If you are of the school of thought that providing for the family along automatically makes you a caring father, then you are among those that risk being irrelevant to your children.
If you look at most families today, the children hardly mention their fathers when making a reference to something inspiring. I mean quoting what your father once taught you or something positive you learnt while growing up. I am referring to fathers of our time.
Today, everything is about making money and paying the bills. That is not enough. How close are you to your children? It is always the mother that attends to issues that trouble the children today. Even though fathers source for solutions at the end but the children will always remember the person that discovered the problems, or at least care to know what the problem is.
How often do we call our kids, sit them down and ask them about the kind of challenges they face in life?
Some fathers hardly call their children (far from home) on phone except the mother does and maybe pass the phone to him. This has made some people to call mostly their mothers on phone and explain situations to her rather than the father who provides the money to solve the situations.
You can see that despite most fathers provide the money, yet the mothers get most of the appreciation.
My point is, we shouldn't be too focus on just making the money. Let us remember we are also making a family too.
Let the truth be told, some women are responsible for this, they take advantage of the man's busy schedules to turn the children's minds away from the father. Till today, there are some children who thinks that it is their mothers that paid (and still paying their school fees), house rents, food, e.t.c. But as adults, we ought know better, unfortunately, some are too blinded with the so called mother love that they can't see beyond their eyebrows.
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See some of the Twitter reactions and watch video below.
Vyzz: Look at the kinda question they are asking a young girl
My Bro... Glad you noticed. So a teacher cannot tease his students once in awhile again. Believe me, if you investigate this, you notice that the so called sexual harassment was one of the teacher's occasional Silly play-outs, no strings attached.
There's no day that will past, that they won't push one topic that promotes hate against a woman to the front page.
Anything to make them mock and laugh the female gender.
BUNCH OF USELESS SHAMELESS TASTELESS BROKE SETS OF BASTARDS.
IM DONE WITH THIS BLOG.
afterall we ain't getting paid for reading news and posting comments here.
Haba hanti lol.... Why u come carry the matter for head like this nh... I get your point though, But at the same time it is still very true. This is a norm mothers has passed over newer generation, and it is not right.
cornel00: I have always wanted to ask this question for sometime now cos i don't really understand the mystery behind it.
I went to a shop to buy some provision, i tried to pay the seller with my left hand because my right hand was occupied with my tool box, she insisted i must give her the money with my right hand which i have no problem with, but i really want to know the reason so i thought bringing it up here will go a long way hearing different people's opinions.
People see it as a bad manner, but to me, it means nothing. I believe one cannot wash right hand effectively without the left hand. So why the condemnation? Is there any religious reference to back it up with?
Thank you!!!!
In the UK the number 13 is considered as bad luck, nobody wants to associate with it even in numbering houses. It is their culture and this is ours. You can't claim to be smarter than your ancestors just cos you get small western education.
Neroiam: Any man that raises his hand on a woman is an idiot walahi
Oga calm down ooo... Don't judge still you hear from the man side. As for your comment, wait till woman poison you then you know that once awhile, they need to be returned on default settings when their Bleep up reach peak.
dtnadeyemi1993: Three guys was nabbed yesterday afternoon at Orita in Igbo Agbowa Owode Ibeshe In Ikorodu by the people of the community while trying to put sacrifice on the T-Junction, they were beaten to stupor and asked to eat up their sacrifice.
is it judt sacrifice or is there another crime they committed?
IfGodbeforus: The antichrist is showing a bit of the Wickedness that will be going on here on earth after the Rapture of the Saints!
Anyone thinking or feeling this World is gonna get better, you need to wake up
It is about to go down...
In all you Do, Keep looking up..
We are getting out of here anytime
I am seriously fighting the urge to call you names right now. Honestly, you are too gullible to ignore, you are just too dangerous for a low mind. Why all these myopic thinking for heaven sake?! This is disgusting. Please stop (if you can). Damn!
Samakus: This Arthur money lonnng sha. Imagine attracting Zone 13 Police Command headquarters to his village. Now, he will just be intimidating his neighbours anyhow.
Heard he likes dragging people's lands
I tell. You need to see intimidation. He is a God in that village.
This is what happens when there is no man in the house. Check well, she is a single mother. Awon men are trash! Enjoy your baby boi!
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Try this sit in my house, even if you are the only child you will be beaten to plump, after which you will be made to sweep and replace all those food stuffs, and that car key can "never" be given to you, like ever!
Oh!... How i miss the good old days when only the presence of your father will reset your brain to default. Check well... U go see say na single mother! Enjoy.
Why does this man like destroying things painting his image black infront of international community, what is his gain?
WHO that has been in existence even before he started nursing his presidential ambition is what he's withdrawing support from.
Why not probe them and see how they have been spending the money being given to them all this while? Does he think finding a cure to a pandemic disease is that easy?
Yes we know you contribute alot to the growth of WHO, but will you make other country who are benefiting from them suffer just because of your stupidity?
This man is just sick, he's not helping America, but he's destroying their image.
Please don't quote me if you dont have any sensible thing to say, sometimes I throw away my home training to respond harshly.
When they have indirectly aided the killing of over 13k Americans? Had WHO been a country, this is an act of war.
- The hotel management should be arrested for letting a minor book a room.
- How on earth did a 17 year old afford to pay for a hotel room for 3 complete days?
- Where are the parents of those boys?
I thing these questions should be ascertained too.
Again, I always say this, a gal child is difficult to raise. At the end of the day you can't beat her as much as she had messed up cos she may end up fainting. All you will be doing is to sit and shout, and if you shout too much sef your BP go rise.
In all ee.. It is better to have a bad male child than a bad female child.
IduNaOba: For those aka enwes up there writing what I cannot even begin to can, kindly decode using your mụrụ muru coconut that the iberibelistic nature of the mosquito is the only reason why the goddamus jammad it with a wobbed shetos while migrating from headbridge to awada via iweka road onitsha. What I am trying to say is that Igbo is biancaful and the application of joy soap shall remain the portion of all my nwannemus all over the universe. To all i am karid on this platform milo tea ashaina gino tomato because the gods are still on ezigbo skirt and blouse. . . Igbo Amaka Gwazie ndị yard Ụnụ
You are so much karid, nwannemous laka mua. All protocols observed. May you walk and never stumble. For all those afonjas applying the case of Agueyi Eronsi, may their nomenclature be transformed from nwa nke madu to nwa nke muo.
For all I'm karid all over the tragentory of Mba uwa Gburugburu, may you walk and never stumble. Wisdom are the gods. I rest ma case!
tydi: And the brainless girl wouldn't raise any interactive topic that would lead to an Interesting chat thereby leading them getting to know themselves, how dumb she literally would be.
Chatting with a Nigerian girl is boring anyways.
This is 2020, brain dead girl wake up.
My brother...i just taya for an averAge nigerian gal. Even if the guy does the needful.. Hanti wee start needing 2k urgently!
IfGodbeforus: So many Mysteries in the world are being unraveled in these times. The End is truly at Hand.
But thou, O Daniel, shut up the words, and seal the book, even to the time of the end: many shall run to and fro, and knowledge shall be increased. Daniel 12:4
Brethren, be on alert! Watch and Pray so you don't fall a prey in this injury time..
Anytime from now..... we will be taken away
Seriously, what is wrong with you?! Must you twist every story that made it here to your "end time" propaganda?! Just stop already. If you are quick to meet your creator go ahead and do the needful with sniper Orange juice and leave us the Bleep alone!
Just Imagine?! No reasonable or educative comment, just properganda!!
EzzyCarter: Imagine having the appetite to struggle for the burial rice of someone who died of Covid-19. Chai. Hunger bad o. Hustle o!!! May we not know poverty in life. Coz if this ain't poverty, then I don't know what it is