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Doggedseller:
Ok..... I think you should finish first....

My first question will be which country?

Had an experience recently in a teaching hospital, I was seen by a house officer and referred to another unit. The resident doctor i met told me it was a wrong diagnosis, and then he said, 'na all these Ukraine trained doctors '

Very very very right. If it's eastern bloc (Ukraine, Belarus, Russia, Bulgaria etc), forget it. Finish ur MBBS here, while doing house job start writing your exams to leave the country

duduade:
Red flags

Are you sure this one will hear word in the house like this... Marriage isnt about the wedding abeg.. And i suppose till now she hasnt called you to "lets sort this out" ... No communication... This one will bully you till you fall for her demands... Is this a wife material...



She wants a dream wedding and isnt ready to contribute to it financially


The 500 to 600k is money that can be saved and diverted to something else better. Her priorities are different from yours... Obviously not well matured...


I were in your shoes... I will put ALL PLANS on hold until both parties come to the middle..


In short walk away why you can... Cancelling an engagement wont kill you...

Sound advice. I'm saying this from experience

HIGHESTPOPORI:
NNPC should bear the burden, after all the money saved might still be looted if subsidy is removed.

Your head dey there

horlahsunbo225:
FTC
Please resume your job

God bless you!

GeeMeshin1:
First, remove suicide out of the equation; it will not solve anything rather it'll compound issues. If you can continue your current job and learn the driving alongside, it'll be better. Be strong, the best is around the corner.

Best advice, bro

GeeMeshin1:
First, remove suicide out of the equation; it will not solve anything rather it'll compound issues. If you can continue your current job and learn the driving alongside, it'll be better. Be strong, the best is around the corner.

Best advice, beo

Michelle55:
You did the right thing bro.. Anyone expecting a plate of rice on my wedding day will wait till eternity because I ain't doing that shit.

If you want to celebrate with me, wait until after I've fought and conquered the stress, phases and struggles of my marriage with my husband by my side, then I will throw a big party for y'all( just come, eat and celebrate with us) I don't need anything from you

Celebrate your post marriage and not your pre-wedding!!

If he ends up using his life savings to please the wife and her family, what will he use to feed her after the wedding? No be only talk of the town, na talk of the nation e go be

Some people with unrealistic expectations sef yet they won't add a dime to make that dream a reality.. Mtcheew!

u 2 much, my dear

Fahdiga:
Nice move but this second wave isn't for me and my family in Jesus name Amen

I claim this for myself and every member of my family in Jesus mighty name

Fervent prayer and fasting is needed

hopeforcharles:
Guy. I am a married man, let me advise you from that perspective. You go out because of your family to make sure they don't lack atleast financially and to put food on the table, you wife should respect that and understand. But she cheated, well I would advice you don't take her back, count your losses and move on, but don't forget y OK ur kid, Nwa bu nke gi.

Very sound advice

XXXXTENTACION:
Hope when you give birth to your own son you would allow him to hate you and become a puppy to his wife

Idi 2 much!!!!!!

vickydevoka:
Sometimes marrying late is better than marrying early n divorce

I concur!

God is indeed great. All power belongs to Jehovah

Jafar1:
Great! More blessings!!
Its far better than buying iphone for side chicks..

One billion times

SLAP44:
She really enjoyed his wealth fromnthe b last administration.

Gbam!

You are 1 million percent right in your decision to break up. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Although, it was wrong of you to physically assault her. If anything had happened to her, the story will be completely different

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Ehya,
That statement is very painful. It can make someone even commit suicide.


Now that you can't break up with the girl, kuku break up with your mama

On point!

Please ignore her totally. Why didn't she bring out her own money to make up the difference so the occasion would have been as grand as she wants?

seunlayi:
This is pathetic for a govt to act this way, this is not in the interest of the masses, they are trying to avoid paying palliatives to the masses, to ensure money keep coming in for the govt, to toy with the lives and health of the people. Unlike other countries like Ghana etc, how many people were tested? The virus is now spreading at the community level, and you want all to go out especially in lagos where lockdown can never be partial when you see peoppe trouping out.... I pray this won't spell doom for my country Nigeria

My brother, your head dey there. This is the long and short of the whole matter

Tinyemeka:
Stupid hypocrites.

See how they took out time to blow grammar here and there, without a single utterance about the reasons why the doctors are protesting.

Early this month, nurses protested lack of PPE available to protect them from Covid-19 and the CMD had the temerity to say it was just a handful nurses who were causing trouble.

Now it's resident doctors and the response is to rush to court and produce documents to show that they are essential workers of which they mustn't strike. Have their grievances been addressed? What do I know?

God bless you. I was looking all through the post to find out the doctors' grieviances

SOFTENGR:
Another gullible, unscientific creature spotted.

You could be right, I'm unscientific. Life is not all about science

Nweike1:
Confront her (without accusing her of being a witch), just ask her if she hasn't noticed that things are not working. Take her to MFM and both of u, go for deliver ce. It may not be witchcraft, it could be spirit husband, evil covenants etc. Whatever it is, go for deliverance

For those people saying that it's not physically possible for your wife to be responsible, all I will say is that the exact same thing happened to me. So there's something called bad feet. Go for deliverance. If she refuses, give her space

Confront her (without accusing her of being a witch), just ask her if she hasn't noticed that things are not working. Take her to MFM and both of u, go for deliver ce. It may not be witchcraft, it could be spirit husband, evil covenants etc. Whatever it is, go for deliverance

Mokason28:
Even if custom is paying 50kobo... Custom is still far berra... You don’t compare a federal job with a private company

Your head dey there!

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

My brother, my advice is u pray fervently for the Holy Spirit to show u what to do. Never go into marriage without clear revelation from God. I am a living testimony of what happens when u marry the wrong partner

catwalq:
Leave if you need to but let it be for your peace of mind and not an act of vengeance. If you're leaving to teach him a lesson,it might not be wholesome for you and the kids especially.


I wish you peace

You are too much. God bless you

Mightyhaiz:
Nephew is 80 and u tell us you are 75..

me sef, I think an

Kassidy4luv:
She said she can't go against her mum decision.
I have broken up with her

better

CapitalHYC:
It costs Zero Naira to be real.. I love their courage and Boldness... and to the wife most especially she is a goddess, her type of woman is rare in this present day Nigeria of IPhone and sharwama girls... God bless their Marriage

AMEN!!!!!!

ornicus:
your wife is CLEARLY still attached to her ex. she is just managing you all that is keeping her in check is our societal norms
you are right not to want to go to the US with her.
[i know of a couple who emigrated to the US on the madam's dime and the husband then came out of the closet]



why is an ex calling her at 12 am? why is she comparing you to her ex?

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you people are dating seriously. the time for money for fun should be on hold, and both of you need to understand that. it is more comparison to her ex, who is shelling out money.

good advice