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Food / Re: The Roasted Chicken I Bought For N2,500 by Nwogeh: 7:42pm On Mar 04
Guy, you don chop vulture be that

simonlee:
After a long and fruitful weekend, I decided to chill small with roadside roasted chicken. Got to the place and the Mallam said it's 3k. After some back and forth, I paid N2,500 and he packaged it for me. On getting home, I unwrapped the paper and suddenly realised why it was this expensive. The cap and eyes staring at me got me feeling some worth guilty...like, "this Sapa never reach you abi?" grin grin
How much would this cost in your area?
I bought this in southern Kaduna by the way
Politics / Re: Tinubu's Palliative: What Can You Do With N8,000? by Nwogeh: 12:29pm On Jul 16, 2023
staga:
Please how do I get my own? Let me use it to buy 3 days fuel for my jeep.

I have many dependants too, so don't I qualify as a "vulnerable" person?

I want to connect with you please. Reply my email
Politics / Re: ObIdients & Tinubu Supporters, What Do You Learn From Datti & Sanwo-Olu Picture? by Nwogeh: 9:53pm On Feb 11, 2023
lhordspy:

No we are not. We have been far far divided, partitioned, marginalised to be. All thanks to a specific candidate that rides and thrives on religious marginalisation, ethnic division and aggressive, disrespectful, uncultured mob support.

Call me a bigot or anything. But I will never accept to be tagged a brother, friends with person or people who align, engage, or stand as an apologist to people who called my country a zoo.

I am a champion of unity and oneness to the core . I preach, pray, clamour and crave for togetherness but i am also sensible and conscious enough to know my fellow Nigerians and differentiate them from clowns and pretenders who are still harbouring hate, and continuing fighting a civil war which ended so many years in disguise of running for presidency.

To answer your question: Datti Ahmed is a good man with pure heart. I hold him in high-esteem irrespective of his bad choice of political alliance.

The worst is that Nigeria is less than a Zoo and most of the people living there are less than animals....you for example.

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Romance / Re: My Fiancee Jokingly Said She Will Separate Me And My Brother When We Get Married by Nwogeh: 10:33am On Jan 26, 2023
When children are in a relationship. So because your brother senior her that is why he will be sending her on an errand. you be mumu. Go and learn what marriage is all about because you are not matured yet. Infact your brother that senior your wife, what will he bedoing in your house if he has sense.

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Politics / Re: A Tinubu Supporter Takes A Picture In Front Of Nnamdi Kanu's House by Nwogeh: 10:52am On Sep 22, 2022
The harder the mockery the sweeter the victory
Politics / Re: Queen Elizabeth’s Crown Not Her Own – Uju Anya by Nwogeh: 8:16am On Sep 12, 2022
Keep talking Madam.....we love you die. The world must hear us by force.

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Politics / Re: NAVMC Mass Production Of The ATV (Pictures) by Nwogeh: 6:49am On Sep 03, 2022
It is not for good reason, believe me

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Politics / Re: Suspected Herdsme Kidnap Passengers Along Enugu-Port Harcourt Expressway (Video) by Nwogeh: 7:37pm On Jul 26, 2022
Don't mind those sadists and devils incarnet like vulture(udele) na ndi otu ya.....chineke ga akpoha oku with time.


AntiBMC:
Dose idi0ts that keep blaming ESN for taking up arms....we won't see them in this thread. And the ones that shamelessly show their face here, will ask idiotic questions like "where's ESN?"

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NLNG Ship Management Company Limited Recruitment by Nwogeh: 7:18pm On Jul 04, 2022
anakim1:
Thanks for the info. Wish you the best

Do you stay in PH
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Fiancé Just Lost His Job by Nwogeh: 12:14pm On Jun 07, 2022
Is he in Port Harcourt? Is he a member of ICAN? which ever way....see how you can connect me and him. Let me understand more so I can see how to come in.

Rubyjade:
Please help my man, he got retrenched today and it been heartbreaking for him.

His a graduate of accountancy with 4yrs experience in accounting. He can use excel, Ms word and Sage 50 and QuickBooks very well.

Has a very good understanding of LIRS, FIRS, ITF, NSTIF


Please help him, his a good man

Thank you in anticipation

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Fashion / Re: Eyelashes: Why Do Nigerian Men Pretend They Are Not Attracted To This On A Lady? by Nwogeh: 10:26am On May 12, 2022
We only hate it for a wife, men actually like people who fix it as sex partners because their values have been reduced and they are near prostitutes than being a decent women and can easily be wooed than the normal decent girl....that's why you are getting lots of attention just to warm the bed you know.



siofra:
Why do they pretend like they don't like false lashes on ladies?

Ever since I fixed it on Saturday, I've not been able to rest.

I get at least 10 toasters a day.

But online all of them pretend to hate it. Why

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Politics / Re: We Can't Travel Down To East Becos Of IPOB - Igbo Youths In Diaspora Lament by Nwogeh: 2:09pm On Apr 16, 2022
Very disgusting to see this on front page. So two people are now Igbo youth.
Romance / Re: Brothel Addiction: Depressed And Thinking About Suicide by Nwogeh: 10:31am On Apr 13, 2022
I have only one suggestion for you, if you can do it, you will have a renewed mind.

Take out one day and visit a university teaching hospital close to you. Spend 6 hours there going from ward to ward, interact with patients and make sure you visit emergency unit, when you come back, your views about life will change.

As for brothel, do this first, nobody will tell you to take your life more serious.


kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .
Family / Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by Nwogeh: 10:48am On Jan 19, 2022
God just gave you a decent girl as a wife and you are waiting for a good younger girl that does not exist anymore.....young girls that yahoo boys have spoilt. Ladies at 30s understand what marriage is all about more than younger ones. As far as there is mutual love and respect, that is all you need and not age. Again, your age difference is perfect because both of you are the same generation and will likely see life the same way and not young girls that you will be talking today and they are talking tomorrow.




oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

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Family / Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by Nwogeh: 10:47am On Jan 19, 2022
God just gave you a decent girl as a wife and you are waiting for a good younger girl that does not exist anymore.....young girls that yahoo boys have spoilt. Ladies at 30s understand what marriage is all about more than younger ones. As far as there is mutual love and respect, that is all you need and not age. Again, your age difference is perfect because both of you are the same generation and will likely see life the same way and not young girls that you will be talking today and they are talking tomorrow.



oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

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Politics / Re: We Are Worried By Difficulties Encountered By Nnamdi Kanu’s Legal Team — S-east by Nwogeh: 10:05pm On Nov 13, 2021
Just watch out how the E-diot will later "key" himself one day.
Okwa anyi no here.

Saul later killed himself because of David, Egyptians because of Israelites... The fool will die on top Biafra IPOB matter...just watch out.
Politics / Re: Igbo Conscience Group Asks FG To Declare State Of Emergency In South-East by Nwogeh: 1:51pm On Oct 02, 2021
EcoBrick:


https://www.thecable.ng/igbo-group-asks-fg-to-declare-state-of-emergency-in-south-east/amp


Look at the kind of non sense you are approving to the front page. A statement signed by no one. A group we have never heard of. A group that does not exist anywhere.
Igbo hatred will "key" all of you.
So pathetic.
Why can't you leave the same people you love to hate to go their separate ways, why?
Anyway,
You keep hating, we keep winning.

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Politics / Re: Nnamdi Kanu's Arrest Leaves IPOB In Disarray - BBC by Nwogeh: 8:28pm On Jul 04, 2021
Nigerians love romantic news like this... While you guys masturbate on stuffs like this which you like to hear....At the end we will know if this news is true or not....it's a strength when your enemies think you are down and it turns out otherwise....WE MOVE.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Always Feels Guilty After Sex. Will Her Shame Go Away? by Nwogeh: 6:55am On May 14, 2021
For you to indulge in premarital sex without feeling guilt means your conscience is dead...I pity the girl self...you don't deserve her.

Bet me, you will cheat on that girl after marriage without feeling remorse or guilt. She better log out out immediately because you are the problem here.

You have someone that has godly mind ans you are here fooling yourself. Make Thunder no Fire you o.

God help the poor girl.



Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.
Family / Re: Family Problems About Remarrying by Nwogeh: 8:25pm On May 13, 2021
This whole thing was planned, from condolence message on FB and invitation, treating your kids so well and making your home mingle with hers were all planned and they worked well for her.

She is desperate, that's the truth. I would not have had any problem with her style but her speedy assertion of power is a red flag and believe me, your kids will suffer so much in her hand in future even you will be in trouble.

You were too fast in falling for another woman, haba....you should have stayed up to a year to mourn her but that's OK.

Now, you must be a man. Call her and address her straight up without mincing word that you and your family need space. Tell her you can't do this anymore and she should leave with her kids as soon as practicable.

Tell her that it can't work because the memories of your wife is still fresh and it seems you guys can't be together.

This whole thing will end the remains of your family if you don't end it now.

Good luck


family6644:
I need serious advise from experienced nairalanders, please forgive my lengthy message because it requires detailed explanations.

I lost my wife exactly 3 months ago, 4 years of relationship and 13 years of marriage with her before she passed on, she left behind 3kids, 13yr old girl 7yr and 3yr old boys. I understand marriages are full of their challenges but we have been through the journey and we came out victorious having a loving and happy home, a union other partners appreciates.

My late wife was so organized and we trainned my kids to be independent while she travels on local business trips. So I just needed to continue our family habit of buying and stocking everything at home while they manage themselves with the help of an older maid who has been part of the family for many years, in short, we are faring quite well as I continue to mourn my wife and carry on with life.

Here is the problem, from a lot of condolence messages coming in on my Facebook, I had the chance to reply some of them 2weeks ago, I met this single mother of two who invited my kids to her daughter's birthday party, i was reluctant but she said it is time to start taking the kids out since they are yet to resume school, exactly what they needed at that point was the usual outing which has been missing for a while since their mother's sickness and after her demise, approx 6months in total. She said it's not a loud party that she needed only my kids for the small sitting room party.

I decided, went to the party with the kids, it was fun for the kids, I have not seen them happy like that in a long while, it made me happy too, they fell in love with the two sisters and their mother all like a miracle, my little 3year old boy started calling her mommy, others follow and it all seem like a family reunion. We left late at night with her girls asking that they meet again the next day which was a Sunday. To cut it short, my kids and hers agreed to meet the next day except for me. To be honest, the lady is a nice and lovely person to be with, she's a realtor who can work from home, she's real and beautiful, she has been a single mother for 4yrs after her husband travelled out and abandoned them to marry another woman, that's according to her.

She called me that her kids could not allow her rest, they said if we can't come, she should bring them to our house, I mildly rejected but i was persuaded by my daughter and my first son to have them around, I could see that they have bonded quite well, I want my kids to be happy too, that's what I have always wanted for them so I agreed and gave them our address. To cut the story short, I find it impossible to separate the two families that has come together to become one, when they were leaving back to their house my kids pleaded with me to allow them go with mommy to her house, I understand that is real because she's lovely with kids. I had the confidence to trust my kids with someone for the first time in my life. They didn't want to come back, I had to go and pick them up the next day, all of them made sure they came back home with me, we started living together as a family and everyone was enjoying it.

It became an automatic affair with her, I was worried about it been too early, I had to involve few of my friends to seek opinions, some were happy that i could get a good mother for my kids this soon, others asked me to stop the family union and give it a little time to study her character. I suggested some space but she felt very bad, she thinks I am sending them away. I had to allow them stay while I use the opportunity to observe the new found love and family.

12days after, I realize that in a bid to reorganize me and help me to move ahead in life, she totally disregards anything that concerns my late wife whom I still hold dear to my heart, same as my daughter and my adopted daughter, I don't like to address her as a maid. We loved and cherished my late wife, everything she introduced seems to be strange to the norms of the family. If I try to raise my concerns for her to adjust, she will simply tell me that the dead is dead and I should just forget everything about her including whatever she stood for as a mother and wife.

If I try to talk some senses into her to make her understand that brooding over the dead is different from honouring and respecting the deseased, she gets really angry claiming I am comparing her with a dead person. Whatever she discovers as our way of doing things in the family she disregards it and replaces it with her own way without minding how we feel as a family or how easy or difficult it is for us to adjust.

It looks like we are the only ones tolerating and accommodating them here, I have tried with no avail to stop her from insulting the memory of my late wife. I discussed with each and everyone at home, they all wish I could perform a miracle to have them leave because no one can tolerate the mother and kids anymore, I am equally fed up myself and willing to take a break.

I have a friend who is aware of my problems with her, he told me that I am the problem here, he said it will be hard for any woman to fit into our family way of doing things and it will be difficult for us to cope with a different way of life introduced by another woman.

I hope I can get one or two advices that could help. I am quite confused


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Education / Re: Meet Simon Nwakacha, The Owner Of Greenfield University (Photo) by Nwogeh: 6:49pm On May 04, 2021
Is there any Northerner that has a bungalo in East....the man is very stupid to have built such a thing in the North without having same down here. Onye Iberibe

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Family / Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Nwogeh: 3:02am On May 02, 2021
OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:

I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)

Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.

I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?

A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).

Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!

MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.

Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! cry cry Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.

I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!

.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.

Able readers, is my final decision a good one?

You no even get single sense... Instead of you to bend down and learn from her...you are here exposing your foolishness. So in your small sense, you think it's good to borrow and buy car. Why not try and buy sense first.
You are the ogbanje here honestly.
I feel for that innocent girl....you don't deserve her at all....leave that girl and watch your life crumble before you even if you relocate to America. She is your guardian angel, love and adore her.

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Career / Re: Parents Who Want You To Study Medicine Love You For Real Do It ! by Nwogeh: 6:36pm On Apr 29, 2021
REASONS WHY MEDICINE IS GOOD

Getting job easily
Out of poverty cycle
Prestige
Sells abroad like fire
Low unemployment rate
Very attractive and gentle job
Quite fulfilling because you save life

MY PROBLEM WITH MEDICINE

It is over rated because people mistook medicine to be riches
You hardly do or fit into anything else except medicine
They are hardly the richest in every committee
The first purpose of being a doctor is not to make money but to save life
Young people mistake the purpose of being a doctor
Drs are treated badly down here
It can be disastrous when you can't meet up with passing your exams..
All the alternative to medicine that you can be pushed to are quite useless
It causes lots of delays
A successful Dr and a successful Engr can't be compared in terms of wealth
Many are in it because of pride
It's too expensive
Their own unemployment is worst because they are useless in other areas
The rate of growth in medicine is too slow
You hardly work in mind blowing IOCs except Into NGOs or so...only few
They hardly have time for side hustle and social life
You can't work remotely...you must be present
Can Drs actually hit big contracts like Engrs contracts of 100m...1bn...to do what kwanu
Etc

But I still love Medicine and advise anyone who has the brain to go for it....it's worth it.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What's The Best Way To Prepare For Tony Elumelu Foundation Competition by Nwogeh: 4:48pm On Apr 21, 2021
Here to read and learn
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 774,000 Jobs: Any Update? by Nwogeh: 9:18am On Mar 20, 2021
No be small thing
Business / Re: Business Ideas For A 5 Million Naira Capital by Nwogeh: 2:18am On Mar 13, 2021
kokaneprodigy:
Hi guys, I currently have a little above 5M in naira idle and I would want to put it into a business/trade. Something with good yield and room for expansion. Basically something I can grow. I don't want to invest it in bit coin/crypto or mutual funds ( i already have investment in those for easy liquidation).
every idea is welcome, thanks.

Please don't DM me.


STORAGE
You can do Achi(thickener for traditional soup) storage right now....it is 125k per bag now because this is the season but last year...it sold up to 400k per bag by Oct Nov.....space to store it is not a problem of you can buy it in Abakaliki.

Red Oil storage is next month

Grandnut oil storage is by Aug/Sept

Outside storage, you can go into POS biz with savings and small lending as products outside the usual withdrawal of cash.

Go into distribution of fast moving consumer goods and register as a major distributor.

Go into poultry and fish feed distribution.

You can buy Keke and give out or you buy delivery bykes and put in a delivery company

You can even buy Bus and put in a State own transport cooperation.

Go into fabrics

Sell women weavon

Distribution of Drinks.

Waste recycling.... Plastics melting and molding

Buy a stand in a shopping mall and sell special products

Go and buy shops in Abakaliki international MKT and rent same to people

Etc

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Family / Re: My Sister Want To Expose My Secret Life To My Husband by Nwogeh: 12:51pm On Dec 09, 2020
Although what you did was very wrong and unfortunately you did so many other wrongs to cover it up....lies, deceit etc. However, the worst mistake you ever made was not planning for this day...a day when all the secret will be out. You should have started making plans against worst case scenario...divorce. Your husband did same thing you did but due to patriarch mentality, everyone will blame you. When you leave your wife for 5years, my dear, there is no way it wont come with consequences which as a man you must also plan to live with because if everything was alright for you initially, there would be no need to leave her all by herself...so blame yourself too as a man and watch how she lives her life hence forth.

My advice to the lady is to prepare as soon as possible for the worst case scenario...divorce, by getting all the empowerment you need to get...finance, personal development, etc. To buy you more time for this, call your sister tell her that you have agreed to take her daughter along, then start making arrangement as if you are on it...use that time to get yourself empowered so that you wont be stranded if your husband divorces you. Every action has consequences...your sister thinks she has the upper hand by holding you hostage for a crime she willing committed for you, but sooner or later she will discover that she can never be exonerated from the consequences of such actions.

When you feel you can stand on your own, tell your sister politely that you can take her daughter and if she threatens you that time, allow make the move of telling your hubby, then tell your hubby by yourself.... after that whatever happens, you take it in good faith.

Your husband will eventually know someday so its better you prepare for it.

Everybody has a fair share of the blame to home go home with....you, your hubby, your sister.

You dont have to kill yourself over it....cos this life no just balance.


Jceeee:
Hello everybody ,
I came here to seek for advice because I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short.
I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child , I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May , and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad ( I won’t mention the country ) .

I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 children while waiting for him to apply for our documents, it took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job.

My parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working , he started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us , they keep rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us , but I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly , no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed.

I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with, I got pregnant in 2008 the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad , she got pregnant and went to abort , she died instantly so I didn’t want to end up like her .

I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state ( I won’t mention the name ) to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months , I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to this country to join my husband in abroad , things was well.

I had my baby another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him , it was my kid sister that has given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her, it was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out , even to my husband he just knew the baby was my sister , because I was breastfeeding her , we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year , when I weaned her and we started preparing to go back home, lying to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore, we returned back home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad , husband and other people .

Finally God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting , it was a wonderful time to be with him again , my kid sister got married in 2014 she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers , she went to her husband house , leaving my kids with our parents , she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind , I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absent so we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up, at that same time my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong , so this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing to me , but I was never ungrateful to her because I take care of her daughter school fees in a best private school but I just couldn’t take her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too.

Luckily my daughter which to my husband is my niece has joined us this January 2020 , she knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy , She is doing well my family is complete , I have also had 2 more children with my husband two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter , I had begged even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen.

I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work , my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out about the secrets and I’m no longer in peace. he loves my niece ( daughter ) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared , have been taking blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me.

Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you .

please if you could offer me some , I just don’t know what else to do
Family / Re: Who Ought To Name A Child ? by Nwogeh: 6:01pm On Dec 07, 2020
After trying so hard to convince my wife that I am supposed to name my kids, she grudgingly left it that way simply because her mum named all of them based on circumstances of their birth which I don't like....later on, to avoid issues or frowning, I asked her to name or call them anything she likes after all it is the name mothers call their kids that they are widely known for in most cases but I made it clear that it is only what I named them that they will register with or be called in school unless she wants to be paying the fees....immediately she heard about money, she happily gave up....fear men but dread women when money is involved money.




Juliusmomoh:
Good day nairalander
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What is your kind opinion to the above question ?...
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My anty and her husband have being having isuee concerning this since yesterday...
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She gave birth 7days ago, and according to there religion (christainity), tomorrow is the naming...
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Now two of them are having isuee now concerning the naming..
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The husband suggest the boy to be called: victor..
While the wife (my anty) suggest the boy to be called: freedom ...
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Now mothers and fathers in the house. WHO OUGHT TO NAME A CHILD ? .
Mother or father ? Abi both of them ?

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Family / Re: Who Ought To Name A Child ? by Nwogeh: 5:52pm On Dec 07, 2020
oluwatosink:
Names plays vital role in the lives of children. So the mother should name the child because only her knew what she went through before the delivery of the child. The husband can give a second name to the child.

You don't name a child using the circumstances surrounding their birth....it's old and unnecessary now that we know better...you name a child based on the circumstances you want around them till they grow old...or as an appreciation over what God has been doing and what he will do.

Above all, a woman does not name a child unless the hubby decides to allow her do it.

Even in the bible, Isaac, Abraham, Moses, Jacob etc named their kids.

Inbetween: if you leave women, they will name your child especially boys, after their former boy friend.... Na joke o

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Autos / Re: Corolla And Camry Car Parts And Their Prices by Nwogeh: 10:30pm On Nov 27, 2020
I love this, thank you

H100:
This content ( Corolla/Camry Car parts and their prices) is the work of Kola Oni Foto which I think is worth sharing.

Price of Windscreen
Corolla 20,000naira
Camry 19,000naira

Bumper prices
Corolla 15k
Camry 18k

Price for Headlamps
Corolla 15k each
Camry 17k each

Battery Price
70amps (18k)
75amps (20k)

Prices fo Shocks
Corolla new (8k each)
Tokubo (5k each)

Camry new (9k each)
Tokunbo (7k each)

*Stablizer linkages*
New 2 pairs #2500
Tokunbo 2 pairs #1500

*Bushings*
1k each

*Engine seater*
3k

*Brakepads*
6k new
Tokunbo 4k

*Catalyst*
Work type (cut and open) 15k
Complete manifold with catalyst (35k)

*Spark plugs*
New set 6k
Tokunbo 4k

*Spark plug coil*
Set new (4k each)
Tokubo (2k each)

*Alternator*
New 8k
Tokunbo 6k

*Power steering pump*
Corolla 27k
Camry 25k

*Radiator*
New camry double cell (25k)
Single cell (18k)

Corolla single cell (15k)
Double cell(20k)

*Alternator belt*
Camry tokunbo 4k
New 2500

Corolla tokunbo 3k
New 1500

*Condenser*
Camry new 20k
Tokunbo 14k

Corolla new 18k
Tokunbo 13k

*Compressor*
Camry new 30k
Tokunbo 25k

Corolla new 27k
Tokunbo 23k

You could still price it down a bit..!

Igosoonbuymotor

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Sports / Re: Sierra Leone Vs Nigeria: AFCON Qualifier (0 - 0) On 17th November 2020 by Nwogeh: 5:38pm On Nov 17, 2020
Which TV station is showing the match

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