₦airaland Forum

MissRaine69:
Sometimes it’s not even widowhood
Domestic violence
Men abandoning their families
A man can make a child and walk away with little or no consequences a woman does not have that luxury.

joyberry:
A woman in our base became a widow overnight when her husband of just three weeks died in an airstrike attack, Guess what she was just a few weeks pregnant.
She became a widow and about to be a single mom if the pregnancy gets to full term,i just shake my heads when people especially women beef single mothers,u dont knw their struggles or what happened with them.One will see her,a young woman in her early twenties with a baby, and just open their mouths and judge her without knowing what happened. Before judging people,be sure of what happened to them,take a mile in their steps.Life can be ironic and funny at times.Shalom

joyberry:
My dear the matter tire me,who impregnated the women ghosts? Its takes two to tango oh

Wiseandtrue:
Tomorrow now, you wonder why women die of depression See what they go through


Allow to see her child 5hours a month

How heartless can a man be

Power shall

Lucifersticlala:
If its bigger than your husband's own, keep it.
If it's smaller, make it clear you don't like it & block him.

agbonkamen:
Any man that suck pussy is a weak man

ThothHermes:
Hollandia?

Peak?

Jago? :

Dano?

What milk do you speak of milady

DerideGull:
You were hopelessly inexperienced.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Why don't u give that lovely diick a break?

Guest007:
Because you were useless, back then I mean... if you kept it until you are ready to marry then you'd have more than a dick to offer.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So being sexually active translates to bad character

Rotji:
The Hausa man said and I paraphrased 'the blind man says all eyes are smelly' if you know you know.

All those finding faults with this posts males or females are just trying justify their lack of virginity or the lack of finding it.

No one is saying virginity is the ultimate, if I understand the poster well he's saying that on top of finding the right spouse with all the qualities of an amazing wife/husband virginity is Jara, Privilege, Blessing that is so scarce that you only find one in millions. These days only people who are determined to be the best spouse are committed to keeping their virginity. So all you people consoling yourselves with statements like "virgins who can not cook etc" park well.

Whether you like it or not virginity is still a virtue, and it's such a privilege to labour to disvirgined your wife o!

Me I thank God I married a virgin even when I wasn't looking for one. Count me blessed abeg, almost 8years in marriage and the thing dey sweet dey go.

WHO I BE?!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
One can d fvcking Only A for years in d name of relationship. Breaks up and hooks up with B, breakup and hookup with C.

virgoquin:


what about the man Mr poster don't you know that a man's virginity is the best thing he can offer his wife.

Not some wrinkled and shrink looking dick that he will offer his wife.

chastity pays for both genders stop making it to be compulsory for only females.

By the way all these talks about virginity has been overstretched for too long it's getting boring now...yawns�

MrBrownJay1:
Nah bro, these women know exactly what they are doing....

MrBrownJay1:
- poverty
- hunger
- laziness
- ignorance
- stoopidity
- social media

lilwetdick:
which one is grace of god

placeofallure:
Like the Nairaland you quoted, I opine that money is just one out of the problems that can plague a marriage. I'm sure you have seen many marriages of the rich crumble even before take off. Money is the least of their problems. There are underlying equally important factors like love, understanding, trust, tolerance and mutual respect.
With all the monies in the world, any marriage lacking the aforementioned is a time bomb waiting to explode.

I've been married for a few years and the house isn't sustained on ONLY money.
Well, I guess it's the Nigerian in us all, always about Money, Money and more Money.

Jessicha:
Money has its place, but the Op logic falls when we realize that many rich celebs and people Also divorce . which shows money isnt everything.

The problem nowdays is most guys have no value except their money, remove his money and he is totally useless, But a man should be able to have a personality with value in addition to his money, so when he goes broke, the wife still remember there are some qualities he has which she may not found in other men, and so she will endure the moment , of course there are couples who stick to each other despite financial challenges. Value matters

ImaIma1:
If a marriage crashes because of money, it means that money was what was holding them together. No love...no friendship...just money.

And if they claim to love each other, it is not the lack of money that broke them up but their inability to manage the situation, stick together and find a solution.

Marriage takes work and the way your marriage turns out is based on the work you put into it.

CHoccolaTE:
I don't believe for one second that the Ops hands are clean. I think he did or said something to provoke that statement from his wife. Its only a mentally unstable person that will just get up after years of supporting and helping you to turn around and stop showing support when you haven't done anything to offend them.

That's how these men come to Nairaland to paint their wives bad and make themselves look like angels.
That's how one of them came to spoil his wife's name after she built a house in her name and refused to sign the ownership of the house to him. If not that the wife logged into Nairaland to tell her own side of the story we would have never known what happened.

Sorry about your accident oo Op but I will not castigate your wife until I hear her side of the story.

LilMissFavvy:
Financial reasons how? Am not sure you understand what I wrote. So he should not support his own kids?

LilMissFavvy:
Many married couple's have gone through hard times, yet they sail through it, without divorcing. Such hard times include insults from both partners yet they try to make their marriage work. You had an accident for over four years, your wife was by your side, yet now that you know you gonna recover you want to dump her. Search your concience, if your wife was the one who had an accident, broke her leg, would you be faithful, would you be able to care of her? Wouldn't there be times when you are fed up. You want to divorce her over a kind of issue which oda married couple's face, yet they are still together. To me it's childish. Ok, go ahead and divorce her as many men have advised you. But what makes you think she will not fight you to get back her kids? Except she's an illiterate. If you married in 2013, the kids are still babies. Give her the children and go your way, you can always support them financially. You think the kids will not go to their mother when they grow up? Smh

teresafaith:
I don't have to know his wife to know she never meant it.

Most of us say a lot of things we didn't mean out of frustration