hashbag1: Nlanders, I have been married for 9 years now, amidst several incidences that gave me suspicions over my wife's infidelity. The one that happened of recent gave me nothing more than great suspicion over any other.
My daughter and son got infection, they were admitted into the hospital. On this faithful day, I was there with them and I left the hospital in the afternoon to get something for them to eat, I got back with the food and quickly rushed down to my office to tidy some work. I felt hungry and decided to drive out, on my way to the restaurant leads to the hospital, I was in traffic when I put a call through to my wife whom I asked how she was coping and how the kids were doing, while on call with her, I heard sounds of car horns so I asked if she was out, she said yes that she was going to get water across the stree, so i was like you shouldnt have stressed yourself since the house maid was with her, next thing she yelled at me saying why am I making ascertion as to who should go get the water or not, I was like but that isnt a big deal to ask, she was like well the house girl have been the one running errands all day, I responded saying instead of yelling at me, you would have just responded by saying the above.
As a responsible and concerned father, I decided to suspend dinner and branch at the hospital which took me 8 mins to get there because of traffic. On getting to the hospital, lo and behold, my wife was not there, just the kids and the house maid. I asked the house maid where madam was, she said she stepped out without saying where she was going. I immediately put a call through to her. "Babes where are you at, just got here now and you are not here". She immediately hung up on me, I called back, she didnt pick, called her again didn't pick, waited few mins and called, she picked and yelled "why are you looking for me" I was like but you claimed you went to go get water but its been up to 15mins and you are not here yet, next thing she said was I'm in a uber car, Wow uber car when you just said you went across the street to get water, how does being in uber car relate to that. I requested a video call, I hung up the normal call and called her on whatsapp call, she didn't pick, I called her back again on normal call and said you aren't picking, she responded saying am in uber car now, call me on video again, I did but she still didnt pick. So I decided not to bother since declaring her whereabout seems frutile. She called back on normal call saying she was on her way home to pick some her items to quickly do an advertising shoot to model to her customers in the hospital room, that she didnt want me to get mad at her reason why she didn't tell me before she left, I was like its not a big deal telling me that after which I have found out she never did go out there to buy water.
Husbands and fathers in the house, in this kind of situation, what could have been your thought? As for me, something was not just right, and the most damning part of all these is leaving the kids at the mercy of just the house maid, I feel if there is something she is hiding from me and leaving the kids like that is what the issue of trust has led us to, I am left in amazement and total disappointment.
Let me help you hack her phone. You'd know d truth immediately. You would have seen her on video without her knowing. For a curious person like me. I prefer knowing she's cheating than the suspense. Than the thought of not ever knowing what's happening behind your back
Or11: You are a bastard for this post. I'm not like you who involves in incest. I'm grateful my life is better than yours, my wife is hotter and richer than yours, my kids go to better schools and have a brighter future than yours. We all don't need a visa travel around the world but you will never leave the shores of naija . Happy misery to you. You can reply to the wall now, I'm out.
Leave him, only civilized people would understand. Homosexuality is morally wrong. Yes. But I cannot view it as a crime. So long as they do their thing in secret, it doesn't affect anybody.
You see? No constitutional means can free the South form the parasitic North. The North during the military era crafted the Constitution to prevent any possibility of secession in the future.
We have to get ready to fight if we want to secede from the North. Only a revolution can save us.
1. Beneath the uneasy calm in the East lies a storm that is gathering and will blow up soon
2. Igbos are just tired of the mindless killings, tension, and unbridled fanaticism that have bedeviled the peace and serenity of the East...these people are tired of it all and just want to make their money in peace.
Igbos don't give up easily. In fact they don't give up at all. They are go getters. Anything they desire, they go for it. Nigeria should handle this case with tact, or this is what would bring about the much awaited disintegration.
Orpe7: Shatap der! The master was lured like rat that he is with cheese
I don't know you. You insulted me first. You would have posted your opinion without insulting anyone. Anyway, your insult doesn't change anything about reality. You might as well be a rat and it wouldn't affect me in any way.
Buhari has damaged Nigeria beyond repair. If Nigeria survives his tenure, it won't survive the next. Northerners have become used to lopsided appointments and bring treated better than others. When a new president from another group comes in, it's the northerners that would start the war of disintegration.
triple996: Happy democracy. Any idiot that wants to kill him/her self should go ahead
I'll sacrifice for my unborn children. The West is what it is today because of the sacrifice of people. Sit and watch the government gamble with our destiny? Nah..... Be patriotic.
We can be creative with protests. Since the police does but like conventional protest, we can decide to arrange individual protest where everybody goes about their business with a placard. By the time all citizens are moving about with placards at work, on the road.. everywhere, with the media projecting it to the whole world, the government would understand that everybody don tire.