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Caracta: Yes. Seriously. Maybe you should just define or outline ALL wifey materials you know. Because i have married people around me...i can't place it.

If you are thinking sex, forget it. I'm sure many peeps do not see it as a marriage thing in the first place.

ifihearam: you be really woman wrapper sha
shuoooo

If that translates to being a good husband, ok.
At least I no be footmat like you were cos of e-val

Maya2pretty: lemme oh! Who r u na pls?

The same guy that called you Amina

ifihearam: ole

leave am jor

Idowuogbo: Tenk u! Na so iwe like am.

Maya2pretty: Whether d guy is just a jerk or d lady is a bimbo, women should never enslave themselves to any man for any reason and with any means, no matter wat u do, if its not meant to b den it won't b

True... Neither should men worship any woman for any reason, cos they would still end up being ex anyway. For example...

ifihearam: woman wrapper

Say whatever you like. The world does not revolve round any human, male or female.

nitlad: Guy stop chatting bollocks jor
Shey Chelsea nor reach semi for 03/04 ni abi WTF you going on about

That's true, they got knocked out by monaco in the semis.

ifihearam: when does it become a duty ni?

when it becomes the man's duty to provide for her needs.

Maya2pretty: True, my on take on slavery in dis context is wen d guy abuses u and ur good intentions and treats u like his 1500 naira house girl den most idiots would force sex on u as change to d 1500 value they attached to u, we all need to b wise in anythin we do

Everything has a price, even love. It might not be monetary. If the scenario you just painted happens, it's only because the lady placed a N1500 price tag on herself, and it has nothing to do with helping her bf out with stuff.

More often than not, abuse is birthed from her overdependence (financial or emotional) on the guy. It's easier to disrespect someone depending on you than someone you depend on. I'm sure you know that.

ifihearam: ogoro face wetin?

Ifihearam, where that ya e-babe?

Idowuogbo: U dey mind d akpu head?

You get soup dia?

ifihearam: So performing your duties has transformed into slavery for 2013 babes??
na wa oooo

It's not a duty sha.

CFCfan: Arsenal's trophyless run continues..

Meanwhile, there is a real possibility that no English team will advance to the quarter-finals. The 2003/2004 season was the last time such had happened;
and guess what? Mourinho won the trophy that season with Porto.

and with the last sentence, your point is?

Maya2pretty: My ex couldn't even
cook indomie properly, it was my greatest delight to cook for him at every given opportunity while he worshipped me lol but he eventually d basics of cookin cos I insisted dat he learnt somethings so he won't b totally dependent. If dere's love den it'l b ur pleasure to help out, not become a slave

I like the bold part. Nice point. But this is an example of what I am saying... It's a thing of pride for you that he 'worshipped' you. Probably showering you with stuff. I'm sure no girl in this situation would object.
But something as petty as cooking could make the girl a 'slave'. Why? Cos most girls are only after what they can get, not what they can give.

If doing something for her so-called bf makes a girl feel like a slave, it really says alot about the kind of person she is.

It's not my intention to say if it's right or not. I only know that if you love someone, you'd look for ways to make the person happy. Give and take.

But seriously, girls, why una like double standards like this?

I remember one thread in which the op called her bf (not husband) of four years stingy for not replacing her stolen phones on two occasions, and instead going ahead to buy phones for himself.
Most girls on the thread immediately started the "stingy bfs make stingy husbands" song. Only a few agreed that providing is the duty of a husband, not a bf.

Now it's the turn of the ladies, the roles of bfs/gfs suddenly gets revised. It's suddenly not right this time cos he has not put a ring on her finger yet. Like seriously?

As for the topic, it never mentioned how often. It only asks if it is write right to do them.
If you say NO on the basis of 'no ring yet', you have no right to expect things only a husband is obliged to give either.

Idowuogbo: Ur kini

You wanna do wifely things?

Idowuogbo: Pass d odeku

Sure. As soon as I know what it is

Idowuogbo: U see una? Persin call me housegal u no talk, now hyprogawdknowswadafevkshesonabout u no talk. na wen man pikin wan unleash d gladiator u con dey hol am for waist, is dis fair?

lmao... Chillax jor.

@op abeg edit the topic na. I can't get past the 'write'

Handwriting... Wifely duties...

ItsModella: No, I don't subscribe to cohabiting. But it doesn't take cohabiting to do wifey things for your boyfriend everyday.

how? Going to his house everyday from your own?

I hate coming late to parties

@topic, yes it is write!

dont8:

guy, why you dey dig up bones buried in the past?

Acidosis: *nods in agreement with the bolded*
Even concortion rice can be expensive to make depending on what you want to add...

no be lie

ItsModella: unfortunately for me and fortunately for you, I can't properly respond to this now...I'll be back in a couple of hours to finish this.

This babe stubborn o Enjoy your economics documentary jare.

^^ To the bones!

ItsModella:
@Oahray...see you this Esan Antelope, why won't you say fried rice is hype? when all you do is swallow yam and owo soup...

lol... Ndigbo doe, na you sabi.
Fried rice is like blackberry. More hype than substance. People rate it so highly cos:
(1) They do not get to eat it often.
(2) Of the time (mostly spent chopping/grating) and expenses needed to make it come out nice.
(3) Of the chicken which almost always follows it, and which alot of peeps see as luxury.

I'm not a fan of carrots, and I see chicken as just any other meat.
Gimme eba/pounded yam and one better soup there endowed with with plenty meat and I'd stone you with your fried rice.