₦airaland Forum

Mrnairalandd:
It's wrong

Trust me on this, your cousin is about to get himself into a family trap and he ll live to regret the decision of marrying that lady. You know why, that question alone reveal how that mother-in-law is and of course her relationship with her daughter.

If she is bold enough to ask your cousin that question, you can now imagine what his life ll look like after marriage.

The dude should be on the run by now...

On point!

I rejoice with you my brother. How loves you so much. Better a broken relationship than a broken marriage

God bless you abundantly for remembering your mum in Jesus name. I pray that God in His mercies will give me the enablement to do even more for my mum, and most importantly, for God to bless my mum with long life and good health to eat the good fruits of her labour in Jesus name

And mine too in Jesus mighty name

officer Titus!

op u need to repeat the test (ELISA) in 3 and 6 months before you can declare yourself negative

You need deliverance. Go to any bible believing and spiritual warfare ministry. To be specific, I would advice you go to MFM

wordcat:
And there will be a CAR gift if she happens to be the most beautiful girl in UNILORIN

Na so o! No encouragement for academic excellence

Bolustic:
It's their church and doctrine, so far it's working for them and members are not complaining,let it be.

God bless you in Jesus name

yeyeboi:
May GOD continue to save us in this Ember period

AMEN IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME!

Toks2008:
THE SUBMISSIVE WOMAN

Most ladies spend so much time and energy preparing for a wedding ceremony but very unprepared for just one condition responsible for a formidable union called SUBMISSION.

The modern day woman has allowed sophistication as a result of sound education and several other factors to make her see herself as equal to a man hence finds it difficult to be extremely submissive and this is one of the triggering factors for a break up. Being fully submissive to your man is one of the greatest secret to longevity of any romantic affair so Lets see what the Quran and Bible has to say concerning the act of submission from the woman.

Al-Tirmidhi 3272 - "When Allah's Messenger was asked which woman was best he replied, 'The one who pleases (her husband) when he looks at her, obeys him when he gives a command, and does not go against his wishes regarding her person or property by doing anything of which he disapproves'."

Ephesians 5:22-24 :Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

No woman has any business with marriage or any serious romantic affair with a man until she is ready to "submit,honor,respect,reverence her husband to the maximum level just as she will respect the lord.Show me a submissive woman and I will show you a peaceful and lasting union.Being submissive does not mean you should obey your man blindly or go against the commandments of GOD neither does it make you a zombie or a mindless person but it means being meek,humble and serene even when you disagree with your man as many times as possible.Believe it or not,no matter how many relationships you get involved in,you will always have issues if you don't learn how to submit yourself to your man.

And as the man,for whatever reason you choose to marry that lady, if you are not ready to love that woman with her imperfections and without exception with behavior worthy of respect and esteem, always seeking the best for her with an attitude of loving-kindness all the days of your life please don't propose marriage to her.

GOD commands the man to love the wife and the wife to submit to the husband. Refusal to do this is rebellion against GOD himself.By loving your wife you are honoring GOD and not doing your wife a favor and by submitting to your husband, you are demonstrating an act of obedience to GOD and not to your husband.

I hope this makes sense.

You've said it all

blackberlin:
You too work hard and become a rare breed of Nigerian woman or rather a wealthy one. . . Marriage is not a business center.

Correct!!

paranorman:
Do that and make the worst mistake of your life!
I bet you haven't met pretenders, they'd pretend till you end up in marriage..
Bro, there's no proper way to find the right lad for marriage these end times..

If you're a true Christian, my advice is for you to pray and fast personally about it. You don't need any pastor or soothsayer to help as long you're a true child of God. Ask God to reveal your wife to you. Pray in your closet. Fast and let not a soul know. Don't not ask for any sign. Just ask God to reveal your true wife to you. Marriage can either make or mar you as a man. Don't go for a girl because she's very religious or her father is a pastor or she sings like an angel or she has the anointing of Elijah or your great-grand granpa can vouch for her or she's beautiful or she's rich/gainfully employed e.t.c. Seek God's direction and you'l be happy man for the rest of your life. DON'T HURRIEDLY ENTER a LIFE-TIME BOUNDAGE, pray and wait on God for a lifetime BLISS!

On point!!

not harsh at all. You have to make it clear to your 'woman' that you don't joke with your mother

my guy, you must never allow this. You are the man and the head of your household. Don't for one minute accept such nonsense. You must put your foot down. Tell your wife to tell her mother to back away. If she says she is coming, tell her there is no space because your own people are coming to spend some time with you. If it's not agreeable to your wife, tell her she is free to leave

it's called primary amenorrhoea, could be from a variety of causes including outflow tracts abnormalities, hormonal problems, abnormal genetic make up etc. You need to be seen by a Gynaecologist. In case you are interested, you can contact me on my WhatsApp 08033804151. I am a gynaecologist

happy wedding anniversary to them. May God continue to bless their union abundantly

dynamo77:
She's seriously pretty
I hope she's mentally pretty too

And spiritually pretty too

Big congratulations! Happy birthday ma. My own mum will love as long (and longer) in perfect health and eat the good fruits of her labour in JESUS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN

cruzita:
mothers remains the best valuable possession







I love my mama so much !!!!!

I love mine much more! God bless you mummy

kodded:
what about cross river state ?

exactly the same question I had

Let ur cousin go and see a general surgeon, it will be necessary to do a proctosigmoidoscopy among other tests

Lovely! God bless her and keep her for you in good health to eat the fruits of her labour

Happy mothers' day to the sweetest, most beautiful, most precious mummy. My mum. GOD bless you with long life, perfect health, peace, joy and every good thing in life that will make your joy full. You shall eat the good fruits of all your labour IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME

DR D.K. OLUKOYA

Chinaimporter:
A medical consultant earns far more than a proffesor in almost all countries of the world. In the united states, an entry level post resident doctor makes from $180k to $500k per annum depending on specialty while even the top proffrsors who are dean of colleges hardly make above $130k.
In nigeria,an entry level government consultant makes about 700k montly excluding outside consultations while a new proffessor make about 430k.
This difference is quite understandable since doctors are quite functional.people who also bring in money for the facilites and also impart knowledge on students while proffesors only impart knowledge and hardly bring in any money to their universties.
Nigeria doctors are one of the most poorly paod in the world that is why we are losing them by thousands to better paying countries like the us,uk,saudi arabia and now even namibia and botswana where they are in very high demand.

abeg bros, how does one make the move to Namibia or Botswana. I am a specialist obstetrician and gynaecologist with a private hospital in lagos

in my humble opinion, techno phones are not durable. I bought R7 in 2014 @ 42k, and after less than 6 months the screen became unresponsive. Had to change the screen, later other problems. Gave out the phone exactly 8 months after buying it. The person I dashed it to, gave it to her baby to use as a toy 1 month after

to me sha, na the man dey at fault

This proposed 7 year program is not sensible, means students will have only three years to learn pathology (morbid anatomy, chemical pathology, haematology, microbiology), pharmacology, core clinical medicine (internal medicine, surgery, obstetrics and gynaecology, paediatrics), other clinical areas(radiology, anaesthesia, radiotherapy), medical statistics and community medicine

dunkem21:
Things are gradually getting from worse to worst ..

We have seen people carry generators to service stations ..

..we have seen satchet water double its price ..

..Our freezers turn to oven ..

..We have seen parents weep in the bank because of Forex ..

Now, people are rushing into plane like say na Molue ..


Chai

Chanji

Smellymouth:
OP, I admire your courage.But trust me, it also takes the courage of Samson to trust a lady.

My advice? She is just your GF, not your wife.
The only woman you should ever lose your mind over is your MOTHER or your wife.

Other than that- Get your education up, stay fit, stack ur money up to the ceiling and mess around with many chicks as you can

Life is too short, no one gets out alive!!


Stvpid reasons ladies cheat and I won't be surprised if your GF had cheated on you::
1) The grass looks greener on the other side.
2) A bit of excitement and an ego boost.
3) Pure sexual desire.
4) To feel wanted and attractive to other men.
5) Revenge.
6) To fulfill what they consider is lack of attention from their spouse.
7) Sometimes they do it just because they can.

The oldest excuse is that "something is lacking" in the relationship

A cheat is a cheat no matter of what sex or why.


Patiently waiting for the feminists and their As5lickers to quote me

in fact, the only person you should trust that way and love that way is your MOTHER!!!!

As a doctor, I personally do not believe that the proposed 7 year program is ideal. 4 years of basic medical science, leaves only 3 years for pathology and clinical medicine. It's too small. This will produce graduates who are not properly grounded in the basics. There's a world of difference between a clinician and an anatomist, biochemist or physiologist