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Coolbadguy:
You can't even wish them success and you want people to wish you success, it is what you wish someone that's what you will get in return, so please wish them good if you also want success in life and learn how to appreciate someone no matter how big or small the person looks like because you are not God.

u sound superstitious and stupidly religious. If success comes by merely wishing good luck, Africa shouldn't be a third world country. if u give birth to children, just teach them only success-wishing since that's all that will guarantee their success at school and in life.

For once you guys should come off stupid beliefs and superstition. In a game of competition your winning is determined first by, Your quality as a participant, Strategy, Skills; luck plays insignificant role.

You think since the inception of world cup that we don't wish our African teams success, so why hasn't any of then reached semi-final not to talk of lifting the trophy?

Jeff, Gate, Mark, Aliko, all achieved greatness because they are success wishers.

Not even a single exceptional footballer among them. The caption should really read "30 comedians who want to go try their luck." Sometimes I sit down and ask myself, what is really wrong with African footballers? Don't these bunch of mediocre aspire for greatness, working so hard like Kante, messy, Ronaldo, MoSalah etc?
I understand that their only motivation is to claim to be footballers with stupid awful hairstyles like that of a madman, driving around streets in this shithole stupid fairly used cars, that's all. For over twenty years now most of them have been playing football, yet, see the stupid clubs they go pack themselves.
Don't these comedians get envious when they see others break and set records and receive awards?
When will Nigeria get a squad like the 1994 guys who were talented, hard working, ambitious and devoted so hungry for greatness?

I bet you these comedians can't beat any team in the world cup, unless if the team is made up of disables.

The rate at which Nigerian youths join cultism these days is alarming.

Emilokoiyawon:
Bisi is Yoruba name. The Yoruba blood in him is responsible for his engineering brilliance.

Yoruba Amaka

Lol. Bisi is not a Yoruba name, okay. It's the short form of Chibisi, which means God is the head.

Those Fulani's killing people in the north will never go unpunished. Imagine children they've made orphans, wives they've made widows, husbands they've made widowers, parents they've made childless. Tell me why they won't remain cursed from generation to generation.
And to this angel of a woman, keep it up being good no matter what. Try make the girl somebody in life. U are indeed storing up blessings for yourself and your children.

From her write-ups she sounded so happy, fulfilled and achieved - these are some of the benefits of doing good to and for others. The giver benefits more.

If you don't live to touch lives positively, my bother, my sister, you are merely existing like other lower animals in the forest.

rusher14:
The problem with most of you is your bigotry.

I.would say no more.

u just described yourself, your kinsmen and the rest of this shithole. enjoy your buhari until hunger reset una brains

[quote author=rusher14 post=67192419]If he doesn't go with Chinedu or Emeka he hasn't gone with business men ?
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Is Otedela either chinedu or Emeka?....
And I said, smart ones who will do deals that will favour the masses.. talking about your chinedu or emeka, check all the regions in Nigeria, who pilots economic activities in those regions, it is either chinedu or Emeka. ethnicity apart, Nigerians know better, people who can turn around the economy positively.. and sorry u know them too, chinedu or emeka

Buhari always prove to be ethnic biased. We have a lot of smart business guys from the south who can and will always strike meaningful deals in trips like this. the likes of Elumelu, Ovia, Otedele, Ifeanyi Uba and lots more, but he doesn't go with those smart business guys, instead he makes his trip look like a village meeting with dumb assess who always feel shy and intimidated around westerners.

I see this whole thing as Chimamanda trying to create a controversy around herself and in return her book sales skyrocket... boy think, controversy sells....

And just look at it, everybody is asking, who is this Chimamanda??


Sharp Igbo girl....

Go ahead and tell anyone he listens to about this addiction, because saving his life is far better than the friendship you want to save. Think about if he runs mad or dies, which friendship will u save?

But before u tell any of those people close to him about his addiction, first warn him that u will do that, but not because u want to betray him but because u love him and wants him healthy and alive, that u don't mind losing the friendship if that telling will save his life.

But on a serious note, your written language is so poor unlike a sound graduate.

I wonder if u are among the youths Buhari was referring to as lazy, coz it's obvious your staying in the university was to pass exams and get a certificate. Lol.....

Expensive joke though....

Proudlyngwa:
I know the definition of lazy, I said show me where he said Nigerian youths are lazy.

From the video, i quote Buhari "they are claiming that Nigeria is an oil producing nation therefore they should SIT AND DO NOTHING....."


Dictionary definition of "LAZY" Not liking to work hard or do anything.

Now ask yourself if that statement, "they should sit and do nothing is not in expression talking about one who is LAZY.

I wonder why people like you keep defending this man despite the glaring fact that he is a failure?

Now I know why, because you and your likes who voted him and still defend his gross incompetency and mediocrity are mentally lazy to read about his past, and present actions and inactions.

Proudlyngwa:
Mr man kindly point where he called Nigerian youths lazy, I might have missed it, I have provided references to the one i watched.

Get your dictionary and look up the definition of lazy... then watch the video thereafter...

ChidiAlaigbo:
Oni gbese, oga debtor sure you must be igbo? Debt shame nor dey catch una!
I wIll leave my house empty instead of renting to una people
sorry to derail op

Daft simpleton that is putting on a human looks thinking he is a human. Everyone owes in this world.

How has this poo u excreted helped the troubled man?

ChidiAlaigbo:
Oni gbese, oga debtor sure you must be igbo? Debt shame nor dey catch una!
I wIll leave my house empty instead of renting to una people
sorry to derail op

Daft black man that has no sense. What has this poo got to do with the young man asking your advice? Backward simpleton.

ikukuhero:
Your last sentence is annoying. You didn't even suggest to him to double his hustle to make more money to pay off the debt or how to pay his debt. All you had to say was " ask him to the u and sell you.". People like u never pay their debts. Cunning kind of person you are. You owe a debt and you are here bragging about not paying it. People like you make good people cease helping others in need. To the poster in need of advice, I think you should plead with your friend and make an effort to pay back in bits. It could be 10k or more per month. Just let ur friend see that you have him in mind, are grateful for assisting u in time of need, etc. You can start Uber car driving to get some cash. But, NEVER take a loan to pay this debt. Just show some commitment towards offsetting your debt. And next time, do not borrow to bury the dead, do naming, marriage, etc. You should have done a small burial within ur means, but no! You wanna show that u are the first son. See what u go urself into.

Finally, don't lose ur integrity for it is the only thing a man takes to his grave. Begin paying ur debt piecemeal. Give yourself a 1 or 2 year repayment plan and tell ur friend about it. Good luck as you pass through life's school of hard knocks.

Again, this guy asks for advice from people so if u think I am missing out something, what u need do is to add it up. And that makes it complete instead of being an invigilator assessing what advice that is good or not good for the guy. This guy us an adult and will read all advice's and pick ones that are good, so its not your job to pick out bad advice for him.

About helping people, if u stop doing good to others just because of your bad experiences then, in the first place ur intentions for doing good is selfish. Remember, while we were yet sinners Christ died for us. If God can still show us favour despite our sins, why stop doing good to others just because of a few bad experiences? All good we do is for God not for human.

Remember Our Lord's Prayer "Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors"....

Mind u, I condemn abuse of trust in the strongest term.

ikukuhero:
Your last sentence is annoying. You didn't even suggest to him to double his hustle to make more money to pay off the debt or how to pay his debt. All you had to say was " ask him to the u and sell you.". People like u never pay their debts. Cunning kind of person you are. You owe a debt and you are here bragging about not paying it. People like you make good people cease helping others in need. To the poster in need of advice, I think you should plead with your friend and make an effort to pay back in bits. It could be 10k or more per month. Just let ur friend see that you have him in mind, are grateful for assisting u in time of need, etc. You can start Uber car driving to get some cash. But, NEVER take a loan to pay this debt. Just show some commitment towards offsetting your debt. And next time, do not borrow to bury the dead, do naming, marriage, etc. You should have done a small burial within ur means, but no! You wanna show that u are the first son. See what u go urself into.

Finally, don't lose ur integrity for it is the only thing a man takes to his grave. Begin paying ur debt piecemeal. Give yourself a 1 or 2 year repayment plan and tell ur friend about it. Good luck as you pass through life's school of hard knocks.

This is one thing I hate about blacks, they are always fault finders, yet they don't solve any problem. First if only the fault u noticed, u must be stupid, plain stupid. second if u had read the young man's story well u will understand that he is doing everything in his means to pay up, and he doesn't sound like one who wont pay the debt. He is working hard to solve the problem, just that he should be patient. His problem is the pressure on him which is affecting him psychologically. Mind u if he doesn't get this psychological thing solved he won't get himself together to do any hustling, he might even lose his life. When one faces a challenge, the first is to get hold of his senses, then the rest will be history with time. and that's where my emphasis lie.

If u had read my comments, I mentioned that the borrower did him no wrong so he shouldn't take offence in the pressure, rather be loyal and plead with him to give him time. But u seem to not have noticed all these, instead u chose to be an alliterate, emotional, sentimental simpleton.

To be frank with u, this is not Europe or America where u see things do if u are serious, even if u don't have money. Nigeria is not a place u see hustling do easily if u have no finances or support.

I don't take pride in willingly hurting others, but when one has done all his possible best to solve a problem and nothing works, its maturity to accept it that way, but keep working smarter and harder until things improve instead of doing things one will regret in the future.

Ask yourself why people kill themselves? They allow the problem to eat their psych.

Now take your bitterness with you and next time when helping one, don't be judgemental rather, be empathetic.

To me, all u wrote is just poo, u make no sense, maybe because things work for y easily. it doesn't work that way for millions in Nigeria.

Texrec:
I have tried to beg him to givee some time to sort myself out and pay him his money. But he keeps threatening me with statements like "I have someone in DSs and he's waiting for my call to act". That's why I opened this thread because the guy doesn't want to wait.

Lol. So DSS be your fear? Nothing dey happen joor..

Go read my advice again. DSS will only ask u when u will pay him.....

einsteine:
So that's what you call Karma. You are a very funny dude. If I know that I can commit evil acts and I won't pay for it, rather my lineage (whom I would likley never meet) would pay for it, then why won't I commit evil? You are the one who is refusing to use your brain and understand that there's nothing like karma. That's why when you commit evil and police arrest you, the courts send s you to prison. They don't tell you, hey bro, go home and wait for Karma. There is nothing like karma. The only repercussions for evil comes from a strong justice system not some ridiculous spiritual concept that doesn't make sense.

The whites pillaged and destroyed many civilizations (wiping out the Native Americans and enslaving Africans). Guess which race is most progressive today? the Whites. Where's your Karma to hunt those ones, huh?

Karma my foot.

Okay. U are talking as a young man... When you get older u will understand.. argument closed.. cheers..

Listen up dear, verify the fact about the lady, if she is married and stayed married, then, one fear knocked off.

Second, verify if the child was as a result of youthful exuberance and recklessness, then if that's the case, another fear knocked off.

Third, does he exhibit signs of womanizing or unfaithfulness, if no, another fear knocked off.

Last, ask yourself, truthfully if u can take the child as yours and treat the child with love, if u can, another fear knocked off.

Don't forget to speak with mature ones from the guy's family and urs about the issue...

If you believe in God, then seek His blessings.....

cheers.

Call her and sit her down and talk to her about the issue. remind her the consequences of her actions (losing her true love, which is u to sweet talkers on Facebook).

Now, take this Rule of life, "If you want to survive in this world, don't be afraid to lose anything u value so much."

If u can condition your heart this way, u are a real man.

Don't be afraid to lose her. Good thing no dey finish for this world my dear.


cheers...

Listen my dear, I have been in such debt bondage, even now, I haven't paid the money. There was a time pressure was so much that I nearly went insane.

The truth is, you have to calm down and know he won't do anything to you. Always pick his calls even if ten times a day, and always plead with him each time, and politely ask him if he can take any of your properties in place of the money since u can't pay it for now. Don't dodge him and don't be rude to him. He did u a great favour, so don't see him as a bad person. All those gragra is just to put pressure on u and nothing else, believe me, he won't do anything. Forget about your ego, let him tarnish it so far as its about a debt, everyone has been in such debt bondage.

The worst he can do is to arrest u, but then, any authority u are taking to will do nothing except asking u when u will pay the money.

Believe me honestly, u will be fine. But never u see him as a bad person, and don't tell I'll of him in his back.

Plead plead plead with him always and ask him to take u and sell u to get his money back......

cheers......

einsteine:
The politicians in Nigeria steal the commonwealth of Nigerians. Why hasn't Karma caught them? Karma does not exist. It's one of those things that were invented in an attempt to make people do good. Unfortunately, it doesn't exist so people continue to do bad.

If Karma existed, we would have seen the effects. People who do bad things would have later suffered for it but that's not the case.

Karma is nothing but a fairy tale.

Boy, stop arguing and learn a lesson. If u know any wicked person while u were growing up as a kid, who continued on his evil ways until his dead, go now and see what's happening to his or her lineage. These politicians u are talking about, point one of their children that is great, Tafawa belewa, IBB, OBJ, Muritala, Zik of Africa, in fact I can tell u for sure that Ziks house in Onitsha has turned into a derelict structure to the extent that during his burial, it was the state government that renovated it for the sake of burial. Even the bible says that the evil ones are on a slippery ground, they soon meet destruction. mind u my dear, evil has repercussion

I can't wait to leave this country filled with soulless selfish animals from bottom to up.

Rockyrascal:
Amusan won gold earlier today in the women's 100m hurdles final.

now compare the golds won by able bodied Nigerians and the one by disables, even in Paralympics, u will get my point.

theDEVILisHERE:
Africa is heading back to its original format, ie: righteousness, peace and balance

By the way
The "White man" (ie: all none black races) is the source of all Evil on earth
They are living on borrowed time
Don't sweat it

u sound puerile .

einsteine:
Where did you see me talk about Karma? Please read the post you quoted. I don't believe in such harebrained nonsense as Karma.

u sound like a kid. that you are ignorant of something or doesn't believe doesn't mean such a thing is never in existence. just go ask older people about one's actions, the effect in life

magicminister:
I’ve organized numerous shows and Its very difficult to break even. Ay and his sponsors will commit millions of naira to the show. From the venue, to other guest artistes that will be invited.

Every single ticket counts.

Ay’s Brother was giving out vip ticket and we all know how expensive those tickets are.

I feel his pain cos I’ve passed through same thing with people I called friends. one time I organized a show in partnership with the then “afribank”. That was one of my very first shows. Even though I got sponsors, I still invested over 1m from my personal money. This was 1m back in the days ohh...

The venue was filled to the brim but our ticket sales was abysmal.

The sponsors refused to back my subsequent shows but I found new sponsors and the rest is sha history...

The news said his brother's ticket. So what we are talking about is that one ticket....

seangy4konji:
na u draw am??

Another lazy fellow sighted. Before you argue be sure.

hmm

This always baffles me why able bodied Nigerians don't even smell gold in any Olympic, but disables keep wining golds

Lazy unserious Nairaland handlers. Europa and Champions Leagues semi finals have been drawn.

Liverpool vs AS Roma

Real Madrid vs Bayern


Arsenal vs Atletico Maldrid. etc

I think its absolute madness when one places material possessions over his immediate family member. So just his brother's ticket will make him all the profit or make him lose? Assuming he were a doctor and a sibling comes to his hospital, he should ask for deposits first before commencing treatments right, because he is running it like a business? Honestly sometimes when I read comments here I see how ruined we are as a country. Peoples mentality portrayed in their comments are horrifying. Mind u, this is how most Nigerians see things.