Bobloco:


https://www./774078196815183/permalink/1223574125198919/

https://www./774078196815183/permalink/1223548401868158/

God bless this guy, many men should learn from this

BusterG:


Apt.

Coming from a lady I can see you already know what's up with the OP.


Back to the OP

There's no easy way out for you in this very delicate cum dicey scenerio.

Also, going back and forth on cooking, sex and other stuff with your so called religious wife is completely pointless. All you have to do is ignore her antics and manage your emotions accordingly.

You need to totally shift your priority to urself at the moment. Save all the money you can to be able to survive in d event of a job loss or financial crunch.

Now she has to bring funds to the Table too cos you have to make up stories about being broke so you also can save up cos if she's netting 800k monthly, it means she's already a millionaire while you're putting all your own eggs in one basket.

If you have any building projects, ensure its in your name, if not start another solely in your name.

There's a lot I wish to tell you .hmmm

You're are about to go through a lot if you don't quickly mount your guard and create alternative plans B, C, D and E.

At this point you have to stop being emotional and use your head.

I wish you well.

I agree with you totally

nlfpmod:
As shared by Dr. Ibrahim Oloriegbe, APC Senator representing Kwara Central Senatorial District.



https://twitter.com/official_IYO/status/1644787413821145088?t=_DUBxsBjcKTd1l9MEx2BKQ&s=08

very very very very on point! God bless u sir

Fearcom:


Hmmm!

Awon okurin o raye wa oo!

What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

All the men should gather here amd take this advoce:

1. NEVER, NEVER PAMPER A BAD WIFE.

2. HANDLE HER WITH AN IRON HAND. LET HER KNOW THAT SHE EITHER SUBMITS OR YOU KICK HER OUT. PERIOD

supported one million percent

No way, your mother in law shouldn't be allowed into ur home, Give your wife and her siblings money to care for her, but let her stay with one of your wife's siblings. You can visit with your children

habsydiamond:
International Court would be better than the judicial system of this country I no trust them a bit... if the supreme court can say the senate president that didn't contest in the senatorial primaries for his party won after contesting for the presidential primaries..
I don't expect anything better to come from them for Obi

💯

habsydiamond:
Am very sure Obi will win is mandate in court.... if any supreme court judge go mess up this time... God go slap am into a deep sickness that he or she will never recover from.

Amen in Jesus mighty name

MrPADDY:
Can someone help me inform Buhari that his dubious monetary policy against Tinubu has failed, that he can now allow people to have access to their funds trapped in banks? It annoying celebrating this fraud called INEC and its doctored results, while one cannot access cash. Tried all day to use mobile apps, accounts debited, without success. No cash to withdraw at ATM or POS. What a failed system!

100% correct

Spare124:
It's obviously Tinubu can't help Nigeria out of her misery,tho I so much like him but only is younger self could have done better,pls Nigerians let think well this hunger and suffering choke... Non of the candidates are Saints, but Tinubu shouldn't be an option.

On point

NaughtyBrainiac:
Previous Thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7554446/want-get-car-mum-please

This last Valentine's day 14th February, 2023 was the happiest day of my life.

I felt the kind of joy I have never felt before seeing my Mama so exhilarated that she is reaping the fruits of her Labour.

For all those that wish to do good things for their Parents, I pray that the Lord makes it easy for you 🙏
The Lord is in your neighbourhood.

And for those that have the means but are yet to make moves for their Parents, kindly consider. I am sure you will never regret the decision.

God bless you abundantly in Jesus mighty name. You will never lack

TheRareGem1:
Vice President Yemi Osinbajo SAN attends the 90th Birthday thanksgiving church service of his Mum, Mrs. Olubisi Osinbajo at the St Jude Cathedral Church in Ebute Metta, lagos. 16th Feb, 2023.

I claim this too for my mum in Jesus name

KingsCity:
Crook

The day Tinubu rallied you people illegally closed markets

blocked everywhere o! From yaba to Keffi Street took me 3 hours that day

StPete:
This story is definitely one-sided and looks like something concocted to paint the guy in bad light. The most probable thing I see from the marriage might be that the lady married the guy because she thought he had money. The family of the girl was also drawn to the guy because they thought he had money


Lemme wait to hear from the guy because this story is embellished to draw pity toward the girl

150% correct

kennybabs1980:

Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.

No mind the guy, make e dey listen to the wife until he enter premature grave

TheChameleon:
Never mortgage your own future for a spouse. Applies equally to males & females.

Sad but that's the reality. Equip yourself first before her.

And even then don't do it with the expectations of returns otherwise...

100% correct

Amen!!!!!! I claim it by fire in Jesus mighty name.

2dice01:
Red flag all the way

She want you to be subbing for her
She want expensive date
She want expensive lifestyle
All on your head


She is for G-boys and Sugar daddies

Very very correct!!!

ravensckar:
I think there's something fundamentally wrong with Nigerian women! They don't seem to understand that it takes two to tango. Relationship isn't a two-way thing to them; it's only about themselves alone. Anyone who enters marriage with that flawed mentality is bound to fail at it.

Secondly, I think not knowing about the opposite se.x too is a recipe for marital disaster. A man should know a lot about the woman nature and a woman too should know a lot about men and their ways. For example, most Naija women think that se.x is the only thing that can keep a man loyal to them. Hence, they focus more on having a sexy body rather than working on themselves to become more likable.


Most Naija women can hardly hold a meaningful conversation with their partner, they can hardly contribute meaningfully to issues, most don't have the requisite skills to become their partner's 'buddy'. To them, relationship is about the man providing the money while they in turn provide the se.x. Tufia!


That right there is why I'll always love my wife; that lady is very wise and likable. She's not only a wife but a partner; she's my gist partner, personal adviser on work and family matters, she's my account officer, best friend and my ......... *ehm* *coughs*


There was a time she went to visit my dad and stumbled on him negotiating with an electrician to help fix a light issue. My wife just laughed and told my dad not to pay anyone a dime that she will do it. She requested for a plier and screw driver and within a short while she don fix the light. My papa fear! Up till this moment, it never ceases to amaze him. She's the reason why I developed my technical skills too, me wey no dey fit fix anything before self don turn senior man.

In conclusion, until Nigerian ladies do away with their crude mentality and become more dynamic. Marriages will continue to crash.

True!

devilmaycry:
Mother's love for her child beats everything

Especially mine

NigerianAngelo:


They should kill them in my opinion.

But first, let the homosexuals rape them too

GistFullGround:






She has to tell you where you come from, abi she be witch? It doesn't matter what she went through; Papa na Papa

You yourself said it that your father was not buoyant... You have to be forceful because if your mom dies anytime, you can be lost forever.

She has to tell you or show you your origin. By the way, is she an illiterate?

I just dey vex, did she not remarry? Your siblings know their root, while you don't, when you are not a bastard.

Abegi change am for her. I believe she go fear!

God bless you

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

I still say it the only women I can spend money on are my female relatives and my mum


Baby girl...I don't invest on them...I nor be mumu....even if the money surplus I can never invest it on a woman...
After banging for the night I move on to the next woman....

The only people I spend and invest on I repeat are my female siblings and mum

very correct!

Oyiboman69:
Try and put an end to their conversation, to your capacity though. Set up investigation from different angle so as to catch her red hand if she doesn't desist from her evil act. It is important you pay attention to her every move so that she will not conspire with the man to kill you when she is fully involve with the man.

Correct!!! Don't allow anyone to waste ur life o

AntiWailer:


Calm down. Sit her down and talk to her.

Let her know how frustrated you are about this, Give instances and what your expectations were.

Hear her out too and try to work things out. As for sex drive, it is normal ladies lose their sex drive because of several factors. Just sit her down and hear her out.

Let divorce be last option, suicide is not an option at all.

sound advice bro

advanceDNA:


Na 50/50....
If it works out as u want...good...
If she change and follow another man with settled status then ghost you....no vex... humans can be unpredictable..understand say na survival mode she switch to...

Wateva happens, u go dey alright las las .but no overthink the matter right now...

very sound advice

miyagi01:
Why you self rush marry. Marriage matter nah serious matter. You should have prayed well to know the kind of person wey u wan marry. Some spouse get badluck that you might never make it if u're with them

100% right o!

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

Pray and fast for God to show u your wife, broken relationship is better than broken marriage

DesChyko:
So the court order has expired laidis since they obeyed it and resumed? Wahala. Still better than FG that are still holdingKanu hostage against court order

We should keep maltreating your lecturers o, who devoted time and finance to get to where they are today. By the time they get an easy route out of the country to where their efforts will count for something, we will start crying brain drain. Like we're doing with medical professionals today.

My sentiments exactly

WibusJaga:
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She should have poisoned herself instead.

Life that she cannot create!! She should have killed herself jare

Beverlyjean:
A good woman will not cheat on u, to mk it worse, did it without protection and lied thst it belongs to u... any woman thats capable of this can kill... just know that ur life is already in danger

1 million percent right!

Microwhy:

Its not about marrying who they don't love.
I know a couple that dated for 26years (since primary school) but couldn't hold the marriage for 6 years. Its about their attitude, behaviour and character. Also
They're not bored, they just want to practice what they know how to do best and they're what they're "A hoe" .
Most of the so called boring husbands are trying their best to make the family happy but a hoe will always be one.

God bless you

MrFinbarr:
Nonsense!!!

Yet you'll be paying Med. Drs. 5k monthly as hazard allowance, and have refused to implement the new hazard allowance that we agreed on with same Ministry of Health since last year. Who does that??

Bunch of idiots in Government. Japa is and will continue to occur until a drastic measure it done to improve the health sector and appropriate incentives implemented. Until then, y'all are bunch of jokers and morons.

Well articulated!