Adakintroy: Speak for ur self. Stop generalizing with the circle you in. Dora akunyili or okonjo Iweala get call girl mentality Abi.
Those women grew up before the social medial era...this girl is talking about females 30 and below. And she's kind of right. She's not saying all are into runs, but that they have mentality of runs girls. That is, they always want to get money from men for sex.
MrSmithy: Please can you boast of even 5% of the so called hard working women u talking about here...Even the so called hard workers and business entrepreneurs still cohabit such traits in them so its already a norm amongs large chunk of our Naija ladies that's why its rare to find modesty amongs your gender...You meet a lady today, tomorow her gas don finish, If no be gas na something else reason why men now wants to hit and run cox relationship is now a billing institution for majorities of our bebs.
Exactly. What she doesn't understand is that not all of them do runs directly, but they have that mentality, hence, they bill you...With most (not all) Naija girls now, it is either prepaid, pay as you go, or postpaid....you go sha pay for the sex/her time one way or the other.
blaise26abj: God bless you . What is bad is bad . These are the realities of economic hardship . In any country , it will always happen . No matter the repackaging , prostitution is prostitution .There is no end to the oldest profession in the world any time soon. Unfortunately , the video wasn’t well edited and they exposed her face to the world . It can spoil her business .
I doubt that. I doubt she cares about that. She mentioned her full name at the beginning of the interview. And it's her voice...so even if the face was fully blurred, people that know her will still know her. But really it seems the girl doesn't really care and sees what she's doing as a business. I wonder what the guy said to her to make her agree to do the interview. The guy is smooth with his words though.
SerikiFulani: An average nigerian woman have the mentality of a prostitute....The most annoying thing is even the decent ones are into coded prostitution and they have many boyfriends.
Imagine a coded prostitute having up to ten boyfriends and she'll still feel like she's doing them a favor....I swear life no favor man at all.
Even the few ones not doing hookup don't wanna be with a poor guy They need someone who's made to take care of all their needs
Looking for a decent and well behaved woman in Nigeria is like looking for a christian in Saudi Arabia.
How person wan take marry for this generation sef?
The one that makes me laugh is the girls that I know for a fact that they have multiple guys they are sleeping with but will still come on Whatsapp to say all men are scum, and say men can't be loyal. I'm like WTF. I swear, women cheat way more than guys, they just know how to hide it better.
Tzar: Sadly, this is true. This started recently, because we in our 40s and 50s grew up to know only few loose women had this mentality in the 80s & 90s. ALAS! Looks like the women of bad values won the women of good values.
Exactly...this started growing in the late 2000s, when social media became a thing. It definitely wasn't like this in the 80s and 90s. It is getting worse everyday. Getting a smartphone is now so easy, and the role models these young girls have are all these Nigerian actresses and musicians that are already into runs, and flash the fast life lifestyle, which these young girls crave. And the fastest and easiest way to get all they want is to do runs.
I saw her face twice...when she laughed, and moved out of the blur. She's a fine girl sha, and quite bold for doing the interview, and revealing her name.
Babysho: Honestly you'd think the rich criminals and capitalists in Nigeria would at least know how to be rich. Instead of them to build property far away from noise, covered with greenery and with serenity of the highest order, they'll go right in the middle of crowded Lekki lol No taste whatsoever.
Killbillz: [b]Most women don't deserve soft love. If u mistake show them soft love they take it as weakness and ride u to hell and back. [/b]Give them better heat.. yes gbas gbos hard love is the only way with these modern witches. Reading through the op Omor u have really suffered. All ur facial features and expression go done bend anyhow due to constant oppression from the demon u married. Thank God u dey get urself back. Try to find happiness in ur kids. She probably might be getting jacked by one jobless individual. So she sets ti me for u to call and when u don't she's not reachable.. Lol na devil herself dey ur house nor be even demon. Just maintain ur lane bro and care from afar to save the little honour u got left else u will be reduced to ugwu leaf
EXACTLY!!! I experienced this a lot in the past, till I woke up to the reality.
Edandy: It looks like you force yourself on your woman. May be she used you as an alternative to her original partner probably when that one broke her her. Now, inside this marriage, she still has not come to term that she eventually lower her standard.
You have tolerated too much. This kind of women are so manipulative just exactly like my brother wife. The everyone is wrong except me. The feminist gang. My friend, focus on yourself, your children and your well wishers. I do not encourage divorce. But even the distance alone is already causing separation. Do what you can do and leave the rest. Unfortunately, people don't change except for spiritual intervention like salvation. Peace. May God heal your home.
You have said it all. I don't think the wife can change, cos it is clear he repulses her. She doesn't love or respect him. As you said, he was just her alternate, when her main choice didn't work. She can never change her ways towards him, so it's best they get a divorce and go their separate ways.
Oboys12: Op I just read both the original post of your wife and this rebuttal and I can see that her's isn't any different from yours only that you elucidated more. I'm glad many people have told her the gospel truth on her own post, first and foremost the world doesn't revolve around her, Bros let me be frank with you, apparently you married a wrong choice. That's not a wife that's all I can say. I can't imagine myself being treated by a woman that way. I'm even angry imagining it sef. Anyways it's time you take your decision as a man and do the needful. I understand the environment you find yourself (Western World) empowers women so much over men perhaps that's why she is taking undue advantage of you. Bros do the needful
His wife can never change, cos she has been used to him taking her sh*t for 8 years...it has become a part of her. She can never change. It will be best they go their separate ways.
obembet: Ibadan Is no longer different from Lagos.. stay in Lagos abeg
Hahahaha! I have to admit that since I moved to Ibadan in 2016, things have greatly changed...things are now a little bit more expensive, like rent, transportation and entertainment...but Ibadan is still far more favorable to live in than Lagos. For one, little to no traffic on the roads, compared to Lagos. And there are many quiet and conducive places to live in. Food is cheaper. Plus, security here is relatively better than security in Lagos. I lived in Lagos all my life before I moved here in 2016.
pocohantas: The lady is not a big fool. The man is the FOOL for lying to his wife that he is going on a business trip only to go meet a side chick well into her 30s who is a known Calabar hookup WOMAN. You won’t call a man a fool if he told another man his wife who claimed to travel is with a sugar boy in SPAR.
When will you men ever take the blame for your COMMUNITY GBOLAS?
Are you aware that the man recovered from a stroke? He was nursed to health by his late wife. But the moment he could get his legs and penis moving again- it was to start pursuing woman.
Why the false information? Nothing in the video talks about the Rally at Lagos Island today...The video only talks about twenty people going to Alausa...for what purpose? It isn't stated. Even time isn't stated. This could be from last year. Stop peddling false information.
Holywater123: Believe me, I downloaded the app on the 30th of last month while surfing through Play store, I even forgot about it until I decided to do night sub.
All I did was to input my name, BVN, account and purpose of loan. It's so simple. I thought they won't approve it. This is my first time of borrowing a loan honestly.
Damn! See how you're "mistakenly" marketing their loan app for them.
Spirit04: show me one bigwig politician that's supporting Obi. Buhari that had Tinubu, Atiku, Kwakwanso, Amaechi, Shettima, Saraki, Ganduje, El Rufai and all northern Big guys behind him is whom you are putting in the same sentence as mediocre Obi? If I konk that your kpokolo head now
It's the crowd that they are pulling that is deluding them. 10,000 people in one location looks like one million people. That's what is giving them hope.
LienwaltAbel: Leaving aside the fact that this Castle is fortified, most properties like that have surveillance and sensors within their grounds. You dare not try shit, them go just shoot you.
Okay. But can you just shoot anyone in Naija...shay herdsmen no go wander into someone's property with their cows? I know something like that happened with Wole Soyinka, when they wandered onto his property in Abeokuta some years ago.
I have always wondered with this large mansions with no fence...can't a wonderer just walk in on the property and constitute nuisance...or bandits, armed robbers coming in the night. I just always wonder, cos I have plans of building something like this in Ibadan, in the near future. I have a plot of land in a developing part of Ibadan, and plan on buying 5 acres of land in the same area to build a mansion, but I always think of fencing...most of these large castles or mansions don't usually have fences.
Tastemoney: It takes a lot of balls to commit suicide. I have made attempts several times to end it all but that shit is fvcking scary!
I swear. I laugh at people that say it's only weak people that commit suicide. That sh*t takes a lot of guts. Mehn! There were times I nearly did, but I was supper scared...no one really knows what happens after death, and that's really scary. I always believe, if I had a gun, it might be easier...but any other way is freaking scary.
Creatorchris: Bukka Hut, a popular Lagos eatery, allegedly committed suicide.
According to journalist Eniola Daniel, who revealed this on Twitter, Laolu Martins committed suicide around 3 a.m. today, September 28, in Lekki Lagos.
"The founder of Bukka Hut commits suicide. Laolu Martins, the founder of Bhukka Hospitality Limited, is said to have committed suicide around 3 a.m. today in Lekki, Lagos. So sad.
"A friend of his and other sources claimed he committed suicide for reasons I won't go into here," he wrote.
fluffybaby: Wao. The police should consider the option of their death as murder. She doesn't have enough bloodstains to suggest she killed him the way they described. The note might have been forced. A murderer might have carried out the perfect double homicide out there.
Did you read the part where they said CCTV camera captured their scuffle? And about her not having blood stains on her dress, I honestly feel she wanted to run away at first, so she changed her dress...and then maybe changed her mind, thinking what's the use, and decided to kill herself.