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Politics / Re: See Price List Of Gas In My Area (see Photo) by Ochason(m): 8:27pm On Feb 18 |
I bought at #1500 in awka Anambra state last week. |
Business / Re: I Need Investment Advice by Ochason(m): 12:30am On Dec 07, 2023 |
Justicecreft: Please what's that your online earning way that you are into am very much interested in it cos right now I need to engage myself into any kind of source of financial income no matter how little it my be. Pls help s brother. Reach me out with this number if you wish to help me sir. 08168651482 |
Romance / Re: My Single Female Neighbor Has Been Giving Me Food. What Could Be Her Intentions? by Ochason(m): 3:11pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Just bring one female friend of yours to spend the weekend with you. You will get your answer very fast 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Sell Me Your Facebook by Ochason(m): 10:47pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
How much will you buy 5k friends on Facebook |
Health / Re: How Many Days Should A Guy Wear Boxers Before Washing? by Ochason(m): 10:13pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
Wear it for 3days then after bathing smell it and if the smell is not that bad add another 4days to it. 10 Likes |
Business / Re: Have You Been Able To Spend The Old Naira Notes In Your Area? by Ochason(m): 6:54pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Yes I av. Went to bank today and withdraw 35k and I av been spending it without rejection. |
Politics / Re: It's Two Years Already, Share Your End Sars Experience. by Ochason(m): 7:49pm On Oct 20, 2022 |
Jostoman:Amen. Their soul will rest in peace when we get it right next year. Our PVC is our voice. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: It's Two Years Already, Share Your End Sars Experience. by Ochason(m): 7:48pm On Oct 20, 2022 |
TheSameGuy: Do you have prove of this you statement? Don't talk what you don't know broo. |
Politics / It's Two Years Already, Share Your End Sars Experience. by Ochason(m): 7:40am On Oct 20, 2022 |
The labor of our hero's past shall never be in vain. Many sacrificed their life for a better Nigeria on this day. Better Nigeria is a collective work and effort every good citizens of Nigeria desiring a change must support. And to get it right we must come out in mass come 2023 general election to make so. I can recall the trekking we had to do from aroma junction Awka to Awkuzu SARS in other to achieve an aim. The experience still lives with me up till now. You can shall your own experience here. |
Romance / Re: When You Relocate To A New Place What Is The First Thing You Look Out For? by Ochason(m): 6:47pm On Sep 23, 2022 |
SlayQueenSlayer:Bad guy |
Romance / Can Friends Have Good Sex And Still Keep It On That Friendship Level. by Ochason(m): 6:44pm On Sep 23, 2022 |
O think this is possible cos av experienced it before. You can share ur experience or story here |
Romance / When You Relocate To A New Place What Is The First Thing You Look Out For? by Ochason(m): 3:31pm On Sep 16, 2022 |
For me football field water and electricity. Calculate my TP from my house to my work place and church. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Is The Highest Amount You Have Paid For Sex? by Ochason(m): 5:50pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
300naira 62 Likes 6 Shares |
Romance / Who Else Noticed That Families From FATHER'S Side Don't Care. by Ochason(m): 10:24am On Aug 28, 2022 |
In my own family I don't care if they exist. They only mind there own and wants to hear about ur down fall and laugh at you. 3 Likes |
Literature / Re: I Will Kill My Best Friend Tonight. by Ochason(m): 10:00pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Kumtuneu |
Romance / A Lady's Confession. Advice Needed. by Ochason(m): 8:52pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Wonders shall never end. Thank God April is ending today. Some girls get mind ohh... What advise would u give this lady.
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Romance / Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Ochason(m): 10:37pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
SugarPapi:Her kayamata worked on u wella. Jus get her angry tell her that ur wife is angry with u. And that she is threaten to divorce u. Pay her off. And den stay away from her. Remind ursef again that ur married and that ur type don't cheat on their wife. Think of ur children if they finds out about this how disappointed they will be about u. I know it won't be easy but u av to condition ur mind again that ur wife is the best ,that ur wife is more beautiful than her. Maybe u av to move out of ur house and stay in a friends place for sometimes maybe 2or 3wks it will help u calm ur mind down towards her. Ask God for forgiveness den forgive ursef. Don't worry everything will be fine sir. 5 Likes |
Romance / Have You Ever Slept Hungry Just To Prove To Your Family That You Are Angry by Ochason(m): 1:21am On Feb 01, 2022 |
There was a day my mum got me angry. I went out of the house out of anger and came back around 10pm in the night I refused to talk to anyone and that day I have only taken bread and pap in the morning. So when I came back I was still angry and hungry but I went straight to my room and lock the door but I couldn't bear the hunger anymore around 2am, the hunger was so intense that I went to the kitchen but there was no food for me maybe they thought I wasn't going to come back that night. I had to settle with drinking Carri with salt.��� and got better that night. You can share yours as well.... 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Do I Make The Right Choice by Ochason(m): 1:56pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
NohurryInLife:Its not gonna be easy but,Its well.. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Do I Make The Right Choice by Ochason(m): 1:55pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Karleb: Thanks sir. |
Romance / How Do I Make The Right Choice by Ochason(m): 12:13am On Nov 08, 2021 |
I will just go straight to the point because I don’t know how to write long stories. I am 33 years old, I work in a multinational company. I was in a relationship with a coworker three years ago and we were truly both in love. I thought we were going to get married really. However, after two years of dating, this guy dumped me because he messed up with another lady at work, someone higher than both of us, a manager. He felt he had better chances with the woman cos the woman was giving him money and her car to use most times. I felt really betrayed and ashamed cos people at work knew about us and were feeling sorry for me. However, I tried to put all of that in the past. In less than a year, he and this lady got married. Not up to a year, they were having issues. They were always fighting and it became an issue of separation which they did. Now, this guy is separated and moved out of their home. He is now trying to get back to me. I do not know if his intentions are genuine or he is trying to make his soon to be ex wife jealous. He comes to tell me how he feels the woman used jazz on him cos he cannot see what he found in her now that they are married. He complains that the s*x is bad, she has bad attitude and she is lazy. When this guy started coming back for me early this year, I of course pushed him away. I was not going to be his second choice. He then got transferred to our Abeokuta branch in March. It was around that time he filed for divorce. That was when I heard from someone that the marriage was doomed from day one cos the man was always comparing me to his wife. The wife feels the husband is still in love with me cos nothing she does can match what I was to the man. They are divorced now. The marriage did not last up to a year. Few days ago, I got a very long message from the man. He was basically begging me to forget his crimes against me and that I should consider him once more . He said he will move on if I do not respond to him after this last time. I am torn and do not know what to do. There is somewhere in my heart that still has feelings for him..do you think I should give him a chance? Will the ex wife not think I had something to do with her marriage breaking up. Will it also make me look desperate …like I am going back to my vomit? What should I do? |
Romance / My Husband Betrayed Me. I Want To Move On Pls Advice Me. by Ochason(m): 12:52am On Sep 06, 2021 |
What have I done to deserve this kind of betrayal.... I really feel so depressed cos of the betrayal that I have been through. So, I got married in 2018. My husband is a medical personnel in the US. When we got married, we started to work on my papers and it was not forth coming. So, I got a tourist visa to go and join him for a year while still working on permanent papers. My husband is a very loving man and I bless God for him. Through out the first year of our marriage, we tried to get pregnant all through but nothing happened. I had to come back to home after my one year ended to apply again. while I was here, the pandemic and lock down happened. So, I could not go back to my husband for almost a year.We spoke everyday during the pandemic. Always telling each other that we miss each other. So after the lock down, I have been trying to get back to my husband. I have compiled all my papers and waiting for my husband to send me the necessary documents so I can include them in the application. Since them, my husband has been giving me one excuse or the other for why he has not sent the documents. He said he has been busy, bla bla. I know his job keeps him busy yes but this his behavior is strange. I just began to get worried that he is not making this a priority. Sometimes, I will even call him and he will not answer. I became worried and called his elder sister in US. She then told me she will call me back. Last month, she fixed a zoom meeting with me and my husband and it was in that meeting that my husband told me that he has something to confess to me. His voice was shaking. He knelt down and told me he has done something bad and wants me to forgive him. He said he slept with a coworker during the lockdown and the lady is pregnant. That the lady told him that she was going to remove the pregnancy but he told her no because he has been looking for a baby since we got married. The lady said the only way she will keep the baby is if he will marry her, that she will not have a baby outside wedlock.That he told her he is already married but the lady said that is the only way she will keep the baby. So, that is why he has been avoiding bringing me back to the US. That he loves me and he does not want to let me go but he just wants the woman to have the baby and maybe later they can divorce when the baby is born and then I can come back to join him. I thought he and his sister were pulling my legs cos I just left the meeting and went to cry my eyes out. After several days of calling and me rejecting his call, my husband and I spoke and he still kept begging me. He swears that he will divorce the woman after she gives birth. That he just wants to make sure she keeps his child. This whole thing makes me want to just end my marriage but I love my husband so much. He now calls me everyday, asking for forgiveness and I want to just try and see his reasoning but his reasoning is so selfish. Just because I have not had a baby in just three years of marriage. Just because I was not around during a pandemic…he has s8x with another woman and has a baby and marries her and he wants me to forgive him? what kind of wickedness is this? Do I deserve this? My family is divided about this. Some members of my family want me to call it quits while some, want me to remain after all, he is still my husband. My husband wants to come back to Nigeria this summer to beg and make up but I don’t know id I want to see him. I don’t think the pain I feel will ever go away. I loved and trusted this man. I don’t trust him anymore. I cannot even talk to him even though I love him so dearly. My heart has been shattered in pieces. Of what use is being married? Just to wait that he eventually divorces his US wife maybe in another 2 or 3 years? I really am heartbroken. If you were in my shoes, what will you do? Will you forgive and wait for such a man to divorce the other woman or would you move on? Please advise. 7 Likes |
Business / Re: Meet The Female Banks CEOs In Nigeria by Ochason(m): 9:29am On Jul 19, 2021 |
FutureIsFemale:Another feminist loading |
Family / Re: Nigerian Parents And Oversized Cloths | My Own Story by Ochason(m): 5:08pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
My own nah something else. How can you explain when ur mumsy go carry ur sister's trousers and mend for you as a guy and hailing you that eehh see as ur looking like a one rich kid like that, see as this one fit u fine die. Me in my mind I go dey cry . And the cloth go give u the shape of a woman for back. I dey hustle well make my children no experience wetin I pass Tru then. 28 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Do You Have Secrets You've Vowed To Take To The Grave? by Ochason(m): 3:29pm On Jul 03, 2021 |
Am here to read comment
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Romance / Re: Stories About People Living In Houses Haunted By Ghosts, Are They Real? by Ochason(m): 11:20am On Jun 30, 2021 |
Facts111: |
Romance / How Much Was Your First Salary When U Started Working? Let's Encourage The Young by Ochason(m): 10:27pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
Mine was 10k as a sales boy at the age of 17yrs. But now....... To God be the glory. Let's hear from another person. |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Had This Kind Of Experience In A Bus Or Night Class. Share Your Ex by Ochason(m): 11:50pm On Jun 22, 2021 |
I will share my experience I had last week. |
Politics / What's The Situation Of The June12 Protest Ln Your Area by Ochason(m): 10:58am On Jun 12, 2021 |
So guys what's the current situation of the on going protest in your area or you heard in so part of the country. How is the protest going on in Nigeria or your state. Here in Anambra state I have not heard of any protest of June 12 going on. So let's hear from you. |
Romance / Re: Pls Oh...can Anyone Explain What Are All These? (pic) by Ochason(m): 12:58am On Jun 03, 2021 |
They are kitchen utensils. 7 Likes |
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