Kvng6464:
Maybe you know sabi knack well

You sabi. e be like say na only us know wetin dey happen.

Hassanmaye:

They like your type na if na good guy he will never see pant

Good guys no dey ever see pant na.

I usually watch some of these church guys toasting their fellow girls and it is very painful to watch.

Because I know say the guy no go ever see pant.
That is if she even agree to date him.

Na street guys dey disvirgin girls nowadays.

Though they can later settle down with a good guy after bad guys don knack shege comot for their body.

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

Simply because her conscience still has a modicum of life while yours appears dead altogether! Repent from your sinful ways.

One case that is still shooking me till today is one girl where I used to live.

This girl fine scatter with Mary Magdalene kind of aura.

A churchy girl to the core. She goes on street evangelism.
Boys toast am tire for church she no gree.

Boys toast am for street, she no gree.

Before we know what is happening, we heard she got pregnant.

Who give Mary Belle?

We heard it was one bad guy far from the street we used to live.
The guy repairs generator.

The guy even rejected the pregnancy.

Since that day, I no dey put girls for pedestal.

Any of them can be fucckked as long as you are bad enough to tickle their fancy.

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

Probably a naive babe new in the pleasure...Or her upbringing doesn't align with what she is doing now..

Most ladies pass through this, even those that married as virgin....so you have not heard of putting of light before sex.

But this shouldn't be an excuse to jump to next lady...You have to make her more relaxed and comfortable with you...

If you are not making her happy after sex now I can bet my life you won't after marrying. You can decide what you like to do based on this let no one fool say dem holy pass marry.

Remorse after sex now will amount to remorse after sex upon marriage

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

pricklewane:
If you are not making her happy after sex now I can bet my life you won't after marrying. You can decide what you like to do based on this let no one fool say dem holy pass marry.

Remorse after sex now will amount to remorse after sex upon marriage

Na lie.
Speaking from experience.

A good girl with proper home training will always feel bad after sex.
It doesn't mean she won't like it during the sex.

But after sex, especially if she has a very sound religious background, will always feel remorseful.

Though with time, her conscience will become hardened with or without marriage and she won't see the religious side of it again.

U want advice on this from faceless ppl that will tell u stuffs that will mar ur rship.

Passed me her number

donbachi:
She's cheating on someone with u..dats the reason.

you are right my brother, the lady is having conscience..she might probably have a guy she is dating and vow never to have sex with anyone

Does she give you ringtone on bed or just stagnant on bed? like how many round can she go?

How are you sure not being intimate will make you marry the wrong person!! Abegiii think!!!

For you to indulge in premarital sex without feeling guilt means your conscience is dead...I pity the girl self...you don't deserve her.

Bet me, you will cheat on that girl after marriage without feeling remorse or guilt. She better log out out immediately because you are the problem here.

You have someone that has godly mind ans you are here fooling yourself. Make Thunder no Fire you o.

God help the poor girl.

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

Hmmmm

Ore abani de se

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

She's not happy not be because of the sex but she believes she's losing a part of her belief which is sex after marriage which is what breaks her...

Must all relationship be sex based if not married yet?

ahiboilandgas:
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.

Isn't what the guy want, to marry her...

Association chop and clean mouth...

koladata:
its normal, some young people who are still God fearing believes sex is a big sin. Everything will be fine after marriage .

Here's something that makes more sense... everything doesn't have to be in the negative...

men always issues and complained everything girl do. how is that suppose to be your bussinss ? if she deny you love making complely you will still come here and lay complains anyhow.

Begin:
The bobo no smart the girl they real play with him mind. Na so one be won run me for skul that year me way be say na confirm street, after we don go down finish bae go start cry say she don promise God say she no go do this kind tin again Lol, two days time if I touch her na so she go spread leg wide open me self way no get time na so I go dive enter after everything me self go come start to the form say my consice they disturbe me

Baddest! When i started dating my ex newly, she was on a fast and was asked not to have sex. But after the fast each day, she visits me. When we start to kiss and i just touch her laps, the babe don moan o and na knacking go follow.
After it, i go follow her form guilty and them we share the grace. Lmao. Na thesame girl wey still form church girl, na she later run me 12k street. All these girls ain't loyal one bit bro

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

If you have the fear of God, there is no way you will have sex before marriage and you won’t feel guilty somehow

Do it more hard harder hardest next time she will sing your praises

That's a good girl brother! Trust me, she'll be free after marriage and would be a good wife too. Thank me later

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

koladata:
its normal, some young people who are still God fearing believes sex is a big sin. Everything will be fine after marriage .

i think i agree with you..

Op , answer the question
Shey na you open her temple gate.

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

You seem really confused. There is nothing like betraying upbringing. Her conscience doesn't support it and that's it. Stop intellectualizing error.

You are drawing against uncleared effect.

Kvng6464:
Maybe you know sabi knack well

He shud knack d fear out of her

She is morally more sensitive tha than you are.


Pls go anf marry that girl or just leave her alone.

Stop devouring her already, she's not yet yours.


Don't you get the point?

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

If you can sleep with her and you love her, then marry her. Let's not go into sermon of premarital sex, that's very wrong, but that is what is making her feel guilty. The world is so gone to the devil that people now see the wrong as right.
Young man,go and marry her or stop sexual intimacy with her. There's no gain in what you are doing right now.