₦airaland Forum

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I don't think that being on the phone is always going hunting.  Person could just be still catching up/finishing work or gisting with friends.  Which just means that talking to the spouse/children at that particular time is not the priority.  [/color]

I didn't mean that one shouldn't interact with his or her pals once married. If you read my last post, i said AFTER, that is when some persons must have come back and feeling a kinda guilty, they will hide their faces infront of the BB or lappie. Do you understand? This isn't trying to generalize because i a m always doing one thing or the other with my laptop(either writing or checking up with my partners very late at night because of different time zones ) but whoever that is with me then will understand the work schedule. This is just the case with lots of young men/women these days but THERE ARE STILL SOME THAT HIDE INFRONT OF THE BB/LAPPIE AFTER SCOUTING, I maybe wrong but i have seen one or two cases. Anyway the issue is that many people are getting married today just because they want to answer MR or MRS. I don't subscribe to that at all!

spyder880:
Work on themselves just because the man uses his BB at home? Excuse me! So this man should stop making money just because he is married? Do you think its only FB and other fun sites that is accessible to BB. Please ease up your marriage, dont place restrictions on yourself just because you are married. Marriaage is very elastic and cn accomodate all aspects of life.

It seems you don't quite understand. Nobody is saying anybody should throw away his or her BB just because he or she is married but some men or women will go "HUNTING" and soon as they get back home, they will just shower and hold their BB as if their lives depends on it. Its just damned deceitful sometimes.

@ D-Sense or whatever you call yourself. I wanted to ignore you but it is important you are corrected. the COMPOSER of that poem  is OFALA. And Miriam is his wife too. ODE! You could have seen the source too. It was written by OFALA. Don't think everybody here is just DUMB like you,ok? Happy val, that is, if you know what it is at all,

zayhal:
Seconded

Not that he'll say he's home but will be busy with BB or laptop all through.

This boils down to issue of being friends with ones partner. Many are now in love with their BB instead of the person they are married to. I still believe that even if the couple discovers that something is amiss in their relationship, they should WORK ON THEMSELVES

The North and their usual empty talks! Who are these North and what interest do they represent in the present democracy?

ODE TO MIRIAM, MY VALENTINE

Dabbles in a land so distant
Every doings dearly living;
for your scent severally shuttles
from that South,to this East
our cause;unequally unique
And like rock: our beliefs bellied
for with every tender we tangled
Now,the sea stands between
Our fusion still over flowing
Your faithfulness,surely undaunted

From dew till dawn will I prove:
all prowess' of yours;
to every sundry in serious spreading
May not be seen:
but your steps steadily sparkles
And on mortals:
Your pace unsparingly pierce,
your grace gallantly gags
every goblin and glory
Your posture in pleasing;
peels every flattery

Your signs some may snugger
But your dealings dearly dazzles
Sweatlessly;
Sleekly
and smilingly,you unscrews
all squabbles from all quarters

Overmuch:
Lay I drunk!
And my dreams;
Your edible breasts edify
My soul,
your supernaturalities doth steadily arose
A thousand thanks;rare gem
for your aroma,and armada
Heaven;
being kinder-
My candour'll soon be caressed
by your permanent physical presence
My cherished,cherry Chiaka
Your tact's intact:
all lilies'll liven
and grand carnivals commanded-
That very 'I do' day
With cheerful cheerleaders
celebrating our union
From every bedrock
Of heaven's canopy.

----------- OFALA


http://africhat.com.ng/showthread.php?tid=91&pid=173#pid173

LA2:
You are who you are. It's perfectly normal and ok to find other women attractive even in a sexual way. What is not ok is when people make you feel sinful because of your sexual orientation.

Please come back home immediately!

Maybe he is coming to RIGHT the wrongs of his late dad!!!

spyder880:
Some men I know hide to sleep in the hotel at night, while claiming the are working out of town. Just to prolong their lives!

Can this be true!? Its quite unimaginable.What kinda differences will be there between couples that one should hang out just to avoid the other. It boils down to one factor:the two aren't friends.NOT DATING PLEASE. Friends can quarrel but it wouldn't be that deep because there are things they must have shared together that will make one or two of them look back no matter how ugly the situation.

I pray that this doesn't end at mere the drawing boards. Nice for now. We will watch the development.

cold:
This thin called marriage sef don tire me,na by force to marry.Damned if u do,damned if u don't  

, This is quite amusing but the truth is that if getting married is because every other person do, i wouldn't but you really have to find THAT ONE PERSON you can accommodate no matter what. A friend, a lover and soul-mate. Difficult these days but easy if you have space in your heart.

The quality time you spend with your family can make all the difference. This is one factor many are over looking and are paying dearly for it.

@ Ogugua88,
Nne, leave them, they know what they are saying and are just putting some sand in our eyes here!

@Poster,

i really do not believe that you and your husband dated for seven years.I say this because seven years is enough for you to know that at least he likes to drink.Even if he was able to hide his love for different 'skirts' from you maybe because you guys weren't staying together, you must have noticed his likeness for alcohol. Another good question is:This guy dated you for seven years and still found you attractive enough to marry. What happened after the marriage? I will advice that while you still try to bring him home - LOOK CRITICALLY AT YOURSELF AND SEE WHERE YOU MAY HAVE GONE WRONG! All the best

I want to believe that the meaning you are asking for isn't what is readily available on the internet,if it is,just google it and read as mush as you can,

I really try to convince myself that GEJ has good intention for this Nation but have we asked how reckless he seemed to be with our monies in recent time despite the throat-cutting poverty level in this country?

This doc to me is quite empty.The moment we all begin to really look at issues bothering us in this country and be bold enough to tackle them, then we can get to the next level. There is no hope for the young school leavers, the oldies and the common man in the street in this doc.It would have been better something inspiring was written let alone that it isn't implemented when the time comes rather than making obvious that this PDP are just angling for another 4 years of money-sharing

There is a trend these days especially for us the youthful ones. Many of us forget that when one is married, he should be able to re-align his movements to accommodate his wife/kids at home. It doesn't matter the kind of job you do or your business schedule. How long do you stay and chat with them in any given day or a week. Do you get home late and still logon to your laptop while your helpless wifey looks at you from the bedroom?Are you ready to carry her along?

The truth is that the guys that destroy and kill in Jos knows nothings else and can't read and write so where would they see these sorts of pics?I have said it before and still repeating:THE ISSUE WITH THOSE DEVILS IN JOS IS MASS ILLITERACY!

I don't agree that it is a man's world any longer.I say this because women no longer want to be behind their men like the good old days.Most of them want to be seen first before their men appears.They wana call the shots!So what do you have in stock for your man this val, ?

In other civilized clans, ex-presidents usually take up the roles of helping to right whatever wrong they didn't see while in power.Is OBJ trying to be in spotlight till he dies?What else does this old man want?I think it would have been more honorable if Baba's voice is being heard on issues like the goings on in Ivory Coast etc.Fighting for Senatorial and/or councilors seats for his children? WHERE ATH THOU;DIGNITY!?

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When will this sort of madness stop!?Which way Nigeria!?

Is there anywhere in our constitution where they mentioned anything like first lady or her office?Its insulting to our intelligence for these women to spend our monies on frivolities when our schools are in shambles(to say the least), We are making these first ladies so unnecessarily important, !

Happy

You may have read lots of inspirations from several sources but do you know that there are some people who doesn't have the opportunities you currently have and yet they are moving real fast to success and greatness?What are you presently doing with the opportunities around you?

Hey! don't start thinking there are no opportunities where you are because all you have to do is to change your mind set and begin to see those obstacles you are facing as opportunity to bring out the best in you.

Are you thinking of how best to start pursing your dreams? These might be very useful for you if you are at that point right now,

http://africhat.com.ng/showthread.php?tid=87

The problem are we have in the North is MASS ILLITERACY! The sooner people up here start developing their minds the better for them and the country in general. Sometimes i wonder if this kind of madness will ever stop

Robust !

While Mrs Ojukwu takes up this "new appointment", who takes care of IKEMBA please?Is this post more important than his life?I know she isn't a Doc but then i don't think there is anybody who is closer to IKEMBA than his wife and he is critically ill at the moment, I have to say this because GEJ and his folks are not worth taking certain risks for, They are beginning to prove that they look at we common Nigerians as idiots! Can somebody who haven't registered here please do that today lets MEET THEM at the polls,