₦airaland Forum

Compliant:
Better for the 33 years as she is mature and understand life.

The 23 is Gen Z and will leave you for another guy if things later go south

Mature but transactional!
Won't she leave if things go south?

CryptoPornster:
I really don't understand what you mean by "I am not Igbo" so I won't understand this go of slavery.

Settlement of 1 million naira after 7yrs of service?
I repeat, that pure slavery

How much do Govt settle you with after spending several years in school acquiring knowledge and paying school fees?
Abi no be knowledge the boy acquire?
I went somewhere few years ago to learn a business skill, they told me how much I will pay and the time it will take, I declined and they didn't call me back till today. Or do you think if I steal while learning, they won't pursue me even after paying them or call police on me Someone that bought 4 phones, do you know how much he has totally stolen from the Oga? Maybe even more than the settlement amount.
Youths of Nigeria shouldn't be excessively fixated on money, also think of the knowledge. People spend 7 yrs in the university and their certificate becomes useless after school, no job not even the 1 million naira.
You even dey talk of 1 million when most Ogas these days no dey find boys again because they will liquidate you and still accuse you of not settling them.

But Ogas should greatly improve on settling good boys!
I suggest having a written signed agreement of morals, character, and settlement benefits before embarking on the adventure these days.

omenka:
Him don go stand inside rubble take photo post. This was why Benue rejected his him visiting, he's well known to use people's tragedy as political props.

Look at him. What a disgusting thing. I'm surprised he didn't lie down to take the picture so people can fully grasp how deep his sorrow runs over the demolition.

Disgusting? Hahahah
Somebody no one in your generation can untie the lace of his shoes.
Social media sef.
Have you ever priced a piece of land or know the cost of block
Hahaha

Nawao, to travel by road to certain places in Nigeria now is like signing your death warrant!

Those that won American Green Card through NIW need not all these processes!!

ityP:
That state is a Christian state, yet the division he created in those 8 years was huge. Divided the state into Anglican and Catholics

Bro there was no division, the whole noise came as a result of him trying to return some schools, hospitals and some other social establishment to the churches because it was churches that previously managed them before the military took over, it has been managed by successive governments before he came onboard and decided to return them back to the church. Churches started dragging ownership and divisions came, some accusing him of supporting others. When he threatened to maintain the status quo and let the government continue managing, the churches resolved by themselves overnight!
Ask any top church leader to confirm this, not un-informed people that think they're informed.
From then till now, churches have been interacting amicably in the state.
Infact, during his "after-office" Thanksgiving Mass St. Patrick's Cathedral (A Catholic Church), many different churches sent their bishops and representatives.
Don't believe in all these online propaganda about anyone (whether your friend or foe) except you're sure!!

Hahahah, but he lead Anambra for 8 years and was the best to rule the state as at when he was in-charge, (Can't say of now though).
Obi doesn't take Labour Party affairs serious because he knows he can disappear at any time and jump ship!!
He's playing Hide and Seek with Labour Party.

Btw, this "unheard of" factional chairman be like who hunger and Tinubu's subsidy removal dey affect.

The right word is "manipulate" not 'convince' the man to allow her keep a side dude!

Well, the dead doesn't talk; the guy might be innocent or not.
Police will do their investigation and showcase in media but you won't know when they release the crime suspect; convicted or not.
Efcc and police always catch yahoo guys and display them online but we don't always know how the stories ended or how they were released.

Gerrard59:
What are their wives doing about it? You cannot tell us the MILs are acting independently.

You're right, at the mercy of whether the wife is god-fearing or not. One went to court in the UK in collusion with the MIL to extort the man to pay him what they pay nannies over there; well the husband denied asking the MIL to come; his attorney brought evidence of the wife persuading her to come baby sit; case changed dimension immediately!!
She's currently in Nigeria

Abroad no easy, even as you dey bring your mother or mother-in-law for child keeping, follow them talk well before dem vex one day report you for forceful labour, no payment or under payment below the minimum wage.
They will always agree in Nigeria, but when they come over their, the story will change after a few months.
I knew of some guys currently under the mercy of their mother-in-law's because the latter were brought for child keeping but now they're demanding for so much more!!

As for Bolarinwa, her own is clear case of wickedness, manipulation and system exploitation.

Bennycollins:
Obodo Flowstation is in Warri.

You know what's a flow station?
The oil is produced where he said and shipped from the flow station in Warri, you can't ship goods or vessels from Anambra.

Judolisco:
Wetin do europe green energy project?

Gradually, you cannot do away with crude without having a sustainable alternative.
They are high in research on Renewable Energy Sources because crude is not renweable coupled with it's climatic actions!

Obodo is Anambra oil at Ogbaru LGA, it's successful exploration is part of why Anambra is now classified as Oil Producing State.

papyjaypaul:
Don't mind them. Only Obi must not quote stats and facts. When it's one of them, who was a VP, they don't say anything about it. Bloody hypocrites 🤡

Na statistics we go chop
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PmnSClIkNNc?si=e9HJK9hMHzS_zCU7

Ndi ara!
Pharisees!!

Demarketing Nigeria and demarketing Africa!
Since it's a crime to say the truth in this regime.
First is Peter Obi, second is Akinwumi Adesina, then Osinbajo now.
This is treasonable and they must face charges for demarketing Nigeria and Africa!!
Always lying to prove their points.

If the wife allows that to happen, then she's totally stupid and very irresponsible!

A

This is terrible

One day, Abuja, our seat of government will be held hostage if these guys are not checked!

Most people here and even the government of the day, are more interested in I.P.O.B, ignoring the groups that has the ability to capture Nigeria if left unchecked!
These groups are the real terrorists that carry arms, have training camps and abduct at will; they can go to a community or school, abduct hundreds, kill all they want and even challenge the govt and nothing will happen!
You can't travel through certain northern states without considering yourself lucky if nothing happens!

Let us continue to focus our attention somewhere else, and do as if it's a northern thing till they fully penetrate the south and take charge!!

As for Abuja, their proximity to our seat of government should be worrisome to any right thinking Nigerian devoid of all these ethnic stereotyping and clannishness exhibited here and there!

QVicky10:
All this endless ranting, as if he’s blameless, when he’s the one who chose to abandon the marriage.
Did he stop for a moment to think about the pain he’d cause his children, about how his leaving tears their world apart? Now he’s upset, that she’s asking for child support—how else was she supposed to provide for their children?
It’s heartbreaking, the way he turns his back and then complains when life demands responsibility.
Additionally, he has the option to pursue joint custody if he wishes to spend more time with his children.

For a woman, runaway before they kill you. Your happiness matters.
For a man, stay and die, after all your kids and wife will feel bad when you abandon the marriage. Hypocrisy at it's peak; very shameful the way some of you lots reason.
Did you read where he said he's been paying child support for quite sometime?
His problem is the wickedness of trying to be the "sole decision maker" of the children they had together, an "intentional" wickedness!!.
Unmarried guys should be very scared of Nigerian women!!

Kobojunkie:
BULLSHEET!

You too, sheets!!

Kobojunkie:
Stop ranting. You can equally file for full-custody of your children in court, too. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

The law allows anyone to file for full-custody of the children in a divorce case. During the proceedings, both may decide to negotiate and settle for shared custody instead. Stop making unnecessary noise for zero-value attention. If your case is in court, you are best to be on your best behavior and maybe leave social media until after the case is done.

It's insensitivity and wickedness to file for full custody and the "only" decision maker in the lives of children you both had together; albeit him going to the court for counter charges.
She's purely "intentionally".

Some women are heartless, this guy is clearly heart broken!!

Real Slay Queen!

Vanity upon vanity, all is vanity!

Btw, all these POS what are they used for?
Crime Crime Crime Everywhere!!

Double Wahala for dead body!

AguluLiar:
He only visited the Pope once, and that was when he was running errands to Jonathan.

Hahaha, amazement!
This is a man that his elder brother is a Catholic priest, his younger sister a Catholic Reverend sister.
This is man that goes to rome every year(including last year) for personal pilgrimage, a man that has taken a church catechist (the best catechist in the province) to see the pope in 2022.
Maybe na Jonathan send am when the pope died?🤣🤣🤣
Go to his house and see enlarged picture with the pope before this one that died, when he was far younger!! Maybe when you never begin use internet sef!!
Politics aside, the way you guys manufacture certain lies and put on top this man is simply amazing!
Hustle and live your life to the fullest Mr. Man.
These people (your lord Tinubu and Peter Obi) no send anybody o, they enjoy as they wish!!

Always everywhere, he visited the pope several times when he was alive!
He's a known face in the Vatican!!

The church is transparent, the holy see is wise!