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Travel / Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by OlakunmiSMELTD: 4:54am On Nov 21, 2022
Please guys .Apart from aboki, which other ways can i change naira to CAD ?
Travel / Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by OlakunmiSMELTD: 3:28am On Oct 13, 2022
Please guys, how to i apply for driver's license in Ontario?
Celebrities / Re: Georgina Onuoha Calls For Revocation Of Pastor Enenche & Wife's Medical Licenses by OlakunmiSMELTD: 4:33pm On Apr 13, 2022
Common sense is not common truly.
Imagine you that you can't read what someone wrote ( WATCH BEFORE YOU SAY I DO) na him you dey give advice to revoke liences.

Nothing wey immigration officer no go see for Nigerian luggage for check point grin

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Family / Re: Countries With Lowest And Highest Divorce Rate by OlakunmiSMELTD: 11:02am On Apr 13, 2022
Kobojunkie:
So what do you see written in Genesis 3 vs 16 ? undecided

Please kindly read the this.

Family / Re: Countries With Lowest And Highest Divorce Rate by OlakunmiSMELTD: 10:56am On Apr 13, 2022
Cousin9999:
Low divorce rates are irrelevant in countries where women have no rights.

You speak wisely. But some of this countries have women right. Like Malta, Ireland, Greece etc. Infact from my little experience walking with Greek and Maltese. Women have more equal right in Schengen countries. Of course that's why they could have women as a leader.

However, @cousin999. Am always open to learn more. Hence, it's my opinion though
Family / Re: Countries With Lowest And Highest Divorce Rate by OlakunmiSMELTD: 10:49am On Apr 13, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Here's a simple question for you. What particular part of the Bible did I turn upside down in that responss of mine which you quoted? undecided

Kobo! Honestly, I don't see that part where God cousred marriage. Maybe that why @DeMagneto dey vex grin
Family / Re: Countries With Lowest And Highest Divorce Rate by OlakunmiSMELTD: 10:47am On Apr 13, 2022
DeMagneto:


U just dey yarn rubbish.

Abeg nor con turn the bible upside down for here o

DeM don vex finish grin grin
Family / Re: Countries With Lowest And Highest Divorce Rate by OlakunmiSMELTD: 10:46am On Apr 13, 2022
Cuddlebugie:

Come, let's make you the Honourable Minister of Education. grin

Please will you vote for me? Because na only politics or oil company fit carry me come 9ja back oh. But no be palm oil or vegetable oil I dey talk oh
Family / Re: Countries With Lowest And Highest Divorce Rate by OlakunmiSMELTD: 9:32pm On Apr 12, 2022
Kobojunkie:
If you in fact get it, then you will realize also that focusing on divorce rate is meaningless. undecided

In fact, the divorce trends make in fact be signal for better things to come, at least as for as equal rights for all humans and all. undecided

I don't agree with this your point.
Family / Re: Countries With Lowest And Highest Divorce Rate by OlakunmiSMELTD: 9:21pm On Apr 12, 2022
Kobojunkie:
1. Genesis 3 vs 16 undecided

2. God sent Jesus Christ to redeem men - those who will reject the curse to obey Him instead, from God's curse - Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 -, so yes, Jesus Christ rolled back God's curse for those in the Kingdom of God, allowing divorce only in case of fornication. undecided

Thanks for the information, I agreed with you
Family / Re: Countries With Lowest And Highest Divorce Rate by OlakunmiSMELTD: 9:18pm On Apr 12, 2022
Cuddlebugie:
What exactly should we include in "colleges and higher institute syllabus", marriage lessons?
Oh my! cheesy

Just like sex education, reality of marriage should be included too. Only few have the knowledge of what marriage is all about. Hence, that's why after few months. They tend to file for divorce.

Hope you garit grin
Family / Re: Countries With Lowest And Highest Divorce Rate by OlakunmiSMELTD: 6:54pm On Apr 12, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Are you hear referring to the same God who instituted Marriage in Genesis 2 vs 24, and then cursed marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16 , this the same God who created Man in Genesis 2 vs 7 - 9, and then cursed man in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 after man fell? undecided

If yes, then you are seriously mistaken. What you see happening, even today, in marriage is a result of God's curse on marriage. No matter how may courses you teach on marriage, you can never change that which God has set in motion. undecided

God bless every marriage that He, God, cursed, How? undecided

I think I am here to learn from bible scholars. Please could you inform me more how God specifically coursed marriage?

When Jesus Christ himself rebuke divorce.

Matthew 19:8-9

Jesus replied, "Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning.
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I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery."

But I am willing to learn from you, if you can give me fact how God cousred marriage specifically

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Family / Countries With Lowest And Highest Divorce Rate by OlakunmiSMELTD: 5:45pm On Apr 12, 2022
I believe marriage can still work.

Hence, I still believe the rate of divorce could still be minimized by using countries that have the lowest divorce rate as a case study.

what could make countries like
Malta, UAE, Peru, etc have the lowest divorce rate?


For example, Malta has the lowest divorce rate in the EU, with only 0.8 divorces per 1,000 people. The low divorce rate in Malta can also be due to the restrictive criteria for obtaining a divorce. According to the law in Malta, spouses have to live apart for at least four years since the date of their legal separation to be eligible for divorce. Couples must also convince the court that reconciliation isn’t possible, making divorce less accessible.

God said, it's not good for a man to be alone, and I will make him a helpmate.
God established marriage for a good purpose.

However, this is a very serious issue, that is been ignored by scholars worldwide. But trust me, it's as a negative effect on society.

It is time we start to include this in colleges and higher institute syllabus

May Good lord bless everyone marriage

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Politics / Re: Wike Arrives Maiduguri, Meets With Borno And Yobe PDP Stakeholders by OlakunmiSMELTD: 7:29pm On Apr 11, 2022
Yenkwin:
PHOTO NEWS: Rivers state H.E Gov Nyesom Ezenwo Wike - CON arrived Maiduguri international airport, he was received by Yobe and Borno state PDP stake holders, executives and party supporters.

#Renewnigeria2023 #wikeforpresident23 #NEW2023 #PDP2023 #OneNigeria #PDP #everyonematters #pdpnigeria[b][/b]

If only this politicians could divert all the campaign energy towards solving Nigeria problems. Nigeria will be a better place.
Family / Re: Husband Saves Screenshots Of Our Chats by OlakunmiSMELTD: 2:06pm On Apr 11, 2022
Oluwasaudy:
Lol....

I don't trust women bro ... You know how many ladies have dated before marrying my wife .? During dating and courtship....the signs will be there .....

Why keep records of wrong doings when you can't forgive ? The fact till old age...we will keep offending one another...but if we can tolerate and endure...we are good to go

Been married for 7 years now... Not perfect anyway ...but I haven't regret ever been married ..

Thanks for your advice anyway


Before marriage is different from inside marriage. That's how men keep forgiving in
marriage and the rate of bastard children keep increasing.

Have you forgotten the FMCB case? ( the guy just died like that, and no one remember him again).

Do you remember the man that nature 4 children that is not his, for many years. And eventually commit suicide by falling into river on third mainland bridge ?


The best thing is for us is to focus on our life and words of God. If we keep reading things online like this and see what is going on in our homes. It would only take grace of God.

Am married too
God's grace and wisdom is what we need in marriage, and not our perfectness.

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Family / Re: Husband Saves Screenshots Of Our Chats by OlakunmiSMELTD: 11:21am On Apr 11, 2022
Algold:
What's the content of the saved messages...
They totally goes against you right?
You didn't tell us if u have a dirty past too...
The man is living in hell here on Earth

Wise man you got there.

I gerit
Family / Re: Husband Saves Screenshots Of Our Chats by OlakunmiSMELTD: 10:18am On Apr 11, 2022
Oluwasaudy:
The man is a rebellious man..trust me..he has a plan... Am married also and no smooth marriage anywhere..... What I pray for is God giving me the grace never to hit my wife... Women can make mouth for Africa...we both have our indifferences.... When we settle ..it's past...I don't even keep chats or remember dates unlike some men who have diaries they even write down happenings ..

I think you should confront him about it and hear his own side of the story ...or better still ...send the screen shots to your phone and delete all off his phone and observe his reactions


Just pray that your wife don't cheat on you.
You will know all this are just stories. Rebellious or not. Then you will know the reality of life.

Human are quick to judge when they haven't face the reality of life. Just pray that God should keep your marriage.
Family / Re: Husband Saves Screenshots Of Our Chats by OlakunmiSMELTD: 10:06am On Apr 11, 2022
All this hypocrite gender, God only knows what men are passing through, if not for the grace of God. Now I understand why husband are always the first to die.

Only a foolish man will start to screenshot his wife chat. It's either the wife is cheating or something bad.

You better go and ask God for forgiveness and pray that God should touch your husband heart to forgive you. No man will be happy to see his wife cheating. Infact, his a good man still keep you in that marriage.
Family / Re: Husband Saves Screenshots Of Our Chats by OlakunmiSMELTD: 9:58am On Apr 11, 2022
Cubby22:
If you ask me, I feel you are guilty, you are hurting the man somewhere and you know it but came out here to find justification for ur action. Look very well, you only respond to comment that suits you well. Secondly, I see no reason of bringing a 10 years old marriage online for people to tell you what to do or what not to do.
Mrs, a family is a private affair. If you can't confront your husband of 10 years, then you are the problem or definitely you are looking for one

Exactly.

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Family / Re: Husband Saves Screenshots Of Our Chats by OlakunmiSMELTD: 9:57am On Apr 11, 2022
Lizzyolatunjs:

He said he forgives after we make up and I always believed him

Open up, what did you do? A man can't just start doing that. Something must have trigger it. Trust me, until we hear the true side of the husband, then we will believe this story.

How will a grown up man, start screenshoti his wife chat just like that?

You re concealing something.

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Family / Re: Help: My Wife Is Having An Affair With Her Bestie. by OlakunmiSMELTD: 10:10am On Apr 08, 2022
gazilion:



If she has been begging you, please forgive her! God will also forgive and honour you more.
Tell her to promise you, that she would become the best of a wife and mother to you and your kids.
Driving her away from the house is not the best for you, for her or your children.
Receive Grace and Forgive her this time but be very strict going forward. I believe she will be much more loyal to you going forward.
Don't expose her before your people or her people. Let it die between both of you.

Are you married?
Just asking
Family / Re: Help: My Wife Is Having An Affair With Her Bestie. by OlakunmiSMELTD: 9:10am On Apr 08, 2022
How will a married woman, even think of having a male friend as her best friend during marriage. You will now be discussing your husband or sexual issue with him.

No wonder bastard children are many presently
Family / Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by OlakunmiSMELTD: 6:48am On Apr 06, 2022
Miracle2022:
I can guess that the woman is a Yoruba woman. Yoruba women are fun of having male friend everywhere they go. In Ibadan almost 50% of the women have male friends. I had two when I was not married and I know how it ended.

Though, I'm Yoruba, but I agreed with your statement, both yoruba and Edo women. and that's one reason while I love Igbo when it comes to marriage.

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Family / Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by OlakunmiSMELTD: 6:10am On Apr 06, 2022
Gval123:
You just finished what u started 10yrs ago, unfortunately, na now the vail fall from ur eyes after 10yrs. Suddenly, u realized that adultery is a sin and u are a married woman. Do u know what u are looking for right now? you're looking for somebody to tell u that : mistakes happens. na lie, u were never a faithful woman, u kept sex to another man in ur heart for 10yrs, who is not ur husband. You will do it again, na me tell u. You're not refined

Honestly, the husband should be careful, that kind of woman can kill there husband if they have there Ways.

Don't mind the woman, I believe she had been having sex with the guy even before marriage, she's not saying the whole truth.

No 1 rule.
Don't marry any girl that choose to make men his bestie during your dating, which you stopped but refuse.

Trust me, it's a red zone
Family / Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by OlakunmiSMELTD: 6:04am On Apr 06, 2022
Fiscus105:




If true you are a lady,...............

I didn't pity ur husband or future husband o, but his parents..........why? their son has (would buy) bought big market beyond his capacity.

grin honestly brother. And her profile says happily married. Happily married indeed.
Na happily carried big market. I pity for the husband too
Family / Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by OlakunmiSMELTD: 10:03pm On Apr 05, 2022
Don't mind them, expecially those one that pretend to be believer's. They re the worst.
Sometimes it better you marry a girl that is open and not a believer because they re more sincere.

Imagine a house wife, falling in love and having sex with his male friend.

My advice for unmarried guys is to pray well. That God should expose the hidden characters of the lady before marriage. And once you see it. Please ran ran ran.

Am giving you a real life experience

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Three Kinds Of People You Must Run Away From: by OlakunmiSMELTD: 7:25pm On Apr 05, 2022
Karhma:




You did well to add yourself to the list.

Don't mind him grin grin

The guy is right though by putting his name grin. Sometimes we ourselves are the problem. Hence, we need to check ourselves.

Do I have good attitude towards other too?

Am I humble enough?( for someone to call other expired mentor) there must be an issue of either the mentee wasn't humble enough.

For me, no matter how worst my mentor or expired his/she is. I will always honor him/her.

Because he/she had once been a good mentor. Life is all about golden rule. You yourself would be a mentor one day
Travel / Re: Best European Countries Nigerians Can Immigrate To by OlakunmiSMELTD: 6:50am On Apr 04, 2022
karlxavier:
Goodday everyone, please I have a question?

Which country is the best European country that Nigerians can immigrate to?

Criteria for the country

The have a better immigration policies for international students
They use euros
They have enough jobs for both skilled and unskilled workers
Good standard of living

Etc


Responses would be appreciated

Now that we had corrected his content, what of the question that he ask? Nigerians heen. The English wey no help for Europe.

Well it depends brother.

If you have 5m for block account, kindly go for Germany, you will never regret it. ( You don't need to have skill to get a job as a student)

If you have money to sponsor yourself for a while.

Go for Estonia, Sweden, France, Poland and Malta. All this countries only requires statement of account as a POF, there are unskilled job too like delivery, cleaning, car wash, Gardner etc.
Skill job : IT, igaming , digital marketing, etc

They also have good standard of living.

If you learn there language before you travel, then you will have better opportunities. Who English help for Europe. When thousands of other countries citizen plenty we dey look for job with better certificate, skills and English.

Hence, for better opportunities in Europe
Learn any lucrative IT skills
Learn there language ( trust me, with this. You would be changing jobs at your will)

Stay blessed

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Romance / Re: Dear Men, Please Do Not Make This Terrible Mistake In Your Relationships (photo) by OlakunmiSMELTD: 10:17pm On Apr 01, 2022
siofra:
I just say make I tell una.

Never leave a good woman because she mistakenly slept with another man Thank you

Your man don catch you with another man abi?
Wahalla be like bycile. He no dey finish
Romance / Re: Dear Men, Please Do Not Make This Terrible Mistake In Your Relationships (photo) by OlakunmiSMELTD: 10:15pm On Apr 01, 2022
YinkaOlusesi16:
And never divorce your husband because he mistakenly slept with another woman.

The best Sense of the year
Education / Re: My Inability To Speak Fluent English Is Costing Me Huge Opportunities. by OlakunmiSMELTD: 6:56pm On Mar 31, 2022
Mooh247:
grin


Who English help....

How many Chinese Engineers can speak fluent English....

Well if you intend to get proficient in English, then download Duolingo , Memrise or FluentU applications for Android and learn on your own at your leisure time

Ohh!! And which state Polytechnic uses "300 Level" as against HND1

.

Thank you my brother, how many German, swedish, Turkish, Russian, Japan, and China Sabi English?

My advice, read book. But please focus more on practical skills. How many Asian countries Sabi English?. Den go still come our country dey control us.

The European countries, UAE and other countries preferred Asian citizen over we Nigerian, when it comes to employment. With our big grammar.

This life no just balance
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Has A Very Reckless Past. by OlakunmiSMELTD: 6:29am On Mar 29, 2022
Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

As yours re saving money for wedding with her. Please have a savings for DNA too. A word is enough for a wise

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