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Who will Evacuate Nigeria citizens from the UK?

Did anyone notice the lack of criticism from the ladies? I believe this is the type of "bad boys" that girls love to date.

Liliantalks:
I will hv kids. Definitely, so I won’t be alone

Don't even consider been a single mother. It's callous and it's evil.

Now we know the real names behind Monikers. See what people would do when it involves money. God is Great.

Jonathan:
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You're a big shame to manhood.

Tueh

NO, he is a big shame only to himself.

Fortuna2:
No, men enjoy rape!

How will you feel if I say women enjoy rape. Think before you type.

It's part of their sense of entitlement

Petyprincess:
Wow!!! I just dnt understand why married people cheat! If you are tired of the relationship why can't you just leave peacefully? She's a disgrace to womanhood!!!

NO. She is a disgrace only to herself.

Where is your dignity?

Ellacindy:
I pray to meet my Prince charming here too

It is Godly to pray to be what you want. Pray to be a princess charming to someone.

MissGodOwn:
I hope it works out for u coz me, with what I read here daily by some male nairalanders, I'm even scared to meet up with any of them.

Whatever rocks your boat

Jeweltz:
I actually have one like that. I think he's serious and all but anytime I think about the past , I will Just decided outrightly that none of them is worth wasting time on

Seriously, no one care about who you choose to date. Your choice, your life.

AshiraWealthy:
Lol @ "have enough money" well...my baby doesn't have such mentality. Hes too gentle for such competition.

Thanks.

Come on baby. He won't hate you if you spend on him. So he is a 'gentleman' only if he is the one doing the spending?

AshiraWealthy:
Yeah I can't sleep . Will be Meeting my nairaland boo for the first and feeling so nervous.

Someone tell me to go and sleep so I can wake up refreshed to meet him by daybreak.

He's indeed being so nice within the short period we've known each other on here after I posted an advert for a serious relationship.
A perfect gentle guy, and spirit filled. May God bless you for me my dear.

Hmm...

No need to be nervous.
Make sure you have enough money with you. Broke people are not supposed to be dating.
Offer to spend on him. Make sure you enjoy yourself.
Good luck.

Ginaz:
Just shut up. Your arrogance is so irritating. You think you’re so important and smart but you really are just a piece of crap who haven’t met the right girl to teach you a lesson.

The way sow women reasoned is funny at times. Do you not realise the girl is trying to fleece him?

millionboi2:
Osinbajo will not like this news

Why does this concern him?

UjuJoan2:
Why don't you visit the counsellors with your husband?

The key to happiness is contentment. You may think this your ex would have made a better spouse but that may not be true. The fact is that nobody is perfect, and if you had married him, the chances of falling out of love with him is always there. The grass is NEVER greener on the other side, it only appears that way. For me dating someone for 15 whole years is already a big flaw that should make you resent your ex.

As for your husband. I think like you said, separation is a good idea. It will help you get a clearer picture and you will begin to see the good he brings to your life. From what you said, he is a good man, but you are just not seeing it because your heart is somewhere else.

Above all, learn to be happy for you. Dont expect that your joy and happiness will come from someone else. People survive in loveless marriages and somehow made peace with it. If you become so fixated on the sparks you should be feeling and the fire that should be burning in your heart, it will only make you more depressed. Focus on other things that make you happy. Find your joy elsewhere.

You deserve a national award for writing this. I could not have put it better.

Thread such as this always provoke strong debate

Michellekabod2:
Ignore them. A man and woman have sex, and just the lady is called leftover. For all I know deadbeat dads deserve more of the blame. Women are blamed for everything,for what both men and women do. Men with a body count of over ten can call a lady ho€,and when you try to find logic in that they will come up with archaic reasons like "because a woman is the receiver of the d|ck".

As Martinez and Omar09s what they have to say about single dads and they will be mute.

I have always believe men should also keep their bodies like I am doing but that should not justify bad choices of women opening their legs anyhow.

I love everyone, including the single mothers but I don't have to have sexual relationship with everyone I love

bigpriik:
Living a single life can be boring most times. You see, we humans are wired to need someone. There is always a vacuum in our lives that needs to be filled by someone special, that's the reason why people make a lot of unnecessary sacrifices just to be love.

Sometimes we go below our standard just to keep them even though they may not worth it. Well it's because life and love has no manual. We are left to learn the hard way.

Every guy needs a good girlfriend if not you can't be truly happy no matter how you try to cover up with friends, hustle, computer games e.t.c. Even if you can, you can't stand the test of time you will still be lonely it is just the law of nature. Nature knows we can die anytime so there is this pressure to find a mate and pass your genes before death occurs.

There are many ways having a good girlfriend will better your life

1)Determination to be successful

let's say you have a new pretty girlfriend, she loves you truly but as hustling guy you don't have an apartment of your own so you guys can have all privacy you need, suddenly you will notice you have this drive to work harder and get an apartment for yourself and most times it works out, you will discover you manage your finances and a step ahead better, a girl can be that powerful

2) Strife to be a better man

I remember 7 years back I used to be a very dirty boy with poor dress sense. I wore one boxer for three days. My first girlfriend was this very neat Akwa Ibom girl (those women are very neat) she always insulted me until I blended and improved with my neatness and dress sense and secondly my social life changed too. The way I interact with people, I became more civilised. This trait still live with me today.

3) Confidence boost and self esteem

Having a beautiful woman in your life will boost your confidence and self esteem better than when your were single. If she truly loves you, you always feel wanted, loved and wanted.

You should have said a worthwhile girlfriend. The problem is most girls are leeches looking for men to devour.

ricmx:
What if four ladies geng rape the man. I know the man would be feeling like his on top of the world. Poor woman ��‍♀️

That is IF the man will live and survive the incidence

jackals:
Most men are irresponsible. But why including my dad

You said "all men are scums" and the man included your Dad in it ?

This is the kind of women self respecting men should be looking to marry. Ladies, go and upgrade yourselves instead of looking for meal tickets.

Born2Breed:
In front of the husband? No woman would dare that.

There are 100 ways to cheat,men are aware of only 1(they can't even hide perfectly) and women 99.

Madam, you can only speak for yourself. Don't trust other people.

Born2Breed:
Lol

This na setup,probably by a political rival to destroy his home and he fell for it.

I am thinking the woman must have set up herself to be fvcked by these men. Very convenient that her kids were away and she was not on her period. She did it to fulfill her fetish desires. My opinion

iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

It is risky either way. What if she agrees as you hope? you will be obliged to marry her. And for the fact women don't fuvk for nothing or in secret, both of could loose your jobs if your affairs get uncovered. Please don't ask her out.

Petyprincess:
I retract my statement because he's not what i thought,he recently surprised his girlfriend also.

Ok my Love