₦airaland Forum

Orinoco:
Same Ethiopians that derogatorily label Africans like you and me Bantus

First, I don't know the meaning of Bantus. That said, I think that still far better off being treated like a piece of dung by the Europeans and Americans.

My point is, we should look more to help ourselves than attempting to help and meddle in the affairs of those who attach no value to us. We should develop our continent. We should empower our youths. Make Africa a continent of substance, not the one they take raw materials from and dump the lowest in quality of finished products in while making quadruple of what we make. Look at Libya during gadaffi, that was a turn off for them because he stands shoulder to shoulder with them in terms of human and economic development to his people. And they crept in using the democratic narratives. Who said democracy is the best form of government. Can't america force Saudi Arabia to have democracy as against monarchy system the way they impose their ideology on Libya. Definitely they have better purpose for doing so than using the democratic talk as cover ups

mike8804:
Nigerians supporting their slave masters! Am neither supporting Ukraine or Russia but am against Western double standard. The US and Britain have virtually invaded almost all the nations in this planet.

Note: the whites don't care about the blacks but it baffles me that will still dey support them! Ethiopia war still going on millions displaced, thousands dead our Africa brothers no see that one talk

God bless you. I have even forgotten about Ethiopia war. The saddest thing to me is our gullible Africans can't see the systematic racism of the whites. They hide it behind bureaucracy, and institutional policies to sideline and cut off the blacks, yet, we folks meddle in what does not concern us. The whites can never give priority to the blacks in any matter except we ourselves shape and develop our home. The same Ukraine you lots are crying is committing rascism against your brothers and sister. Meanwhile, a war is ongoing at your backyard without you clamouring for a cease fire or solution to impending issues, and the western media, who with it's government orchestrate most of these wars, decides Africans are not important, so a priority about the war in Ethiopia is nothing to focus on. You Africans are pathetic

He is an idiot. These definitions define him as well because he was once part of them.

DoggoneDogg:
Yes

Only the intelligent can see it but CNN brainwashed zombies will still defend their slavemasters like the two crying above me.

People are so foolish and mad. Imagining CNN and BBC has refused to air the deadly war going on in YEMEN. They hardly talk about it. Many civilian casualties. The war is well supported by the US through Saudi invasion. What was the reason for it, stupid.

The same thing the russia is doing the US has over done and this mofos kept quiet. It is the greed in each of the world leaders that is causing these conflicts. The issues can be resolved with negotiation.but because this wanted to proof and stamp his power on that, they will rather have the issue linger and degenerate to blood shedding where they can use propaganda to force the other party to compromise while they stick to their guns when the matter returns to the table for discussion because no war ends on the battle field.

Who pose for this kind of pix in a war......

Nothing wrong in civilians picking arms to join the army, but I think majority of these so called this and that pick arm is for SM sympathy. Not the real deal. This is a war fought or made to happen based on propanga and Ukraine and the US also attempting to win it with propaganda. How bad people aren't seeing this from two perspectives.

The US can ferment trouble and go scout free while others can't. The absolute power america is fighting that others should not enjoy, he is enjoying it and using it to destroy other nations while the hypocrite world looks away. While Russia approach may or may not be wrong, but they have absolute right to defend their security. The US succeeded in ending the Soviet union, must Russia sleep and watch while the US crumble it one day. May una think am o. All because una dey look for green card una brain went on hold and begin to dey post bias messages. What was the moral beging the US invasion of Libya, Irag. They supported the invasion of Yemen by Saudi Arabia. There is war going on in Syria that is fermented by the US. But because this one hurts their interest and they can do almost nothing, the propaganda against it is so loud and u guys fell for it. Are there no civilians in Yemen, Syria, Jordan, Palestine, Libya, Irag? You barbaric lots can't shout for those ones, but can clamour for Ukraine whose president knows what he is doing using innocent people as shield to do things he knows can bring war

You will know Nigeria is in the wrong hands when ordinary party primaries can't be conducted without violence and confusions. It is indeed a sorry state that we have leaders of this types, all spread across PDP & APC. As a people I do wonder what our values are? We claim religious sanity but their no justice or righteousness in us. What then is or can be Godly in us? God is justice, and he his ever righteous.

For Nigeria to get out of this pit, we need to retrace our path to a home system that elevate good characters, orderliness, kindness, and love

Truly this man has dementia disease, and is surrounded by people who feed him lies. We say GEJ is an ATM machine without pin code. When this monument leaves office, the truth will filter out that he is a bank safe without security code combinations, so anyone at anytime can just go in and carry anything....bigger than ATM machines. Nigeria has truly gone back way too far with this man

Na orgy party dem go take bury this mama as par afrocandy

He is right cos aside rape, which is barbaric, women will always sets the rule for sex

My brother, it is not the girl you are having feelings for. Your feeling is of your lust abeg. Most men have this attitude. You just crave a taste of her booty. Once this is satisfied all the so called feelings will dissipate.

What can you do to solve this?

Admit and accept you lust after her. Then consider the implications of your actions to your person, to your children, to the girl in question. At 15 she is a minor. Legally, you will be contravening the law by being intimate with her. Aside this fact, what psychological effects do you think your supposed feelings will have in her life if you allowed this feeling to come to fruition.

Another thing is equate her age to one of your child or sisters, if same was done to them, will you be happy?

As for your wife refusing you sex; I think this is an excuse many folks, male and female alike, love to give as reason for doing irrational things. You can however resolve this , if truly is the case, by speaking to your wife maturely about it. And if she can't find a reason to change, speak to a marriage counsellor or priest or pastor, counsellor preferably, to intervene.

Truth is, you need a whole lots of guts to overcome this lust. Let's face it. It is lust....and it is not easy to overcome. Most of us have been there, and probably still, but won't say. You are really a man to say this out. And I see a good man who truly wants to overcome the temptation. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us. Her physique or something might have attracted you. But please consider the implications as I have said.

The man is handsome just like the man that handed over to him. Wish both more success in their career

chrisblack:
sorry the useless son of father who regreted giving birth to you. My father was unique so if I choose to build a tomb on top of water , he's worth it. I would not insult your father because I know there was a time in your very existence he as questioned your mother if truly he fathered you .don't let me expose your family secrets. Omo Ale.

Werey!

Expose my family secret ���

See who is now trying to sound moral, after your first reply to insult my father. A reply to you changed you to a moral preacher. Pele, arole oba solomoni.

I have even forgotten about this....so at this stage it is proper I let you know I have dumbed you in the bin

If I were the father, the teacher shld brace up to loose one of his hand, and a leg.....I will trace his house in company of 20 boys. His legs will be beaten also but with hammers. Very stupid guy.

So apt about all our politicians

This man sabi play politics of interest no be small. In between, this people have never been enemies of each other. Na Ghana must go dey always cos problem btw the elites. Once they can find common ground, they all laugh and move on to plunder Nigeria more while make mockery of useless Nigerians fighting each other on their behave.

They run this country like agbero collection bus stop money. Na WA o. And we say this people get merit. Come 2023 make una go vote another agbero from PDP or APC........but who is a credible candidate sef

This man always state facts, though.

chrisblack:
go and bury your own father there and hide your money. Yeye

As your own father perish for road wey dog eat. Pele, omo ofo

Don't be deceived. Most of these so called luxury are designed to store up money and so many other stolen things

Nigeria needs cleansing I believe.

We need cultural cleansing
We need religious cleansing
We need psychological cleansing
We need political cleansing
We need educational cleansing

These ones are factors that determine the impact a political cleansing has. And the more cogent cleansing we need quickly is social media cleansing. There are many social media 'celebrity' springing up now a days who thinks they are larger than life because they have massive followings, hence, their god-like posture to every discuss. To them no other person comes close not minding the background of the person, as long as the person does not have crowds following to 'justify' his or her intellectual acumen.

From a cultural view, Nigeria is such an interesting state where we parade so many pretenders. One of the things we accuse our political leaders for is they don't listen to their people. They hate criticism, whether constructive or not. Watch the trend of these so called social media influencers, and judge if they are ever different from the political leaders in terms of sucking in criticism. Once they are corrected, even for obvious facts of their wrong doing or utterances, they jump to negative defenses of abuse and debasement of the person who corrects them. A clear indication that, if giving the opportunity to lead, they will perform worst than the present crop of political 'gods'. Note: more than 90% of what we call activism on social media these days are self marketing for a juicy offer from the top

Who b 18years?

Na BH and bandits dem buy am for......... especially the corrollas. Very soon, the news go draw like okro

Any woman that uses her mum in particular, as her first or only arbiter of peace, has made up her mind to do injustice to the husband. Don't ever expect to get fair or favourable dissect of issues or settlement. Her mum will always take sides with her either directly or stylishly

Ah, this is not a marriage again or has ever been. The children can never respect you I suppose, and worst still he has damaged their marital knowledge

However, I think you should call his family as most of us as Africans have strong if not stronger bonds with our siblings and parents than our spouse, hence, we tend to listen to them better. And while you engage this avenue try introduce him to marriage psychologist to speak to him. If these doesn't work, I think you need to contact the welfare department to interfere and caution him....because as the trend is going he doesn't see his actions as wrong, which means, the act of violence and derogation can increase and become barbaric. Stay safe

If I be Nigerian politician I go dey wear mask cos of shame, but u see these ones, shame sef dey hide from dem dem.

There is too much of people worship in this country. We worship people cos dey re rich, they re pastor, they re imam, they re senator, they re governor. Why? This nonsense need to stop

Idris mama go dey cry secretly

Can't you visit the hospital and have a proper medical checkup and treatment?

Nigerians and abuse of leadership positions. Of what consequences or importance is the presence of the NFF boss? Allow the coach do his job while you face your administrative job. Stop being a distraction to the team and coach please. It is not your job to give them pep talk or any billionaires job to do so. We should stop this culture of bossing around and interference.

Too many things are wrong with black man and his thinking.

If a woman tells you to do whatever you feels, my brother, know that hot water is on course for you soonest. Whichever the case, just have your mind prepared she is up to something, either now or in the future.

So, what I think is, if you indeed love the lady you intend and planning to get married to, and at peace with her doings and character, face your gongo aso and go ahead with the wedding pretending as if nothing happens. Meanwhile, in case you have not let the pregnant lady know of the venue or date of the wedding, do yourself good by not letting her know. And if you have put her in the know of these things, per chance you can change the venue and date she won't have knowledge of, at your own good. Do this and let the future take care of itself brother.

Sometimes we do things we can't explain. Why life brought it to us we don't know. We feel we make mistakes, but life has other meanings for its scripts. I won't advice aborting the pregnancy because, apart from it being condemnable from the biblical point, who knows the future and who knows the destiny the child is bound to fulfill.

Take this issue as your own demon. Each of us has one that must live with us for the rest of our life

This family carries grace. This is an awesome news and delightful to sight. Congrats to both of them

Proof of low IQ. Now e go dey prison with no hope of ever seeing daylight while the said wife continues to f*uck so many different d*ck and probably never remember him again for life. They shld pls throw him to the dogs to feast on rather than waste state resources imprisoning a dumb skull