I wish all SE governors are like wike

hmm

BrilliantGigolo:



Simp!
Just a letter of employment?? You never see salary and you don propose.

Your mama carry you for 9 months still come feed you. Your papa hustle , suffer so that you go fit see University.

Your Local Government Chairman work Npower Slot give you make hunger no kill you that time.

Baba God come pick your call and the only thing you remember is to propose and invite a liability into your life?

Not even a year of savings and planning?

May God not give us Kids like Op who will disgrace us over the internet.

Tueh

what kind of response is this? the guy didn't even details of his employment, so what did he reveal that may hunt him?

As for the proposal, The girl was there with him even before he got his new job, they have dated for more than 7months which is good so there is nothing like liability if they can manage when he has little, they will do better when he is big.
Not every woman is a liability, The girl may be working too.

My bro, enjoy your relationship, nothing like have a loyal girl when you have little so you are very sure she isn't with you because of money. I didn't have time to explore when I was still a shadow and it's a problem to me now.

these women tactics now is to using rape to reframe or punish their ex or anyone they perceive as enemy.

Besides women also rape men, I think he should also accuse her of meeting him for the first time in order to rape him.

seriously the law has to be amended so that this rape issue can punish both sexes equally.

after reading your story, your gender became confusing to me

lastclaire4:


Only married men have the right to sex the wife for free.
You want to enjoy what you have not paid for? Even the married man paid bride price. Even if it is not a substantial amount compared to the sex.

indirectly you are saying women should be and are prostitutes until marriage.

pls don't quote me again, I am done with this

onyegwu:
It is men like you that are dumb because you find so much pleasure in making a slave out of fellow humans like you. Your customs and tradition are under the customary law and this will be contested in the mordern law so dont even try to hide under it. Remember Bianca Ojukwu contested the right to own some of her husband property which they wanted to deny her based on this your rubbish custom and tradition and the law granted it to her. It is only useless men and power drunk homo -sapient who love to perpetrate evil that usually hide under this custom and tradition mantra. Domestic violence is punishable by law be warned!

point of correction, Bianca ojukwu contested with a will(written by husband) in which her husband gave some properties to her as beneficiary, she was even given the Lions share, so she has a valid evidence. so stop bringing situations that don't correlate.

I am not surprised you didn't answer my question, you are just a hypocrite, so if you call domestic discipline, a punishable violent act, I think you and family members should be arrested because you are definitely guilty of it.

onyegwu:
I repeat this is a new time and age and we are not going back the earlier you understand this the better for you. The world is not going to wait for you ok! can you compare the divorce rate of whites to that of blacks? the white is on the high yet they have sane society. But you that beat up your selves are nothing to write home about. The soldier is undergoing a training for the toughness of the terrain they are going to find them selves. You do not have any right to lay your hands on your fellow human in any disguise that's why we have the law. The highest thing you can do is to file a report at the police station it is their responsibility to find a way to deal with the issue and mind you the police also do not have any right to beat you but all this happens here in Nigeria because of the lawless society we live in. If you feel like exercising your strength go become a boxer. Mike Tyson started that way so you too can. Enough of this nonsense!!

be frank with me, have you ever laid your hand on someone in your life or ever fought with someone before? your honest answer to this question will reveal that you are just being hypocritical.
different problems with different solutions, different people with different understandings.

onyegwu:
Oga the days of marriage being so special or sacred has gone ok! you send her packing she files for a divorce. If there is property to share you guys share. She pleads for custody of the children if you guys have any and in most cases they usual grant it to her or you guys share it . She becomes a single mum that is so fashionable this days and continue her life enjoying favours from other men to take care of her self and child if she is not buoyant enough or deliberate loose woman. The child grows up and she poisoned their mind against you. Who lose at the end of the day?! Please men should wake up to reality. Times have changed, be guarded. The women we have this days are not the servitude kind of women we had during the days of our mothers. If you know you want a woman in your life in this time and age you have to use wisdom rather than your masculine ego because the ball is no longer in the men's court again and if you cant then stay single.

filing for divorce and alimony are for legally married couples in court.
only dumb Men do court marriage nowadaysd.
according to my customs and traditions, she can't have custody of the children except I permit her.

onyegwu:
Oga your type should not be talking please!! U are a stone age man. In this time and age you are using domestic violence as a correctional measure this goes to show how naive you are so pathetic kai!! Is she ur child? are both of you not adults?! can you take beating as a correctional measure from a fellow man like you? rubbish everywhere.

This modern age or lifestyle you claim is what is damaging homes today and That's why the rate of divorce is on the increase. you mustn't copy everything white people do.

it depends, if one easily take corrections and tries to do the right thing, it means he or she is matured enough regardless of Age, hence such person doesn't require strict correctional measures but if otherwise, strict correctional measures may be required regardless of age, and applied with care to suit the person.

soldiers are trained to be respectful, loyal and organized hence most of them go through tough correctional measures which beating/drilling is one of them.
so if a man of 50yrs doesn't behave matured, I don't see any wrong in applying any correctional measures that will suit him(he can be flogged, beaten etc).

The point is this: do it when it's needed and with care

stories without photos or videos as evidence.

pity who? make she hear am for your mouth after marriage

only prostitutes attach price to sex

doitforyou:

My brother, or my father isn’t my husband. So, I ask how does a husband caution a wife? ( my father never laid a hand on me).

but they share almost same similarities in terms of relationship.
relate them and get your answer because even if I answer you directly, my personality may come to play , that I don't share same with your husband.

I don't expect you to concede that he had laid a hand on you.

Pearchi:


I am talking about one of reasons your gf could be shopping your money and be getting it behind your back with a guy with strong dck.

All these girls with their destiny (even marriage) tied to dick, no size or firmness can make them faithful,
"the wider it gets, the bigger the demand"

s this what your problem is? move on to the next on, there are thousands of them or if you love him, you treat him.

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doitforyou:
How do you caution a woman?

How your lovely elder brother or father cautioned you while growing up. my question: be frank with me, Did any of them raise their hand on you?

Ttorp:
This shows how idiotic and empty your skull is. And may you find a guy that will turn you to punching bag. Amen

Oponu omo ale jatijati.
Atleast you’ve gotten the attention you were seeking for.

As for me, there is nothing whatsoever that can make me raise hand on my wife. Never.

lol...just don't pray for a dramatic wife that will raise her hand on you since you can't do that.

faithfull18:

Just summarise please, you mean you see nothing wrong in beating up a woman.

I don't see anything wrong with it if you do it with care and the situation at the moment deserves it.
like I said, don't do it often, if there is no change, send her back to her parents.

Millenniumlady:
Ladies divorce any man that ask for DNA if you can trust him enough to open your legs for him then why can't he give the same trust to you This is why i stylishly ask any person I'm dating on his opinion about DNA if accept it I'll just break up with him





Modify

All this guys quoting me should better trend carefully.....let the op swear that he have not cheat on her before.....

Frustrated men be talking sh*t in the comment section but can't keep the same energy when they see you in person.

Trust kills especially when a man trust a woman.
so if your husband cheats on you, you cheats back at him?

I believe everything should be moderate, don't be cool or hot at her wrongs always, when you are angry show it but avoid doing irreversible things like trying to injure her and avoid getting angry easily.
I don't see anything wrong in cautioning your woman, women that understand you will take corrections but those that can't, will see it as an abomination, stay away from such women!!
And if she doesn't learn from her mistakes and starts being repulsive to your cautions, send her back!!!

Evablizin:
Attention seeker. Weldone oh,i no fit use my data watch wetin go vex me.

feminists spotted

if you like that lady and you are financially buoyant, ensure you knack am Belle so that your investment won't be a waste.

this kind of ladies self, see the way she responds as if she's doing you a favour by responding and trying not to appear materialistc/demanding. If this lady is with you for material gain, she will definitely leave you when she sees someone better than you financially.

Millenniumlady:
No matter what those ladies shouldn't be stripped unclad it's uncalled for

what about the man? you ladies are not fair enough with this your clamour for equal rights

when I saw that picture posted here, I know something isn't right... online begging is fake and for scammers, If you are so poor like that with a family to feed, you would have sold your Android phone for food not to talk of having credit or data to come online.

This is commendable and best way to ensure their contribution in this period gets directly to their target individuals.

hmmm

bkool7:


You people are speaking as if the helicopter was loaded with corona virus.
Can't we reason objectively again because we have sympathy for certain parties?


Even Lagos that's the epicentre, a plane still flew over today.
Did the passenger in the helicopter result to be tested?

Wike is just overreacting

other states with no single case of Corona virus currently on lockdown are not mad, this pandemic is being prevented because containing its spread when it's goes viral is almost impossible.

lafuria1:


There is more to this , wike is not been sincere

I live in akwa ibom, people have been traveling from uyo to PH everyday, my friend entered PH this evening, he drove, the police didn't stop, they collected money as usual.

If Wike is so passionate about the lock down and containing the virus, he should know his boarders are very porous

In Africa, majority of people with this virus make use of air travel than water and land, so Air should be of major concern to curb early spread.