₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,330,978 members, 8,448,064 topics. Date: Sunday, 19 July 2026 at 04:48 PM

Toggle theme

Obidikejr's Posts

Nairaland ForumObidikejr's ProfileObidikejr's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 (of 26 pages)

EducationRe: Shortlisted Candidates For The 2018 Xfire N'land Undergraduate Scholarship Test by Obidikejr(m): 8:58pm On Jan 21, 2018
Odunharry:
Noted.
done.. thanks
EducationRe: Shortlisted Candidates For The 2018 Xfire N'land Undergraduate Scholarship Test by Obidikejr(m): 10:03pm On Jan 20, 2018
Odunharry:
If you didn't get a mail, Please don't post your emails again. Just quote this post.
We will do something about it.

Please don't quote and provide your emails. We have your emails already so we know how to go about it.

Posting your emails will lead to disqualification.
Candidate no. 205

yet to receive the email
EducationRe: Shortlisted Candidates For The 2018 Xfire N'land Undergraduate Scholarship Test by Obidikejr(m): 9:57pm On Jan 20, 2018
Obidikejr:
Haven't seen the test email
paulsonbarrypaul@gmail.com
Odunharry oh pls
EducationRe: Shortlisted Candidates For The 2018 Xfire N'land Undergraduate Scholarship Test by Obidikejr(m):
Haven't seen the test email
CareerRe: How To Start And Grow Your Modeling Career - Johnspeak Uwangue by Obidikejr(m): 5:01pm On Jan 20, 2018
Check my Signature, see what we are up to...

check my handles on IG... Lego... Abuja based fashion model and Founder of classiqgents_ afp
FamilyRe: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Obidikejr(m): 4:41pm On Jan 20, 2018
Chiefly:
cheesy oh really?? That's good to know mate. Keep it up! cool
yeah thanks... send me a DM on IG... check signature
TravelRe: Nigerian Students In Germany..how Do You Survive?? by Obidikejr(m): 1:41am On Jan 14, 2018
chaiks:
hello. please any university I can get free tuition for masters in international relations?
Filter searches using daad.de/en .... U can get courses closely relation but not exact
TravelRe: Nigerian Students In Germany..how Do You Survive?? by Obidikejr(m): 1:40am On Jan 14, 2018
monique2002:
Luvly thread, though ït seems d topic z not been actively addressed. Where all d 'badt' guys for Germany wey dey hustle? Comment na.. Where kelly (4gotten his username on NL) wey dey chop €1250/month part time work 4 wiegatten? E wan even bring im wife sef to come join nd work. As 4 me started working during 1st semestr hols. Did some nanny/babysitting for some nigerians nd Africans ïn Berlin. Didn't pay much bt ït was enough for my monthly xpenses. Den some part time cleaning ïn a kindergarten from 4pm to 8pm, mon-fri. Paid €10/hr. Now aftr my internship, planning to go join kelly 4 wiegartten, so me sef fit chop €2000/month for factory work. wink. No b only guys dey hustle, babes must hustle too!
Hi monique2002, are u still in Germany?

How is the life?

Are u done with all your study programmes?

Ant tips & advice? Will really appreciate.
TravelRe: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 4 by Obidikejr(m): 7:21pm On Jan 13, 2018
donkafor:
@Obidikejr,

I can't answer all your questions. It's an assignment without earned value cos it seems you are enjoying Nigeria. I am also not here to convince you but to help those who have decided to be in Deutschland.

A Nigerian supervising a construction site is hard as you need a special qualification and good knowledge of German for that. You can work under someone and still earn a lot of money. The industry pays very well.

For combining classes with work, you sort it out yourself as lectures are not done through out the day. Classes last for 1.30 mins. Lectures are also recorded so you watch at your own convenient time. Not all schools does this though.

Good luck grin
Hahahahaha
.... Bros thanks ... I really appreciate... Lemme PM u.
I go like someone like u as brother in law... Hope them never marry finish
RomanceClosed Thread by Obidikejr(op):
Closed... X
FamilyRe: My Wife Nags A Lot by Obidikejr(m): 2:47pm On Jan 13, 2018
mkpurumma090:
Lol.. Always do as she said tongue
As per feminist abi
FamilyRe: My Wife Nags A Lot by Obidikejr(m): 2:46pm On Jan 13, 2018
kaziblake:
Sir she correcting you doesn't make her a nagging wife pls...imagine wearing a jean and shirt to church,she is your wife and she has the right to correct you in your choice of dressings and decisions.
Your choice of dressing to church wasn't even apporaite at all because when you get to church its still her they will blame for your dressing.
Did I just read this correctly? huh
kaziblake:
Sir she correcting you doesn't make her a nagging wife pls...imagine wearing a jean and shirt to church,she is your wife and she has the right to correct you in your choice of dressings and decisions.
Your choice of dressing to church wasn't even apporaite at all because when you get to church its still her they will blame for your dressing.
Did I just read this correctly?
TravelRe: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 4 by Obidikejr(m): 1:09pm On Jan 13, 2018
donkafor:
Since you are in your final year. My advice is to focus on your studies and graduate well. After that, you might decide to travel before or after NYSC. There's no guarantee when your NYSC call up will be. Only after graduation can you decide when you want to travel. Good luck in your final exams.
grin
Odogwu ekelem gi .... Nna I still get more questions... u know I wan clarify this things now so when I am faced with them I will be able to tactical manage them without much stress... yes i will focus on my studies... i will appreciate your answers on the questions below... most of us wan travel but no one is asking how is the life over there & how have you cope...

2. The question of built engineering/construction will like to know
what's the nature of the industry over there?

2a. How often have you seen an African supervise or head
construction site, as site engineers.

3. Are you in the country right now? How long have you
been?

3a. Have you been able to get a part-time job? How long
did it take you to get one?

4. How have you been able to manage school & work
schedule?
E.g in Nigeria we still have lectures that starts 9am &
ends 6pm... How do you cope?

5. What is the most sort after job in Germany? Although
not necessarily the highest paid.

6. You know, I have met a few Germany Nationals online,
ladies specifically, and they are really open about dating
Africans... In reality,over there & based on your
experience .. How open are Germany ladies towards
dating African?.. And our naija girls over there, their head
done cool down?

thank you thank you & thank you
TravelRe: Studying Abroad? Comparatively Assess Your Country Of Study by Obidikejr(m): 12:41pm On Jan 13, 2018
Eke40seven:
1. Information Technology
2. No idea. May be architecture.
3. Ease of jobs depends on the city, read the main thread for more details.
4. Different people different courses different jobs different strategies. You have to work on your schedule.
5. IT, I might be wrong.
6. Experience differs but generally, German ladies are very independent, I don't think many are so open to relationship that much, not to you and not to their kind. Most meet their boyfriend early in their early teens. At least, the gist of the craze for BBC is not something i see here.

Read the thread for more details..
thank you!
CrimeRe: "My Roomate Cut Me With Razor Blade, Because I'm More Beautiful Than Her" by Obidikejr(m): 11:08am On Jan 12, 2018
slawomir:
don't mind them. and the worse part is that they pretend to love each other but deep down in their heart they hate each other.
they are jealous of each other too much.
but we guys pretend to hate each other but deep down we love each other.

take for example this can be a conversation between two girls
cynthia: hello baby
Jennifer : hi sweetheart
Cynthia : are you at home
Jennifer : am at home dear
Cynthia : OK am coming to your house. prepare something sweet o
Jennifer : alright i will prepare something good ( after the call. deep down in Jennifer's heart is like where this winch say make i see money take prepare something sweet)


but the boys conversation is like
kevin: mumu how far?
terry: your father.
kevin: you dey house. I be want reach your side. wetin you cook self? I dey H (hungry)
Terry : o boy no level o. na this side worse pass. na garri i even drink sleep yesterday. but show first maybe we go just enter them tunde side go flex. four hundred naira dey with me, we go just buy three cup of rice. tunde go get Maggi and pepper. then the remaining hundred naira we go just track bet 9ja later make we play Liverpool and man city goal goal or over 2.5

that is boys life for you very simple



girls hatred for themselves na die
even my cousin is a Uniben security personnel.
sometimes the guy go just dey tell us how the female students dey quarrel almost all the time for their hostel and them go settle them tire. even things when nor reach them quarrel about go still cause quarrel.
but the guys don't quarrel at all. the only report they do receive is that of stealing. like laptops and phones.
Hahahahaha
TravelRe: Studying Abroad? Comparatively Assess Your Country Of Study by Obidikejr(m): 10:56am On Jan 12, 2018
Eke40seven:
I will try to answer the most important questions for now.
1.You have a Bsc you don't need SK certainly. But German is important to get jobs easily and for everyday life and survival. You apply to as many as possible, there are no guarantees, the higher you GP the better your chances

2. Earn? When I don't understand. Better German better opportunities in all sectors.
Germany have changed their laws regarding students so it's now easier for students to get visas.
3. PHD or job may be different people different opportunities, just develop your skillset especially IT and learn German.
I hope you find this useful.
Danke for your prompt response. Really appreciated...

1.When you say develop your skillset, The IT you meant is it Information Technology or Industrial Training?

2. The question of the built/construction will like to know what's the nature of the industry over there?

2a. How often have you seen African supervise or head construction site, as site engineers.

3. Are you in the country right now? How long have you been?

3a. Have you been able to get a part-time job? How long did it take you to get one?

4. How have you been able to manage school & work schedule?
E.g in Nigeria we still have lectures that starts 9am & ends 6pm... How do you cope?

5. What is the most sort after job in Germany? Although not necessarily the highest paid.

6. You know, I have met a few Germany Nationals online, ladies specifically, and they are really open about dating Africans... In reality,over there & based on your experience .. How open are Germany ladies towards dating African?.. And our naija girls over there, their head done cool down?
TravelRe: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 4 by Obidikejr(m): 10:40am On Jan 12, 2018
Immafrank:
Motivation letter is a write up stating your reasons for applying for a particular course, that particular school, you must be able to convince them on why they should admit you. A well constructed motivation letter increases the chance of admission.

Nigeria is not a native speaker of English, you need to get a proof that your language of instruction during your bsc was English from your school registrar, they know how to do that. check your school requirements cuz some German university accepts this letters and some require you do English proficiency exam.

You need to make more research on your own by reading previous post on page 2 and page 3 to reduce grilling ppl here. Also make daad.de/en your friend. Bless up
Danke sher... Appreciate smiley
RomanceRe: A Date With Bolanle Ninalowo Or ₦200,000? See People's Reaction (Snapshots) by Obidikejr(m): 2:29am On Jan 12, 2018
Safiaaa:
what do you mean?
Maybe I want to date you, or just may be I noticed how oblivious you are to the fact this is a very successful young man in his career, a position the average Jo or even a PhD holder would clamour for,I mean being successful... But your first impression of him was nothing other than his physical features and how he doesn't match up to your taste... It's just funny hehehe grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Obidikejr(m): 2:12am On Jan 12, 2018
DrinkLimca:
Bro its the truth o..

They form posh in romance land while they scratch their Toto every minutes because of infection caused by dirty in the Toto..

If any romance land lady open her pants for you..

You will vomit.
Speaking from experience? Hehehe
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Obidikejr(m): 1:37am On Jan 12, 2018
funmisticqueen:
nope it simply means your sisters' husbands have learned to swallow bullshit in the name of marriage. It is simple human nature to behave like a boss once the opportunity shows itself.
Your views on this are myopic at best, I have experienced first hand,on two occasions actually where

1. The couples are both on the apex of their individual pursuit for knowledge, both are professors.

2. The Wife is the primary breadwinner.

I lived partly with one of those couples for some years and never was there an issue of power struggle, they loved each other so deeply things like that never hindered their union, and that was just enough.

You've probably had bad experiences but that's just it, what was bad for A might be too perfect to be true for B.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Obidikejr(m): 1:01am On Jan 12, 2018
Xiadnat:
Thank you! For this expose.

This is all i have being trying to say and have being wanting to pen for long time in this forum.

This has been my experience with most Nigerian men even the ones that live Outside Africa/Nigeria.


Its the reason most of nigerian men will prefer ugly fat usually white foreigners who cater to their fragile and misplaced ego than marry a well educated good looking (Black)woman who is fierecely her own person..

When you demand or challenge them to be better, they call you “difficult” or something similar.


Collectively, Nigerian men have misplaced ego/pride/stubborness because that same pride cannot be put to good use to better Nigeria as a country. . What it is really is low self esteem or self hatred in disguise.

Its a generational curse and stronghold that needs to be broken.

And yes! This write up extends to what i ahve observed in this forum too.

Very well said.

PS watch out tho, they are coming to burn you at stake.
@the bolded.... That moment when the whole affairs & livelihood of an entire nation depends on men's pride... Lwkmd..Baby u killed this one grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: A Date With Bolanle Ninalowo Or ₦200,000? See People's Reaction (Snapshots) by Obidikejr(m): 12:51am On Jan 12, 2018
Safiaaa:
Its not about being poor, the fact is that this man is not appetizing. Nothing to shout over, face is average.
Hehehe who are u dating now
RomanceRe: A Date With Bolanle Ninalowo Or ₦200,000? See People's Reaction (Snapshots) by Obidikejr(m): 12:50am On Jan 12, 2018
neloyah:
I'll choose 10mb over this dude!
Lwkmd grin
TravelRe: General German Student Visa Enquiries Part 4 by Obidikejr(m): 12:45am On Jan 12, 2018
BabaEuro:
Since you will be completing your NYSC towards the end of 2019, you can prepare ahead for summer semester starting March/April 2020.

Applications for such school normally starts from September/October/November 2019 depending on the school and will ends in January 15th 2020 as the case may be. So prepare all your documents down and apply as early as possible.You don't need to complete your NYSC before you apply as NYSC certificate is not that significant.Your B.Sc result and transcripts, SSCE, Proof of English are the most important things to consider. Others that could also be required are Recommendation letters, Motivation letters, CV.
Thanks... The motivation letter is like an essay about why you wanto study there is it?
Does the fact am a native speaker of the English language cover for proof of English proficiency?

Are you in Germany now?

Thanks.. Waiting for your earnest reply.
FamilyRe: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Obidikejr(m): 9:26pm On Jan 11, 2018
dhabrite:
An arranged marriage? sad
It eventually didn't work out... The Bros bailed lol...
RomanceRe: Mention A Nairalander You'll Love To Spend One Week With Here(Photo) by Obidikejr(m): 8:59pm On Jan 11, 2018
shinarlaura:
Let me think.

A whole week under this kind condition tongue. Kissing, romancing and lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed tongue tongue tongue
And shagging in the shag port (other room) lol... Are you singular? ... If you are or aren't doesn't matter... Na me and you for that place for 1 week angry
FamilyRe: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Obidikejr(m): 8:30pm On Jan 11, 2018
dhabrite:
You don enter am...ntorrr

Shebi I warn you no gree, I tell you but you no hear

Frankly speaking, at this age are there still arranged marriages?

shocked

God forbid bad thing?

This kind scene, na only for Nollywood movies ah dey see am o, you sure this not some script
It happens... Experienced it second hand...
FamilyRe: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Obidikejr(m): 8:07pm On Jan 11, 2018
Chiefly:
Yeah. Exactly.

Umm, bro.. Guys are generally insecure this days and with the whole Alpha male controversy, dude thinks he always have to prove a point... What if he walks out and things get out of hand.. He'll still face the consequences eventually.
I like your signature... Amongst all I am only not of military heritage. wink
FamilyRe: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Obidikejr(m): 8:02pm On Jan 11, 2018
Blackhawk03:
Hahahaha cheesy grin cheesy grin

Babez! She picks fight with others unnecessarily, not because of him. She's just a stubborn goat. Who enjoys show of shame, anyways? huh

Op, don't stand up for her one day. She picked her fight, let her battle it out with the person. She needs to start taking responsibility for her childish acts, just walk out the moment she starts.
Hahahahaha best advice... @chiefly you need to let her fight her battles a couple of times .. Really u need to walk away
FamilyRe: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Picking Fights For Me... by Obidikejr(m): 7:57pm On Jan 11, 2018
pocohantas:
1: Narcissism.

2: She loves you much and can't stand anyone annoying you in public. That's why a woman can call her man stupid and feel it's nothing. Let a third party try it and watch her bring White House Down . She always expects you to back her up, because she needs to prove she isn't fighting for someone who gives no fck.
Number 2 sounds utterly stupid

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 (of 26 pages)