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Heartbroken05:
Good morning nairaland families.

I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 8years and this year I planned to Marry her.

Last year, I took her to my sis to learn her business which she did and my sis showed her everything in 3 months, which should have take upto a year for someone to complete learning. I begged my sis to show everything about the business and take her to where she buy her goods. I finally opened a shop for her after 3 months and she started doing well.

There is this a guy she usually talk to but always tell me he is just a mere friend who makes her laugh only not until recently I suspected something must be attached. I had argument with her this December which resulted slapping her slightly twice. I really felt bad and quickly apologize and also told my people to beg her on my behalf.

But since then she has been acting so strangely, so recently, I call this my girl and the guy pick up and told me she is busy and I should not call her anymore, I was shocked and think this is actually a joke, he told me he knows I'm dating her and he is dating her also and nothing I can do. I was really heart broken and down that day.

But she later chat me that it's nothing to worry about. So recently, I went to pray about this and it was revealed this guy has charmed my GF and he is planning to destroy her. Four different spiritual people said same thing that the girl has been charmed and they had turn her against me by this guy.

I know I shud move on but i really love my gf and I don't want her to regret this later, as I was told she will eventually see the reality soon and will definitely wants to come back. I'm just so sad this is happening to me right now.

Please do you think I should fight this to the end or just leave and watch how this guy will destroy her. The guy has nothing and has been collecting money from her and even tell her to leave the shop I rented for her also.

Bro you speak about prayer! Prayer can undo any charm. So I will advice u keep on praying for her. Don't confront the guy physically ooo but do that spiritually. Pray like you have never prayed before. Pray as if your life depends on it. Pray to set your bride to be free from every power of the enemies so my brother pray!!!!

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

Your brother is only protecting your future. This our generation is a curse one. I bet you I give u one month once u have Facebook and WhatsApp u won't remain the same.

Just live ur life as ur brother loves u so much but when u are already a teenager as in above 18years he won't be doing dis to u.

But for now u deserve it ok and by the way are u she or he?

Popjoan1:
lol,seems your also a "preacher" like him,but a poorer version,when your Messiah was born,he received gifts from the three wise men right,why didn't he reject it? And point of correction,we don't share the same faith/religion.

You speak like the Muslim you are! My Messiah birth was base on prophecy and also he was a little baby when the gift was presented to Him. How can you be so dumb to expect a baby to reject or even accept the gifts?

What part of religion allowed a baby to accept and received gifts? When you are a baby did u know those who came to give your sorry ass diaper? Why didn't you reject it den?

Sometimes foolishness is not about doing foolish things but some questions and reasoning sound foolish especially when is coming from someone like you.

JohnSP99:
you people don't just have sense was he talking about people borrowing to do business, or those borrowing to live a big man life, olorun mofos full this nairaland.

Let me ask u dat have sense! Those that borrowed billions in bank did they borrowed it to live a flashy life? Without investing or going into business?

How is it possible for bank to borrow you 10billions naira without showing proof of what u want to do and if it will be beneficial to you in order to pay back the loan?

Maybe you should try and go to the bank to borrow loan so dat u will know how is done.

People borrowed loan to invest in a business not to live a lavish life. It is when the business goes wrong dats when the bank comes looking for their money.

I thought u were educated? But it seems you and your Papa are just not educated at all. And you know what ur papa says is not even possible accordingly to ur analogy.

Well I will not blame you nor your Papa Dangote is borrowing to build a refinery's dat is far what is net Worth. So Dangote is owning bank alot of billions of dollars that is more than is net Worth so is Dangote a foolish man?

Even in his debt he is still richer than your Papa in billions of dollars so your Papa is the one that is foolish because innocent people and the gullible ones like you made him to be Rich today, not hardwork or bank loan but fraud using the name of our God.

Tonytonex:
in other way, you mean you are wiser and more righteous than Oyedepo?

Wisdom and Righteousness comes from God. When u say wiser are u referring to the wisdom of men? Or God?

I rather have wisdom from God and not from men.

Oyedepo might be a Father by age but a Baby spiritually. Because He is not obedience to the word of God and as such that has made him to be a baby spiritually.

In the sight of God ur age doesn't count. But ur spirit man is what counts.

Oyedepo might be ur papa but God knows he has sold his soul to the spirit of Mammon. And I don't need to educate u on that what the Bible say about one loving Mammon and hating God or loving God and hating Mammon for you can't love and serve both.

So with the above word choose by urself which one is Oyedepo serving and loving God? Or Mammon?

Tonytonex:
you know nothing .you too can go and milk people to get rich or don't you want to become rich?

God forbid that I do such a thing. What is the difference between Yahoo Yahoo and church business in Nigeria? Am a believer ooo but I tell u all the denomination Churches in Nigeria are nothing but pure family business.

If u think is a lie go and find out in CAC.

Jesus said it will be more difficult for a Rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven than for a calmel to go through the eyes of the Needle.

E get y Jesus say so. I want to be rich but not this kinds of riches bro and sis what ever u are.

Popjoan1:
then go ahead and arrest him,if I choose to give money to him,and ain't complaining,fine...or are you still in your distorted gorilla form?

Why will I arrest a man who has already condemned himself? The man is already in his way to eternal destruction who whom am I to arrest him?

And if you choose to remain gullible and remain poor why your pastor is busy buying private jets and building mansions that even u in ur entire life can not even come close to the house or even near the gate who am I to stop u?

Keep on decieving urself claiming u are giving to God!

BigYash:
My brother ,I understand your point . But then,as the members no dey complain.. Who are we to complain? Which dangote geniue? Compare the price of cement in nigeria and other african countries my nigga.. Dangote na still fraud.. No African wealthy man geniue jare

You are right ooo the members are complaining! Anyways As u have said all African wealthy men are not geniue they all have skeleton in their cupboard.

BigYash:
He no put gun for their head o.. Leave baba make him enjoy. If e easy open your own ,then try milk members.. Cowbell milk

He didn't put God on their head but that is a fraud using the name of God. Internet fraudster don't used gun but still they are also fraudster. This ur baba shouldn't be talking at all because we all know how he got his riches.

Someone like Dangote who worked hard and strive hard to do geniue Business to get his money should be the one saying dis not all these fake ass pastors who parade themselves as men of God which are not.

Amotolongbo:
Hmmm

Now I understand the difference between a man who borrowed from bank to finance his project and another one who depends on other people’s gift and offering to finance his project.

Dangote’s worth is $14billion while the cost of Dangote’s refinery is about $19billion

I like ur analogy, who borrowed is far far better than someone who milk others to become Rich.

Nawa for this country, police go kill, army go kill, Dss go kill, ritualist go kill, kidnappers go kill, Fulanis herdsmen go kill, bokoharam go kill, bandits go kill, cultist go kill. All of all this killings for one country! And yet we are talking of defending UKRAINE WEN THERE IS WAR DOWN HERE IN NIGERIA.

TeamLeader:
My reply to her

Bros take another loan now accordingly to the money they debited u from ur account then make use of the money when is time to pay back the loan tell them u have paid already with ur debit alert which she asked u to keep as record.

Is a very simple matter that doesn't required much stress as long as u are the one to pay back no prob. U have already paid for the loan u are taking now

Blackfire:
Russia beware of us

Nigeria should be the one to beware of Russia. Just one missile that Russia will send to Nigeria. Nigeria and Nigerians will be history

Wisdomkosi:
Court Judgement : Gov. Umahi Triumphs As Court Asks Parties To Enforce February 28 Judgment | #IgbereTV

...Upholds the Ebonyi State Cybercrimes Prohibition Law




Source : https://igberetvnews.com/1416340/court-judgement-gov-umahi-triumphs-court-asks-parties-enforce-february-28-judgment/

Our law is just back and front. I just don't understand anything why is our country law system a failure to the Rich but very powerful and superior to the poor?

WowSweetGuy:
Those loan sharks will defame you on a day default or so tagging you any sort of name even with your pics sent to all your contacts, no matter how long you have been a good customer servicing their greedy shortest term loan with super interest... loan like 6500 to repay 13000 in 7days and still come to ask for repayment after disgracing you. I don't know if they think?!

Haahhahhahha if Ogun kill him how u go take collect ur money?

EBMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1416293/sunday-igboho-speaks-third-world-war-release-detention-photo-video/

Hope the FG have paid the billions court asked them to pay u for compensation?

fergie001:
Ebun-Olu Adegboruwa, SAN
05/03/2022

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Nigerians pray for your country oooo. They are begining to introduce religion to the Forces. So that when they want to carry out their distarded act they will know whom to kill and whom not to kill.

Is a very simple matter quickly the Muslims will know who are Muslims and who are not. Is all part of the agenda to wipe out the people of God from Nigeria.

Pray! Pray!! Pray!!!

dapatro:
But you sha like wahala small ooo

Why didn't you apologize at the beginning and move on

A wise person could have done that! But exchanging word with ur boss is very stupid.

But some people pride will not allow them to get sense.

Abfinest007:
Pastor righteousness please come too think they've produce the mark of the beast

Do you understand the mark of the beast at all? This has nothing to do with the mark of the beast. If you understand what the seal of God is in that same revelation that speaks of the mark of the beast u will know what it means.

I just prayed that the will of God be done, any politicians that want to instigate a coup that will lead to the eradication of all Nigerians from Nigeria by these Fulanis led administration I cancel in the name of Jesus.

This is exactly the revelation a brother recieved from the LORD that Buhari will be dethroned through coup and the end of Nigeria and Nigerians will be as a result of that coup. The enemies has been planning all this for a while now and only prayer can undo it.

All Christian's and believer's in this forum please pray and pray and pray for this country Nigeria. Before this man came out to say this it means is true. Pray for Nigeria because what will follow the coup will be too dangerous as the Fulanis will wipe out all Nigerians especially the CHRISTAINS. Pray!!!

[quote author=Profamir post=110669442]Don't you think the man should also assess himself (standard of living) when he was dating the two girls and changes that comes to dating each of them.[/quote

Forget about all those stories that says some women brings badluck and some brings goodluck to me thats bullshit. Any man God has blessed can't be curse that's just my take on it.

The only thing I see in life is dat when u are rich the love and respect u get from people especially ladies is very high. But 100% of them don't really love u or respect u but the "MONEY" if anything happens to u dats when u will know who truely loves you. That's the basic of Life.

But in ur suffering, in ur rags u see a woman who stood by you for all these years without cheating on u, and even when people came to seek her hand in marriage she refuse until u convince her to marry dat person and before the marriage you still had a very bad time with her dat leads to pregnancy.

What I see here is genuine LOVE! Love dat is from the depths of her heart.

If this guy lose this girl and marry this new one am not a prophet ooo but u all will hear the gist.

OGBEREIJEBU:
Stright to point

I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28.
Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.

The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.

I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.

Her hubby took her to Abuja.

Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.

I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me.
she travelled down to Lagos to see me.
I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy.
I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came.
She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing.
She informed me the baby is mine.

I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive.

The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.

Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.

How can I handle this situation?

Oga your real wife is Oguchi I will advice you call off that ur wedding plan with that ur fiance and marry Oguchi. She stands with u when u are nothing, and am sure she will love you forever.

Look at the possibilities of these ur new found wife. Don't allow that to push u to marry the wrong woman because u will regret it all the days of ur life.

Oguchi and your son should be ur final bus stop. A word is enough for the wise.

BoBiafra:
http://saharareporters.com/2022/02/28/cameroonian-forces-encroach-nigerian-territory-seize-farmalands-nigerians

It seems that our Nigeria securities don't have the man power to protect our border's. They only have the man power to kill innocent citizens and also killed innocent Biafra. What a shame to this administration. Administration of Evils!

Osagyefo98:
Video link below


https://twitter.com/Shomolutogethe1/status/1497599031358504962?t=PF6x0ciDAbLxcqSTHEvsJw&s=19

Or


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Security situation under outgoing Governor Obiano has deteriorated to nothingness.

The security situation is completely zero with no solution at sight.

Under maduabuchukwu security situation in the state has gone to dogs.

Even in his capital he has lost control. Decisiveness is one of the virtue of a good leaders in dealing with terrorists and miscreants but in the case of Anambra state it is a different issue.

It is only in anambra that you will see a Governor 24 hours under the influence of alcohol.

May the soul of those killed through this tragic end rests in perfect peace.

Not every man dat die deserve to rest in peace. Now will these man rest in peace? When his death brought alot of death in his funeral?

He will rest in pain, he will rest in regret, he will rest in torment. There is not rest in peace for unbelievers.

Illuminatiship:
sorry I forget the people with the ashawao syndrome are your sisters and mother (ode) minister of sympathy..

Sometimes I wonder how people see other humans being. My friend you are not supposed to be human but an evil Spirit because everything about you is Evil. Right from inside your heart to the outside is full of Evil. Someone like u will never make progress in life bcus u are Evil. Change the way u think or behave and repent from your Evil mindset and be free from this demonic possession that is affecting ur sense of reasoning.

Have never seen this kind of rubbish in my years of staying on Earth.

A president and a Minister of Petroleum that his country is in fuel scarcity.

Is going out on 2weeks vacation! Wow! Have never seen dis kind thing before. Really of Truth this is not Buhari, indeed Buhari is dead

Illuminatiship:
Nor be evil sprit its pretence because of lack of sex just say ashawo syndrome.

You can see how corrupted you are! Common sense you don't have. If this happens to u or your younger sisters will you come here and say this rubbish you just dish out now?

Sometimes is not by force to comment I am highly disappointed at you.

Evil Spirit is real, Satan is real, demon's are a real thing if u have not been in a place where they do deliverance you won't understand.

Funnyandviral:
You just gave your opinion, you have a biased mind, and you don't want to look beyond what you holy book taught you.

All I said is the only proof you can give that you are on the right path is Christains will go to heaven, and that's because we both don't know, you claim to be sure, but deep down you know you are not sure. So, you can't tell me Christains will live longer, Christains will be very rich, Christains will never fall sick or have accident, Christain will not die, because you know we can see those things clearly around us.

You talked about casting out devil, LOL, if you are yoruba, you will know that ifa priest do cast out devil very well, as a muslim, I can't count the number of times I watched imams speak to jinns, and chased them out of people, several times Alfas performs miracles, I have an unbiased mind, so I don't force my religion on others. Even Buddhist also cast out demons, and do testimony like you Christains do.

So, whatever religion you are doing, the only thing that we can proof we will enjoy is where we will be after life, and that's because we don't know yet, as a Muslims, I believe that after life we true Muslims are all going to Heaven.

But, I don't deceive myself with the popular believe which religious people have that your prayers is answered more than people of other religion or you will live longer or you will be richer.

Why do I have to look beyond what I have read from the Bible? Is there any lie in it? Because the Bible is the only true work of God.

The only care I have for others outside Christainity is for them to believe in Christ Jesus and accept him dats all.

Every other religion is of this world. Christainity is the way to the Father and is no man religion but God owns people.

Funnyandviral:
You think you know God. What makes you think people of other religion are worshipping Satan.

In this life, the only proof you Christains can give is to say, after death, Christains will go to heaven and others will go to hell!!! And that's what we both know you are not sure about, you were told that or you read that in a book. You can't tell us you are getting any special now, or something good is happening or will happen to you and other wise for us, except after what will happen after death.

I have series of proof that after death those who don't believe in Jesus will be condemned but those who believe in him shall be save and inherit the Earth.

Even aside the Bible have seen or witness a situation of someone dying and at the same time proclaiming that God is real and heaven is real and hell fire is real. And also that person keep on seeing the Dead roaming around before he gave up the Ghost.

So if I have experience those things and have also been previledge to be in the mist of BRETHRENS casting out demons from someone. I will advice u to find yourself in such a place and see the full manifestation of a demon posses person! How demons speak through the person and how the demon was cast out in the NAME of Jesus Christ.

Have you tried to cast out demons in the name of Mohammed? Try it one day if the demon will respond! But when ever a demon possess person hear the name of Jesus Christ there is a manifestation that tells anyone that really indeed the name of Jesus Christ saves!

So I have experience real power and change in my life. And All this happened because of Jesus Christ.

To conclude any man or woman who doesn't believe in Jesus Christ is already condemned and hell fire is the person eternal home.

But who ever believes in Jesus is saved and eternal life will the person have.

Also no man can serve or worship God outside JESUS CHRIST! Jesus is the way, the Truth, and the Life and no man comes to the Father except through him.

So without Jesus no man can serve God, and what does that tells you? It means that only true believers in Christ Jesus can serve God.
Christains!

ajl:
".....who knows to tell you that we don't serve an imaginary creature but the living God who created the Heaven and the Earth and we are to tell others about His Love for all.

I generally don't have issue with other people's belief except if such beliefs has blinded their eyes to the point that its affecting the well beings of others in the society.

So, you really think and feel you are worthy enough to serve God? Yoruba spiritual beliefs tells us that it's God that is actually serving us. We are not worthy enough. That we should bother about serving one another. Just give praise to God for serving you.

This world is beyond what you assume or take it to be. Start by accepting that you do not know enough. Or is there anyone who know it all. Likewise the knowledge and wisdom in the entirety of this universe goes beyond a single religious book. That's why you should be a seeker rather than a religious individual.

All that I need to seek is in the hands of Jesus Christ. That's why He said seek and he shall find. No other way except Jesus Christ. not even your Yoruba traditionalists they are all Men with or without the knowledge of the Divine Spirit and His plans.

Reasons is that Satan knew only few about the plans of God for humanity that's why He foolishly Killed Jesus Christ because He doesn't what the Father has in mind for that.

So same with all those who worship aside the true worshipping in the Spirit. Because only the spirit of a man knows everything about that man. So when we have the Holy Spirit in us He will guide us to all Truth and even revealed the deep things of God to us. Deep things that Satan or any other religion knows.

ajl:
".....who knows to tell you that we don't serve an imaginary creature but the living God who created the Heaven and the Earth and we are to tell others about His Love for all.

I generally don't have issue with other people's belief except if such beliefs has blinded their eyes to the point that its affecting the well beings of others in the society.

So, you really think and feel you are worthy enough to serve God? Yoruba spiritual beliefs tells us that it's God that is actually serving us. We are not worthy enough. That we should bother about serving one another. Just give praise to God for serving you.

This world is beyond what you assume or take it to be. Start by accepting that you do not know enough. Or is there anyone who know it all. Likewise the knowledge and wisdom in the entirety of this universe goes beyond a single religious book. That's why you should be a seeker rather than a religious individual.

We are not Worthy enough to serve God that's the truth! And that's why the Bible say those who must worship God must do it in the SPIRIT!!!

You are not Worthy to serve God but His Spirit has made you worthy through the blood of the Lamb(Jesus Christ?.

When that Spirit is in you it is no longer you that is living but the Spirit that is in you, because your body is dead to sin but the God Almighty gives you life through His Spirit.

I do not claim to know it all, but the little I have known through the Holy Spirit is Truth and is Life. And the Holy Spirit is teaching me continually.

With the Grace of the LORD God has given me a Spirit that passeth all understanding.
Amen!

fergie001:
Credit: Armstrong Bakam

You see how hypocritical this people can be with their religion? Wow!!! I can't can't even believe it! Religion of peace indeed! What they condemned as sin! Very soon they will say Allah instructed them to do so.

Hisban is the greatest disgrace in all history of religious police!