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RomanceRe: . by obinna58(m): 8:05am On Aug 02, 2023
skj1377:
Chairman if your girlfriend needs money especially if you don't give her monthly upkeep allowance you have to give her. Where do you expect her to always get moneyhuh Next time try and date a girl working to avoid constant billing. That's my advice.
Og simp
RomanceRe: If You Find Out That Your Husband Is Impotent After Marriage, What Will You Do? by obinna58(m): 4:21pm On Aug 01, 2023
DiamondPant:
My husband will not be impotent after marriage because I'll get pregnant before we marry.
I don't want to hear stories.
"No sex before marriage" crusaders should avoid me.

RomanceRe: Marry A Woman Who Respects Her Father. by obinna58(m): 1:12pm On Aug 01, 2023
Yugoslavia247:
That is all I can say.

A woman who honours her Father will honour her Husband.

Except in very rare occassions.

You see those women who do not regard their papa.

They are no good.
This is very true
PhonesRe: Which Phone Battery Last Very Long; As Well As Solar Power Bank by obinna58(m): 7:59am On Aug 01, 2023
Solar power bank does not exist
RomanceRe: 5 Things Husbands Secretly Desire From Their Wives. by obinna58(m): 9:46pm On Jul 31, 2023
There’s not interesting about touching a man’s butt, it’s sweet the otherway round, reminds me of a girl that use to like touching my butt, infact the more you tell her to stop the more fun it becomes for her, not like she’s my girlfriend, why a girl would like strong butt surprises me
PoliticsRe: Transcript Of President Tinubu's Speech On The Current Economic Challenges by obinna58(m): 9:24pm On Jul 31, 2023
BOUNTYDOG:
I think he meets all listed above
We’re far behind compared to countries that caught up with the list

It’s very simple but our government keeps trying an advanced formula of boosting economy knowing fully well it’ll fail, believe me just like fuel subsidy removal, sooner or later when our major source of revenues dries up, government would be forced to be more productive with its owned businesses leading to restrictions and new ruling implementations esp on taxes, equivalent to forcing more hardship on people

Let them keep wasting our resources, at some point natural balance will come fighting
PoliticsRe: Transcript Of President Tinubu's Speech On The Current Economic Challenges by obinna58(m): 8:54pm On Jul 31, 2023
Government looking for businesses they can loan money sounds very stupid, why is government owned businesses not working?
He’s just talking about sharing formula, fighting corruption to do same corruption in a different format

Work on electricity
Put effort and work force in government owned facilities
Focus on creation of employment
Direct money massively on agriculture
Show transparency to the citizens so we know where we’re losing money and patch it up
PoliticsRe: Enugu Shuts Down As Sit At Home Bites Harder by obinna58(m): 12:35pm On Jul 31, 2023
When we lead ourselves to extreme poverty we still come and cry government

People are actually the problem
Imagine being forced to work and make money for yourself
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Rep.of. Ireland: FIFA Women’s World Cup (0 - 0) On 31st July 2023 by obinna58(m): 10:14am On Jul 31, 2023
Goodlady come and see what your fellow gender does on the pitch today instead of thinking what a match stick dvk some men have and deserves to be cheated on

Ireland are getting trashed today by our beautiful ladies
RomanceRe: For The First Time, I Understand How Men See Cheating by obinna58(m): 8:08am On Jul 31, 2023
MyExpression:
Looking at your profile...


I really wish to see these beautiful ladies who frequent Nairaland as I do.

It would be amazing, to meet someone who is intelligent enough to endure nairaland and still be active in this community.

Aside the ethnic/tribal hostility here, it takes a certain kind of mentality, for a lady to be active on this space.


......just as Twitter used to be.🤷🏽‍♂️
Simp grin
RomanceRe: For The First Time, I Understand How Men See Cheating by obinna58(m): 7:28am On Jul 31, 2023
A woman cheating is disrespectful, disgusting and when the man thinks how she was being dug ruthlessly, mercilessly by the hungry thief with probably bigger dvk it becomes a whole new level of annoyance and disgust
RomanceRe: Losing Attraction To Women. by obinna58(m): 12:20pm On Jul 30, 2023
You’re realizing the true realities of the gender
When you understand women for what they are, you’ll start losing interest in them
FamilyRe: What I Noticed About My Uncle's Child by obinna58(m): 10:59pm On Jul 27, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Learn to re-learn what exactly? Experts agree that a 5-year old brain is not capable of what you claim but you refuse their verdict in order that you can continue to spew venom against people in Africa and lack of direction.... are you certain you are OK in the head at all? undecided
The thread is not talking about experts agreement, you’re probably an f gender
FamilyRe: What I Noticed About My Uncle's Child by obinna58(m): 10:42pm On Jul 27, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Who are the "they" that did what to you abeg? And since when did the recommendations for 4-6- year old brains published by WebMD become subjected to your African mental ignorance? undecided
I’m not surprised you can’t connect dots

All I’m saying is learn to relearn, throw away some stupid unreasonable emotional discipline taught by our parents, many people in Africa lack directions and hardly identifies right and wrong because of what we are taught
FamilyRe: What I Noticed About My Uncle's Child by obinna58(m): 10:30pm On Jul 27, 2023
Kobojunkie:
A 4 or 5 year old brain can't. It has not developed to the point of being able to handle such strain. undecided
grin
That’s not your problem, your problem is african mental ignorance, he/she can not watch tv at midnight because they did same thing to you

Let’s learn to correct past mistakes, I even see some parents not allowing their kids to use phones because they’re not of certain age

Very shameful
RomanceRe: Why Are 9ja Ladies Allowing Men Record Themselves During Sex??? by obinna58(m): 9:48pm On Jul 27, 2023
You can’t say no to some men especially if he has your mumu button
FamilyRe: What I Noticed About My Uncle's Child by obinna58(m): 8:19pm On Jul 27, 2023
Kobojunkie:
What kids can do that? You haven't spent sufficient time with kids, have you ? undecided

The brain of a 4 or 5 year old is still developing and needs approximately 10 hours of rest each night. If insomnia is the problem, watching TV does not help but hurt.. undecided
Good reason but what if he can the kid can still complete his/her duties, does that mean watch tv at midnight is not a problem?
FamilyRe: What I Noticed About My Uncle's Child by obinna58(m): 4:39pm On Jul 27, 2023
kokoBoii:
Honestly e dey pain me sey some people for this generation still thinks the way our parents used to think back in the day...You see some fool saying the boy will be dull in school 😂 As if Na TV dey make person dull...Any child that is dull already is dull, even if him dey read book from morning till night, he will still be dull...Same goes for a child who is smart, even if he watches TV from morning till night, the TV can not make him dull, or perform any less in school...Some Africans mentality dey vex me at times
The funny part is that their type of discipline makes kids even dumber

This is why all this developed countries are way ahead of us, we can’t reason why it’s wrong to do something but willing to die on it because we just feel it’s wrong, and that’s final

Ignorant people
FamilyRe: What I Noticed About My Uncle's Child by obinna58(m): 4:33pm On Jul 27, 2023
VinnyBaba:
EVERYTHING! sad

A Child is supposed to get up early, brush his/her teeth,
Say prayers if necessary, Bath, and start thinking of getting ready for School.

Not rushing to put on TV @5am.😕

Plz, when you grow up, Train ur Kids Properly, OK? 😏
This is not a reason, a kid can watch tv all night and still meet up fine with his/her responsibilities

Our parents got it all wrong, let’s for Christ sake move with directions and reasons
FamilyRe: What I Noticed About My Uncle's Child by obinna58(m): 12:19pm On Jul 27, 2023
So what’s wrong with a kid watching cartoons 1 or 5am?
RomanceRe: Hello Friend Please I Need Your Help by obinna58(m): 9:14am On Jul 27, 2023
Mumu, you’re a mumu man
RomanceRe: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by obinna58(m): 8:42pm On Jul 26, 2023
What’s her attitude like towards your friends?
RomanceRe: Romance Between Younger And Older Girls. by obinna58(m): 9:53pm On Jul 25, 2023
Very true, no matter what you do those evening newspaper will never spill some juice for you, everytime you go Dey market Dey order lubricant
AgricultureRe: Checkout All-Black Chicken That Sells For $6000 (Pics, Video) by obinna58(m): 8:01pm On Jul 25, 2023
Black cock
Car TalkRe: List Of Cars With Good Fuel Economy by obinna58(m): 7:48pm On Jul 25, 2023
Fsboperator2:
super cars are meant to compensate for small diks in nerdy billionaires.

The bastards who buy and own super and hyper cars are too chicken shit to go pass 100km.

They be revving that engine on 2mph in car carnivals .


Gimme a practical scaled down no rubbish V8 German car and see me dust any lambo in any Street race.
Na only accident you go get, stop making mouth
FamilyRe: My To Be In-laws Are Frustrating Me by obinna58(m): 3:04pm On Jul 25, 2023
Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?
Soldier your objective at the moment is to hold your position and be ready to retreat but shoot at fire in the air, the enemy seems too little to be true, just hold and be ready to retreat no matter how deep you think you’re in the enemy territory

If her parents doesn’t give the blessing, it equals to gameover, don’t force life, balance will come to you.
RomanceRe: I Have This Issue, My Wife When I Married Her by obinna58(m): 9:50am On Jul 25, 2023
Is like we leave food begin chop sex
RomanceRe: What Is The Best Response To "WHAT ARE WE" Question? by obinna58(m): 4:38pm On Jul 24, 2023
Garri and groundnut
PoliticsRe: Asari Dokubo Raises A Private “Army” For President Tinubu by obinna58(m): 2:34pm On Jul 24, 2023
As if esn, bokoharam is not enough

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