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sickstars:
Atleast its wat we see and its happening if not i won't be wiping the tears of so many good girls i'm d one worrying about love honestly i'm done worrying wat will be shd be
Wat ever wants to happen shd happen !

worrying about gals?? won't you advice some of them to stop hurting guys too?? or is it only females that experience disappointment?

Oliviaarims:
Maybe I'm blessed with a discerning spirit, then... Or I've simply just been very lucky.

just maybe ...really can't tell

Sad Some shops in West minister is truly on fire...Situation will be calm soon though.. some traders brought out their wares close to Gtb/zenith bank.


Wat a loss for some of the traders

lalasticlala this is old news na.. The building in the picture got burnt years back close to the hotel right opposite Trinity police station along industrial road

Except Westminster is truly in fire then op get pix of West minister

sickstars:
I'm fine with my relationship

i am very open than u can ever imagine i come so plain but no matter wat if u nt a bad b*tch you aint good for a guy i kno wat i'm saying

Well its fine

sit down and ask urself questions..
who said all guys love bad girls?

sickstars:
I'm nt playing victim abeg

Just wanted to talk on behalf of most girls

Guys have broken me into pieces from dis moment
there is nothing a guy can do to shatter me ive braced up no time for guys abeg i av success to achieve

lol.. gals and victim cards.. How about guys ladies have broken into pieces? why is it that it's females who complain the most??

Back to ur comment..While I agree it's hard to really tell who is good for one or bad, I still think part of the blame goes to you.. You Jus attracted to them and maybe never looked well or ignored / friendzone the guy who might be the right person..

Ask yourself why you keep getting hurt, check ur attitude too, what kind of guy are you attracted to etc etc.

The earlier ladies understand no guy in his rift sense will leave a good girl, the better.. And when I say good girl I don't mean giving him sex alone or cooking or doing chores for him but also how supportive, caring u are..Do you atimes give him advice, u don't nag always, morally upright etc etc

sickstars:
I'm not angry i just dont understand guys

the Same way we guys don't understand ladies atimes.
I think if you really get close and are open and honest with each other, then there's a higher chance understanding will come..
Communication can make it work though..
TO UNDERSTAND GUYS, YOU YOURSELF SHOULD BE UNDERSTANDABLE TOO..once you guys are open and honest wt each other, all things will work well for you guys .

Try to listen to their perspective and vice versa then focus on turning those weakness into strength and see how it goes

misspicy:
kwakwakwakwakwakwa abeg jolllyjoy say she dey hide secrets for phone...
that's a new one biko


about insecurity that is BS
so I told a story about how a boyfriend of my friend dropped the none phone checking rule,in short she can't borrow his phone to make a call and he will never near her phone,bro she discovered she was the second girl all along

Buhahaha... ordinary call he can't drop his Fone for her.. end time people

sickstars:
I'm nt sad

didn't say you are...
ur post clearly show you are angry at male folks or you v bn hurt bfre, whatever reason, PELE.

sickstars:
I'm nt sad

didn't say you are...
ur post clearly show you are angry at male folks or you v bn hurt bfre, whichever reason, PELE.

misspicy:
OP said they have been dating for 3good years,all of a sudden she put a lock on her phone,meaning trust has been broken,because she must have trusted him during the period of 3 years,why the sudden change?


now answer this question,what will be your first thought if your boyfriend of 3 years suddenly starts locking his phone?
oh,don't give me the he just land a new business deal crap baes,he is definitely seeing someone else

keywords : trust,transparency,free with each other

True words... I I just laugh when they talk what are you looking for or insecurity..
op check if u want to check and save yourself o..
Wetin de Fone to hide? pix, videos, music, chats or Wat exactly

wkkwl:
Some are not just there..
seriously

If you chat with a foreigner,even black,white,their own perspective is different from our Naija girls abeg, lol,
omo you go enjoy chat,they want to know whats up with you,they want to everything,our Naija gurls be like "K"
person wey swear for them with "K" e no go better for that person lol..

true about chatting with foreigners.. free flow of communication from both ends which make the convo Way interesting

sickstars:
Op i'm short of words for guys, they want it when the love is torture, guys are self centered, a girl would be loyal, faithful, and honest. They kno that in their heads , but they wud fabricate stories in their mind, and giv themselves a reason to cheat, when the girl leaves they begin to regret i am really shocked with guys honestly but since they prefer hoes they shd stick with them cos if im faithful loyal and honest nd u hurt me more than i can handle thats it i leave for good cant keep wallowing in pain i'm human like you too no one hurts an innocent person and go scot free unless yoy get remorseful nd apologize thats life

Eyaa.. Pele o.

Oliviaarims:
I don't think it's that difficult to tell a good girl from a bad one.. To know when she's faithful or not.

it's one of the most difficult things to notice...
Unfaithful partner don't write on their forehead and they pretend..

players mostly act so nice and treats you like Queen ,they play their game well and leave no trace behind.. once they hit, then they are gone to the next..

If it's easy to tell a good girl from bad and vice versa, there will be less heartbreak and believe me nobody wants to end up with a bad person.

wkkwl:
omo my bro,our naija girls sha,

True,they don't even know how to keep a convo,when i start she replies me with "ok"

She is getting off my list,i don't have time for dull headed girls...

Some of them are so dumb,they don't even have a clue to stuffs,just make ups and selfie they are good for.

it's a bad though... there are alot one could talk about ranging from work, Sch, how their day went, jokes and yabbin too, tings happening around that is of concern to majority, interests etc etc..
Atimes when not in the mood I try to mk them do the talking or just ignore

wkkwl:
I can't be boring dear

How will u know am boring without getting to know me first...
f

True this even for the first time some will give you monosyllabic reply.. Chaii.. some gals ehn

It gat nothing to do with boring Nd there alot to talk about sef as times goes on but trust some of our 9jA gals who wants you to do all the talking cause they believe you are the man

agarawu23:
They are many on my chat list I abandoned like shiiit.

Her: hello
Me: hello , how u ?
Her. Cool and u?
Me: I am good
Her. KK
Me: how was your day ( just to keep the conversation going but these set of ladies are dumb as fvck)
Her: It was fine (they won't ask about yours o)
Me: good
Her : kk

Fvck off biitch

true this.. many of them don't really know how to keep conversation going and it's really not good.
What I do is tell how my day went either hectic or not and if she's wise, she will quickly grasp Wat I'm telling her to do indirectly and do same then we move on from there.

with this una list people no go marry o

artisticallyart:
I must commend your outspokenness because some are dying in silence.....great. I ma sure you would find him.

true

MRBrownJ:
but how can these women (obviously lacking), offer more than what they possess? they never focussed that in the fairytales they so want to recreate, the prince, 99% of the time, married "a princess".

yeah they think that because we men love sex (and who can blame us?) then by quickly offering us the "honey" on a platter, we will lose focus on all what they are lacking... and sadly some desperate men do, and go on to marry these trophy wives.

maybe they can work on it and learn from their counterparts ..true about sex thing though.

support, advice, encouragement, gifts no matter how small etc Also go along way in getting a guy.

Infact they should simply reciprocate any thing their guy do for them...
Atimes u see many makin a list of qualities they want in their partner and sadly they themselves don't even possess any of those qualitie.

Jolllyjoy:
have been waiting for u there with a bottle of beer

tell him to give u wine with a plate of pepper Soup

MRBrownJ:
yeah but sadly, we all know too well that many of these women have NOTHING to offer a man, apart from their body.

very true and it's sad how some want everything in a guy..

Guys ain't just looking for sex alone as many of them believe... it goes beyond that

Jolllyjoy:
an innocent.am not a winsh dat meet in hidden places pls

didn't call u a witch o.. you know the cool spot we always hang out

MRBrownJ:
many think they can trap men, and hurry an unplanned marriage, thanks to a pregnancy.

that's what many still believe till today evn if they see ur post it won't change.. sex doesn't really keep a man

Jolllyjoy:
na paper dash me suit

meet me at our meeting place

Jolllyjoy:
Mr ibu was designed to be a poor man but for his talent.


See as he be for suit

is that suit or coat

CoCoLav:
Already using chewing gum to bond it. So thank you but I will pass :p

wicked

MRBrownJ:
@DGKN
count your blessings and move on with your life... if the only thing that you guys have of value is two past abortions, then no wonder he is leaving you. you havent been able to come up with a good reason (apart from 2 abortions) as to why you guys should stay together.

pls dont forget to give a dirty slap to whoever told you that having 2 abortions for a guy meant he will never leave you.

True this... she's to blame partially.. the guy Neva raped her or he didn't carry out abortion on her himself..
Atimes I wonder where some people put their brain when they are in love.

I don't know what she is expecting having unprotected sex

YourMain:
Yes but the op didn't talk about emotional or physical needs. He stated when a woman dresses like a queen everyday she must be some sort of escort. That's really disrespectful and so wrong.

very true dear... I have female friends updating the rubbish on facebook for weeks now and can only shake my head ..

Very poor thinking... The question I keep asking is who will invest in the man.. thought giving in relationships shouldn't be one sided..

following..

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]And the woman is foolish enough to think these men don't know about her sluttish attitude.?

Men that would have discussed her matter on a bottle of red wine and some fish barbecue at one bar on an evening weekend.

She thinks it's a secret.

Madam abeg keep adding more managers to your score. When they reach 10 come and tell us.

So many ladies in the corporate world have caught themselves in this type of web and they can't come out of it easily.[/color]

true... if only we know what's going on out there

KTBFFH