Safitu:
OGA please go and marry a lady that will feed you since that’s what you want. Or a woman that will pet you and treat you like a child. You live in Nigeria where it’s predominantly men who provide, and you’re arguing a baseless argument that doesn’t really apply in the real world? In Nigeria, we don’t respect men who cannot provide. We don’t respect men who look for women to help them out. We don’t respect who look for corners to cut. If you’re fine with that, then please live your life peacefully and let me see road for better tin.

No wonder Nigeria and Nigerians are backwards because of this woman leeching mentality.

Cioccolata:
Yes.
But only if she swallows really well without retching.

What of when you need financial support?

I wonder if some men are still happy with just receiving only the s.ex from their girlfriends (which the women enjoy more). Men, be wise, say "No" to broke ladies.

Safitu:
Most women have cash in their bank accounts. Most women are in school/ trading/ doing some kind of business/hustling. The truth of the matter is that, if a man must come into your life, he must have something to offer. That doesn’t mean I don’t have my own money, but as a man you must show your capability to provide for me. That’s what makes you a man. How can I be paying for all my bills, and you call yourself my boyfriend? What is now your role in my life? Just to be looking at me and wasting my time? Ah beg jare.

Your view of a relationship is abject, unreasonable and selfish. What exactly will you be contributing to the man's life and please speak for yourself. Why should a rich man date you? . Unless you can give objective answers to these, you have no right to expect anything from a man

Nobodyperson:
Any woman that gives birth to a baby foolishly is on her own.
There's no law that says we men must stay, If she wants she can throw the child inside dustbin

Please ask GOD for forgiveness for this post.

mizzochocinco:
your entire village is full of goat behaviour mtchewww

Responding to him show your level of intelligence. Concerning your story, I say you will reap what you sow.

Temmywrites:


Only if I said man... I said "some" men... Dude... How many times do I have to repeat the same things over and over again... I didn't generalize things.. I said "some" men... Please please please... Go and read it again.. Click on the to continue reading and understand.. I wasn't talking to you.. I don't even know you and I didn't say I'm God. All I said is "some" men... Damn!

Are you having your period? The manner you are barking like a dog on heat is so scary, chill!!!

Temmywrites:
Obodo 999
Next time before you comment on something you know absolutely nothing about, read it well.. I specifically said "some" not all. And my post is not stupid, you should learn how to talk to women and practice what u preach, why would you sound like that, you didn't even click on the link to see the whole article to know where it ended.. You just swallowed me before chewing me. So please before you do stupid things, think well. I shouldn't have replied you because it's a waste of data

Who made you so this bitter? All is well

Temmywrites:
You are a man, accept your responsibilities

Having so much experiences about men starting from my father, shows that not all men are emotionally mature, calling them a "man", is just a title.

Because some men do not know how to own up to their responsibilities.

While some are basic misogynists, they are always trying to prove a point about the female gender, forgetting that the person that gave birth to them, nursed them and raised them is their mother, a "woman".


You are fully aware of your actions, you walk up to a lady on the pretence that you love her because of your freaky fantasies, have your way with her and get her pregnant.


You now put all the blame on the lady, some will even deny the pregnancy, some will accept it but make sure they frustrate the living light out of that woman, turning her into an empty basket with big holes.


My question is why couldn't you use protection, when you had the chance, why put a woman in the family way, when you are not emotionally mature to handle life.


Some men too, falls into the category of not paying the children's school fees, not paying the house rent not even leaving a dime at home to cater for the family.

Yet, you call yourself the head of the family. As you read this article if you fall into this category ask yourself "what are the things that qualifies you to be a man? "


To be responsible means you have to deal with issues properly, you have to be accountable for the decisions you made, you have to sacrifice some things and handle your life with dexterity, it also means to be independent, to be able to stand up and defend your actions which automatically makes you a man.


So you cannot be living in your parents house and still impregnate a woman, how would you deal with that, you're not even mature enough to decide what you really want for yourself.


You cannot be stingy and think marriage is for you, that trait will not make you responsible to the family you are making.

To continue reading click on this link http://www.temmywrites..com/
You will find out more about being responsible as a man

You are accusing men of being misogynists. And your rubbish writing is full of feminism. What do you think of women who opened their pvssy for irresponsible man?

And he promised to pull the UK out of EU by 31st October.

Then he went and tarnish his achievements and image by serving under Abacha in 1994.

This has happened to me before. So it can be true. She is not exactly tying you down, is she?

PUSSYHOE:
Every good girl i know are just there, nothing wow about them, someone should explain.

Because their modest looks make them to be humble and to be a 'good girl' in the first place. Just like a broke 'good' guy.

MdRabx:
Wow, I've been duped

YES

NkayStory:


Please pass me with that B.S.....Something you lots allude to on and off-line with so much pride?...Abeg deal with the consequences of your gender's uncontrollable philandering and let me be biko..

No be me send una message to dey mis-behave

I can only speak for myself not for other men, sorry.

highcollide:
someone who buys alcohol and someone who gets alcohol for free, who is likely to drink more alcohol?

What about those who get paid to drink alcohol?

NkayStory:


The only faithful man in Nigeria are the impotent ones suffering from erectile dysfunction...so dont kid yourself there cos no sexually-active and virile Nigerian male is faithful...NONE.

And you have met ALL the sexual active and virile Nigerian men?

xendra:
how hard does anybody have to work for sex? when its not food? na men wen carry sex for head go work hard for am.

You have answer your own question

Jaysolu:

Those will be daughters in law na
I meant i don't want biological daughters

Well you have no choice on gender of your children.

TeeFeh:
Let me tell you something guys, recently I lost my job and I have been depressed for months so I thought about calling my sugar daddies because I was stark broke and hungry, at some point I even thought of scamming people for a living but guess what kept me going? God did, the fear of God did.

Another reason I don’t want to be a prostitute would be because of my personal integrity and then I have a bright future too and my friend usually tell me about how its just one day someone’s life gets better and that kept me going. By the way, i am still out of job and I don’t have a job but there is hope for tomorrow. So don’t stop pushing it.

Wow! A lady with a dignity! GOD is great. I wish you well for the future.

bev12:
i never messed around I was honest and straight with him

Story for the gods. Your motivation for 'loving' him was for your own greed. He is better off without you.

lielbree:
Welcome home champ. We loveeee you!!!

He took all the glory for Britain but immediately he lost, the British told us he is a Nigerian.

There is a saying in Yoruba that "bi aja ba fi ori ko'mi a mo'na ile olowo e". Meaning: "when people gets into a trouble, they will retrace their steps".

Nonsense, I had my first sex at 28. No big deal.

AwkaetitiBabe:
I won't argue with u guys on this matter anymore.

Better

AwkaetitiBabe:
Hey hey its irresponsible men who ain't up to the challenge that force these ladies to commit abortions... So abeg point that finger at the man too.

Una go 4k dey look for whom to blame.

And what do you call a girl that open pvssy for an irresponsible man?

hazel01:
who even told you she aborts? if an abortion is done by a professional the womb won't get damaged, and if it gets damaged she can still have kids through surrogacy..... And she might decide not to have kids sef.... Life is not that hard for people with money na broke and shallow people dey always dey vindictive wishing everyone misery

You need to be Spiritually educated

Montanasnr:

Relax man. It's still an unborn baby.

Will you be here typing this rubbish if your mother had killed you as an "unborn baby".?

MissJoy29:

You are right sir. So right.
But how can someone argue on such things?

Well its obvious in this thread how some people are trying to justify killing innocent, defenceless unborn children.

MissJoy29:

Hmmmm....this is a very sensitive issue, Kunle. See, I find it difficult to judge people anyhow nowadays. I have seen things. I always tell myself, "you will never know what you will do if you find yourself in the situations of people you judge". This helps me show empathy & most importantly, be objective in my views.

I'm more concerned about doing good and living right. That I don't/can't do some certain things doesn't mean I will crucify those doing it. Yes there's a place to frown at what some people do or wonder at their level of reasoning...but I try not to appear too sanctimonious. It's only in extreme cases that I vehemently condemn an action & before I do that, I must have analysed the situation objectively and found the person guilty on all levels. But even at that, the person can still change.

Btw, if I were a guy, I would still marry an abortionist. I'm wired that way. The love in my heart is too much to stop what I feel for someone based on such things.

Come to think of it, isn't any form of sin, sin? I have discovered that people who judge too much sin the most. Go ask Jesus and the accusers of the adulterous woman.

That's the standard I try to use!
People can change for good. That's the most important thing!

I like your last sentence but the problem is most people don't accept they have done bad things. They will still argue. There must be confession, repentance, redemption and revival. It is when all these have been completed, will one can change for good.

Fountainofyouth:



When the foetus has formed, it is killing, when it is just mere blood, it is not killing, that is my stand on abortion, if we should go by the biblical "thou shall not kill", what of soldiers that kill or executionists? So it is relative.

Your view is wrong. You were once a "mere" blood, you know.. Do you have conscience at all?

Preciousgirl:


He sounded like it was me

You sounded like a guilty conscience.