₦airaland Forum

My governor will not even implement this one.

immaq8:
I am a third class degree holder. when I saw my final result, I went ahead to beg my course adviser to "please dash me one point so that I can be in the group of 2.2". But the word she gave me, made me to beat my chest that I will never give up.
She said to me, My dear, to be candid with you, you are a brilliant lady BUT the society we are now, do not require your certificate before getting a good job.
I took the words & plan for the future.
today, I'm a Civil Servant in one of the best state in Nigeria.

Same here. I secured a civil service job with my third class. I use to apply for any job advert I see, even when they say it's for 2.1 graduates and above. I'm always confident that I will beat those 2.1 applicants at the point of oral and written interview. I'm the only one that knows the cause of my graduating with 3rd class.

Marry one first. By the time you are done marrying one, you won't think of getting the second one. One woman is even too much for me. If it is possible, I would like to share one woman with another man.

Some cultures need to be abolished

This people don com again. Na wa o

Overgrown pubic hair is a sign of faithfulness. You will never see any pubic hair on a farm tool

All ladies want to get married. Just that what they can't get, they pretend not to want.

CalliDora1:
Long post. Please bear with me.

This trait seems to be common among some Nairaland men (with apologies to all the men here though) cos I never really experienced such attitude with men ive met offline. So don't know whether they have a nairaland men's association (not the red pillars or mgtow kinda thing though) where they agree to behave likesome. The way they reason sometimes just baffles me.

Ok. So, I met someone here as a friend and I wanted it to stay that way. Along the line, he wanted more than just friendship but I just kept dodging because I don't want any issues as he's a good friend (a born again) and I like our friendly chats and all that. So didn't want anything serious that could jeopardize that but he kept pressing on and stressing until I naturally began to feel relaxed (against my wish) you know how that constant checking on someone tends to make one want to compromise their Stance. So I sort of got trapped.

Now here's the issue. He would always want to know about my biz and job. If I went or not. So I decided to test him. He would always call and ask if I've eaten. So that day, I said no (was fasting) but didn't want to divulge it to him that I was fasting. He called later in the day and asked again, I said I've not eaten, he dropped. I now felt he prolly thought I wanted him to feed me huh??.. I observed he reduced his calls. Third day he called and asked again, I said no. And he said "na wa o" I was like why, he said I'm sorry I can't help. Huh?? I don't remember asking him so I decided to play along. He called in the evening, I still said I've not eaten ( cos I had not broken my fast then) and he said I'm sorry ( I was just laughing within). I asked him, for what? he said because he couldn't help. And since then he stopped calling only to chat after a week to ask if the biz I was pursuing was through. I ignored him and for two months no contact.

Just last night he chatted me up again asking if I've resumed work and I said yes. he then asked if he's free to call me bla bla. And since last night hes been trying to keep up chats but I'm kinda cold towards him and he asked why I'm so cold. Acting like nothing happened.

Now, this is what I feel. so if someone is truly dying of hunger (God forbid) you'll abandon the fellow? or that they can't date someone who's biz is shaky or has not resumed work due to a global crises that affected everyone? I'm not saying anybody should carry someone else's burden ( there was really no burden anywhere as God has been faithful.) but I don't understand what actually played out there and why he's all of a sudden interested again after learning I've resumed work. I don't just understand because I don't want to be rude. Was that a right thing?

I'm really confused here because.. I mean.. I never asked you to help me with anything but being there would have been enough. Calling and chatting would have helped me scale through the bordom I felt that period of compulsory break from work and biz but he went into Oblivion even when I never placed any demands on him.

I bow to men and the way they reason o.

Just shut up and tell us the truth. You really wanted to place your burden on that innocent guy. He discovered it on time and started avoiding you. If not, why are you angry for not coming to your aid.

This is just an engagement na. He never marry her. Anybody can engage anybody. Relax, he will still come and marry you.

This woman go fart o

ASUU is the only United labour union in this country. I like this

He didn't understand that vers of Exodus 22. In fact, the vers is saying that bride price should be paid for non virgins. Read the verse again.

That I'm dead. Very funny...

The wedding itself is unnecessary...

You are lucky to be with that kind girl. I'm looking for who will be calling me to order. Not this one I'm with now that even drinks more than me

Chai... May their souls and the souls of all the faithfuls departed through the mercy of God rest in peace...

Stop begging Mr senator.

Stop begging Me senator.

Who knows how a divorcee will remarry the person he divorced? Just asking for an uncle.

This is serious...

The girl must be a Nigerian girl and the guy was broke at the moment.

I can't do that. in fact, she tried returning the items I bought for her, I sent her away..

This is not mathematics. A lady I met some years back was pressuring me for marriage. I angrily asked her whether na so marriage dey her mind and I met her a single lady. She tagged me a play boy and left. Now I'm married with a kid and she is still single. She told me last month that Men do come around her but her problem is impatient. She said if she knew she will still be single up till now, she would have waited for me or other guys that came before and after me. Anybody that come around and is not talking about marriage, 3 months after meeting with her, she will discard the person. And after 8 to 11 months,the next thing she will see is pre wedding pix of the guy. She is already 34 now. Ladies should just calm down in this marriage of a thing. Some men will think you are desperate because you have something you don't want him to discover before committing. It's more honourable for the man to start talking about marriage in a relationship than for a lady to start it. The only thing a lady can do is to close her legs and watch the man display what he came with.

Lol. Can you imagine such reply

Chai! Something happened

Na food? The man is not serious

How many hours do you want to be sleeping in a day? As a young man, sleeping is not good o. Na day and night hustle sure pass

There is no generally accepted formula for that. One may lose a potential husband by following your advice above. There is no crime in a lady trying to know the nature and future of her relationship with a guy.

How many npower beneficiary are they going to enroll in this batch C

That's how one school like that has been inviting me to come and take one. Nonsense...

This one strong o. How can one go that far just take his pound of flesh?

The kid will grow up to become an APC member.