₦airaland Forum

sammirano:
A bad wife is better than a bad inlaw

AVECDEO:
Is that not enough indication to the groom not to marry into such thief family?

Foodqueen:
For her to av aborted against your wish, I'll say you should move on from her.

I pity her future husband.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
This same civil society fails to back fuel removal when Jonathan removed subsidy
We should stop deceiving our self
We are playing a politics of tribalism which is very bad

Nlc north and west stated that they won't join the protest 2023
This was same protest the whole nation and the nlc participated in during Jonathan and as at that time price of things were too cheap yet we entered the street and protested

The truth is this 2023 protest didn't hold because of tribalism
We should stop deceiving ourselves..we should look deep into our heart and ask this big question
If na obi remove this subsidy wetin for happen

Of course we all know the answer I swear protest for dey everywhere


The past is a stepping stone to the future...And since we're talking about the future, it is our present actions that shape it, and our present is heavily influenced by our past!

Nbote:
There's a whole lot that hasn't made sense ever since this thieves started talking about removing subsidy. NNPC have been the sole importers of petrol into this country since 2016 after the last administration came in. So who are they paying subsidy claims to? Remember the last President was the Minister of Petroleum and sat over those transactions and details which is strangely why subsidy payment multiplied in their tenure. Now instead of auditing the NNPC and carrying out forensic analysis to purge the rot from the system and sanitize the industry, they chose to end the subsidy payment schedule agta settling themselves for the past 8 years. And to make matters even worse, they paid for 20% stake in a private Refinery while the state owned refineries have been left to rot

jmoore:
It will reduce further because


1. People will travel less.

2. Some businesses will shutdown because of high cost of production.

3. Many homes will spend less time powering their homes with generators.

Menclothing:
Sell the 4 refinery
Allow modular refinery for now

efficiencie:
It's good that he suffering this. He will become wise. Never in his life will be stupid again and submit his life to an olosho in the name of marriage. Who no wise must pay school fees. Who no get sense go register for university of sense. The mouth of a strange woman is a deep pit and the abhorred of the LORD falleth therein. He that has a brain let him have sense.

BigYash:
All the ladies saying trash on this issue are just senseless like the Gold digger Hakimi ex wife.. They have forgotten that they will be mothers someday.. One yeye girl go come carry your son wealth, japa go marry one small boy.. Make una self think am.. God bless Hakimi and the mom.. May the mom live long to eat the fruits of her labor..

Bobloco:
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BusterG:
Apt.

Coming from a lady I can see you already know what's up with the OP.


Back to the OP

There's no easy way out for you in this very delicate cum dicey scenerio.

Also, going back and forth on cooking, sex and other stuff with your so called religious wife is completely pointless. All you have to do is ignore her antics and manage your emotions accordingly.

You need to totally shift your priority to urself at the moment. Save all the money you can to be able to survive in d event of a job loss or financial crunch.

Now she has to bring funds to the Table too cos you have to make up stories about being broke so you also can save up cos if she's netting 800k monthly, it means she's already a millionaire while you're putting all your own eggs in one basket.

If you have any building projects, ensure its in your name, if not start another solely in your name.

There's a lot I wish to tell you .hmmm

You're are about to go through a lot if you don't quickly mount your guard and create alternative plans B, C, D and E.

At this point you have to stop being emotional and use your head.

I wish you well.

nlfpmod:
As shared by Dr. Ibrahim Oloriegbe, APC Senator representing Kwara Central Senatorial District.



https://twitter.com/official_IYO/status/1644787413821145088?t=_DUBxsBjcKTd1l9MEx2BKQ&s=08[/quote]very very very very on point! God bless u sir

Fearcom:
Hmmm!

Awon okurin o raye wa oo!

What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

All the men should gather here amd take this advoce:

1. NEVER, NEVER PAMPER A BAD WIFE.

2. HANDLE HER WITH AN IRON HAND. LET HER KNOW THAT SHE EITHER SUBMITS OR YOU KICK HER OUT. PERIOD

habsydiamond:
International Court would be better than the judicial system of this country I no trust them a bit... if the supreme court can say the senate president that didn't contest in the senatorial primaries for his party won after contesting for the presidential primaries..
I don't expect anything better to come from them for Obi

habsydiamond:
Am very sure Obi will win is mandate in court.... if any supreme court judge go mess up this time... God go slap am into a deep sickness that he or she will never recover from.

MrPADDY:
Can someone help me inform Buhari that his dubious monetary policy against Tinubu has failed, that he can now allow people to have access to their funds trapped in banks? It annoying celebrating this fraud called INEC and its doctored results, while one cannot access cash. Tried all day to use mobile apps, accounts debited, without success. No cash to withdraw at ATM or POS. What a failed system!

Spare124:
It's obviously Tinubu can't help Nigeria out of her misery,tho I so much like him but only is younger self could have done better,pls Nigerians let think well this hunger and suffering choke... Non of the candidates are Saints, but Tinubu shouldn't be an option.

NaughtyBrainiac:
Previous Thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7554446/want-get-car-mum-please

This last Valentine's day 14th February, 2023 was the happiest day of my life.

I felt the kind of joy I have never felt before seeing my Mama so exhilarated that she is reaping the fruits of her Labour.

For all those that wish to do good things for their Parents, I pray that the Lord makes it easy for you 🙏
The Lord is in your neighbourhood.

And for those that have the means but are yet to make moves for their Parents, kindly consider. I am sure you will never regret the decision.

TheRareGem1:
Vice President Yemi Osinbajo SAN attends the 90th Birthday thanksgiving church service of his Mum, Mrs. Olubisi Osinbajo at the St Jude Cathedral Church in Ebute Metta, lagos. 16th Feb, 2023.

KingsCity:
Crook

The day Tinubu rallied you people illegally closed markets

StPete:
This story is definitely one-sided and looks like something concocted to paint the guy in bad light. The most probable thing I see from the marriage might be that the lady married the guy because she thought he had money. The family of the girl was also drawn to the guy because they thought he had money


Lemme wait to hear from the guy because this story is embellished to draw pity toward the girl

kennybabs1980:
Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.

TheChameleon:
Never mortgage your own future for a spouse. Applies equally to males & females.

Sad but that's the reality. Equip yourself first before her.

And even then don't do it with the expectations of returns otherwise...

2dice01:
Red flag all the way

She want you to be subbing for her
She want expensive date
She want expensive lifestyle
All on your head


She is for G-boys and Sugar daddies

ravensckar:
I think there's something fundamentally wrong with Nigerian women! They don't seem to understand that it takes two to tango. Relationship isn't a two-way thing to them; it's only about themselves alone. Anyone who enters marriage with that flawed mentality is bound to fail at it.

Secondly, I think not knowing about the opposite se.x too is a recipe for marital disaster. A man should know a lot about the woman nature and a woman too should know a lot about men and their ways. For example, most Naija women think that se.x is the only thing that can keep a man loyal to them. Hence, they focus more on having a sexy body rather than working on themselves to become more likable.


Most Naija women can hardly hold a meaningful conversation with their partner, they can hardly contribute meaningfully to issues, most don't have the requisite skills to become their partner's 'buddy'. To them, relationship is about the man providing the money while they in turn provide the se.x. Tufia!


That right there is why I'll always love my wife; that lady is very wise and likable. She's not only a wife but a partner; she's my gist partner, personal adviser on work and family matters, she's my account officer, best friend and my ......... *ehm* *coughs*


There was a time she went to visit my dad and stumbled on him negotiating with an electrician to help fix a light issue. My wife just laughed and told my dad not to pay anyone a dime that she will do it. She requested for a plier and screw driver and within a short while she don fix the light. My papa fear! Up till this moment, it never ceases to amaze him. She's the reason why I developed my technical skills too, me wey no dey fit fix anything before self don turn senior man.

In conclusion, until Nigerian ladies do away with their crude mentality and become more dynamic. Marriages will continue to crash.

devilmaycry:
Mother's love for her child beats everything

NigerianAngelo:
They should kill them in my opinion.

GistFullGround:
She has to tell you where you come from, abi she be witch? It doesn't matter what she went through; Papa na Papa

You yourself said it that your father was not buoyant... You have to be forceful because if your mom dies anytime, you can be lost forever.

She has to tell you or show you your origin. By the way, is she an illiterate?

I just dey vex, did she not remarry? Your siblings know their root, while you don't, when you are not a bastard.

Abegi change am for her. I believe she go fear!

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

I still say it the only women I can spend money on are my female relatives and my mum


Baby girl...I don't invest on them...I nor be mumu....even if the money surplus I can never invest it on a woman...
After banging for the night I move on to the next woman....

The only people I spend and invest on I repeat are my female siblings and mum

Oyiboman69:
Try and put an end to their conversation, to your capacity though. Set up investigation from different angle so as to catch her red hand if she doesn't desist from her evil act. It is important you pay attention to her every move so that she will not conspire with the man to kill you when she is fully involve with the man.