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I read a bit of replies to this, and what I think I should point out briefly is this, they are not your Parents. Parents are essentially caregivers of their offsprings. This are simply your biological father, and mother. You were treated like the bad product of a bad union, with no one wanting a reminder of that union, and in their hindsight, failed to account for the future.

I think you should offer forgiveness, if you want to, as theirs healing from that, but offer naught companionship to them, aye?

They also have offsprings from their respective unions, so why must they single-handed focus on you, wanting you to provide for them, not caring how you fairing and eve knowing the means to do so?

You can at your discretion, send whatever you want to them once in a while, but I do not think it will be healthy for you (mentally and all), to succumb to their pressure, as that pressure will not just be upon you, but on the family you are likely to raise later in the future.

For your step siblings, I think you need to make them acknowledge who you are first of all, and maybe understand the gravity of what your parents did, but also, might be necessary to have a form of relationship with them, cordial enough to start with.

This is not a period of demands upon you, but a period of sobriety and acknowledgment of wrong doing to you.

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OneKinGuy:
So one of my guy was posting screenshot about a stuff that supposedly paid him. Normally, I always ignore stuffs like this as I know it's usually a scsm but the guy was my guy and a 'guy way sabi'. So I decided to ask him howfa. He told me about the stuff and I joined the same day the 60k. Like I said before, I usually smell scams like this from a mile away but they paid my guy. So I assumed it's real. After I joined with 60k, about a week later, the scheme disappeared. Like that like that I lost 60k.

Sounds like one I did also.

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PuntGenius:
Hi bro, my driver's license has expired, I did the initial registration in their Jabi office in FCT but I am not in FCT at the moment and I am not returning soon, i think the process you followed is quite easy. If I fill the form and make payment online can a friend get the form signed and pick it up for me? I mean after this whole lock down ish...

Hi PuntGenius, I think you can select a renewal office closest to you.
I did my initial DL at Otta, Ogun state, but renewed at Aguda Surulere.

jikins:
Its really sad hearing you praise a phone of 90k with specs of 30k. Do your research compare camon 15 with any xiaomi phone at that price range and see the massive difference. Get value for money, no you want to wallow in mediocrity. No wahala continue.

In other news I sell very cheap data feel free to contact me all. Check my signature

Lol, he was being sarcastic

IphoneNovice:
Is it possible for my phone be operated from the same TV while been casted on the TV screen. Because like I said I didn’t activate such and it just popped out recently!

Obviously not, you cant control your phone via the TV.

Screen mirroring is practically on all iPhones.
You know how Xander works, but on an advanced level, when you cast your screen, you'll be able to access on a larger scale things on your phone.
Picture slideshows on your tv, directed by your phone.
Play music, watch a movie.
Like the name sounds, screen mirroring, simply mirrors what's showing on your phone.

Even if you have a TV that supports the feature, you'll have to enable the feature on the TV and connect it to your phone for it to work.
It's part of the iOS system.

If my explanation isn't enough, visit YouTube, and see the features, do's and donts for screen mirroring on iPhone

Drabeey:
You are right but.....

They are losing money. (Telcos)

But really, we in trouble in this country.

Drabeey:
If you can't make calls perhaps because network is bad, if i am you i won't buy recharge cards. If you don't top up your credit, this ~discos~ network providers won't bank your money thereby bringing them some little shortage.

On a contrary note however, if they can't power their equipments they won't lose anything (at least not for buying deisel to power that station) but im sure they would lose customers trust (very paramount to business).

In summary this Economic phardship is arguably a factor caused by insecurity (Telecoms are also feeling the itch).

If you calculate what Nigeria government is spending on security alone would do alot if garnished on even Education sector. Maybe it's been looted or not, imagine Nigeria is secure, no Boko, no herdsmen wahala....? Things will go smoothly, US won't place travel ban, No idp camps (government won't be spending on that too)

Not even all these funds terrorism is gulping. Im still wondering how much it would cost to put Borno back to what it was prior 2008/2009. What of lives and properties lost in this illiteracy war/ political tactical embezzlement going on, hun
Forget it is happening Faraway from you, either ways we are all paying our quota to this war.

Well sorry i was also having a bad day anyways


Drabeey was HERE

On a surface level this seems correct, but if you glean it further, I'll kindly disagree with.
Deploying an asset means you'll expect returns from the asset. You'll have the usual running cost for the asset, and also the passive cost, in this case depreciation.
If they cant match income to expenses (depreciation and other maintenance costs), then they are actually losing.

Considering something else, boko haram bombing bts stations shows they understand that cutting communications is one effective way to win a war.
If residents cant call out for help, and BH deploys Transmittor radios that have a long range, they'll remain in communication while others are in a blackout. Having spotters and an advance team who communicate encryptlly will make it harder to beat them.

Crazy.

Stopping the supply of diesel without providing or even making such telecoms sites secured is a waste of time and strategy.

The war against BH is not just one battlefront, so many points have to be considered.

Drabeey:
If you can't make calls perhaps because network is bad, if i am you i won't buy recharge cards. If you don't top up your credit, this ~discos~ network providers won't bank your money thereby bringing them some shortage.

On a contrary note however, if they can't power their equipments they won't lose anything (they are not buying deisel to power that station) but in sure they would lose customers trust (very paramount to business).

In summary this Economy hardship is arguably a factor caused by insecurity (Telecoms are also feeling the itch).

If you calculate what Nigeria government is spending on security alone would do alot if garnished on even Education sector. Maybe it's been looted or not, imagine Nigeria is secure, no Boko, no herdsman wahala....?

Well sorry i was having a bad day...


Drabeey was HERE

On a surface level this seems correct, but if you glean it further, I'll kindly disagree with.
Deploying an asset means you'll expect returns from the asset. You'll have the usual running cost for the asset, and also the passive cost, in this case depreciation.
If they cant match income to expenses (depreciation and other maintenance costs), then they are actually losing.

Considering something else, boko haram bombing bts stations shows they understand that cutting communications is one effective way to win a war.
If residents cant call out for help, and BH deploys Transmittor radios that have a long range, they'll remain in communication while others are in a blackout. Having spotters and an advance team who communicate encryptlly will make it harder to beat them.

Crazy.

Stopping the supply of diesel without providing or even making such telecoms sites secured is a waste of time and strategy.

The war against BH is not just one battlefront, so many points have to be considered.

lovelovelove:
REDMI NOTE 8 PRO................6gb/128gb

OR

SAMSUNG GALAXY M30s.............6gb/128gb


Which one should I go for?

Planning to get the phone today or tomorrow


THANKS IN ADVANCE

Cant speak for the Redmi though heard they produce good phones.

I'll say you should go for the Samsung, you'll get updates also.
I mean OS update, by July most of their midrange phones will be getting the update to Android 10 also.

A better comparison can be done via gsmarena.

Power is Power.

Unfortunately, the live-in helps have grown to the stage of conspiring against you, and if you dont take decisive action, it will get worse. It is not enough to know you were falsely accused, what are you going to do to exonerate yourself.
Others are saying theres likely something you not saying, but lets skip that.

If I was in your shoes, I'll likely get my wife away from them, and lock up the house for a few hours with them inside. Go and sort out the issue with my wife and make her understand it'll be foolhardy for her to not be introspective with the accusations.

Return and have both girls packing after paying them for the wages and even having a bit of bonus.

If you can, report to a police station, it's only that sometimes officers complicate and twist things beyond reason.

Another thing you can do, actually simpler is meet the two girls separately and ask why they were accusing you falsely, what's the end game? Have s sound recorder app on to capture it all. Please be smart with the questions as the point is to have proof of your innocence.
If it means talking to them when the wife is not around, do it, if it means putting the girl(s) in your car and creating a loose environment where there guards will be dropped, do it.

Shalom.

Hi Purples25, no one should make you feel less than you are. Hold your head high, the only reason they had that temporary power over you was simply because of money.
Nothing else, and your strenght is in your Art and in your heart, trying to make others happy at your expense.

I'm sure you understand that sometimes people aren't worth it, keep being you, at the same time, let no one disrespect you again, let your self confidence be by your right hand, and your BS "rejector" on your left.

Cheers.

Hamachi:
If u are earning 160k as salary, pls don't marry. Let's Break it down,
1. you transport to work to and fro.
You can plan a Transport budget.
2. You eat lunch at work.
You mean the food prepared from Home.
3. You are to pay house rent, Nepa bills, security and water bills.
It's an household expense and not the sole responsibility of the Husband
4. Food for you and your wife.
Will you starve ni?
5. Laundry and other stuff.
How much is a mid range washing machine again?
6. airtime , MB and DSTV subscription.
Have a budget
7. Fuel for generator.
Welp, blame Nepa
8. General house maintenance, buy clothes and undies.
9. You are expected to buy body cream, good relaxer, roll on and other deodorants for your wife.
*No o, use sand on your body na*
10. At least 2 dresses per month for her.
How many for you?
11. If she is ILL, hospital bills. - so no HMO from her office to take of that?

12. Church women association dues and dress. - is this even compulsory? Why strain yourself?

13. You are expected to render financial obligations to her family and your family.
As your pocket and heart permits


Yet, You want to marry with 160k? I hope you won't impregnate your wife! May God help us all.
So another man should impregnate her?

All this faux standards is just annoying.

This is the bogus bullshit I have ever heard.

Lmao, abeg, dear People, the relationship is between you and God.

This guys dey use una cashout (fake prophets) well.

5 staged performance, and this is the best excuse to come up with?


Like, they understand the fact that once it comes to religion and miracles, they just need to throw a bone in your face alongside with crumbs of inspirational bs..

tyup:
my advice for you is..... salary is the bribe that would be given to you to forget your future

don't look for job look around for what's lacking in your area and create one for yourself. it'll look hard I know right but getting a job wont pay you either

Hi tyup, let's try to discard that salary=bribe notion.
I believe salary is the value based on the expertise and technical know-how one brings to an Organisation.
It's very simple to look down on Salary earners, but when one meets someone so well grounded and technical, with He/She working for a pretty decent company, trust me, you won't recall that notion of salary na bribe.

MsBA:
thanks so much for your help. finally have it and it took exactly two weeks from when i went to submit at their agos office. FRSC have no issues as such, its the MVAA people that caused most of the issues. I appreciate!

You welcome.

MsBA:
Thanks for your response. i already paid online and had all the necessary documents only for the lady at MVAA office to ask for N2,400. i asked what the money was for and she said its their own charge. is this legal? since i didn't plan for it, i had to leave and will go back on monday. Did you also pay same?

Not it's not legal, tell her to give you a receipt and you'll see she will stutter, better still, take down her staff name and ID card in her know and she will most likely refund you.

Only thing I recall paying for was a road safety CD, cant recall its name, 1k, but I got the CD, n receipt and saw it was worth it.

Hello MsBA, so sorry that I'm just seeing this.
Yes I was able to get it done, but I haven't had time to go pick it up.
Parking space is provided.
Do it online, that way you avoid the unnecessary bottlenecks, I guess you should try doing it on a weekend (internet renewal), go with an extra copy if you going.
I'm not so familiar with the Ijesha axis so can't vividly give a direction guide.
All I know is, the road heading back to oshodi, theirs a turning to your right at that cele axis (hard to miss) about 2 minutes into it, take the first turning to your left which leads into the Cele office, think it's an LCDA of sorts.

futurist369:
I just conceived an idea. What if I open my own nigerian equivalent of PayPal for Nigerians to use to receive funds from abroad?

Think Flutterwave does same.

Gabson001:
Trust me.. The camera is wow

The camera is superb. With the different settings and even the Pro mode, trust you'll enjoy it.

blackweaver:
The phone makers. However, they have different release cycles for different regions.
Is Pie officially out for your phone model? How often do you receive security updates?
Yes it is, the said phone is the Sam. J6+

If it's regular, say quarterly or more often i'm pretty sure you will get pie if it's out for your phone.
Ok.

That said if you can get an update for your phone that is already available, I don't think installing manually will spoil anything

I am reasoning alongside this route, but scared of bickering the phone actually. I'll head to Youtube later on to see some vids

Seeing the title of this thread, I'll love to ask this.

Android OS update in Nigeria, are they pushed by Telcos or the Phone Makers?

I'm wanting to update to Android Pie, but its not been officially pushed to my device which is why I asked the question.