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Rawhumper:
You dont have to be proud cos you won her over more with money.

Money wont take you far without looks,i also dont say handsome guys should be broke. But i can tell you that good looks go a long way.

When a handsome guy has both,the world is his but when an ugly guy has money there are still some girls that wont give shit about his money.

With my eyes i have seen in the East a girl a married man paid in 450k into her account to have sex with her she refused.I saw with my eyes the alert and everything.The man had to call his bank,the money was withdrawn but i was smooching this chick in her office free of charge(i fip my hand btw her thighs when we kinda alone).

Using money wont bring out the best in a lady but when a lady trips for a fine guy she can do anything for him.

I can say you did well with yoir scopes but i dont value guys that use money to bed women.
A real player is one that spends less but gets more...


I am comfortable but i say this its better i look very handsome and have moderate riches than be ugly and be very rich(u call it my prayer).

Money isnt everything when it comes to some certain women forget d saying women love money.


Ego* is fine bobo, soooo many musicians in naija have said it, if they deceived do not deceive yaself .

Lamanii22:
She doesn't love you as much as you do.... She only finds you comfortable...

Jodera:
I get your drift but pry 6 is too young to say you and someone is very close together and have been through a lot. For you two not to be chatting much on Facebook justifies why your friendship isn't that strong like that.
For the 2nd paragraph, my bolded statement (I feel) answers that, cos someone who's been with you through and through won't even leave you and both of you wont even have lost contact

Jodera:
Sometimes, when people shout, "nobody owes you anything, even your closest friends", sometimes I just shake my head.
Either people are surrounded by wicked friends or they don't share so many fond memories with some close friends that they just forget them easily. I know if C. Ronaldo have forgotten his closest friend who made way for him to rise to stardom, some wicked people will say Ronaldo doesn't owe him anything. Thank God Ronaldo isn't like that.
Back to the matter, there are some people in life you can't and ought not to forget no matter how made you've made it in life. Yes, this life is a personal race, but there some people who helped you get where you were with their sacrifices and commitment. Being at the top and saying you owe those people nothing and they should go hutsle their own, or saying they have entitlement is been heartless of the highest order. We should stop all these please, only few people (and I mean very few people) get to the top without commitment and sacrifice from people or friends.

Mind you, the above post is for very close friend(s) that you people have passed through a lot together and not normal friend or peer group mates

sammyj490:
your observations are painfully right, but the truth is I'm not forcing myself on her. The problem is that, this is the first time I'm actually fall for someone else beside myself, I've had tons of relationships but I've neva felt this much emotional attachment with anyone I've dated, i know my position in my relationship is not solidified but will u blame me for trying to make things better? i know i love her and i knw she loves me to but her love for me is just questionable. I'm only scared because I'm not able to predict what I'm going back home to meet after my nysc program..
Your advice is really helpful and i really appreciate it.

Sermwell:
so you mean from the post, election has been conducted and obaseki has lost!! Are you sure you are normal??

Sermwell:
why are you screaming as if the election has been conducted and obaseki has lost?? calm down bros!!

Progress2468:
And Lecturers are not broke?

Progress2468:
And Lecturers are not broke?

martineverest:
lol.... forgotten Edo APC chairman is pro obaseki?..

at this moment,oba of Benin will instruct him to do whatever he can to bring obaseki back.


obaseki is APC hope of retaining Edo State....any little mistake will give PDP a chance....u wonder why PDP swept the last election in Edo State?

martineverest:
lol...u aren't an Edo man,u won't know what's up..right now , Oshiomhole's strongest hold is Edo north,he has been dethroned by his tribesman,Shuaibu..

last presidential election will give u a clue of end of Oshiomhole's reign in Edo state.

Benin people no one hear Oshiomhole

martineverest:
Edo no be lagos.....u can't compare the way Edo people hate Oshiomhole with Lagosians love for Tinubu


u see deputy governor of Edo state, Shuaibu,he will rip Oshiomhole apart.

Biofil84:
No matter how they do it Obaseki will still carry the day just watch. The Politics we play in Nigeria is quite different from any in the world reason they call it the Nigerian politics.

For me it will be very hard to trust a Nigerian politician even if my father becomes one tomorrow cos all they know is to fight for thier selfish interest.

GOFRONT:
Some women be Enduring their marriage instead of Enjoying their marriage......

This is what you get when you marry a man that is ready instead of marrying a man that truely love you.......

Well, It's a Mans world.

Sugarpearlry:
I doubt if you're intelligent

longetivity:
dem never born the girl wey distroy my properties like this

doitforyou:
Fake story written by a male on NL. This is supposed to be a moral story to the central theme here on NL. Women/friends that advise you not to tolerate a controlling abusive man do not heed their own advise. So, disregard a good advise because the source is a hypocrite.

The girl in the fiction, had no business dating her controlling and abusive college boyfriend, she is also responsible for all the other choices she made thereafter.

PrimadonnaO:
When they say girls are attracted to bad boys, I seriously wonder.

I can’t see a guy that fits into that description and be attracted....tattoos, earrings, big shoes, jewelry; or some form of notoriety. When a person like that even tries to make advances towards me, I feel very unhappy and insulted.

Zaronxpanol:
I went to hell and back in my former marriage. My pastor keeps preaching on forgiveness and people are saying I am bitter and unforgiving. Nobody walked in my shoes in that marriage. My ex-husband acted all nice to people in our church and in public places but when he turns to me he is very hostile and unbothered towards my needs, our kids, and my family.
He loves people bringing their problems for him to solve and gets angry when he is not called to help outside people or render eye service help. While our concern at home didn't mean anything to him. I paid my children school fees and paid for groceries while under the same roof with this man. He always acted nice whenever he wanted sex, or in need of a favor from me because as a banker my salary was twice his salary as a Lecturer. But I didn't complain. My major challenge with him was that he was sharing his salary with the public and while I was spending my money within the family.

I fly to his family bi-monthly with gifts even though they live far away in another state without my husband motivating me to do so. My ex-husband won't do the same or even buy 5naira biscuits for my family who lived in the same state as us then. Whenever I discussed the issue with him and tell him to adjust, he will either beat me or insult me or overdo the character which I asked him to amend. He thought my life depended on the marriage and I wasn't gonna quit. Yes, I behaved as if my life depended on it but it wasn't my fault, I gave my all and wanted my marriage to work.
When the marriage crashed he was quick to move on.
Now that I am a branch manager, he is telling everyone including pastors to beg me and preach sermons that make me feel guilty.
They are telling me I have an unforgiving spirit and that my ex-husband is known to be generous to the public.
Does the bible say we should go back to our pain or dwell in hell on earth?

Prof0fficial:
this is one sided I think we need to hear from him...
u said u earn far more than him?
u pay the school fees and groceries... who pay the Rent and others
He beats you?? I think u lied based on your tone... or both of u quarrel? can you shed more light
do you respect him as your husband? are you loyal...
begging people to bring their problems?? I think you are exaggerating....
well I may deduce and put it to you that the cause of your problems with him is financial selfishness...
do you want to keep your money and spend only his money when you know how poor his income is..
are you jealous of his good reputation...
nevertheless you seem to nag on him...
leave him if you aren't comfortable spending your money and then look for a man who is richer than you who you will spend his money and then keep sparing yours.

deolaarc:
When a toxic man jam an Egocentric woman.

I have learnt that to judge a matter most especially marriage related, there are 2sides to a story.

Marriage brings out our real character. It is always easy to point at he did this, she did that. Mostimes, it is good to look inward to know what you are not doing right

He acted nice outside, but a monster at home. Something is frustrating him at home.

A broke man is an angry man, and he will feel inferior. Because his incapcities will be displayed by a woman who feels she's better off.

The man is broke with misplaced priority, you got tired of being supportive, you are doing well, he is stagnant.
It wont work if you dont look beyond that.

Let the man go and make money and forget the marriage for now.. make unna discuss that later


Good luck