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EducationRe: Perewari Victor Pere Graduates With 1st Class From Lincoln University by ogtavia(m): 7:25pm On May 14, 2017
Angy55:
my na UK I know say the university dey oo. I dunno why some are mentioning USA
ahhh I for talk..
ComputersRe: Share Your "I Can't Do Without" PC Softwares by ogtavia(m): 2:53pm On May 14, 2017
1 . Archicad Software.
2. Autocad
3. Artlantis
4. Autodesk 3ds Max.
5. Vlc
6. Microsoft Zune Media Player
7. Convert123
8. Format Factory
9. Adobe Photoshop
10. Notepad
11.Any Soccer Game software
12. Any fps game software
13. Any adventure/espionage game software
14.Internet Download manager
15.Internet Explorer
16.MediaGet.
17.Adobe Reader
18.Microsoft Office Suite
19. Winrar or any other good archiving software
20. Any Virtual Drive Software
21.Adobe Photoshop
22.Mobile Software App
23.Google Earth
24.AntiMalware or Antivirus Software
25.Bible Software (Last but not the least)
EducationRe: Perewari Victor Pere Graduates With 1st Class From Lincoln University by ogtavia(m): 11:21am On May 14, 2017
isn't Lincoln University in the UK?
EducationRe: OMG See Baby Born With Grey Hair by ogtavia(m): 4:06am On May 11, 2017
Idydarling:
blind op, can't u see the aby is blond? abi every child must have the coarse lack hair you know so well? mtchhhewww
thank you...
CrimeRe: Man Murders His Mother In Their House In Cameroon. Graphic Photos by ogtavia(m): 12:13pm On May 10, 2017
eezeribe:
I wonder what would have been of Africa,had the white man not colonised her.
Even at that,Donald Trump still advocates for recolonization.
How will an entire race be the epitome of all levels of Barbarism and incivility.
wise words my friend...
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky Blasts ''fake Friends' For Abandoning Him When His Bae Blocked His Bank by ogtavia(m): 1:54pm On May 07, 2017
someone should take this guy out ASAP...or at least...block him from the internet..
Christianity EtcRe: What Does The Bible Say About Sex Before Marriage? by ogtavia(m): 12:11pm On May 07, 2017
Yuneehk:
So I'm thinking you also taste beans in the market before you buy it huh
classic savagery...
RomanceRe: Young Nigerian Girls Put Their Massive Backsides On Display (photos) by ogtavia(m):
these spoilt children are either on pills or injecting themselves...we should weep for them...
EducationRe: Which Nigerian University Library Is The Best? by ogtavia(m): 11:57pm On May 06, 2017
[quote author=uzoclinton post=5626
4487]UNN obviously....[/quote]nice blog...just bookmarked it..
CelebritiesRe: Fans Go Gaga As Regina Daniels Shares New Photos by ogtavia(m): 11:35pm On May 06, 2017
sexybbstar:
Sombori should stop telling me she is 16yrs old...op modify your post please.

16Yrs kwa?... undecided ..she has been 16yrs old since i joined nairaland.

Natural beauty tho grin
my thoughts exactly...
EducationRe: Mark Zukerberg finally reacts To WhatsApp Shutdown ( screenshot ) by ogtavia(m): 11:11pm On May 04, 2017
doesn't seem like a technical shutdown to me..seems more like a market survey or user assessment...
RomanceRe: Asking Her Out In Person Or Texting,which Is The Best Way To Get A Yes? by ogtavia(m): 11:44pm On Apr 23, 2017
dmgr:
what do you guyz think?
in person..eye ball to eye ball...important messages are better passed across in person...abi..it ain't easy..but you gotta try...just be yourself and say it as it is...
TV/MoviesRe: Name A Movie U watched Five(5) Times And U Still Did Not Get Bored by ogtavia(m): 11:45am On Apr 23, 2017
TPAND:
Inspector Jack Closeso
Jack Closeau...
TV/MoviesRe: Name A Movie U watched Five(5) Times And U Still Did Not Get Bored by ogtavia(m): 12:23am On Apr 23, 2017
Pink panther,horrible bosses,johnny english,live and let die (James Bond - Roger Moore)..
FoodRe: Oyinbo Woman Pictured Praying Before Eating Eba & Egusi With A Bottle Of Stout by ogtavia(m): 10:25pm On Apr 22, 2017
redcliff:
Mumu bloggers.. caused which stir online.. this picture she posted over 3momyhs ago on instagram.. how is it causing stir now
you don't mind the OP...just reading thru comments and laughing at peope's ignorance...
CelebritiesRe: [photos] Check Out This Viral Wedding Invitation Card That Got Nigerians Talking by ogtavia(m): 9:16pm On Apr 20, 2017
well....her name is uchemefuola meaning 'I have lost my senses'....that's one way to look at it..
CelebritiesRe: BREAKING: Obama Finally Divorce His Wife Michelle, See Who He Wants To Marry Nex by ogtavia(m): 9:09pm On Apr 12, 2017
OP go and sleep....trust me,its the reset button of nature....no measure of modern medicine will fully heal this yo madness...
CareerRe: 9 Undeniable Facts About Working In A Nigerian Office By Nkem Ndem by ogtavia(m): 8:37pm On Apr 12, 2017
The food part really got to me...walahi, people will either buy food, order for their own food to be brought to the office or bring food from home and as a normal person I wont even think twice about it or notice it...but once my food is brought for me(I order most times though I bring food from home atimes)....everyone will become quiet and you will begin to see people peering from the corner of their eyes...there is this lady opposite me who annoys me with her attitude at this time....if she was talking before, once my food is brought to me, she just keeps quiet (you know that kind of questionable quietness or say, loud quietness) and either starts look for whatever it is she looks for in her bag,starts looking at her mirror or her phone or decides to peer at her computer screen...

there are other people in the office but that lady's attitude pisses me off,initially,when I say come and join me,...she will ask for meat or for a little portion to be left for her...usually when I say come and join me,i am only saying it out of courtesy not for you to literally come and join me or ask for anything...she got me so pissed one time when I bought solid food (eba and soup) and I said,come and join me as usual..and aunty wanted to come, I got so angry and said I didn't mean it literally and I also don't like to share food ( I have been suffering in silence before then)..she asked me why I usually said come and join me, and I said its simple courtesy,everyone knows it...funny enough,when they are eating and say come and join me, i don't even look up to reply my usual 'NO@

The whole thing annoys me....I manage to keep my annoyance down but each time I buy food,i don't eat my food in peace...its like...all eyes on my food...

The office place can be interesting but atimes you meet weird people who frustrate you..
EducationRe: Application Letter Written By A Female Graduate Of Federal Poly Nekede (Photos) by ogtavia(m):
there is a yoruba proverb that says 'if we serve pounded Yam on a leaf and soup on groundnut pod...whoever will get filled..will get filled...pardon my interpretation,i am ibo,but I want to assume that the grammar explains itself ....in as much as the general reaction to this bizarre product of our educational system is to blame the system...it would be an error on our part if we absolve the 'applicant' of any blame....
Nowadays,its common to meet graduates who disappoint you when you get close to them....yes,our educational system has its faults and shortcoming...yet,it has produced men and women of ebullient sagacity.. you and I are an example....of course we had to make do with what we were given like the cliche of making lemonade with the lemons life gives us...

no educational system equips you with all you need, there is still a place for personal development and academic curiousity...call it research....

..the sad note posted above is analogous to the case of that biblical servant who buried his talent and refused to work with what he got...
AutosRe: 1992 camry by ogtavia(m): 11:25pm On Mar 28, 2017
this is definitely a joke...nice one OP...made my day....
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ogtavia(m): 1:57am On Mar 22, 2017
Niyuu:
I don't get the song embarassed
same here...I think he over exaggerated....
AutosRe: E 320 2002 Model For 1.3m by ogtavia(m): 6:58pm On Mar 21, 2017
this isn't a 2002 model oga...
RomanceRe: Married Banker Dies In Lagos Hotel During Sex Romp With Lover In Hotel by ogtavia(m): 6:48pm On Mar 21, 2017
If only he took heed those times his friends and family told...'Ken na woman go kill you oh'...and as for the woman....well...I just hope the cops will believe her when says ' she won't do it again '...cos she definitely wont...
CelebritiesRe: Chidinma Ekile Biography & Net Worth: Few Fact About Miss Kedike. (2017) by ogtavia(m): 6:34pm On Mar 20, 2017
yes she is worth $9million dollars..and also she is 6ft tall...money grows on trees and I am typing this with an IPhone 8..
CelebritiesRe: Dr Sid Shades Tboss, Fan Shades Him Back In Epic Reply by ogtavia(m): 9:11pm On Mar 19, 2017
Gmajor:
That makes absolutely no sense.
Dr sid has a lot of hit tracks... unless the twitter warrior resides under a rock
actually the burn is on the guy who replied Dr Sid....he made no sense..
FamilyRe: My Uncle Raped Me, My Family Blamed Me, Forcing Me Into Prostitution- Nigerian by ogtavia(m): 2:41am On Mar 19, 2017
vislabraye:
My brother can you put yourself in her shoes for a minute? At age 14, where were you and what did you go through ? I'm sure your parents were taking good care of you. You ate what you like, your father or mother would have mentored you into the adult you are now.
The only mentor this young girl had was a prostitute. huh Most Nlanders are too judgemental. The only problem I will have with her is if she chooses to remain in that profession.
I agree with your last sentence....well at 14,i didnt have a full glimpse of what I wanted to become,but I knew the things I had to do if I wanted to have a chance to be successful....with regards to the mentoring,I completely agree,Parents have a lot of work to do in that area....its not enough to provide food,shelter,clothing,education and such likes for the child,...mentoring is very important especially at a very young age...14 is even to late to start mentoring a child...the society offers so much for different ages....
FamilyRe: My Uncle Raped Me, My Family Blamed Me, Forcing Me Into Prostitution- Nigerian by ogtavia(m): 2:34am On Mar 19, 2017
Joavid:
exactly @ bolded. and I believe is all parents fault. if only people will take parenting seriously.
I mean if a person is going to bring a child into this one, he&she has to be 100% responsible for the child.
It's the society that eventually suffers bad parenting.


Happy birthday Btw smiley
I agree with you on this one....its a sad story and the damage has been done already however,in addition to what you have said,the training of the girl child has to be taken seriously....i am not saying the male child should be treated with levity...by no means...yet it is evident in our society today...more work has to be done in the upbringing of the girl child...there shouldn't be reason why a lady will have to sell her body to make ends meet...nothing justifies it...

Thanks for the birthday Greetings...I really appreciate, I want to assume I have made a new friend today...best wishes...
FamilyRe: My Uncle Raped Me, My Family Blamed Me, Forcing Me Into Prostitution- Nigerian by ogtavia(m): 7:16pm On Mar 18, 2017
MrLekan95:
Its still baffles me how some Nigerians think psychologically...
Yes... rape shouldn't justify her going into prostitution, but I bet u don't understand what going through her mind at that very moment... AGE 14, PARENTS REJECTION, BEING RAPED BY UR OWN UNCLE'S, EVEN WITH THE PREGNANCY... AHAH at least show some sympathy now...
Btw... Forget this comparing of a thing, that someone survived it, doesn't mean everyone can...
bro,i never said that I feel no sympathy for her,far from it....however 14 isnt too young to take a decision for yourself,...its because of this kind of thinking we have immature adults..twenty - somethings who think,act and behave like teenagers or like my friend Yuneehk will put it...overgrown babies...what you should have probably said is at that age and her surrounding circumstance,she needed a mentor or a mature adult to navigate the difficulty of that period,..the real problem isn't the fact that she became a prostitute,the problem lay in her poor choice,who knows what other terrible thing would have happened to her...look 14 isnt too young to take a decision for her life,if I remember, she was a secondary school graduate..permit me to use that word graduate...at 14...she should have at least a faint picture of the future she wants for herself..
FamilyRe: My Uncle Raped Me, My Family Blamed Me, Forcing Me Into Prostitution- Nigerian by ogtavia(m): 4:38pm On Mar 18, 2017
Joavid:
I think there's are relationship between the two.

apart from the victimisation and feeling worthless.
she was also neglected and ostracized by her family - that probably affected her self esteem & self worth.

You can not be too sure except you're in her shoes
I agree with your last sentence...you should have started with it....i never said there wasn't a relationship...I just didn't see the justification for prostitution therein....I definitely have some sympathy for her...

The crime and decay in our society is loosely attached to circumstances like this one yet again...one shouldn't throw out the bath water with the baby in it..
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: West Bromwich Albion Vs Arsenal (3 - 1) On 18th March 2017 by ogtavia(m): 4:26pm On Mar 18, 2017
well...I don't want to say I jinxed this match..but I kinda saw it coming..
FamilyRe: My Uncle Raped Me, My Family Blamed Me, Forcing Me Into Prostitution- Nigerian by ogtavia(m): 4:22pm On Mar 18, 2017
well,i don't know what happened in between...but I am still finding hard to see her being raped as a justification for becoming a prostitute, of course there are many ills in our society today,yet we can point one or two people who rose above similar circumstances, and made a better life for themselves..i pray she gets the help she craves before she does something silly..

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