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dheaven:
Even a man that never own a car before respects a man with car.

Yes oooo... You forced me to comment

I remembered when I haven't got a car, whenever I went to joint or any gathering, I would be having inferiority complex when a guy with car arrived even if it's poorest and worst car

When I got the car I noticed excitement in my wife....

Jewessgratitude:
Well...I'm not married but if and when I do, there's no way I'm going to love my kids more than my hubby cos we (hubby and i) were together before they came.

Now, from my observation, its not as if women love children more than their husband but because 50% of men no longer have time for their wife's as soon as the children starts coming and the next person she can easily turn to for succour is her children which overtime becomes natural and the couple drift apart.

That is why I'll not let mine degenerate to that level before calling oga to order.

It happens. Yes.

that's your wish but naturally you would love your children more than you husband, women see their kids as their OWN flesh and husbands as flesh from other persons..... Humans tend to protect his/her own flesh jealously because she feels the pains

dominique:
Rolls eyes
When are they going to write lengthy rules and regulations for husbands to abide by or is it only wives that must be guided by rules?

It's never an abomination or sin if you write, post your own lengthy rules and regulations for husbands so that husbands we be guided as well

Don't be judgmental bin your reasoning if you plan to have peace in ur marriage.....


Without seeing you, I think rules number 1 and 3 are there to guide you

Dollarseeker:
wetin this one de talk sef. you better learn the truth of Christ.

Ur utterances clearly shown u known the truth indeed

All these Epistles are just to defend undefendable, Almighty God himself instructed us to worship him on Saturday *sabbart* and not Sunday, Jesus himself said it clearly that he came to strengthen laws he met and not to abolish/criticize them...
too know is what is causing a lot of confusion in body of Christ today that's why some are even saying their followers shouldn't celebrate Christmas

Things changed a little bit from how it was in 90s, unlike 90s, ladies/women of today
EASILY open legs for men, women/girls having multiple partners like male folks without feeling remorse .I think it was male that brag about multiple gf in olden days. Unlike before, students didn't use to date ,mechanic, tailor etc but now one will see university students banging mesuya* .
In fact its a paradigm shift.

This maybe true, I knew a wife in akure years back, things were rosy for husband before it changed to worse, it was time to renew house rent, the wife refused to assist. The husband, the wife and kids were ejected from house and all moved to friend's house who also had family, yet this woman refused to assist claiming she didn't have.....within the period they were in friend's house, *she bought land on her name*......after few months in friend house, husband managed to get apartment and moved out

People forced to have relationship and that's why most marriages are having problem,
I ve a friend that girl is forcing herself on him right now even though she knew my friend married already, she is the one that is spending, she is the one who calls, she is caging my friend with s.ex think she can forced her way into my friend heart, meanwhile se.x is always in hotel o, *someone who she plans to marry o, sexingg her in hotel, Meanwhile at her back my friend would be making jest of her..... How she is IndecentStar, how she spend money for him, and plan to dump her in aproprate time. Am the one always begging my friend at least to be spending for her but.....


So many time we see the red flag but we ignore

babyfaceafrica:
Very false

Guys/men that sleep with anything under skirts including siblings knw what they want now, its only girls that don't knw what they want

DrayZee:
The problem with women is that they don't know what they want. You've said your own now. You'll still see your fellow women on nairaland that will say they won't agree to a guys advances immediately because they don't want to be seen as cheap.

Last last, the only solution is not to take women too seriously.

Try to read entire comment and not segment, she said #when guy puts lady under intense pressure, out of pity, she may give in to date such guy# so not that they don't knw what they do but guys on many occasions forced their ways in ... gifts, give her money, calling and text her frequent, paying her visit always. Etc .Any gender can fall/confuse under such intense pressure.


If u read btw the line, its obvious the guy in question, bought his way to the girl heart , girl he dated less than 2 months......buying iPhone for her, thinking he could get her heart tru expensive gifts and that's not how God designed woman heart. Some even biliv its only money that woman wants

Maga will be spending lover will be Chopin mugu"s hard earned cash

If OP truly harden his heart as he claimed,he may not get good wife, or have a loveless marriage,

as someone posted above, soooooooooo many guys pressurized ladies into relationships and this is one of outcomes, when a woman triply falls in love with you, nobody will tell you, the love will be written all over her body,
one thing I noticed about women hearts unlike men, the woman heart is fragile and can occupy one love at a time, meanwhile on many occasions those that they love are not always reciprocate, this gives room for dating another guy who has her time in wish she doesn't love



Guys do not try to buy love from women, given them expensive gift doesn't guaranteed she will love u alone

You want to eat ur cake and same time have it.

You want to be called a mother yet u want ur vj to be like virgin.

Your husband must love you for whatever your body transformed into most especially if its because of child bearing. Won't his new name change to father?




NB....You should thank Ur God u don't have delay.........and that's y u re ingratitude in ur thought and opinion

When a man think he can sleep with anything under skirt, a time will come that he will start sleeping wt, friend wife, next is his own cousins, next his sisters and finally daughters.

tit:
Why don't he wear babanriga. That is more distinguish.

Am sure you run after yahoo guys.....hope ur ..........still intact

To appreciate legit hardwork becomes problematic.

Your type is the reason why small guys throw insult on female gender

Omoluabi16:
Mesut ozil looks like someone who's fallen out of love with the game. He's not the only moslem footballer.. has he ever condemned what the paks or Saudi do? Hypocrite. Germany made you and you're famzing turkey.

What is he doing in a kalfari* country.?.........


Part of wages is being paid weekly come from the China, if he wants to be an activist cum Islamic scholar let him leave football world and go to Saudi Arabia or his country of origin, that was how he broke up with Germany national team in a controversial way.

Classyuniquebae:
Firstly she is not proud and dresses decently as well . As for the high taste ish, she really does but not like looking for a rich or financially stable guy. She said one of her problems is that she can't find a man with a vision . That even most rich guys simply do not have any plans or visions for their lives . They just want to make money and talk of how sexy she is and all of that .

I literally forced her to give this rich guy a chance and for like 2 months it was going well . According to her , the guy seems to be intellectually ok for her as their conversations were very engaging and they both share mind blowing ideas until she asked the guy about his future plans , visions and passion .


The guy lost it . He was like " what kinda stupid question is that ? That why does he really need to start making plans for his future when he is thinking of how to make money ? Lol


She came home crying ,saying she can't deal with these men . Like "where did I go wrong ? I'm about graduating but I've plans for my life. Why is it so difficult to get a sensible man ? "


So you see what I mean by she has a high taste but not on the negative side.

For a man to say he doesn't have plans shouldn't make her to cry and loose interest, provided the guy is good and love her. Soooo many men of course are making money but spending it extravagantly, the onerous is on her to be pressurising and diverting his guy money to a positive venture. So many women forced their men to buy land, car, venture etc........
Though I still strongly believed that some ladies possessed.....sleep and run.......some even pretty but no man asks them out not to talk sleeping with them.




Meanwhile, so many comments I ve read targeted girls attitudes and modes of dressing. Anyway I concurred but for me the biggest reason why %.ladies having problems to get good suitor is as result of economic factor on the side of men......

Guys want to settle down but no income to cater for heavy responsibilities that marriages bring

Aphrygian:
but Jonathan's uncle was not the chief of staff to the president. As much as Jonathan's cabinet was composed of thieves his family members where not in big juicy positions like the ones we have in our president's cabinet now

And who told buhari regime is not full of thieves? If he can't control immediate family, how would he control ministries, dept and agency? When his regime change u will understand

I stand with Buhari on this, someone can not sit down at corner of his or her room and be posting injurious/damaging information on faceless forum, which can lead to crisis and eventually death, one must verify information before dishing it out.
I even suggest that every internet user must have verified account before he or she is allowed to post any comment online,

Experience on Nairaland alone is enough, I believed if Nairaland is not a faceless forum, people will think twice before posting irrelevant comments that have been associated with Nairaland.

Can innosson coy manufactures tyres, glass , sensors? Just asking to boost my knowledge o

Aniex629:
what do you know ass-licker??
people use different things to wind down. your type stalk women 24/7 on social media but can't say a word to their face

Talking to family man ? I pity u........am legally married and carry out full responsibility of a married man.(leaving and control full grown up woman everyday).......you are age mates of people that had passed through my tutelage...........I give you an assignment, go and read all my previous posts on romance section....anybody who doesnt join you to bash female gender becomes ass licker I doubt if you have responsible mum/sisters
anyway, judging by your rant. No woman to call your own not to talk of daughters... When you wake up from hallucination,reply me.

Aniex629:
The facebook part is real, most of us hype girls online when we are bored me inclusive, it doesn't mean we want anything to do with the girl physically and mostly you may not be attracted to the said ladies when you meet physically, these ladies too mostly don't have life outside social media their hype finish there


as for the guy who doesn't like connecting with his babe, he is a realer. it happens to most of us unless you haven't been with women b4.
So I don't see any faking in any of that. Life isn't exactly the way we see it

My bros while leaving in fool Paradise? Self deceit? Hypocritical behavior

I went through a Facebook chat of a lady recently,see how guys and men begging, pleading to have relationship with her, even so-called bigger boys. Some guys hype their egos unnecessarily on girls issues.

A close friend who is handsome used to brag of him not being spending penny for ladies, it leads to arguments sometimes. Two days ago he was saying he don't like calling gf whenever he broke, inside me *I was saying but you don't use to spend for girls now*, why holding back when you are broke?

[quote author=TonyeBarcanista post=84699898]This is the most illogical comment of the week.
If students that are usually between 16-26 are NO GO AREA to date

If NYSC members that are usually between 21 and 30 are no go area to date because of "NYSC hoeing"

If women of 30/35+ are no go area because of being "evening newspaper.

Then who should be dated?

Do you guys think that a girl that hoe in higher institution and during NYSC will suddenly become Angel when she is done with that phase?

Do you guys know what some ladies do at work with their colleagues, bosses, fellow professionals etc? Or should guys also not date working class?

See, this thread has exposed what many female Nairaland members have been saying of most Nairaland guys on this board. They lack intelligence!


I always tell guys around me who brag about not spending for women but to sleep with them, that they are liars from pit of hell...except those who are desperate to get partner.......All over the world , relationships with women come with spending though its varies individually.
It has nothing to do with students,corps members, jobless or working class girl/lady, its the trait of individual that determines how much she bills her guy. Women take joy in spending their guys money though some ladies over demanding.

I imagine how Bolanle would be feeling now, indeed power is transient..if she had been waited and patient, who knws if they would still be in government.. And for Ambode I biliv he learnt his lesson in hardest way. Next time he will knw how not to be a woman rapper

Any lady who meets good man, that brings money home and ready to settle down with her in this Buhari regime,I congratulate her.
I was with 2 teenage girls yesterday, scared & astonished when they were *lamenting how difficult to have stable relationship, if girls of 20yrs were lamenting ,am imaging ugly experiences ladies 30+ would have been subjected to

lexy2014:
U are saying something different from d topic

Am trying to let her know that no single woman in the world not naija alone o, in as much she has feminine nature, likes to spend man money

Any woman who doesn't want her man"s money is suffering from unknown disease, forget about rant of jobless and kids on nairaland its joy of woman to spend her man"s money. Its also boost ego of man when u spend on ur women, I used to appeal to my friends to endeavor to spend on their women, though not the women to turn them to ATM o

They can't offer her physics, since she didn't do maths in utme

JaneKenedy:
I don't do that either.... everything ends up there. Except it's someone I might have interest in what comes up in the talk perhaps business deal, works, which I will discuss with him first and if it's not okay with it. I forget it. I tell him everything. Like a guy chyked me today, see what I told him, I would be expecting him to joke with me....but no he would just change and be angry.....if I don't talk to him, who would I

Like I don't even have strength. Most I cant recognize the next day, I don't even visit people at their houses except my work colleagues only when it is extremely necessary and a female or in company of a female if it is a males house, or we talk outside. Sometimes I beg him to follow me.

Do you knw some guys/men use charm to get down on women? You may not believe but its real, such evil men easily penetrate ladies who is too playful / friendly........ To get ur names, touch u with rings/charm, get sand u marched, get ur cloth, get ur shadow, put charm in ur drink/food etc easier went you flock easily with men

You will soon end up in stranger's BEDS



Not 1 or 2 but many beds
even in her imagination, my wife can't bring male family to my room without informing me let alone stranger.

Apology for my quote below

When it comes to RELATIONSHIP, females are subhuman to males.....you won't know until you fall yakata

Any lady that has clocked 24 and above and who is ready to settle down, doesn't need up to 2yrs courtship. Men/guys will do anything to deceive her that he is not yet ready, even though he keeps having s.ex with her, he wouldn't allow other guys to come near her and yet he would dump her at end of the day in her 30s. Any guy who truly in love with a lady,don't need 2 years and above to walk her to isle.

Some ladies in their late 20s will be going out with a man who has no means of income claiming l love him, where you want me to start from? How will such man take marital responsibilities? Yet you don't want long term relationship.

I always pity girls who put themselves in bondages of relationships. The eyes normally open and brain now reset at age 32.....clock can never reverse.........

Samyj247:
does she know ur salary and do u know her salary? I am a psychologist I know what she thinks about u, and I will tell u. That's why I said ask her, let's know why she has that strong mindset concerning giving to guys. There is something in her that she needs to bring out, and when she has brought it out, u can mould it and everything will b fine.

There is something she has experienced in the past that made her to act that way. u need to go deeper and investigate and let her tell u that thing.

If this is the only bad reason u have about her then relax she is not bad bro...Except: So ask her, if she has revealed that reason that made her have that mindset, then convince her to trust in u and u guys relationship, if she affirms to that then good. Don't tell her just give the relationship 6 more months and within those six months, bring up good news or whatever and ask her for a gift later on again, ask for 1-5k promise to pay back promptly. make sure u pay back o.

if after ur 6 months experiment and she still refused to borrow u 1k to 5k or give u a gift or something (remember u must ask for it) then run for your life and let her go.

user283

Oga there is no need of psychology or psychoanalysis here, if you love someone genuinely, it would pain you when u part with ur money to show him or her love, ......if she had terrible experience in past in giving to boyfriends, why taking from current boyfriend when she knows she can give