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I will discuss this topic on two different grounds:
1. The things to do ( The Do’s)
2. The things not to do (The DON’T’s)

THE THINGS TO DO TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE LAST (THE DO’s)
The DO’s of marriage can still be categorized into
1. The DO’s for the man and
2. The DO’s for the woman.
I will start with the woman first.

THINGS TO DO AS a WOMAN TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE LAST (THE DO’S OF MARRIAGE)
It is very simple. There are three things to do to your man and your marriage will become like the land of cannan (the land that flows with milk and honey). Three things that a man needs are:
1. Loyalty (Respect, Adoration, Humility)
2. Support
3. Sex
Loyalty: One thing which is inherent in man is his ego. Every man loves his ego even more than money. This is what you as a woman or wife should try and preserve. In fact, in the scale of preference of a man, the first is his ego, the second is money, and woman is just the third. Every man needs a loyal wife. You can call it loyalty, you can call it respect, adoration, or humility; we are all saying the same thing in a different way. Adore a man and watch him give you his empire. Have you ever tried kneeling to greet you husband every morning?
O yes! When I say loyalty, I do not mean just “good morning sir”. Every other woman calls him “sir” out there. You need to make a difference. Can you try greeting your husband on your knees? Have you tried it? How does it look like? Give it a trial and watch him treat you like an egg. Give him that maximum loyalty and watch him give you his empire. But, disrespect him and watch him treat you like a towel. That is how a man functions. The choice is yours!

Do not tell me we are not in 19th century where women kneel to greet their husbands; because that is exactly the bane of most marriages today. Many women have relegated their place and want the place of the man; and the man wants to retain his place, thus there is a struggle; and that is where the problem now starts. Many women want to be the commander of the house. They want every of their words and wishes to be carried out, because after all the bible said “the two shall become one”. Therefore, they are one. The house belongs to us. Anybody that wakes up first should enter the kitchen. Anyone that wakes last should dress the bed. Anybody that wakes first should get the kids ready for school. Anybody that comes back first from work first, should prepare the dinner. hmmmm

Mind you, you are never one with you husband. Do not misinterpret the bible. Your husband is your superior. He is higher than you. That was God’s punishment to woman in Genesis 3:16

“I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shall bring forth children, and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and HE SHALL RULE OVER YOU”.

Do you get that? When you hear that “the two shall become one”, it means that both of you shall be in concord. That is, both you shall be agreeable, and shall function as a unit. God the Father, Son and Holy Ghost are one, but are they equal? The answer is NO. Jesus (God the Son) while on earth has always adored, respected, and given all the glory to God the Father, who is supreme. In the same way, adore your husband O’wife! Adore your man O’woman!

Hope this is helpful? Any question or contribution, use the comment box below.

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I also join voice with Fayose, to the letter. Am in full support. 100%.

For those saying " inasmuch as they don't support borrwing, they don't support the letter..." For how long shall we be dying in silence? By d way, what do we have to hide. China has got all they need to spy Nigeria technologically and otherwise.

There is nothing more to hide!


"Since the days of John d Baptist, the Kingdom of God suffereth violence, but only d violent taketh it by force"

He who goes aborrowing goes asorrowing!

Its d Lord who speaks!

U don't get me at all. There is God. He is with us. So fear not

MrLouisVanGaal:
Really? Woah? I am dumbfounded. Somebody created the idea that there are other planets and solar systems? Somebody gave us a fake idea that there is global warming or that our climate is changing? Somebody created the idea that nuclear weapons exist but probably to scare us. Hiroshima and Nagasaki was fake i presume too. My brother seek knowledge. She cries from the roof top and he that his wise comes in. Don't carry bible to block things because you fear they may shake your belief.

MrLouisVanGaal:
In the age of reason, many have found it difficult to jump off the stone age of religion. Keep saying one day the world will experience automatic peace. Are you going to deny there's so much nuclear weapons in the world that could end everything in a day? are you going to deny there aren't tiny asteroids landing on the earth every now and then? Are you going to deny that in a universe this vast, that there is not something that could flip a solar system every now and then or that there is no possibilty of life in several other planets scattered across galaxies in our ever expanding universe? I am a christian but i won't let religion keep me from exploring or asking the hows? No wonder Africans and Africa are depicted as apes. Just train them and tell them what to do. No self determination

And have u wondered y we keep imagining these things.? Then tend never to come to past.

If the Lord watcheth not over the city, the watchman waketh but in vain! Somebody actually created these stuffs. Relax, he is in control.

He that watches over Israel neither slumbers nor sleeps!

tjfulloption:
@op you are a foolish fool

why?

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U mean u started at d age of 15. No wonder!

LuveU2:
His mum was our fellowship mummy. And i was her favourite girl cos of how devoted i was to God and the church. She saw me as a good girl and used me as an example when cautioning others

I was good at my game until the day her "bad" son invited me over. He was cool, cute, swags. In short the crush i had on him no be here. I threw caution to the wind, long story short i landed in his room.

I was 15, he was 19. We were seeing a porn movie together while munching popcorn and pure water. Lol, we forgot ourselves lol. Kissing smooching etc.

Unfortunately his mom figured out something was amiss in her son's room. She stormed in and caught us in the act. Even after so many years cant still look her straight in the eye.

Jeromejnr:
Because you are a Catholic you want all christians to become catholic ( because of festival dates) since you want unity, why can't you also say all christians should become pentecostals or Jehovah witnesses?

Supposing christians all over the world decide to be under pentecostalism, will you also be ready to leave Catholicism so as to bring unity?

Catholic is one and universal. Pentecostal is not one. There are thousands of them saying contradicting stuffs. So catholic will serve a better platform of d unification. Hope u got it?

Majikals:
The umbrella isn't the problem. The problem is the MAN under the umbrella. The moment we realize it's more important and profitable to expand the church in our souls,, body and spirit than to expand the physical building and assembly of crowd, the better for mankind. IRAN AND UNITED ARAB EMIRATES are under one umbrella of religion, but I guess u know the full story of their unforgiving bitterness towards each other.

That's exactly wat am saying. Most JW members like themselves b/c of one belief. Same with when a chosen sees another chosen. Likewise wen a deeper life sees another deeper.

But when any of theses people see another person of another denomination, eg . a catholic may meeting a JW, there is a kind of unacceptance. Because they see the other grp as unbelievers.

So what makes you a child of God, when you don't accept the other person simpy BC he is a catholic or a Chosen.

And how can we tackle this when we have different churches who are preaching against the other group. Obviously hatred will keep on growing!

Can u be a child of God when you hate a "catholic" or any other group simply because of his belief?

That is why I advocate we tackle this from the root. And what is the root? Diversity of Churches who are antagonizing the other.

I hope u get my point?

Kbeaut:
what are you even talking about? Our umbrella is the bible. & to say Islam comes under one is a lie & disrespectful. They have Shia & Sunnis. & many have died due to their constant conflict. Every single religion has different groups under their religion even Judaism. Look it up. Christians & Catholics aren't the only one. Jewish people have Hasidic and non Hasidic Jews, there are also Jewish people who believe in Jesus. & they also fight all the time. Bhuddism also has different groups. All religions do. Read a book!

That's exactly wat am saying. Most JW members like themselves b/c of one belief. Same with when a chosen sees another chosen. Likewise wen a deeper life sees another deeper.

But when any of theses people see another person of another denomination, eg . a catholic may meeting a JW, there is a kind of unacceptance. Because they see the other grp as unbelievers.

So what makes you a child of God, when you don't accept the other person simpy BC he is a catholic or a Chosen.

And how can we tackle this when we have different churches who are preaching against the other group. Obviously hatred will keep on growing!

Can u be a child of God when you hate a "catholic" or any other group simply because of his belief?

That is why I advocate we tackle this from the root. And what is the root? Diversity of Churches who are antagonizing the other.

I hope u get my point?

excellencyabia1:
If it is just easter and christmas then he need to look another thing because religious celebration to me is not what that makes you a child of God. Because most of them are man made doctrine.

That's exactly wat am saying. Most JW members like themselves b/c of one belief. Same with when a chosen sees another chosen. Likewise wen a deeper life sees another deeper.

But when any of theses people see another person of another denomination, eg . a catholic may meeting a JW, there is a kind of unacceptance. Because they see the other grp as unbelievers.

So what makes you a child of God, when you don't accept the other person simpy BC he is a catholic or a Chosen.

And how can we tackle this when we have different churches who are preaching against the other group. Obviously hatred will keep on growing!

Can u be a child of God when you hate a "catholic" or any other group simply because of his belief?

That is why I advocate we tackle this from the root. And what is the root? Diversity of Churches who are antagonizing the other.

I hope u get my point?

Majikals:
Catholic being the epicenter of creating most Christian holidays is obviously because of the age of the Catholic Church and the following running into billions of worshippers worldwide. Christianity literally is a combination of Catholics, Anglicans, Pentecostals and all who believe chirst and they have a common ground which is "believe in Jesus as the son of God and being Christ like". Now, I know of Christians who don't even celebrate Easter or Christmas, but still worship God and truthfully try to emulate Christ, they are no less of a Christian than you are.
Now, not everyone believe in
1. Honor of Mary (it's more of a Catholic sided view)
2. Praying loudly n speaking in unknown tongues (it's more a Pentecostal thing)
3. No wearing of earrings ( it's a more deeper life or chosen church doctrine)
THERE'S A COMMON GROUND IN CHRISTIANDOM AND THAT'S SIMPLY BELIEVE IN CHRIST AND TRYING TO LIVE LIKE CHRIST, ANYTHING OUTSIDE THAT IS CHURCH OR DENOMINATIONAL DOCTRINE.
My doctrine is believe in God and being good to my fellow mankind.

Nigerians n Africans at large claim to know God yet we are the home of wickedness and heartlessness towards our fellow human, y is that?

It because we don't know what we believe in.
U said aright. Yes, d most important thing is that we believe in Jesus. But we still hate, discriminate, disfavour and mock others simply because they are not believing in Jesus under our own church.

Don't you think if we come under one umbrella of catholicism (Just as we have one Islam) ,some things we be better. And we will begin to appreciate d other person.

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excellencyabia1:
Just this,

But what were you actually expecting? A document signed by d pope? Or a massive grammar-filled essay that gets d reader bored on first sight?

My dear, God does not appear in "massive winds with thunder" he appears in "gentle and negligible breezes".

excellencyabia1:
Just this,

Yea, just that. As simple as it sounds. As common as it appears. Just this! And we are there!

The reasons why all Christians should become catholics are these:

I had a personal experience: A friend of mine called me an idol worship (as a catholic). When I asked him why, he started enumerating the normal protestants argument - that we worship Mary, worship images, confess sins to human beings etc.

Another friend also told me that Christmas is not christian in nature, that it is a form of idolatory. This is coming from a Jehova witness member, even though I already know before now that so many other Christian denominations buy the idea.


Now today,27th march, 2016, they are all shouting "happy easter"- a celebration of the catholic world. It was catholic church that said that today, 27th march is easter day, and the whole Pentecostal are doing it because according to them , easter is biblical. But when catholic says that 25th December, is Christmas, they say it is idolatry. And they failed to remember that easter is a countdown from Christmas. If Christmas was not celebrated on 25th December, easter would not have been celebrated on march 27.

Easter day is counted by a specific number of weeks or days from Christmas. So if you are celebrating Easter today, march 27,and you are one of those that criticise Christmas and December 25, it means you are confused because being part of easter on march 27, means you are part of Christmas because both are a celebration of the same catholics (idol worshipers) and easter is always a countdown from Christmas.

It is also pertinent to remember that all Christian celebrations observed in the world all over are all done by the catholic church. No other celebration done by another church is recognised in world all over as a Christian celebration.

In view of this please all Christians should become Catholics, let us all sing with one tone, since directly or indirectly we are all dancing to the tone of catholicism.

Spread the good news, our saviour is risen! One United Christianity (John 17:11) is achievable !

OGA Innocent wishes you a happy easter celebration.



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Jolllyjoy:
e fit stil be oo

hmmm...We are talking of witches that supported Buhari. Not human beings now; if naija is 140million, 80 million suppoorted him THEN. so dont single me out. for now we are interested in those faceless witches.

Jolllyjoy:
Am still waiting for urz op.


I mean ur face cos u were one of those that supported him.

wetin come be ur own? today na sunday ooo. I be witch?