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sammyalways:
met her 4yrs ago and wedding is close. got the shocker of my life shez 4yrs older than what she told me. i am considering backing out as a result. coz if she cn do this to me i wonder whatelse she could be hidding. worse part is its her mum who told me. the girl in question has no idea i know. am so shocked.any help on what to do in regatds this latest discovery?

GAZZUZZ:
Please explain specifically the conditions necessary for the noise to occur.


No noise when vehicle is static? Noise when vehicle hits certain speeds? Noise when driving on uneven roads? Noise when brakes are applied?


Now try this to rule out brake pads clearance/caliper issues drive over uneven roads with your left foot slightly depressing the brakes as you drive, is the noise still there?

Next drive over uneven roads without stepping on brakes.

GAZZUZZ:
Re tighten the subframe

https://carspecmn.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/SubframeRemoved.jpg

Re- tighten the steering rack. Check and ensure exhaust is not touching body of vehicle in Any way.

My mechanic has checked all this all seem normal but I observed something d shock mount on d side I am hearing this noise is cracked/ broken slightly but my mechanic said it can't b d cause of d noise. What do u think I will upload pic soon


For more diagnosis, send wine.

Freshkidavid:
Mikel Obi recently moved from English Premier League side, Chelsea to join the super rich Chinese league.

Photos of the Nigerian football legend in the club have emerged as the footballer shared them via Snapchat.

See the pictures,

[url]kingstondome..com.ng/2017/01/pictures-of-mikel-obi-in-new-chinese.html?m=1[/url]

Thecelebgists:
Nollywood Actor and Tinsel star Gideon Okeke took to his social media page to call out his fellow veteran Nollywood actor Chiwetalu Agu for always using “vulgar language” in his movie roles.

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The tinsel star who iterated that he his a fan of his fellow nollywood actor but he his against the languages that he uses and also he came after directors and producer who gave this veteran Nollywood actor the freedom to use those languages in virtually every particular role assigned to him.

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Do You Think The Veteran Actor Should His Famous Movie Slangs?

http://celebgists.com/nollywood-actor-gideon-okeke-blast-chiwetalu-agu-social-media/

izzou:


January 14 na a day of fastest fingers first


If you wake up by 8am to get help, e fit over you

strong766:
I Have Been Planning To Have Atlist 2 Million Naira In My Bank Account B4 Next Year Runs Out. I Am Currently Working With A 60k Salary Monthly. Please I Need Suggestions And Plans On How To Achieve This Goal Of Mine In 2017 By Gods Grace. Pls Nairalanders I Need Ur Advice, Investment Ideas And Suggestions, Bearing In Mind That I Will Be Starting My ICAN Certification too next year. Thanks

GAZZUZZ:
Discontinued support for all vehicles below 2002 in workshop (started Jan 2017) you can still get free consultation here or when you call/send wine

GAZZUZZ:
Re tighten the subframe

https://carspecmn.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/SubframeRemoved.jpg

Re- tighten the steering rack. Check and ensure exhaust is not touching body of vehicle in Any way.



For more diagnosis, send wine.

nams77:
If I tell you the cause you go believe? Any way make I helep my fellow countryman. The problem na say your village people put (spiritual) tracking device for under that car. PM me for more insight and solutions

GAZZUZZ:
you don collect plenty free diagnosis here, your cup don full. Send wine to the address in the signature to renew subscription.

MyMouth:
Wetin carry u go village last December U don buy market oooo!

overcomer123:
How do couples with different spending patterns cope

my partner is driving me crazy, we have been fighting about everything that has to do with money, she is kinda of lavish and i am prudent. It is really frustrating, she sees me as a miser. She has this idea the higher the cost the more quality, but i know this is not necessary the case. at least from experience, i know how people inflate prices , i try to spend on actual value. I have sat her down and explained to her. How we should nt waste, she promises to change but next thing she is back to the basics.

I also think i may be partially responsible for this, during our courtship, i use to lavish her with very expensive gifts. which to me shd nt be a crime, I wasnt spending beyond my means and there is nothing wrong in giving your woman some exclusive treats once in a while what now bothers me is she expects the cinderella story will continue forever.

There was a day the argument got so intense, she began to say very uncool stuff, on hw she know i hate spending on her and always complain. i really felt hurt. She never looks at the big picture, it is always the most expensive stuff she wants, whenever we do anything.

Our counseling was rushed and proper attention wasnt given to finances and all, everyone just believes she is a well behaved girl. We just got married, I really dont know how i missed this earlier during courtship, but it really causing alot of whahala in our home. The funny part is most of this so called expenses are usually to be solely footed by me. My wife has not for one day called me to say she too will contribute this amount for this or that. I dont complain, or expect, where i have problem is when i decide to pay and she complains it is nt good enough. Am sure if her money was involved she would understand what i mean.

Currently i earn more than her, i found a temporary solution which is to keep her out of the financial decisions, Whenever. i want to buy stuff for the house I dont consult her anymore, i just go and buy the stuff and return home showing her i bought it, instead of the normal asking her which is better and she picks and we begin to fight and argue. This is temporal and actually not the best but what can i do? The fights are just getting to me.

When we started i used to expose her to how much I had and all and plans to maybe get a land and all and maybe start bulding. She knows how much i earn and all. but i dont think she is matured to handled some of these things. And i guess cos she knows of the money available (my saivngs) this is why she just goes for the most expensive and all and just acts lavish.

I had to lie to her that i was scammed of several of millions through MMM to make her forget about the available cash.

Just imagine the rubbish i have to go through.

See me see whahala , me and my own wife again.

Is anyone dating a partner with an opposite spending habit.

Can you share and let me learn how you overcame this problem.

wonukwuru:
I am adult married to a lady of 35years. We have been married since 2007. God has blessed us with 3 wonderful children( 2 boys and 1 girl). Before we got married, i agreed with my wife that i only want to have 2 kids ( I wouldnt mind if they just boys or girls. That means, Im not particular of the sex of the kids). My wife is a B.sc Accounting graduate, while myself, I am a Chartered Accountant, with a well paid job. My wife had a 3rd class degree. On several occassions, i have told her to go back to school for Post Graduate Diploma (PGD) in order to upgrade, but she plainly told me that she cannot go back to school again. When i asked her why, she told me that her brain cannot withstand any academic stree again. I also suggested to her, since you studied accounting in the university, why not enroll for ICAN program? When i said that to her, she told me that she could not go for PGD, is it ICAN that she can do? I have been thinking, what will i do for her to be like others.

Luckly, was transferred to Benin. I went with my family to Benin. We stayed over 4years in Benin. While we were in Benin, I told my wife to go and enroll for a 6months diploma programm in computer (because she is not computer literate). I paid over N110,000 for the 6months programme. My wife only went for the programme for 1month and stopped. She refused to complete the program. When I asked her, she told me that she will go back after she had "put to bed"( Then she was pregnant). Guys, its over two years now and the baby is even in pre-nursery school, yet my wife has not reminded me of going back to complete the programme.

Last year, she asked me to open a store for her, that she want to go into trading. When I asked her the nature of the business, she said, she wants to deal on selling rice, beans, yams, groundnut oil, etc. I now suggested that it will not be a problem, but she has to look for somebody who is already in the business so as to understudy the person for atleast 1month. She refused, saying that without her understudying anybody, that she can still make it. I told her that my reason of suggesting to her to understudy somebody was that, i wanted her to be selling in wholesale. My plan was to give like N1.5million. I told her, i cannot just release N1.5million to her for a business that she did not learn. I told her that N1.5million is not a small money. Brethren, that was why up til now, i have not opened the business for her.

My children's school fees is over N650,00 per term for the 3 kids. I provide for feeding. My wife does not want to do anything as to assist me in the family. I give her money for her hair, cream, bathing soap, panties and clothing. Im really getting tired. My salary does not carry the family again because of too much expenses.

Another problem now is, my wife's dressing is nothing to write home about. She dresses as if she is in her late 60s. I have complained to her on several occasion that i dont like the way she dresses, but each time i bring up the issue, she will get angry. People around, have meeting my sisters to tell them that my wife does not dress well as somebody that has gone to the university. Even in my house, my wife only tires wrapper. Nothing in her again attracts me to her. Infact, for the past 3 months, i have not slept with her. I sleep in the parlour while she sleeps in the bed room.

Else, i forget, my wife delibrately "took in" again since July last year. This is after we agreed that the 3 kids that we already have is enough. Her method is, each time i remind her of what to do as to be assisting me in the family, she will delibrately "take in".

My wife, went to the university but she cannot speak simple and correct english. She cannot write application letter. She cannot teach my kids who are in primary 2 and 5 respectively. I pay a lesson teacher N30,000 monthly for my kids but my wife is at home doing nothing. Since we got married, my wife has not sent me text message on her phone more than 3times. The ones that she sent, my brothers, there are lots of gramatical blunders. When i confronted her with the text message, she could not say anything. I was checking for some documents in my room last week, and i came across an application that my wife wrote to submit to a private school where she wants to teach. When i saw the letter, believe me, my brothers, one of my kids that is in primary 5 cannot write such rubbish.

What i thought she was before i married her, is not what she is. I cannot take her out for an occassion because she may embarrase me by her conduct in the public. I need a divorce but the problem now is, i did i court wedding with her. What should i do? Im confused.

jeff1607:
This question has been bothering me for quite a while now, how do men or husbands cope with their wives when they give more attention and care to the kids and you feel all left out. I wouldn't like to generalise here but why is it a common thing in marriages same applies for single moms too when they shield and put more focus on their kids rather than helping the spark glow.

Some women not all are on the defensive when the husband tends to shrug that stuff out.

please would need experienced minds mostly the men to help explain or proffer a solution in getting round this without causing misunderstanding or bad blood

Tonymic4life:
Pls o house! A down line GH yesterday and yet to receive his payment yet, he also pH yesterday and he was matched to pay today ( can u believe it) not up to 24hrs. And d amount pH was 700k of which d payment expected wud play a huge role Buh he hasn't been played yet. D guy is so confused and disturbed. D support of givers forum is not going through. Pls someone shud advise. D guy needs to get his money first. He has about 120hrs to pay. Dis is happening at givers forum.

NgcoboP:
all fraudulent people have an excuse just like you

FlirtyKaren:
Chozynboy completely took his woman Joy by surprise when he took her out on a date, dropped on one knee and proposed to her. This happened last month in the United States.

The excited groom-to-be shared these photos and it's got everyone gushing. Read what he said about his woman:

#SheSaidYes!! Words can't fully express how much I love you @virtuous.joy! Thank you for your constant love, encouragement, support, motivation, and being my best friend. Thank you for your patience with me and making me feel like the greatest
man on earth. You are such an amazing, beautiful, God-fearing woman and can't wait to spend the rest of my life with you! Special thank you to all who helped make this the best day of our lives!

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/12/these-pre-wedding-photos-have-got-people-gushing.html

Terryindeed:
These where your exact words " I kw he is angry with you for not sending him some good dollars while you were abroad." How I how you how you know you chose to call me a saying you were presuming. Yeah am a goat ( greatest of all time), but you? Stupidity is telling on your forehead, you are so dumb that you presume everything and come here to say trash instead of you to think very well and get your fucking story right. Oga wisdom? Oboy change your name to smallboy without sense. Devil will punish you for the rest of your life if you abuse me again. Animal, ogawisdom indeed... werey