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This type of scenario common during teens years and on MANY occasions such girls later regret such decision. Under normal circumstances, the friend is supposed to sit you down and let you know new development as a way of soft landing for you (taking permission) and not to hurt friend emotionally. What are friends for!

Let say friend's wife shows feeling for friend, which is possible. Will the friend go ahead and sex her?

Lessons from this type of scenario.

1.Such ladies are types that can have sex with friends, co-worker, co-tenant/tenants even relatives of future husbands because she is a type with fade conscience and she is ready to hurt feelings in as much she satisfies her pleasure.


2. Such friend is a friend that can sex/snatch friend's wife

abujaafar18:
You Christians have to bear the consequences of your disbelief in Allah. Ironically, most of you are always quick to criticize Muslims and their divinely revealed religion for simply abiding with the devine laws of the Quran which simply forbid free intermingling of opposite sex and exposing of sensitive parts of the body by females. Doesn't most churches encourage these? Perhaps because your pastors are benefiting from that. It's not surprising that abominable acts,including incests take place in your churches.
The solution is very simple. Submit yourselves to Allah the most high by accepting Islam and follow the devine laws of the Mighty creator. Simple. May Allah guide you. Ameen

Keep living in a fool paradise or maybe you are hallucinating, perhaps you are not in this country, countless of time that had been reported in Nigeria dailies nairaland inclusive, where Islamic clerics raped minors, snatched wives etc. Go to ibadan and see how those house wives with full hijab engage in sex romp outside marriage with just #2000. Let me educate you oga, human being will do whatever pleases him/her irrespective of religions affiliations, religions have little impact on human instincts. Even in Saudi Arabia, they fornicate, they also engage in prostitution. On many occasions, the wealthy among them traveled to the west to sleep with diffrent women

dheaven:
If Buhari can assemble good economic team in this new administration it wont happen.

Over his lifeless body

Valro:
You see Nigerians are the worst hypocrites, most of these people criticising these ladies do worse privatel.

Stop displaying your stupidity online sir, i wonder why you got so many likes, it shows how crazy people are. You said private, one can do any disgust thing privately sir. But showing ur stupidity online it's height of insanity

Onepointfiveodds:
Thanks bruh.. I actually felt it will be difficult for me to let her go because of the way my heart draws to her but this happening now scares me

Hypocrite at highest level .....your heart draws to her yet you allowed her to pay visit to potential boyfriend? Maybe stupidity at highest level sha

Baronnaire:
And greed make them end up with the wrong dudes just like an Ibo copper i met during the 2019 elections. She and her friend fell for a local muslim guy who was a party agent simply because he came in a miserable Toyota Camry Pencil light and obviously gunning for a one night stand despite all the kind gestures i showed her.

I wish she knew i chose to leave my Audi A4 2.0T Quattro at home for personal reasons...

I wish she knew i was already thinking about the future with her...

I wish she knew our meeting may have been ordained...

However, i thank God for steering me away from the leech.

Oh girls of this age and time....

...the guy that came with pencil. Do you know other cars and investment he too had at home? Do you know if he too had good plan for the girl in question? Oga factors that determine who to date go beyond materials and Outlooks possessions

SuperCanadian:
Government of the North, in a saner country this alone should have disqualified him from been re-elected.. I pity some Nigerians

Let say those northerners that appointed were/are even performing it would have been a different ball game, just check all indices Nigeria situations are getting worse on daily basis. Go to any barrack, get familiar with any soldier and do statistics analysis of soldiers that died in each regime since democracy you would know how Buhari perform woefully security wise, yet some fanatics down south want to die because of poor performer

Rolings:
A southerner left the position, his next in line was a noetherner and because of that you want the president to appoint another southerner HABA........hatred has blinded you all and can't reason like humans again, everything is seen in the Prism of tribe and religion

Can you say this in the case of IGP & DG of DSS....HABA hypocrite has blinded you

jaxxy:
There is Smtn called reasonable understanding. I don’t force anybody to to anything for me. I can cook and if I can’t do it myself i can get a maid or eat out. I don’t live my depending on people, I love to work smart/hard and pay my dues. I can spoil a woman with the best I can afford bt I will definitely not spoil sm lazy ass dependent woman who brings nothing to the table not even a good attitude.

I help people without dating them so it’s not about the money or responsibilities bt I just don’t like the mindset of an overly dependent person. A woman shud be able to think and function with or without a man pls.

Loooooooo, I can see going by your mentality "I can do it myself. Verily Verily you are still under 25, with time you will understand philosophy and reality of life.


Meanwhile if paraventure you married a lady who is not bring anything to table, what hold you back not establish for him. The fact still remains your girl, fiancee, wife and kids MUST depend on you provided you are a real man sha

jaxxy:
This school of thought as the man being the provider is quite old and mundane. How can an adult sit and say another person all because hes dating/married to u shud do everything for u. What kind of lazy and dependent thinking is this?

Also the school of thought that a man should sit in the parlor and ask her girl/wife to go to kitchen should be old and mundane,


Oga if you truly want to be head/ controlling/ be in charge of anything involving 2 or more person, you must be financier . I pray Satan will not turn you to tail just because you think it's not enough for you to spend on your woman

Many of account holders use year of their birth as password/pin due to easy remembrance, I believe he might have used different calendar years to predict ur pin after many attempt he/she succeeded

Also some people keep so many vital information on phone, (save msg, contact, MMS, etc) this will make them have access to ur account easily

2 to 3 months to come will definitely define your role and exact personality of Buhari, I pray you God will give you enablement to cope with post election jettison

sane93:
You missed my point. The guy you described above is a dog and I don't date such, neither my sisters nor friends. And I'm talking love here not sex. Everything must not be about sex. I can't advice anyone to throw away love because of such unfounded sentiments. Some people be acting as though it's incest. See Shania Twain's story. So many others. So it's happening and there's nothing wrong with it as long as both parties are genuinely in love with each other.

I can see you are talking from female perspective, Men are far far far jealous than women. I can bet it with you that insecurities on the part of so-called now-husband will not allow him to enjoy the marriage, how would he feel if his friend which is ex boyfriend of his wife comes to visit him, most especially if the friend didnt him at home but met wife which she was her boyfriend

sane93:
I might sound weird but it's no biggie to me. A guy might not fit me but fit my friend. It's all about who you're compatible with. I don't even mind my ex dating my sister because all I wish for my sister is happiness and if she has found it in my ex then both should enjoy. Though I will tell her all your weaknesses o, to avoid heartbreak that I could have prevented. Same applies to my friends. As long as your ex and her bestie don't mind then feel free. The trouble I see here is the bestie being able to trust that you two are done for real. Most people find it difficult to believe that ex lovers can remain friends with no strings attached. All the best.

Going by the kind of notion you possess,and with instincts some* guys possess. If you don't careful you would wake up one day and realized that a particular guy had slept with you and all of your sisters/ friends, in the name of '' the relationship is not working for me, it may work for my sisters/friends



Beware and be warned.......some people ( guys or ladies)are devil incarnates

Xander85:
Sad thing is that we are tied to them by being in the same country! They can afford to vote or rig in any incapable bigot as president because they know they have the rest of Nigeria to hide behind and help insulate them from their foolishness!

If north are voting blindly, what about we in the south? I which he perform well this time, but you can't be doing things same way and expect different result. If Buhari use same way to appoint the way he did in first time, forget

donstan18:
Good pretender.

I pray she doesn't run with his properties and financial inheritance.

For those calling this "Real LOVE", keep deceiving yourselves.

When a lady goes for tall, rich and influencial guy, you condem (call them hoe, bitch and gold digger). When lady goes for a guy for love and not because of physical attribute you lament again,

Why must you think everyone must think, love and act the way you do?


Is it a sin or abomination for a physical challenged man or woman to marry good looking opposite sex? Oga try to change the way you reason sir because we are just pencil in the hand almighty God

OkaNaUbe:
It is foolhardy for some Benue indigenes to vote a Party or President that has tactically supported herdsmen killings and wanted to grab their lands for ranch.

Electorates are crazy atimes, since the days of Trump & Clinton I know that we voters are very difficulty to predict.........

Over to you buratai and IGP, for" you stubbornly and rigidly promised us that you would take order of tyrant to the latter

adekennis:
What u dont understand is that there is an intelligence report of Obasanjo using foreign country to interfere in our election which is totally unacceptable. That will never be allowed to happen.

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But it's happening, tyranny is almost conquered and by this time of next week he would have been conquered, I believe you know what is happening in Venezuela now.

It's also propaganda and lies that all the security chiefs are from northern extraction and are Muslim, even though osinbanjo himself said it last year that there is lopsidedness in appointment of security chiefs and that federal government would look into it. Till date nothing change

Kundagarten:
Amaechi or Tinubu will never smell the presidency.

Am very sure Tinubu will have Stroke because he would not be able to cope with aftermath of post election jettison

You have integrity yet you are roundly rejected within n out Nigeria.


Is it because the international communities want to embezzle? or they too want to become of president?


Mr integrity, Senate president, speaker, CJN, former presidents and masses all rejected you, even economy, security and all others indices are going negative yet some abobaku want to impose lifeless at all cost

To me imperfection can also interpret as dishonesty, because any man that have every quality that woman wants in marriage but tell lies, I think that's own (BUT) imperfection

All of them are from northern part of the country and a particular religion in a country of multi-religions and ethnicity, yet prejudice or bias would not come in during discussion............. Buhari maybe good man but poor leader and admistrator
and don't expect good results

TIGRITIS:
Well, I'm not just thinking of voting buhari, indeed I'm voting buhari as long as God spare my life till election.

Back to the highlighted, if buhari is responsible either directly or indirectly for the listed incidences, I say amen.

Now, let's get back to you and atiku.

If you are thinking of voting atiku, may the way he treated this country in his capacity as the vp be the treatment that follow your immediate family from generation to generation, non shall escape it till eternity, amen.

Now, if you are not a hypocrite, I will expect you to say amen, just the way I did.

May you wake up from coma after 4 years and may you not die of ignorant most especially innocent generation that you are bringing into issue.........am very very sure you don't know buhari as his wife, If wife came out OPENLY for WHOLE 2 times telling the told the whole world about ineffective her husband is, yet you want to die ignorantly , uhmmm i am concerned about next generation . Because of ur state of deep sleep, am very sure you were not aware when buhari ordered ex IGP to relocate to benue and for he did not to obey and for president to say I don't know that IGP didn't obey my order yet IGP was not issue ordinary warning not to talk of being removed

dairykidd:
My brother do not play with or underestimste fvckboys.. i know of a guy in Ibadan who went as far as doing introduction just to get that kpekus down.. About 3 weeks after introduction guyman enter thin air living the girl frustrated and her family in shame... I repeat do not underestimate the power of some die hard fvckboys, them no get single conscience ooo

Do not forget the guy put his own family to shame too, or he alone did the introduction with lady family? Also we should not forget what oyinbo people called, #Vengeance, Retribution, Requita, Payback or Carma

ImaIma1:
I am objective in my comments... whether mm or woman.

Besides, what has this got to do with the topic? Revealing outfit?

No, you weren't objective but took side with female gender, "revealing outfit" is just analogy

ImaIma1:
So he didn't know he was dating himself.

It is not peculiar to girls. Guys do theirs too even in a more wicked way. You will just see wedding IV on Facebook.

If the post is about a girl that abusive and a comment is I blamed the girl bcus she wore revealing outfit......ur response would be...... angry reply that you shouldn't blame rape on dress one wears

Try not to be hypocritical and judgmental in nature

Why eleventh hour? Am very sure INEC is collaborating with APC to postpone the election, they biliv PDP might have shared money to respective polling units and by next week, they would have exhausted their money, APC will now come out fresh with loaded cash

BluntBoy:
Even crime is based on ethnicity in my country.

Yahoo Yahoo = Yoruba

Drug peddling = Igbo

Terrorism = Hausa/ Fulani.

Drug peddling/baby factories

You, Tinubu and the lifeless are birds of a feather ........who always on same mission, ..... "selfish agenda",. You shall all fail woefully not only in Igbo-land but across the nation,
jittery set in already, then el-rufai, yesterday Tinubu and today okorocha