Politics › Re: Edo Polls: Oshiomhole Insists On Direct Primaries, Writes INEC by ojuu4u(m): 8:55am On Jun 04, 2020 |
joyandfaith: to explain himself and clarifies matter. oshiomole might have given them wrong information. When head is cut off no remedy again sir. |
Family › Re: My Sister In-law Tried To Scam Me. by ojuu4u(m): 7:34am On Jun 04, 2020*. Modified: 11:57am On Jun 04, 2020 |
Amya: Modified: What's it with nairaland guys and they always trying desperately to fault women in any post concerning them. How can i in good conscience tell my husband that his sister is trying to scam us? Do you know the blowout that could happen from it? The bad blood that may be forever caused by such accusstion? Yeah my sil was trying to pull a con, but she's not the devil. Even now, I respect her and still relate well with her especially as she didnt succeed.
The way i did it was the best because even now, everything has died down. Pkatakpata they'd only say i was too big to take the job offer. That isnt a sin. . How did knw you knw it has died down? As a lawyer you know what they called "remote causes" & immediate causes" in future battles. Let me advice you in case of another time in which you want to fight battle that has to do with ur in laws , you should fight it through ur husband, if not, you maybe putting urself in a very dangerous position. Going by ur illustration, you said ur husband also joined them to blame u, next time if u don't handle it with caution it may consume you. You are a woman, closer to ur husband more than any of his siblings, the issue was even, a personal one. You were supposed to convince ur husband,ur legal background would have been a great help. Having convinced him, thre is notting wrong if you tell ur hubby that you smell scam, if as a *lawyer wife' you can't convince ur hubby on bed, how will u convince judges in court room? You would have told ur in law to talk to ur husband, the battle will now be family to family and not our wife is disobeying in-laws, |
Politics › Re: Edo Polls: Oshiomhole Insists On Direct Primaries, Writes INEC by ojuu4u(m): 7:19am On Jun 04, 2020 |
joyandfaith: he wants to use Tinubu v ambode style. scenario in lagos is different from Edo. Ambode is not in control of party leadership and assembly. obaseki second tenure will be a hello for oshiomole Why obaseki is moving from pilla to post then? |
Politics › Re: Edo Polls: Oshiomhole Insists On Direct Primaries, Writes INEC by ojuu4u(m): 7:17am On Jun 04, 2020*. Modified: 8:41pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
martineverest: that's what the grotesque midget dosnt know.....edo apc chairman is anti Oshiomhole...the biggest APC politicians in Edo state are all antioshiomole and anti iyamu.
the stupidest part is that Oshiomhole is choosing a known criminal and cultist to replace obaseki...and he thinks Edo people will allow that
the fact that oba is pro-obaseki makes it difficult for Oshiomhole to win Edo Abeg stop mentioning oba of Benin!!! U don't knw how humans tink and behave, people tend not to be associated with looser, since they knw obaseki is going down. Many supporters you tink obaseki have, would eventually deny him Peter did more than that for Jesus. |
Politics › Re: Edo Primaries: Obaseki Returns Nomination Form, Warns Oshiomhole To Stay Away by ojuu4u(m): 12:43am On Jun 04, 2020 |
ernieboy: what is the business of an afonja with Edo politics? No wonder oba of Benin put his crown down and went to Lagos to prostrate |
Politics › Re: Edo Primaries: Obaseki Returns Nomination Form, Warns Oshiomhole To Stay Away by ojuu4u(m): 6:37pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Gone for good, WHR is shaibu, oba of Bini ,oyegun that was disgraced out of office |
Politics › Re: Tinubu To Governors: Primaries Crucial To Democracy by ojuu4u(m): 9:04am On Jun 01, 2020 |
But they say Benin no be Lagos now
..........that shaibu na grassroot politician
........that oba of Benin will instruct who to vote and who not to vote
.........that oshiomole don lost ground in Edo
Bunch of political neophyte cum blindness. |
Romance › Re: Does Being Friends With A Guy Always End Well? I've Made The Biggest Mistake by ojuu4u(m): 2:50am On Jun 01, 2020*. Modified: 10:32am On Jun 01, 2020 |
Crunchyg3: How can you say you are afraid to speak with men but you can comfortably upload such picture of your profile revealing almost all you essential part. I really find it difficult to reconcile you with the things you always say in this forum  You forced me to comment, this is one of fiction posts which only needs ,like comment and ultimately front page she said wen she was in 100 level , she was flirting with guys in company of other olosho called friends. Having seen her past by himself, I tink the most stupid tin the guy can do is to make Op his future wife. Not even a guy who knows what future entails. I still call OP a luck girl for her to be getting wise counselling from that guy. I will advice her to maintain friendship if she wants to be close to the guy for long time. The highest she can get from him is sex and after few months of sex,the guy will move on with his life. Meanwhile in another angle, Op said he used to show her different pictures of GIRLS which he was/is dating, having seen a guy who is dating several girls, why will she want to go for him again? perhaps to make him count more scores! In future will she be able to cope with our husband instead of my husband? |
Family › Re: Do U Want A Happy Marriage U Must Submit To Hubby by ojuu4u(m): 2:42am On May 31, 2020 |
McWordsworth: Fancy words, no doubt. But when does submission entails one can't express his or her opinions? Even children are given room to express themselves much less adults. What is actually stale is the old cliche of making submission sounds like a callous 16th century slave driver. Submission in marriage is simply when a woman submits herself to her husband's leadership. And it's natural.
The best and most successful ventures are never on a 50-50 basis. Be they business or political And marriage is no different. Partnership has a greater chance of survival when there's clear leadership and a recognised source (not sources) of authority. And by nature's ordinance such responsibility falls on the man -- to lead, to protect and to provide.
Talking about balls, many men are loosing theirs already. I call them the 21st century entitled men. Much like the biblical Esau they're quick to sell their birth right for a slice of a woman's financial contribution. These are men whose guage for measuring a potential wife material is first of all sensitive to the size of her purse -- not her character.
While tech and innovation are crucial and much welcomed but they lack the capacity to address the deep decay and erosion in the family structure and it's values. Making a direct comparison between both points to a rather dark and materialistic mindset which in itself has cost the modern man his place. Thanks for encouraging comment, not like cici husband that full everywhere, if wife doesn't submit to her husband, how will husband control kids? Little wonder, so many untrained and ill manner kids full everywhere in our society. since there parents are pursuing innovations, they neglected family, yet no achievement yet on such tech and innovations Even in an aircraft with two pilots, the two pilots must be submissive and respect each other, hence one pilot at a time, if not, disaster awaits everybody on board. |
Family › Re: Does Getting Married Make One Responsible? by ojuu4u(m): 2:25am On May 31, 2020 |
Our great grandfathers who called married man a responsible man. I biliv they knew what they were saying, indomi generation be careful.
If you married and you remember that thre is a woman and small children looking up to you for survival and role model, nobody will tell u to adjust yourself to be responsible
Its common knowledge that single lady, even single mother is easily approachable and woo than married woman no matter how small or poor her husband is, What makes men weary to toast* married women? Sense of being a responsible woman!!
Thou marriage can not make everyone responsible, but vast majority do responsible wen they get married and in any legal entity, thr are always threshold number of people to form a quorum and not all members. |
Politics › Re: More Trouble For Obaseki As Loyalists Plot To Abandon Governor by ojuu4u(m): 3:13pm On May 30, 2020 |
Tunes are changing, shaibu no more a grass root politician
He result to begging a man who doesn't hear properly |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Cuts US Ties With WHO, Claims It Is Under China's Control by ojuu4u(m): 6:42am On May 30, 2020*. Modified: 6:57am On May 30, 2020 |
AdaGod1: Now that's the leader every nation wants i can't be doling out billions of usd only for you to be working with enemies and sabotaging my country. Typical America first people wondered how this man won the presidential seat against a very popular candidate and very strong political party me too I wondered how come But if you look closely this is one of the reasons. his pan America is second to none. no negotiations when it comes to the welfare of America and Americans, no time for sentiments and sugarcoating. he might not be a good blabber or orator like Obama but this man Trump is 1000% far better than worthless president Obama.
Even against all odds and campaign of calumny against him I still see him scale through in November. let's see where China funding can take WHO to Useless organization run by useless Chinese communists God bless President Trump God bless America Thunder scatter buhari thunder scatter all Buhari's supporters Pan American my foot, the commodities rolling out from that America, if every country of the world refuses to buy and look into other developed nation, what will happen to that America economy? Soooo only America should be producing why every other country should be consuming, ......foolish racist and foolish supporters from Africa. Oga its only God that is Almighty, supreme and not ordinary mortal. Can you do urself Justice? Compare economy of America during the time of Obama and this useless racist..even.if WHO collapses does that makes world health system collapse? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: President Trump Gets Censored On Twitter For His Tweet Threatening Americans by ojuu4u(m): 9:50am On May 29, 2020 |
Yet some foolish people still following this foolish racist, Always shouting America as if all countries of the world leave America, it won't go down If every nation leave America and partner with other developed nation, a year is too long for America to collapse. Want to control every human being. |
Romance › Re: Can Money Open The Leg Of All Girl's ??? by ojuu4u(m): 9:08am On May 29, 2020 |
Keemsleek005: Laughing real hard, there somethings you guys need not bother talking about, i just laughed writing the lies, maybe na container he rented at ajah, cos of 300k. U almost spending a million. Let me zip my mouth, you should have allowed him enjoyed his lies and for his fans that ate it. Nice one thou for breaking his heart trying to form big boy. You can see I don't bother to reply the original comment but try open the eye off foolish fan who subscribed to his lies, hook line and sinker. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Ask For Sex Before They Can Help by ojuu4u(m): 7:59am On May 29, 2020 |
Jessylove96: Today I asked a male friend of mine for the first time in history to help me with 2k and he was trying to lure me in for sex. I can't put myself to low to sleep around because of money. Guys why do you often do this But u girls say u can't do away with bestie now, we told you that bestie comes to play, to study and eventually Bleep. |
Politics › Re: AfDB Board Denies Asking Adesina To Resign, Says No Decision Yet On Fresh Probe by ojuu4u(m): 7:55am On May 29, 2020 |
janedonez: Adesina's time seems to be up. When USA is on your matter, pls forget it. The have all loosed ends already tightened up. Why can't they overthrow Syria president? |
Romance › Re: Can Money Open The Leg Of All Girl's ??? by ojuu4u(m): 7:49am On May 29, 2020 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: I'm Beginning To Reason With Jehovah Witness On Their Stand Concerning Trinity by ojuu4u(m): 6:46am On May 29, 2020 |
Kobojunkie: Eyes see contradictory accounts... what can perspective do when I was not an eye witness?
The book you call the Bible was not written by the hands of God. It was written by men like you and I. Sure, they were inspired, in much the same way that God inspires all that is knowledge in the world today(good and bad) since there is only one Spirit of inspiration. That's ur perspective, we have diverse spirits of inspirations and that's reasons we aspire to do diverse kinds of innovations, for the Bible, God inspired diverse personalities and they all wrote Bible towards same goal. If you knw how to read BTW the lines and without being prejudice, you will accept that bible not contradicting. |
Christianity Etc › Re: I'm Beginning To Reason With Jehovah Witness On Their Stand Concerning Trinity by ojuu4u(m): 4:23am On May 29, 2020 |
Kobojunkie: Yes it can! When you are dealing with the accounts of men, you can and do run into somewhat contradictory statements. Its contradictory in eyes because the perspective you read it. A fault finder must sure bring out fault on any issue ask him to contribute . |
Christianity Etc › Re: I'm Beginning To Reason With Jehovah Witness On Their Stand Concerning Trinity by ojuu4u(m): 4:03am On May 29, 2020*. Modified: 3:13am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Rozz: When it comes to religious matters we have to use our heads sometimes.Trinity, in Christian doctrine is the unity of the father ,son and holy spirit as three persons in one Godhead. The doctrine of the Trinity is considered to be one of central christian affirmations about God. It is rooted in the fact that God came to meet christians in a threefold figure as (1) There creator,Lord,Father and judge as revealed in the old testament (2)as the lord who incarnated in figure of Jesus Christ who lived among human beings (3)As the holy spirit whom they experienced as the helper or intercessor in the power of new life.But neither the word Trinity nor the explicit doctrine appears in the New Testament.Did Jesus and his followers intend to contradict the Shema in the Hebrew scriptures(Deutronomy 6:4).I have started asking my pastors some questions regarding that,but he only warned me to be very careful of JW. lol I am person who teaches people about bible, trinity inclusive, but am not totally convinced about the whole concept of Trinity, its very very difficult to teach and more difficult to defend when one meets opponent who is sound biblically. Adeboye, his wife and any of his personal assistant maybe talking about one thing, having same mission, united to achieve one purpose, we can say they are one (on purpose), but they are also complete different personalities. Judging by the Bible, we see it in so many verses in Bible which made us to knw that God is one and not "three in one", if you read your Bible very well, God the father is farrrrrrrrrr more powerful that any being, Bible says noooooo one can see God. How many eyes that saw Jesus? Several ! Can Bible contradict itself? Capital NO. One person asked question on radio one day, ...." The day that Jesus was crucified, who was in charge of heaven and universe"? The moderator couldn't find satisfactory answer to the question. In the Bible as well, Jesus himself said it severally that he is answerable to someone who is by far superior to him, ....then on few occasions he said they are one....... I interpret that (oneness) to same "purposes and mission " and not same 'personality' |
Romance › Re: Can Money Open The Leg Of All Girl's ??? by ojuu4u(m): 3:19am On May 29, 2020 |
Poseidon000: It's parochial to think that money have the same effect on everybody(I'm not trying to negate that fact that greater percentage of women are susceptible to it lure). But the apt thing to say is: "everybody have got a price", and that includes you'll wielding the stick of derision. The 'price' can be love, sexual appeal, religion, personal abilities(talent) et al. Not necessarily pecuniary as you all are painting with the brush of generalization. All you need do is finding what makes the person tick or what he or she hold dear, and use that as a quid pro quo to get your desire. 100% concur. All those guys that believed that money alone and not other attributes can open pants amazed me, anyway am not totally surprised, its their myopic way of reasoning Not to long ago a guy wanted to sex a woman, the woman resisted even unto death, the guy took out cutlass hacked that woman yet she resisted till she died. Death and Money |
Romance › Re: Can Money Open The Leg Of All Girl's ??? by ojuu4u(m): 3:04am On May 29, 2020 |
themaestro08: You are a real gee man. You truly understand these creatures.
But wait o. You sure say your story legit so? Insane  You own brain is even myopic than fish brain he claimed women have. Bet off #300k for someone who borrowed car, how come he will go and rent apartment in Ajah just to Bleep friend fiancee, how much is apartment in Ajah? A well good looking apartment in Ajah can't less than 1m. 1M plus other expensive for someone who borrowed car to waste on a bet of 300k, tink of it yourself . is it logical? Reasonable?? Rational  Profitable  ? Is not everything that people type that is true guy. |
Romance › Re: Can Money Open The Leg Of All Girl's ??? by ojuu4u(m): 3:03am On May 29, 2020 |
themaestro08: You are a real gee man. You truly understand these creatures.
But wait o. You sure say your story legit so? Insane  You own brain is even myopic than fish brain he claimed women have, Bet off #300k for someone who borrowed car, how come he will go and rent apartment in Ajah just to Bleep friend fiancee, how much is apartment in Ajah? A well good looking apartment in Ajah can't less than 1m. 1M for someone who borrowed car to waste of a bet of 300k, tink of it yourself . is it logical? Reasonable?? Rational  Is not everything that people type that is true guy |
Romance › Re: Can Money Open The Leg Of All Girl's ??? by ojuu4u(m): 2:53am On May 29, 2020 |
[quote author=psyco post=90065412]If money won't do it, more money will do it. Except the girl is a Christian sha...
A xtian girl, is she not a girl again? You guys will be reason as if God design everyone to be equal |
Politics › Re: Akin Adesina: Atiku Abubakar rallies support for AfdB President by ojuu4u(m): 6:38pm On May 28, 2020 |
I trust OBJ ,if obj it will have be a supremacy battle between obj and trump, but for lifeless, trump will win,even though USA is not major shareholder |
Politics › Re: AfDB: Why My Detractors Are After Me – Adesina by ojuu4u(m): 12:20pm On May 28, 2020 |
NettyNelly: In life, you reap what you sow. Adesina has no reason to fear if he really performed excellently, cause clear conscience fears no allegations. Well it's a beautiful day, Do you need a well designed attractive Logo?, check my signature Have a great day ahead Have u heard about witch hunting b4? What about fault finder? I pray u won't be a victim |
Romance › Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Still Lives With His Family? by ojuu4u(m): 3:04pm On May 26, 2020*. Modified: 4:32pm On May 26, 2020 |
BanjiRaymond: Don't bring Bible words into this, because it brings different meaning to words to everyone in each country. A Christian(male) in the USA at age 17 gets married while it doesn't happen here. Bible shouldn't tell a man how to live his life. Let everyone does what works for them. Life has no rules Sit down in ur dad"s house and let him feed u, ur wife and children. Mummy"s puppet. Am very sure you lack comprehension, how you passed WAEC we all know, a 17 yrs old that marries in any where in the world will be called Mr ........ Such a person is man. I tink I do enough justice to your comprehension dysfunction now. Bye. |
Romance › Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Still Lives With His Family? by ojuu4u(m): 11:53am On May 26, 2020*. Modified: 4:27pm On May 26, 2020 |
Bible says .....for this, a man should leave is father's house and cleaves to his wife.......after man sure of what his household will eat, the next most important tin is shelter before having any iota of plan to settle down.
Your sister must insist that her fiance MUST get accommodation outside his parents house even if it's a room, before planing any marriage, if she tries otherwise, she is heading to marriage of #sooooo many masters to serve instead of a master. |
Romance › Re: My Experience With A Girl I Met At The Fuel Station by ojuu4u(m): 8:39am On May 26, 2020 |
Rawhumper: [
Yeah but you cant get true loyalty unlike looks.
Someone rightly said the money op gave the girl,mayb shared with the girls handsome boyfriend. She may even use it to buy stuffs for him.
Well now the handsome dude is eating free pussy and also the girls money.
When a guya money finishes ladies will run away but when a handsome guys loses money some ladies will even stay and contribute money for him to stand again.
Always looks go a long way my guy.....there are some girls that wont take ur kobo if u too ugly or they dont like you.I have seen it no be joke or heard....saw the alerts(450k) and the man in queation too.
I have been with a girl in her hostel,a very rich guy with exotic car came to take her out. She asked my opinion,i told her no she went out and gave the rich guy story and didnt go out with him.(Now this chic is current a queen in a beauty pagent in Lagos).
So my guy with good looka you spend less and the ladies really give their best during sex not just cos of money but out of real enjoyment of fucking the fearures they like in a guy.
Am comfortable as you can see,am not broke but i have to be real and honest tho its my opinion
Did u read where Op said, fine bobo short changed his mum? Took 1k from the money from her parent to give gf, and latter came out with lies he would tell her mum, the girl collected 4k from both side sir
It was even bobo will feel the pain most cos Op took 3k from abundant he had
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Romance › Re: My Experience With A Girl I Met At The Fuel Station by ojuu4u(m): 8:24am On May 26, 2020 |
Rawhumper: Dont get me wrong,am not saying money isnt good but looks is as good as money.
But a guy needs to hustle to feed his family not just placing the burden on the woman alone thats wickedness.
I still say it looks can take a guy where some ugly guys cant go thats true as well as some certain favours too.
Anyways everyone is entitled to his/her opinion.
Of course yes, the same way money will outmatch outlooks, going by the Op narration, its clearly that the guy's money defeated outlooks, am sure if Op wanted to snatch the girl he would do it with easy.
Money controls women farrrrrrrrr more than outlooks do. Even with ur money you control fellow men not to talk of women.
Going by ur story of 450k, uhmmmmmm, .........do not underrate power of women to dribble guys o,.......... perhaps your outlooks limit you into the world of cunning strategies display by women.
That lady might go back and bleeped that man with even farrrrr lesser money, she succeeded in dribbled you and latter went to collect her entertainment.
If u explore women very well u will understand women |
Politics › Re: Edo 2020: Obaseki To Meet Buhari Over APC Primary Controversy by ojuu4u(m): 7:12am On May 26, 2020 |
I think u guy says NWC lack power to dictate for you now,
Running helter skelter at this period, is tantamount to disorganized and heading towards defeat.
Some foolish people will come to faceless forum and argue gragra"
NB: shaibu, oyegun , oba of Benin and other foot soldiers, ........... |
Romance › Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by ojuu4u(m): 6:53am On May 26, 2020 |
For you to be a good xtian never makes u not to be in charge of ur woman/ marriage, thou am not saying you should sex her now or beat ur woman ,but you should start taking a firm and bold decisions towards her now, if not ........she will hijack the authority of the house from u. Its every woman that wants to do it, if you don't quickly tame her by now, you will regret it latter.
Give a threat that you may not show face during wedding or abandon the wedding...... Tank me latter
Meanwhile u guys" claimed to be xtian, yet you guys are sleeping alone in same room together, that contradicts Christian doctrine before marriage.
Two of you are leaving in hypocritical world. |