Romance › Re: Miss NAIRALAND December 2014 Contest (nomination & Verification) by Oahray: 9:58am On Oct 27, 2014 |
This one go sweet... *watching intently* |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid Vs Barcelona: El Clasico (3 - 1) On 25th October 2014 by Oahray: 5:40pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
4 yellow cards for Barca. Ref how far you? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Edo State Forum: If You Are From Edo State Please Identify Urself Here by Oahray: 2:06pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
Hmmm... |
Romance › Re: Ladies Pls...your Views On This!! by Oahray: 12:30pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
You seem more upset with him forgetting his lies than you are with his lying at all. I might be wrong, but that's how I see it.
When a partner notices you prefer sweet lies to bitter truth (and many girls do), he'd soon learn to serve it hot as often as possible. Serious lies errode trust, so I wonder why people like that silly quote about lying being a way to respect a woman.
Justice demands you start from yourself though. If you tell him lies, it doesn't make sense to expect him not to reciprocate. If you are sure you don't lie to him, then you can proceed with trying to get him to stop.
Be observant, lying usually follows a pattern. Note the times you catch him in a lie and try to discern why he lied those times. Could it be fear of upsetting you? The need to impress you? To avoid responsibility for action or lack of it? That would help you know what to do about it. |
Romance › Re: Guys by Oahray: 12:09pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
jejemanito: what in God's holy name is this op saying?  heaven knows I have no clue  |
Romance › Re: Love And Infatuation? by Oahray: 7:38am On Oct 25, 2014 |
Vikkyk10: and y shld i? cos it's not all the time a guy tries to get to know you in the middle of a "love vs infatuation" discussion. |
Romance › Re: Love And Infatuation? by Oahray: 10:53pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
Vikkyk10: hm,u wana knw me beta ke?Laelae i no gree. instead of you to dey jump for joy  |
Romance › Re: Love And Infatuation? by Oahray: 6:45pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
Love is self-sacrificing. Infatuation flees when threatened or disappointed. |
Romance › Re: Pls I Need Your Opinion by Oahray: 5:06pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
If we can work out how I'd get to receive my calls, yes... I can. |
Romance › Re: On Male Chauvinism by Oahray: 4:29pm On Oct 24, 2014*. Modified: 5:48pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
Well I'm sure very few persons would look down on a smart girl.
Don't get me wrong, many girls are smart, but most (even the smart ones) are mentally lazy, unwilling to channel the power of their minds, but expecting applause for an average or even less output (when you don't applaud them, they feel victimized for gender reasons)
Do this experiment. Think up three ridiculously twisted brain teasers whose answers cannot be found with a simple Google search. Send them to 10 random persons on WhatsApp, 5 girls and 5 boys, in any order you like. Take note of the number of persons of either gender who: 1) attempt the questions at all 2) attempt the most questions 3) get the most correct answers. |
Forum Games › Re: If The Nairalander Above U Was An Animal, Which Animal Do U Think He/she Is? by Oahray: 3:01pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
Salamander |
Celebrities › Re: Meet Man Who Can Transform Into 16 Celebs With Just Makeup (pics) by Oahray: 2:48pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
Lol. The Nicki and Riri versions though  Awesome on the whole. |
Phones › Re: My top 5 utility apps You Must Download For Your Android Device by Oahray: 10:41am On Oct 23, 2014 |
TechyGirl: Nah i dont think it works that way though.. the reason being that if several people have your number and named it differently which one would true caller pick. i think how it works is if i save your number IN THE TRUE CALLER APP as tobi.. everybody gets to see it as that even if someone else might save your number in their SMARTPHONE as GOAT.. .. plus you can also unlist your number from true callers directory.. you don't save your contact details there by yourself, unless when you help suggest a name for a number you've searched. They take it themselves, picking the most common name, or else the first name. Even people who have no clue what truecaller is, have their names there thanks to the phonebook of truecaller users. Who would unlist them? You? |
Phones › Re: New BBM Beta: Ultra-private, Yours To Control by Oahray: 7:05am On Oct 23, 2014 |
Awesome! I await...  |
Phones › Re: My top 5 utility apps You Must Download For Your Android Device by Oahray: 7:03am On Oct 23, 2014 |
A very girly list. For me, ES File Explorer and SwiftKey are the only real deal there.
True caller uploads info from your phonebook into it's database without permission, and even tries to make profit from the data it steals. I detest the privacy violation. Whatever ID you see there is simply what has been taken from the contacts of another user (without permission), nothing magical. So if you are called 'goat' in their contacts, welcome goat, to truecaller... |
Phones › Re: Which Browser Is The Fastest For Downloading Large Files? by Oahray: 9:25pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Wapzydasilva: Tnx bro...I tried mozilla for droids nd I tot its faster dan uc web..I downloaded a zip file of 1.5gig completely only 4 me nt to find it on my fone lmao!  |
Education › Re: A Ghost In Alvan Ikoku College Of Education by Oahray: 9:19pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
I no understand this kind herd mentality sha, bros no vex... Crying over something she didn't witness? A report that's obviously exaggerated and embellished? Smh... No be only ghost. Dragon nko?
All I can say is, blind panic is animal instinct. |
Romance › Re: What Are The Typical Naija Ways Of Being Romantic? by Oahray: 10:36am On Oct 14, 2014 |
KiddaBlingzz: trust me, you don't wanna be romantic with most naija babes  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 10:35am On Oct 14, 2014 |
This thread still dey? Hmmm |
Romance › Re: Why Do Most Naija Babes Keep Multiple Boyfriends? by Oahray: 9:56am On Oct 14, 2014 |
julisa2020: hmmm....my own opininion is that guyz are SOMETIMES the cause...for me the only reason i kept a multiple relationship(like two years ago) was that these guys kept pressurizing me to date them even when i already told them i had a boyfriend...it became very disturbing that i had to date them all(about three different guy plus my boyfriend)...i mean...imagine a guy telling you "i dont mind being the second/third/fourth guy in your life,all i care is that I'm with you...and even if you dont love me now ,later you would"...gosh it was so shocking...lemme stop here
PS..my opinion/excuse for multiple dating  lol. Girls... They are never responsible for their own actions. Guys must be the cause. |
Christianity Etc › Re: How Well Do U Know Your Bible? by Oahray: 9:11am On Oct 14, 2014 |
Patmos* |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Opinion: I Think I'm The Prettiest On Nairaland. by Oahray: 7:05pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Gosh, such vanity!  |
Forum Games › Re: The Comment Without Any 'Like', Wins. (LIKERS' PARADISE) by Oahray: 6:30pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Like this post if you agree say you no get sense  |
Romance › Re: Do This And She Will Call You Back After She Refused Picking Your Calls by Oahray: 8:32am On Oct 13, 2014 |
Why would you call a girl 26 times without any response? If you no get work to do, close your eyes and sleep  |
Romance › Re: Top 7 Actions That Makes You Dumb As A Lady by Oahray: 4:09pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
tosyne2much: alryt brother.... thanks for ya comment you are welcome |
Romance › Re: Top 7 Actions That Makes You Dumb As A Lady by Oahray: 4:05pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Ok this thread is lame at bedridden level.
Most of those stuff only describe 'shameless', and most times require at least a certain level of intellect to work.
If you fall mugu for a girl as described in your number 1, how come she's the dumb one? I dey shame for the op and all those giving this thread the thumbs up. |
Romance › Re: Romance In Nigeria Is Impossible (my Experience) by Oahray: 8:11am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Lol. Silly thread but funny all the same  |
Romance › Re: Nearly Half Of Women In Relationships Have A Back-up Guy by Oahray: 1:01am On Oct 12, 2014 |
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Romance › Re: Nearly Half Of Women In Relationships Have A Back-up Guy by Oahray: 12:53am On Oct 12, 2014 |
folameme: Exactly na dem get d wahala hehehehehehe*lmao* smh. So fake. A girl who can e-laugh this hard at something so not funny, can keep up to five backups without a pang of conscience. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Linda Ikeji's Blog Is Recruiting by Oahray: 6:37pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
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Family › Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Oahray: 11:37am On Oct 10, 2014 |
alutacontinua: If I were you, I'll go ahead and apologize Men are big babies  shey you'd be in the same house with her if it boomerangs?  |
Family › Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Oahray: 11:33am On Oct 10, 2014 |
Chaulay1: Good morning to you all!
Please I need an advice on this issue. If your hubby had a disagreement with an elderly neighbour although if most of the exchange was through text messages and it was obvious your hubby went overboard and was using rude languages. Is it proper for the wife to call the elderly neighbour and apologise. This scenario happened to me, I witnessed the hot phone conversation and later hubby showed me the series of messages exchanged. I felt very bad because his choice of words were rather uncalled for. He gets angry very easily and I didn't want him to transfer the aggression to me. Telling him to apologize to the woman will definitely meet a brick wall and I don't want him to go moody on me which may last for days. I am thinking of doing it myself but I if he knows that may be another issue.
Is it okay to go ahead and apologize myself?
(Sorry if the question sounds silly ) whatever you do, make sure he knows. The woman wouldn't apologise to you if your husband transfers the aggression for going behind his back. You know your husband better than we do. Do you guys have heart-to-heart moments? Try to get him in a good mood. Then really talk. Tell him how it makes you feel when he gets uncontrollably upset. Not how unpleasant his temper is (talking in attack mode attracts self-defence), he likely knows that. Just how it makes you feel, especially/including this incident. Then tell him how happy you'd be if he could iron things out with her, or at least LET YOU talk to the lady. Any loving husband would care how his actions makes his wife feel. |