₦airaland Forum

Bola146:
A woman that wants to be happy forever will go for a man she loves not who is ready. A guy can be ready but no mutual love, it's can't work. Ladies are wiser now

funmisticqueen2:
including being gang raped? So you support this?

Galactico4ever:
Sometimes when you grow up with someone,they end up as your BFF.its not something easy to control besides a girl having a Friend of the opposite sex means she get to see life in the boy's perspective and understand them better

Sixfeetbelle:
I just laugh when I see posts like that and I wish lots of ladies will see it too. They will deliberately sleep with their best friends girlfriend and when asked will hide under the umbrella of 'all women are scum' including the idiot boyfriend that was betrayed. "Ndi nzuzu" is too mild a description.

Galactico4ever:
Female assault is a crime no matter if it was a friend or acquaintance. nobody recovers from such trauma without a negative effect so those boys and their evil parents should be prosecuted

afribabe:
People live separately before marriage na. You don't even know what prompted her living with her in-laws..... And where did she mention that she was jobless...

And those people condemning her for saying the man won't see his son again( not that I am in support of this or not), I hope you read where she wrote that the man abandoned them because her son was born differently.. (something about serious jaundice and cerebral palsy)...
I refuse to judge either of the parties anyway because I am not a player in the gist.....

Men, take responsibility for your children even if you don't like/want their mothers again. Be part of the child(ren)'s life...... Women, if a man wants to be responsible for his children, do not deny him because you don't like/want the man again. Allow them be part of their child(ren)'s life....
And for those(men/women) who make it clear from the start that they don't want to have anything to do with the child(ren), don't expect to reap where you didn't sow.... Just that life is so funny.. Most of them even reap more than the party that laboured

julieeni:
No I wasn't abov 30, I was just 26yrs and No, I didn't have a child. I didn't comment on this post because I wanted to gain sympathy from anyone but because I wanted everyone out there to never let their hearts to control their head. I finally had the courage to post this and most of my friends don't even know I'm out of marriage. This happened a year ago and I've moved on, I'm now stronger, wiser, I hustle legit and I'm glad things are falling back in place. I didn't lose, he lost

oyatz:
There are so many things that Muslims say that offend non-muslims everyday but you will hardly see Non-muslims threatening to kill Muslims for such sayings.


Let Muhammad/Allah strike the guy dead, there's no need to fight for any god.



Africans are trying to kill a fellow African for expressing his opinion about an Arabian prophet that lived over a thousand years ago!









The Islamic religion make it's adherents unnecessarily violent.

Am very sure if anybody insult ur mother you won't wait for ur mother to strike him, u will lead attack urself..... Try to be neutral in ur judgement for once

oyatz:
The guy didn't incite or abuse any god.



He said he doesn't see any difference between Prophet T.B Joshua of Lagos and Prophet Muhammad of Saudi

Oga there is a limit of what one should post and say publicly, even among Christians in Nigeria, only 20% of us are ready to identify ourselves publicly with tb Joshua, if high percentage of Christians hate being identify themselves with tb Joshua, ....imaging how it will be insulting and highly ridiculous to compare Mohammed with tb Joshua in the eyes of northern muslim nigerians...........ordinarily, comparing Isa (Jesus) with Mohammed won't go down well with them not to talk of tb Joshua..............for me, i hold tb Joshua in a very high esteem but in the eyes of northerner Muslims its an insult. You urself knw it.

oyatz:
According to which law sir?

Who determines what is will 'incite people' and what is the specific punishment?


Go and get a copy of " penal code Nigeria", read it comprehensively and without being prejudice.....

TomMary:
Shaking my head...There is freedom of religion and speech in Nigeria..

PAGAN9JA:
This is why Nigerians are still backward and uncivilized. We are in mental slavery. We have betrayed the Gods of our ancestors. We have forgotten to emulate our Grandparents and elders who were still not so religiously fanatic and followed their ancestral traditional religion which is the right path as we know.


Today a Hausa man is being killed by his fellow Hausa brothers brainwashed and enslaved by their fulani conquerors and masters.

The Hausa is unsafe in his own land by a foreign culture and ideology.

piamily:
Wow seriously ?

Even when I’m not attracted to him?
I dunno why it’s hard for me to grow feelings for him

Ezewuzie01:
Church in Anambra is very powerful. Without church support, no politician can be governor of Anambra state. Obiano has done the sensible thing here. The people are itching to resume Church.

Eberechi24:
Hmmm false. Well, it depends on the definition of friendship. I have a male bestie but we haven't bleeped and never will. He has a hot gf.

razible5384:
this simping will not take u anywhere... What is ethically an morally wrong is wrong no matter how u want to twist it

Tango123:
Where did I say women are not free to date who they want

Or where did I impose my opinion on women.

I challenged ur statement that suggested women should expect to have their finances taken care of by men. And that men should strive to satisfy women financially

But of course, any man who wants to spend on women is free to do so. Any woman who wants to depend on men is free to do so.

Each of them has consequences
For the man, heartbreak when the woman goes to a richer man. For the woman, dependency on another human being with attendant sacrifices and risks.

But to each his own.

My choice is clear. I dont spend money on women to get sex or love.

The only woman who is entitled to my money is my mother and my under age daughters. But I train children to grow up and be able to look after themselves, without depending on a man. Of course, when they grow up, they can choose their own path in life

Tango123:
Enjoy ur life bro. You are a free man. Live your life the way u want it.

If your goal in life is to make women happy, carry on. If your goal in life is to make yourself a slave to a woman because of sex or love or attention, carry on.

I have made up my mind on how to live my life. It works for me.

If yours works for u, carry go bro. Its ur life. Your money. Your time.

Tango123:
Hahahaha. U make me laugh real hard. Lmao really.

When I was a teenager, I behaved like you described. I gave women money for sex. I believed u could buy attention and love.

But by early 20s, I realised that you can't buy love.

And to tell you the truth, for the past 5 years, I have been in a stable relationship. I did not buy her attention or love. She works. I work. She is a professional like myself. Our relationship is based on equality. She does not insult me. I have never laid my finger on her. Finances are shared.

But if someone else takes her from me because they gave her money, I will celebrate and thank God, that I did not spend a single extra day with someone who wants money, and not me

Improve ur believe in urself bro. Love yourself

If you do, you will not believe you need a womans love, sex, or attention to be alive and be happy

Tango123:
I dont spend on women. And I get sex when I want it, From women.

I believe in equality. Any woman who expects me to spend on her is struck of my list of friends. It's as simple as that.

Dangrace01:
How can a married man break a girl heart. His heart is with his wife and not the single olosho girl. Whatever a married man is doing for a girl na just cruise.

Tango123:
Y should a lady depend on a man for money.

Y should the single men pay school fees for a lady

Your post makes some sexist and gender based assumptions that fuel dependency in women, and encourages toxic masculinity in men

Dangrace01:
Which kind entitlements mentality b dis. Most of my uncles into this stuff are not ordinary men. We know them Wella. So you feel a man will just be spending on a girl like that without it affecting finances at home. U funny die.

Stop using excuse of finance for married men and young girls. Those heavy spenders do things spiritual

If you want to follow married men go ahead if you want money turn olosho, it's less risky