There is a saying that a very very weak men are those who can't say "No" to sex, when a woman made an offer. Is this correct?

agbonkamen:
Any man that suck pussy is a weak man

I totally agree with this. Also, a very very weak men are those who can't say "No" to sex, when a woman offered.

ThothHermes:
Hollandia?

Peak?

Jago? :

Dano?

What milk do you speak of milady

Boobs milk

DerideGull:


You were hopelessly inexperienced.

But I thought women prefer a virgin man.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Why don't u give that lovely diick a break?

It is been on break for the last four years

Guest007:


Because you were useless, back then I mean... if you kept it until you are ready to marry then you'd have more than a dick to offer.

Thank you, I hope this make you feel better about loosing your virginity carelessly to a useless man. Like attracts likes

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So being sexually active translates to bad character

YES

Rotji:
The Hausa man said and I paraphrased 'the blind man says all eyes are smelly' if you know you know.

All those finding faults with this posts males or females are just trying justify their lack of virginity or the lack of finding it.

No one is saying virginity is the ultimate, if I understand the poster well he's saying that on top of finding the right spouse with all the qualities of an amazing wife/husband virginity is Jara, Privilege, Blessing that is so scarce that you only find one in millions. These days only people who are determined to be the best spouse are committed to keeping their virginity. So all you people consoling yourselves with statements like "virgins who can not cook etc" park well.

Whether you like it or not virginity is still a virtue, and it's such a privilege to labour to disvirgined your wife o!

Me I thank God I married a virgin even when I wasn't looking for one. Count me blessed abeg, almost 8years in marriage and the thing dey sweet dey go.

WHO I BE?!

God bless you Sir

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
One can d fvcking Only A for years in d name of relationship. Breaks up and hooks up with B, breakup and hookup with C.

That is a serial hoe. Why don't you give that lovely pvssy a break.

virgoquin:


what about the man Mr poster don't you know that a man's virginity is the best thing he can offer his wife.

Not some wrinkled and shrink looking dick that he will offer his wife.

chastity pays for both genders stop making it to be compulsory for only females.

By the way all these talks about virginity has been overstretched for too long it's getting boring now...yawns�

Madam, many many years ago when I was in my mid-twenties and a virgin, most women would lose interest as soon as I told them I am a virgin. Why is that?

MrBrownJay1:


Nah bro, these women know exactly what they are doing....

Yes, for selfish and devilish reasons �

MrBrownJay1:
- poverty
- hunger
- laziness
- ignorance
- stoopidity
- social media

Evil spirit should be added to your list

lilwetdick:


which one is grace of god

Only those who experience it knows it.

placeofallure:


Like the Nairaland you quoted, I opine that money is just one out of the problems that can plague a marriage. I'm sure you have seen many marriages of the rich crumble even before take off. Money is the least of their problems. There are underlying equally important factors like love, understanding, trust, tolerance and mutual respect.
With all the monies in the world, any marriage lacking the aforementioned is a time bomb waiting to explode.

I've been married for a few years and the house isn't sustained on ONLY money.
Well, I guess it's the Nigerian in us all, always about Money, Money and more Money.

"Well, I guess it's the Nigerian in us all, always about Money, Money and more Money"

It is the devil in some people.

Jessicha:
Money has its place, but the Op logic falls when we realize that many rich celebs and people Also divorce . which shows money isnt everything.

The problem nowdays is most guys have no value except their money, remove his money and he is totally useless, But a man should be able to have a personality with value in addition to his money, so when he goes broke, the wife still remember there are some qualities he has which she may not found in other men, and so she will endure the moment , of course there are couples who stick to each other despite financial challenges. Value matters

So your own view of men is money. God will touch your soul.

Please don't marry that girl.

I already have things all the money in the world cannot buy.

ImaIma1:


If a marriage crashes because of money, it means that money was what was holding them together. No love...no friendship...just money.

And if they claim to love each other, it is not the lack of money that broke them up but their inability to manage the situation, stick together and find a solution.

Marriage takes work and the way your marriage turns out is based on the work you put into it.

God bless you for this write up. I don't need to write anything else.

That is why I always tell the Ladies to make money first before getting pregnant.

CHoccolaTE:
I don't believe for one second that the Ops hands are clean. I think he did or said something to provoke that statement from his wife. Its only a mentally unstable person that will just get up after years of supporting and helping you to turn around and stop showing support when you haven't done anything to offend them.

That's how these men come to Nairaland to paint their wives bad and make themselves look like angels.
That's how one of them came to spoil his wife's name after she built a house in her name and refused to sign the ownership of the house to him. If not that the wife logged into Nairaland to tell her own side of the story we would have never known what happened.

Sorry about your accident oo Op but I will not castigate your wife until I hear her side of the story.

But you are already judging the man.

LilMissFavvy:
Financial reasons how? Am not sure you understand what I wrote. So he should not support his own kids?

Why can't a woman financially support her own kids too?

There is nothing stopping a woman from making her own money.

LilMissFavvy:
Many married couple's have gone through hard times, yet they sail through it, without divorcing. Such hard times include insults from both partners yet they try to make their marriage work. You had an accident for over four years, your wife was by your side, yet now that you know you gonna recover you want to dump her. Search your concience, if your wife was the one who had an accident, broke her leg, would you be faithful, would you be able to care of her? Wouldn't there be times when you are fed up. You want to divorce her over a kind of issue which oda married couple's face, yet they are still together. To me it's childish. Ok, go ahead and divorce her as many men have advised you. But what makes you think she will not fight you to get back her kids? Except she's an illiterate. If you married in 2013, the kids are still babies. Give her the children and go your way, you can always support them financially. You think the kids will not go to their mother when they grow up? Smh

So you think that men exist only for financial reasons? You need to change your mindset.

teresafaith:

I don't have to know his wife to know she never meant it.

Most of us say a lot of things we didn't mean out of frustration

You can only speak for yourself and not for others.

Preshy561:
Poor sense of dressing.
That your shoe in last pic though , what type of grown up man will pose like a kid and a slay queen, if God bends your head like that I bet you'd be cursing yourself and generation.

You are just Okay, I don't understand your definition of cuteness-obviously distinct from what I thought it to be.

Goodluck in your quest.

See pretender. Nay your type go pm him in secret.

koolaid87:
Nah bro, they didn't stick to no law.

they inherited their wealth through blood and tears.

US enslaved black Americans for 400 years , getting free labour, building their empires.

Australia too took the land from the original owners (Aborigonal) and waged war by any means necessary to destroy these natives.

United kingdom too involved in human slavery, all these are not righteous deeds.

So please dont come at me like these countries are innocent. They are not.

Nigeria is not as corrupt as all these countries mentioned above.

United State preached democracy in different places but that's just a charade to deceit and steal the resources of such country. They're going about preaching democracy but they only just allowed black ppl to vote (mind you, voting is human right). The US constitution once regarded black people as 1/3 of human being. What's more demoralizing? That's evil.

These countries got enough blood on their hands.

Yet, your pastors would rather go there for visit and buy properties there, securing his future while they tell you to chill cos your father is somewhere building you mansion

NIGGAH PLEASE!!!

You are correct. The western countries has a very very dark past. While no country is perfect. Nigeria and other African countries need to begin to treat their citizens fairly to start with.

koolaid87:


It doesn't apply to you jare. Stop fooling yourself. US, Canada, Australia never sought anyone's face. Most of them are even atheist, yet their lands are healed

Lobatan

Atheist does not do religion but the Kingdom of God. Those Countries you mentioned are blessed land because stick to the Law, justice, human rights and fairness. All these are Spiritual law of humanity. African countries are cursed because of disobedience to these Spiritual Laws. Being Religious is nothing if you don't do as commanded by the Spirit.

Rachele:
A broke guy shouldn't date too

Yes you are right. No broke person, man or woman, should go into a relationship.

Rachele:
what if she genuinely doesnt have?

A broke lady should not go into a relationship.

.

Certainly NOT me. I hate lazy, broke and jobless ladies with passion.