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Sometimes it is necessary and in other's it's not. One needs to evaluate the situation and determine if the past needs to be reviewed. If the motivating factor behind the inquisition is true love, the end result if guaranteed. It is much better to earn the trust of your spouse to they extend that they are free and willing to share their past with you without any prompting.

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You may like to read this wonderful couple, horrible sex life. Food for thought

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quite a list ospry. I do agree with them except the last item though. I believe no sex before marriage and that there is nothing like sexual compatability.

However, you may be quite a task to find a person that processes all those characteristics before marriage. Some of them may be a must for the person to have had while others he or she may have potentials to develop. We are all work in progress so don't expect a perfect mate.

Humans are created as social beings hence the need for face to face meetings to establish a strong bond. The internet has made the world a global village making it possible to meet people worldwide. My advice to the person involved is that you do not take the relationship serious until you have physically met the other party.

Photographs can be manipulated, and how can you be sure you are actually communicating with the person in the photo. The person may be lame, blind, disfigured or even mental. Don't let your situation be a perfect script for a home movie. Sometimes just the fact that a person is abroad cause people to abandon common sense. People marry unsuspecting ladies and turn them into sex slaves when they get abroad or even rituals.

You need to evaluate the risk involved and then make up you mind. The person abroad may be genuine and have noble intentions but you need to be careful.

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I believe sex outside marriage isn't acceptable. If you are sleeping together before marriage then why can't she sleep with someone else. Is still fornication she just chose to do with outside.

Both of you can't be trusted by God so why trust each other?

Abuse in any form should not be tolerated by any lady be it verbal, emotional, physical, financial or sexual. It is better to have a broken relationship that a broken marriage. If you notice any inclination in you BF to be abusive, show him the door immediately. It's much difficult to do this when sex is involved, the more reason why abstinence until marriage should be practised to prevent soul ties.

I can identify with loving BFs/Fiances turning hostile and abusive in the early stages of marriages. In marriage the deed is done hence more caution has to be taken and more effort to adjust made.

Marriage is a different ball game all together, and believe me you'll never know until you are married. I takes 1-2yrs to settle in and it only becomes clear after marriage that you are 2 different persons with different personalities. Bear in mind that women are really from Venus and men from Mars. read the rest of the post here

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GF/BF has a dark sexual history. Is digging into the past necessary? http://www.peleodiase.com/blog/marriage-past

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Honesty is the best policy in any relationship and should its bedrock, there shouldn't be any deception or plan to deceive any party.

Haven said that, it's crucial that you evaluate the information from the past which  you intend to share with your spouse and the amount of detail you give especially if isn't a pleasant experience. Men handle things differently from women. Guys tend to paint pictures in the mind from information, so be careful with the amount of detail you give iwhensharing you sexual encounters. He may never be able to get rid of those thoughts and sscenesfrom his mind.

Timing is of utmost importance especially when speaking to the man. You woman needs to know when and how to communicate things. This would determine whether it would be world war III or cloud 9 after that discussion.

The woman/man must earn the trust of his the other party to freely expose events of the past. As defined Intimacy is 'into-me-see To be intimate with each other you need to know each other and not be ashamed. It requires wisdom and the truth must be told in love at the right time.

Find out how to keep the love aflame from a husband's perspective here    http://www.peleodiase.com/blog/love-in-marriage

wise saying jello, I reckon you're speaking from the heart.

Relationship requires mutual trust, friendship and as you said communication. Tradition has a way of re-defining relationship especially in the African context where the man is the Lord and master and the woman his subject. No wonder the out cry for women liberation.

Women are really from venus and men from mars, relationships requires efforts and time to bossom. Here are 7 things I learnt in the first 12 months of marriage http://www.peleodiase.com/blog/7-things-i-understood-better-12-months-into-marriage

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Trust is the foundation for any good relationship. You'll always attract what you are. If you are trust worthy you'll attract trustworthy friends. There can be the odd person here and there but the de facto is always true. It up to you to choose your friends wisely and not commit to a relationship until trust has been established.

More here: http://www.peleodiase.com/blog/integrity-relationships

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This is a good idea, and as you said the possibilities are endless. There are several webmasters/developers community world wide that have come up with open sources web packages. We could work on projects tailored to the needs of industries / businesses based in Nigeria.

More thoughts,

It requires more expertise and confidence to tune a template to your taste. In my experience as a web designer, it is easier to build a website from scratch that to fine tune a template ore re-design a website (depending on the complexity of the template).

Back to the original topic on how much to charge for web design. Your rates should depend on how much work is required to be done, how much you value your time and expertise and how valuable the project is to your client.

This is the information age and ignorance is very expensive. What might seem easy for you to do may be a Herculean task for another. Don't underestimate you knowledge and how much you should charge for it, it's business and the law of demand and supply holds.

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To be frank let's keep our names the way they are. We should not lose our identity, traditions or culture. In fact traditions and cultural differences are appreciated abroad. Foreigners are fascinated by our culture and dresses and they admire them a lot even if they don't want to admit it.

The Asians have not lost their identity. In fact they are proud of it and promote it all over the world. There are Chinese restaurants world wide and they haven't changed the names of their dishes. The same applies to the Indians in the food and film industries. Bolly wood produces Indian movies and promote their culture, dresses etc but Nolly wood tends to imitate a foreign culture. What are we like?

Lets maintain our identity and not try to imitate a foreign culture.