Moheat:

Funnily, you don't know what you are saying.

CondemnBattery:
So I saw a thread earlier, and decided to educate husbands in the house how to play the home politics, just as adviced by my pastor's wife.

My pastor's wife thought me a valuable lesson. She legitly told us to be smart as husbands, when the kids did something wrong in your absence and your wife did not discipline the child, but waits for you to come back and discipline them, don't. Make sure she disciplines them herself, otherwise your kids will think you are the wicked one and the evil one.

Don't always give your wife all the money to buy things for the kids, take the children out to the market, buy them clothes, take them to the grocery store, buy the provision in their present. Let them know you are the one buying them. If you buy them shoes or anything, make sure they are aware that you are the one buying them. If you do all these, the kids will love you more. This is 2022, don't allow your wife rob you of your years of labor when it's time to reap.

You can add your own way of playing the family politics.

Please if this is front page worthy, kindly move to fp, so men can learn 1 or 2 this new year.

May our wives not take all our glory all in the name of I'm too busy in Jesus name. Amen

CondemnBattery:
So I saw a thread earlier, and decided to educate husbands in the house how to play the home politics, just as adviced by my pastor's wife.

My pastor's wife thought me a valuable lesson. She legitly told us to be smart as husbands, when the kids did something wrong in your absence and your wife did not discipline the child, but waits for you to come back and discipline them, don't. Make sure she disciplines them herself, otherwise your kids will think you are the wicked one and the evil one.

Don't always give your wife all the money to buy things for the kids, take the children out to the market, buy them clothes, take them to the grocery store, buy the provision in their present. Let them know you are the one buying them. If you buy them shoes or anything, make sure they are aware that you are the one buying them. If you do all these, the kids will love you more. This is 2022, don't allow your wife rob you of your years of labor when it's time to reap.

You can add your own way of playing the family politics.

Please if this is front page worthy, kindly move to fp, so men can learn 1 or 2 this new year.

May our wives not take all our glory all in the name of I'm too busy in Jesus name. Amen

CondemnBattery:
So I saw a thread earlier, and decided to educate husbands in the house how to play the home politics, just as adviced by my pastor's wife.

My pastor's wife thought me a valuable lesson. She legitly told us to be smart as husbands, when the kids did something wrong in your absence and your wife did not discipline the child, but waits for you to come back and discipline them, don't. Make sure she disciplines them herself, otherwise your kids will think you are the wicked one and the evil one.

Don't always give your wife all the money to buy things for the kids, take the children out to the market, buy them clothes, take them to the grocery store, buy the provision in their present. Let them know you are the one buying them. If you buy them shoes or anything, make sure they are aware that you are the one buying them. If you do all these, the kids will love you more. This is 2022, don't allow your wife rob you of your years of labor when it's time to reap.

You can add your own way of playing the family politics.

Please if this is front page worthy, kindly move to fp, so men can learn 1 or 2 this new year.

May our wives not take all our glory all in the name of I'm too busy in Jesus name. Amen

CSTRR:

Most women portray an overly exaggerated negative view of their husbands to their children.

Atleast 90% in Nigeria.

The women will never talk about how he is funding the children school fees, and living expenses.

It's only when he did not drop enough money for soup or is shouting at her that she will talk about.

And then add the fact that it is men that bear the burden of disciplinarian.

Sacrificing our selves and reputation for the greater good, while the mother is there smelling of roses.

Fridaya30:
Bath them too , pack the pups, replace the pampers, breastfeed the baby, pamper ham if na cry the baby Dey cry, be there always to attend to the baby’s needs �.
Abeg find another thing talk about. U think say e easy to be a mother. I be man o. Before u come replying yin yin yan yan yan

CondemnBattery:
So I saw a thread earlier, and decided to educate husbands in the house how to play the home politics, just as adviced by my pastor's wife.

My pastor's wife thought me a valuable lesson. She legitly told us to be smart as husbands, when the kids did something wrong in your absence and your wife did not discipline the child, but waits for you to come back and discipline them, don't. Make sure she disciplines them herself, otherwise your kids will think you are the wicked one and the evil one.

Don't always give your wife all the money to buy things for the kids, take the children out to the market, buy them clothes, take them to the grocery store, buy the provision in their present. Let them know you are the one buying them. If you buy them shoes or anything, make sure they are aware that you are the one buying them. If you do all these, the kids will love you more. This is 2022, don't allow your wife rob you of your years of labor when it's time to reap.

You can add your own way of playing the family politics.

Please if this is front page worthy, kindly move to fp, so men can learn 1 or 2 this new year.

May our wives not take all our glory all in the name of I'm too busy in Jesus name. Amen

Kingpele:
Hahaha ,well am a man with kids ,if u don't want to have problems with your family members try to show real love to your wife and be faithful to her,especially during the early years of your marriage before she start to make her own money or before the kids grow up into Adults,she will be the person promoting you before your kids behind your back, because a woman can never talk ill of the real love of her life ,I travel to village for meetings and community elections for two weeks when I came back i saw that my kids really missed me cos my wife missed me ,out of the blues my second boy said to me u are the best dad in the world, I knew my wife taught him to say that while I was away ,so love your wife and take care of her needs according to your capacity u will have a peaceful life and your kids will love you and take care of you in your old age..

Omonigho1976:
You say you have a dead beat father and don't care about him, that he never paid for your school or buy food. Is that what your mother told you? Look here bro, what goes arround always comes arround, sebi you'll soon become a father and years from now when you wife replays what your mother did to your father to you, then you will understand!!!!

babyfaceafrica:
How can military and sailor daddy cope?

descarado:

They always do.
Whenever they are home, they take over 100% and give the wife the needed rest.

Most importantly allow them to feel free to express themselves before you even if they don't make sense. Don't judge. We even judge trees.

The main problem is our men are very rigid and believe if they are vulnerable, their kids won't fear them. Is fear or respect better than love.
That negatively impacts our males that's why we have so many depressed men with inferiority complex who think their problems are women.
Get a book and go through child psychology and know why Nigeria is the way it is. Everything starts from the home. Get it right with your kids and you have a progressive healthy society.

descarado:

They always do.
Whenever they are home, they take over 100% and give the wife the needed rest.

Most importantly allow them to feel free to express themselves before you even if they don't make sense. Don't judge. We even judge trees.

The main problem is our men are very rigid and believe if they are vulnerable, their kids won't fear them. Is fear or respect better than love.
That negatively impacts our males that's why we have so many depressed men with inferiority complex who think their problems are women.
Get a book and go through child psychology and know why Nigeria is the way it is. Everything starts from the home. Get it right with your kids and you have a progressive healthy society.

captainamiedi1:


shut the f**k up. if you don't kwn the story you ask questions. Nobody told me shit. i grew up to see it. i sold pure water in the holdup just to buy school uniform and books. i carry block and concrete just to buy basic things. i watch my mom do all sort of job just to provide food and pay school fees. i did farm work just to keep life moving. Nobody told me shit. in all these, baba never turn up he said he is not born to do all these kind of job. My mother and sibling fought so hard to break out of poverty. Thank God we did.

CamusMidas:

A man provides for his family not because he wants to be love or respected but because it is his responsibility.

I don't think I would have thoughtless children, but if that should be my fate; no wahala.

But the fact is that I won't be expecting anything from them, I would be more interested setting the foundation for them to achieve what they desire in life; I no get time to dey drag love with there mother.

Ladyhippolyta88:


You are not competing with your wife for their love so it shouldn't really bother you

You should consider yourself blessed that your kids even come to you and can open up to you when they want something and need your help to fix things that shows that you are valuable to them and they think about you.Some children can't even approach their fathers or play with them just be relatable to them they are still growing and you can fit into the nurturing role too because a part of men can be nurturers and sensitive to the needs of kids it isn't a women exclusive thing .

They are still little always play with them, instill values and teach them with love.

SmartPolician:


You still think like a youth.

When old age sets in, you begin to understand why this advice is important.

CondemnBattery:
So I saw a thread earlier, and decided to educate husbands in the house how to play the home politics, just as adviced by my pastor's wife.

My pastor's wife thought me a valuable lesson. She legitly told us to be smart as husbands, when the kids did something wrong in your absence and your wife did not discipline the child, but waits for you to come back and discipline them, don't. Make sure she disciplines them herself, otherwise your kids will think you are the wicked one and the evil one.

Don't always give your wife all the money to buy things for the kids, take the children out to the market, buy them clothes, take them to the grocery store, buy the provision in their present. Let them know you are the one buying them. If you buy them shoes or anything, make sure they are aware that you are the one buying them. If you do all these, the kids will love you more. This is 2022, don't allow your wife rob you of your years of labor when it's time to reap.

You can add your own way of playing the family politics.

Please if this is front page worthy, kindly move to fp, so men can learn 1 or 2 this new year.

May our wives not take all our glory all in the name of I'm too busy in Jesus name. Amen

SeriouslySense:
I wonder what can be gathered from child psychology .

ecomalchemist:
A P T, as we grow older the truth reveals itself.

descarado:

They always do.
Whenever they are home, they take over 100% and give the wife the needed rest.

Most importantly allow them to feel free to express themselves before you even if they don't make sense. Don't judge. We even judge trees.

The main problem is our men are very rigid and believe if they are vulnerable, their kids won't fear them especially the male child. Is fear or respect better than love?
That negatively impacts our males that's why we have so many depressed men with inferiority complex who think their problems are women.
Get a book and go through child psychology and know why Nigeria is the way it is. Everything starts from the home. Get it right with your kids and you have a progressive healthy society.

yomi531:
99.5 % of Africans love their moms more than their dads. Even my dad told me he loved his mom more maybe because , his dad was a polygamist. My own dad too was a polygamist but, I can say it without mincing words that I and my sisters loved our dad more. We are amongst the 0.5% of people that prefer their dads. Rip daddy