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Ladies used to go for wrong reasons when it comes for marriage and that's why they are abused and disappointed.

A recent story between my wife' friend and options opened for her then.

The lady in question was 30 then, I intervened because my wife used to nag then that when guys slept wt her friend, they used to leave and on many occasions they will not even give her transport fare.
Meanwhile there was particular brother in my church that wanted to get marry then and he wasn't into any serious relationship. I told my wife to inform her friend about my intention of match making her with my church brother which she obliged, the guy is handsome, working in government establishment and also have his own job.
The guy as a xtian, intended to marry this lady without having premarital sex with her (don't forget she complained to my wife, which happen to be her closest friend, that guys used to leave her after sleeping with her)
She travelled down from other state to meet the guy in my apartment, when the two came, I introduced them to each other and advised them I latter left them to discuss one on one, the guy left that day and came back 3rd day for further discussion, to cut story short,
This lady refused to marry my church member just because he met one particular guy online. Even though there were handwritings on the wall that the guy would not marry her
The guy he met online has no job, not to talk of setting business for her, the guy ready to sleep with her immediately and with no plan of get married soon even though the girl in question was 30 yrs old then
Yet the lady blindly and foolishly followed online guy just because they came from same town while my church brother came from other state (that was excuse she gave my wife)


Today at age 32 she is still wandering in the wilderness of singleness,to God be the glory my church brother married with kid

NB she left my house and meet the online guy from different town, the guy impregnated her and denied the pregnancy, she later delivered still born baby

Then many of Nigeria's pastors wanted to bring TB Joshua by misleading their congregations,instead he grew stronger, to me I biliv God is fighting for him because all those people they were misleading to run away from TB Joshua then are the one attacking them today

How can it be possible if not by first clinch presidency?

Its audible to the deaf and visible to the blind now that Nigeria is not ONE the way Buhari runs is government, any southerner that clinches presidency and refuses to do devolution of power to the federating in other for states to control her own resources will sure regret as Obasanjo and Jonathan are regretting now

Dignity of African ladies/women had been completely eroded. Nothing like virtuous woman again, ladies want to indulge in all sort of exscapades that rampart among male folks in the past, gone are days that one could hardly seen girls discuss about sex openly but now girls talk about sex & immorality even in the present of guys more than guys do.
I imagine how marriages will look like in nearest future.

No matter how Buhari runs his government, I can never blame him. I put my blame on obasanjo and Jonathan who spent combined 15years in government and refused to do devolution of power to federating states.
They believed in one Nigeria, now they are regretting their actions and inactions where'er they .

In next 10 years every potential husbands will have to settle down with current/ex-olosho, it would have been a norm by then.
Just like husbands to be now settle for non-virgin as wives compare to last generation

The way girls open legs all in the name of CASH for ANYBODY (handsome or ugly, short or tall , old or young, any tribe) is worrisome.

Its still amazing how lecturers are still embarrassing themselves before students, when one can easily be in room, go online, pick girls with different "sizes and shapes" , call them to come and meet you right inside your room and sex with small money. Its no secret that students (males and females) bombard lecturers within monetary gifts, use that money to sex outsiders

Some guys also in habit of doing that, immediately you call them for a drink, he/ they would be calling their friends too as if they have met ATM, to me, if you don't have a dime to add, you don't have reason to call your friends to join you

All of wailers wailing in previous post that Huawei will collapse pls comment

You guy will sit down inside room and be writing gibberish and ass licking Trump as if he is a Almighty, the world/ life is a "give and take. When a leader talks, there are a lot of politics underneath and a follower must look before he leaps if not, he would fall yakata for propaganda thinking his defending a leader with good intention

Kamxin:
So I need to tell you that Google, facebook is banned in China.

Call it politics or whatever. Anybody that banned Facebook and google has borrowed a debt that must be repaid one day. and the date is here

Am sure u ve read another post here on nairaland that ,US official write to delay restrictions and that any restrictions will certain favour huawei.


One day you will wake up from deception

Kamxin:
US monopoly of giving hardworking people a chance must end. Just wake up

For instance the person that developed whatsapp is not an American, same with most of the inventors.

China is looking for quick money thats why they banned google and still remain the biggest beneficiary of google products.

When and how they banned Google, if they do as you claimed, why huawei a Chinese company wants to develop their own OS outside Google now? 2. Why Google just informed then that come 90 days they won't all huawei to operate on their own window again? Will you write quit notice for tenant that doesn't rent room in your house?

You don't understand politics that trump is playing. I rest my case

martineverest:
waste of time..who will use a phone without Facebook,Google, Snapchat,Twitter, whatsapp, Instagram, YouTube,Skype etc?..the world uses huawei phones cos of Google's playstore and because it uses american software.whonwill buy a phone with Chinese os apart from china?

tizen OS(Samsung), windows phone and blackberry is were strong enough but couldn't penetrate..don't forget microsoft is the largest software makers ,Samsung is the biggest smartphone company and blackberry had the most secured is in the world

Keep on thinking as somebody who has accepted not liberate oneself from dungeon, anything that has beginning must have end, few years back Nothing like FB etc yet it wasn't the end of human race. Oga any form of monopoly must be broken one day. For me I biliv its the beginning of end of US monopoly on world "Take it, Leave it".



U think other western world think the way you do,
I biliv you didn't read it that huawei has started 5G in UK and that Russia will start theirs soonest these are just two among others nations of the world and that huawei is the sole company contracted it for.

Cityfirstborn:
pls say what you know, Gabriel Jesus, sane, zinchenko, foden were they established players. joining a small team doesn't guarantee one becoming a star player. where is nwakali that joined a lower league.Only hardwork pays. infact, joining a big club as a young player gives you a bigger platform to perform

And u think kelechi was in same age and skill with those players? The opportunity they will give other players from other continent they will give it to African players? Keep on leaving in dreams

Yes oooo

goshen26:
I don't think that's his problem, his problem is "a ladder is supposed to be climbed from the bottom"

His Man city move was his greatest mistake

I said it for people then that Man city is not the club that supposed to sign him at that period of his career but because the club had already bribed dad couples with swollen head and pocket, he couldn't resist.
Man City and Chelsea are not meant for upcoming players in England, they are too ambitious and are moneybags clubs. If a player is not well established he would crumble.

Kante is perfect example of player that is supposed to sign by Man city or Chelsea, if not because Kante is a established player, Sarri would have rubbished him because of Joginho.

placeofallure:
Many factors are responsible for this. People are quick to blame the girls. Although some do it because of greed and discontentment, many however are victims of the society.
The government. Why are there no tuition-free universities? Our lecturers used to tell stories of the benefits they enjoyed during their time. You get paid for going to school. You have free meal tickets. And there are jobs waiting for you.

Secondly, many parents are irresponsible. I mean why give birth to children you can't educate? Yes! Life happens but these days people are wiser. People plan for any eventuality via various financial plans just to ensure their dependants do not suffer just in case. Moreso, family values are practically non-existent. Whatever happened to Be content with what you have whether big or small? We have many social miscreants today because parents have failed in their responsibility to the children. Family system, the bedrock of any society, is broken down. I weep.

Many lecturers are perverts. They are simply descendants of Lucifer. I remember 3 of them were on my case back then. I gained admission in my late teens but I actually looked 14. Despite that, they cared less, I wasn't their daughter. One even specifically told me I wasn't his daughter. But then, I could confidently call for my paper if any of them tampered with it. Thus, I escaped having to get dirty with any of them but what about many girls that are not as lucky?

Man do not exist in isolation. We are what our socibety makes of us. This is the point where strength of character comes to the fore.

Woman! Please read the article very well, it was talking about universities girls that go out for paid sex and not to pass exam this time around, do not try to shift blame on lecturers. Go to higher institutions and see the kind of sophisticated lives they leave on campuses.
Student that her parents stay in a single room room back home will come to campus and rent 2 -bed room, buying latest version of lphone, costly hairdo etc. Pls how would she foot all these bills if not to trade her body to highest bidder
So-called girls have 75% blame, parents 20% rest 5% blame

With my little findings, I discovered that in nearest future, maybe 10 years to this time, every potential husband has to settle for current or ex olosho/runs girls to marry, it would have be norm by then, just like it has been norm now to marry non-virgin. Before, it was hard for girls/ ladies to open legs for guys they don't have "body chemistry" for but now you will see okada man, bricklayers,mechanics even mesuya" boasting how they slept with different universities girls. ( pls am not belittle those professions ).

A high class girl that you need to think twice before approaching in day time, EASILY open legs for small boy who is highest bidder at night

Indeed society is completely decayed AND EVERYBODY HAS TO BLAME ,( parents ,government, males and mainly girls)

I believe Trump knows that Huawei is leading any other US smart phones technologies and that's why he wanted to pull them down at all cost, hidden under "spy" lo and behold Huawei is going stronger

Allylic:
I dislike that Ibrahim chatta,he keeps trying to hard to be relevant (I believe he acts just to impress..forced acting and sometimes so fake)

You have personal beef with chatta while u re crazy for odun's outlook. The argument says who is better?

realoscar84:
The way this particular op dey murder, resurrect English language severally in the same writeup, tire me wallahi. I only read the first paragraph without initially taken note of the op's moniker, having discovered the strange but familiar mumbo jumbo words combination I had to scrolled up n boom, it's him again. Na only U n baba God know where you learned this colonial era English.

He who leaves in glass house doesn't throw stones, you are bashing someone for writting bad grammar, when your write- up too full of errors, not that you mixed pidgin with english,but also used past tense word instead of present tense word "....I had to scrolled" instead of scroll'......God know* instead of knows*...
Learn how to remove big stick from own eye first.

Stealing yet *hype yourself for potential predators. What a stupidity!......After drinking and smoking, believing they are on top of the world,all those hailing you nothing will happen, where are they? Now you had been completely subdued

mfm04622:
She was NOT drunk! She only took a glass of drink!

Heavily drunk was referring to guys

shine96:
Shut your mouth up. That's not the first time they 're going out.

"
One day monkey go go market ehn no go come back"

Whenever its debated on public forums, that lady cannot be a close friend to unrelated males, you ladies do attack us vehemently, AM NOT BLAMING THE VICTIM, neither do I SUPPORT RAPE IN ANY FORM, but prevention is far far better than cure, * a mature lady following two grown old guys to night club, heavily drunk , yet not expecting hot and wild sex from them.
Now the damage is done already, how would she overcome gang raping traumatic experience?
What about gossiping that would follow the incident years to come?
If she didn't made them close friends, she would have prevented the horrific mess.
A word is enough only for a wise!

Even though I total against subjecting anyone to hardship, maiming or ritual purposes. I also blame all these oloshos.

You want tenths of thousands Naira from 10 pm to 5am, amount you cannot hustle with your hand in day time for a full month.

Yoruba adage says "he who wants quick wealth should also be expecting total loss"

TonyeBarcanista:
The Reps that attended the event weren't up to 50.

Gbaja can NEVER be a Speaker or any presiding officer in any Parliament in Nigeria except Lagos State House of Assembly

I can see you are one of rep members that want to cast votes for leadership positions in national assembly........... HIDING IN ONE ROOM APARTMENT AND BE BRAGGING ON NATIONAL ISSUES THAT YOU DON'T HAVE *AN ATOM* OF INFLUENCE ON.

Axis313:

Yes,they are Christian nations,and it says a lot about them legalizing all sorts of abnormal behaviors like homosexuality,bestiality and pornograghy.
Yes they are Christians nations and their religion allows it.

The way your prophet had sex with 6 years old Aishat, that he snatched zainab from his lieutenant, that he committed adultery and fornication with so many slaves , that he took inheritances and possessions of Khadija ( fraud by deceit & lies), he also committed genocide in fact he is a Big CURSE to humanities, I fully support the guy from quora.

Axis313:
I am very sure that the enmity between Russia and USA was the fault of Islamic world,and the second world war which claimed millions of lives that have all it's protagonists as Christians was also caused by Muslims abi?.
You should be the one who should try to know the truth instead of gullibly swallowing what the West served you without checking for facts because of your inbuilt hatred for a particular group of people.

From ur quote you confirmed it as if you were in existence as far as thousands years before that , Arab worlds were at peace before xtian's west came to cause chaos among Islamic nations, that was why I asked you that so many crises happening in Arab worlds as a result of oppression from Muslim leaders in their own countries also caused by west abi? And when it happens, Saudi Arabia will not open doors for Muslim refugees but Christian's countries. It says alot about two religions and the one that kind more to humanities

Axis313:
Stupid op,christianity is the most blood-drenched religion in history,from the Inquisition in Spain to the Crusade in Palestine, the extermination of the red Indians in the present day USA, to the genocide and extermination of the Aborigines of Australia and the Maoris of New Zealand,all under the banner of Christianity.
If I am given the opportunity to erase someone from history that person should be Paul, the founder of that demonic religion christianity.
All those Islamic countries you mentioned up there were living their lives peacefully for centuries under Islamic Shari'a before your blood-thirsty Christian brothers invaded them to colonized them.
Since they brought their Christian demonic influence, those countries have not been the same again.

Even Iran and Saudi Arabia that are enemy based on fundamental differences on Islamic doctrines caused by west too.


Try to know the truth so that you be set free

victorian:
But that does not mean I'm searching .

I'm simply relaxing from man wahala jare .

I love my peace.

� Deceiving yaself. The earlier the better for you.

Even me a man, I find it difficult to attend DL, ...... not beating drum and good songs on any service including Sunday,.... I find it boring, also 50% of ur members behaviors, how difficult they are makes it worrisome to attend the church, just like cult. Also issue of segregation among body of Christ.

It's a lesson for some ladies that believe a certain girl/lady is bigger than guy........I used to tell people that no woman is bigger than her husband. It's a matter of humility before your man. Women like Oby, Iweala, and Dora of blessed memory enjoyed their marriages because they humbled, tamed their egos & didn't allow their status to dictate for them.