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AwkaetitiBabe:
I won't argue with u guys on this matter anymore.

Better

AwkaetitiBabe:
Hey hey its irresponsible men who ain't up to the challenge that force these ladies to commit abortions... So abeg point that finger at the man too.

Una go 4k dey look for whom to blame.

And what do you call a girl that open pvssy for an irresponsible man?

hazel01:
who even told you she aborts? if an abortion is done by a professional the womb won't get damaged, and if it gets damaged she can still have kids through surrogacy..... And she might decide not to have kids sef.... Life is not that hard for people with money na broke and shallow people dey always dey vindictive wishing everyone misery

You need to be Spiritually educated

Montanasnr:
Relax man. It's still an unborn baby.

Will you be here typing this rubbish if your mother had killed you as an "unborn baby".?

MissJoy29:
You are right sir. So right.
But how can someone argue on such things?

Well its obvious in this thread how some people are trying to justify killing innocent, defenceless unborn children.

MissJoy29:
Hmmmm....this is a very sensitive issue, Kunle. See, I find it difficult to judge people anyhow nowadays. I have seen things. I always tell myself, "you will never know what you will do if you find yourself in the situations of people you judge". This helps me show empathy & most importantly, be objective in my views.

I'm more concerned about doing good and living right. That I don't/can't do some certain things doesn't mean I will crucify those doing it. Yes there's a place to frown at what some people do or wonder at their level of reasoning...but I try not to appear too sanctimonious. It's only in extreme cases that I vehemently condemn an action & before I do that, I must have analysed the situation objectively and found the person guilty on all levels. But even at that, the person can still change.

Btw, if I were a guy, I would still marry an abortionist. I'm wired that way. The love in my heart is too much to stop what I feel for someone based on such things.

Come to think of it, isn't any form of sin, sin? I have discovered that people who judge too much sin the most. Go ask Jesus and the accusers of the adulterous woman.

That's the standard I try to use!
People can change for good. That's the most important thing!

I like your last sentence but the problem is most people don't accept they have done bad things. They will still argue. There must be confession, repentance, redemption and revival. It is when all these have been completed, will one can change for good.

Fountainofyouth:
When the foetus has formed, it is killing, when it is just mere blood, it is not killing, that is my stand on abortion, if we should go by the biblical "thou shall not kill", what of soldiers that kill or executionists? So it is relative.

Your view is wrong. You were once a "mere" blood, you know.. Do you have conscience at all?

Preciousgirl:
He sounded like it was me

You sounded like a guilty conscience.

Correspondence:
It's because it takes so much money to marry a Nigerian girl. They all want weddings: traditional wedding, church wedding, court wedding.

Then they should pay for it.

That is her problem, not mine. Next

Preciousgirl:
Please I am not the woman in question

It makes no difference, people are just giving advice.

MissRaine69:
When was the last time you saw someone smile because you entered a room?

I always see evils people sad and fleeing.

MissRaine69:
How is his standards lowered? Because someone had a termination then that gages standards I am sure you are the same mofos who have issues with single mothers. Her body her choice your patriarchal view of perfection is skewed.

You need to confess and repent if you have killed your unborn child.

MissRaine69:
Parallel lines that’s our end recourse adieu nice chat

Is it because you don't want want to hear the truth he is saying?

Dracoe:
Your first question; I would most probably never know, and I can’t direct any feelings or thoughts to something I have no knowledge of unless she tells me.
Your second question; that’s why I said I would never ask...asking is a no no for me.But if she tells me herself she has had an abortion,I would have my reservations at first then if I truly love her it wouldn’t change anything.

Don't let that feminist abortionist woman blackmail you.

MissRaine69:
The post above your original comment is a good example.

Why should he lowered his standards for a woman who had killed her unborn baby? Please don't blame him.

Cioccolata:
[color=#008080]Why do you want to ignore female advances?
The Holy book ordered you to be fruitful and multiply.

If you are worried about rape allegation...
Then simply cut off your díck.

That's because as a man, that threat is always there. [/color]

Are you possessed by evils?

That lady has seriously abuse you and mess you up. You should seriously consider reporting that woman to the Police. This is not a Joke.

Single mothers are their own worst enemy. They refuse to see the errors of their lifestyle, instead blaming men and their circumstances.

Like if you agree

What about being honest and say "I only marry you because of your money"

doitforyou:
Why are you people focusing on feminists? Forget feminists, what about the children that the coward males decided to forsake? Are children feminists too?

In that situation, it is their parents responsibilities

kiddoiLL:
I looked at her with contempt, there in that room, I told her to comman be going, told her I want nothing with her, she begged, went on her knees, I refused told her at that moment all I feel for her is hatred.
Now you'll ask why treat her like that?
I had my first sex at 21, was never my plan, had no plan to have it that soon, but she was constantly talking bout how am missing it, and how she'd love to be my first, those stuffs nah, I did like her and she was threatening to leave if I refused to satisfy her..
She visited one morning, we talked, poof! ayam naked with her, for a while I wasnt myself, she was actually sitting on me riding me for like three minutes without condoms, then I was like Wtf? even without condoms? (twas my first. and I was scared my inexperience would make me get her pregnant, n I really wanted to avoid dat, based on my background and dad) I pushed her off..
too bad, it was too late, I was already cumming(Guess it officially became my first), but was lucky enough to not cum inside her, Fam I had goosebumps, and fears, she was the experienced one, and I kept asking and saying I hope I didn't cum inside her, told her I wasn't ready for any of that pressure, she was like no you didn't, she knew I wasn't settled, saw the unrest on my face, chick literally spoke to me, calmed me down, even told me she'd abort it if she gets pregnant, I wasn't okay with that statement, before I know, chick was getting on me, tryna go another round..and that was when I lost it, oya comman be going to ur father's house b!tch, I told u I never wanted this, I ended up doing it anyways and u tryna get me to do more?
Swear down, I told I hate her on the spot, asked her to leave, never texted never called her, refused to talk to her... Years later she texted on WhatsApp, just normal howfar howfar, I apologized for treating her in that cold manner back then but told her I still regret having sex with her back then.
She's probably engaged to some guy now I think, she has a kid, I no dey text her, she no dey text me.. Till today I regret she was my first, cuz it didn't happen the way I planned my first would do..

She was my first, she deflowered me.
What? us guys aint human? We were virgins too, some of us are still virgins, so why you looking at my post like that cus I said she deflowered me?

This is RAPE!. I wonder why you didn't report it.

NwanyiOkpa:
The question is clear and i will go first.

Well, the cock's son dumped me and moved on to another. Men will always be men.

What about you?

I hate these types of irresponsible women that never take responsibility for anything.

QueenSekxy:
I have never spent shi shi on a guy and will never spend a dime. Even toothbrush, I will never buy For a guy.
Please, go and die. He is a mama's boy, let him weep till death.

Your signature of " I found Christ; I found peace" is in conflict with your nature.

AwkaetitiBabe:
When I give, I don't expect anything in return mind you. He simply gives all he can as his heart leads. I don't look for instant reward. This one u sounding like a pastor this cold afternoon sha

Lol at Pastors and cold weather.

I am not a pastor and I am not even religious. I don't live in Nigeria and the weather was warm today.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yes. I give, he gives. He receives, I receive. I can't be giving and giving without getting nothing... Do I look like mother christmas. No matter how you paint it, Relationships is basically give and take... Might not b money but or qualities.

You can't b in a relationship where u d only one giving and u know that.

Your statement is exactly the reason why most people don't do the Will of God. People that cannot do anything without the expectation of instant rewards, cannot serve God.

AwkaetitiBabe:
emotional support mostly.

My God tells me loving should be about giving, not receiving.

AwkaetitiBabe:
What's ur motivation?

Tell me yours first

AwkaetitiBabe:
How? Is that not an initial motivation to dating?

May be your own motivation, not mine.

A man that love a woman is doomed to manipulation, maganisation, and exploitation. It is better if you let her fall in love with you first.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Cultural, religious differences. They are taught we are infidels and should be unevenly yoked with.


Come to think of it, I've never dated an hausa before sef... They are the best people to get genuine help from though. Not others b looking for pant before they help you,thst if they help after you naively give them.

Man gotta b wise with these niggazz

Why your own only motivation for dating is self interest?