawing or purchasing a gift to attend the wedding.

Sorry, again.

Lol. I wonder what foreigners that haven't been to Nigeria think about us when they read comments on this site.

It's well.

richmond500 keep us posted pls. It'd be nice to add small health background. Like blood group and if you usually react to drugs like chloroquine or if you've never reacted to a drug before.

If you don't mind, maybe lifestyle like smoking/drinking/caffeine.

Let those that think you have a tracking chip or whatever 666 (lmfao) theory believe what they want (as if they wouldn't have put said things in regular childhood immunizations, if that's the case )

PrinceMajestic:
All of you saying prayer n deliverance is the solution are just everlasting FOOLS. Thats how yall been praying for nigeria but insecurity, poverty, unemployment, bad governance is always increasing. How many covid victims did your useless christian prayers deliver? U stupid MoronS

I swear. Na lack of light, causing boredom make me dey read through comments on here, vexing myself. There's no disputing that the majority of Nigerians lack simple sense, and that's why this country is dying. We want magical instant fix or get comfortable with the delusion that the world is ending; something even our great grand parents' generation believed. Make the world end na. Na naija go end first. If it's not from lack of work, because of praying for magical fix, it'll be from tribalism. Even if you're a Christian/Muslim, when has praying without actual work worked?

Lazy bunch of people. That's why the holiest of them steal when they see chance, if people( "destiny helpers" ) aren't dashing them money or job/contract.

If you can look into the personal life of that righteousness person, I can bet you na scam. He's looking for someone to tip him for "spreading word of God". Might be wrong o, but I'm sure I'm mostly right that's his inner purpose, whether he knows it or not. And that's the same with MOST of every other "holy" person. It's monetary gain deep down, not genuine love & care. Very few truly care.

Make this people bring light abeg.

Spirituality kill naija!

Beatings and prayers won't work. They should make the girl do chores to recover the money. Starve her for a day in lockdown in her room. Only feed her so she doesn't die. After a month or two of that she'll change. If she doesn't, after a year she will.

Girl that has coded they're using devil as excuse. She's not even trying to change. She probably doesn't believe it's her doing even.

They're enabling bad habit without knowing it.

They should tell every shop around not to sell anything to her. Limit her freedom. Let her think of what she's doing. Mtcheew

sinkhole:
the parents should actively engage her in some learning activities, apart from regular schooling, such as enrolling her in sporting, music, computing, etc, activities.

This plus the above punishment whenever she steals

Also, a Kleptomaniac takes(not really steals) without knowing. Stop saying the thief is a Kleptomaniac. If they find things she steals randomly around the house or on her, then it's being a klepto. Stealing to buy something is STEALING! This was from someone's purse in a pocket. Not from the table or somewhere around

Am I the only one that feels this guy is just ass licking?

It's only when it's to side with the youth you hear from him. That's fishy/slimy to me.

Just 2cents

Hmmm. No wonder you did the DNA test. I dey fear for you now. I can't even type "I pray they're yours". It's very uncommon for a man that looks very much like his father to have not one kid that shares a trait with him.

But, fingers crossed.

Minus a title making things more "official", I don't see how marriage is different from dating. It just means you want the dating lifestyle to be for life. Or you want to have kids without condemnation.

So this man died.

Naija. The hour it happened it was posted on twitter. Instead of people to rush him to hospital they left him, waiting for docs to come only to say he's dead

The trending pic showed he had a stroke, but if rushed to the hospital might have survived. Instead everyone was videoing and posting online

I can bet atleast one person that was there the hour it happened had a car to rush this man to the hospital, but didn't. Instead used it as opportunity to be a gist starter.

Fucking country.

That's the citizens' bad part.

Now government. Who knows how long they took to show up at the scene. No phone was on this man, so it means the relatives they say we're at the scene, found out from the online post that trended. Or someone called the number on the car particulars. Either way, we Nigerians need to learn to be rushing people to hospital first then worry about what query might come after. You don't know the spiritual blessings that will come from that over whatever query a mere human throws at you.

Sad shi

So the so-called yeye husband to be was in a relationship with a 10/11 yr old for over 6yrs

And it's the young girl that was stabbed. Smfh

Who knows when he even married this one that's 20.