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Joromi12:
I have many married friends owing me lol. E no easy

E no jst easy.getting married these days no be beans,most esp. in this Buhari era,expect if one is well to do.I only pity those jumping into the marriage institution without a well clear plan.

Congrats Bro.

francescainnoce:
Interestingly, all rich women will say this same thing today; how they want young women to rise and shine, become wealthy and a force to reckon with. They - “wealthy women” will come out en masse today and throw words of encouragement like stones across the fence. But none of them - if at all a few, would allow you climb over the fence to the other side. Neither would they open their gates and let you in. Maybe becos they know it’s never as it seems and over the fence, things you may see are bloody, dirty, dangerous and very avoidable.

very true.
well said.

Brother,This your matter is not ordinary.Believe me.Before you can come out strong you'll need to go for deliverance.That your wife,is either she has spritual husband or she has been used.Empty vessel.when a woman faces or encounter any of the aforemention believe me bro it's always difficult for her husband to move forward,to progress,to prosper rather it is always badluck,misfortune etc.
Do you really know your wife past.Did she opened up to you.
And pls bro dont wave what @zoharariel pen down.he is very right in his assertion.umpteem number of ladies are walking corpses,most especially those who sleep around with all kinds of men.such that the kind of husband they marry amount to nothing in life.If u are ibile and also from the street you will understand what i mean.
My advise to you is this,you and your woman should go for delievrance first.sort that out.

Lord have mercy.Women!!! i throw way nyash for una.If only men knew the kind of dirty runs their girlfriends/wives play.If only.if only they knew the side-hustle their woman are into.what my eyes have seen ehn!.

cutieme:
Can't wait to see the kilimanjarolically ass ladies pics lolz

Ashawo.upon all o.p pen down,your only concern nah women.you too like women.

The obvious reasons for men is money.when a man doesnot have a job how e won take marry .Majority of the characteristics almost all ladies want in a man,it's men who are financially handicap that largely possess such.

Larryndelaw:
So all those olosho are still men of calibre. Or those agberos living in lekki are more civilized or those yahoo boys are more educated. Rubbish Many houses on the island are built by people in the mainland. The Landlord prefer to stay in the mainland and the Tenants prefers to stay in the island. You see the sense. I'm an insider.

You're very right in your assertion.I know of someone who lives in the mainland.he owns properties in island.A landlord.Most of his friends who lives on the island are tenent.They most times complain to him that prices things are on the high side.

Afritop:
In Nigeria it is o. It is only here I have seen broke and jobless singles getting married where the sponsors of the wedding is their parents and will still stay with parents. They will even shout it as testimony. And that is what our pastors want to be hearing. And after few weeks or after childbearing they become debtors borrowing money up-and-down from singles without paying back giving stupid excuse.
Yet still they hold on that they got married because they are more matured than those singles they are borrowing money from.

God bless you for this.Majority of them rush into it,as if there is something special in the institution.practically speaking marriage is responsibility.many of them dont have job,it's still the parent giving them stipends.borrowing from singles and we be claiming they are man enough.

sir,money on is own is a spirit.it can vanish into the thin air if not properly and thoroughly utilized.Before the one-million naira loan got into your hand i doubt if you had something concrete you wanted to use the money for.i dont think you sat and did thorough research and carryout investigation on the kind of business you wanted to go into.
opportunity come once.I'm not saying this is going to be your last but you mess up the money big time.you were lucky to get a loan without interest.Not everyone is lucky as you.by the way,from your write-up and the way you reply comment on this thread you seems to be disorganise,you seems not to get yourself.Yes,that's the effect of not sweating before getting money,Had it been you own the money,you work very hard bfore you got that money percentage is high u wont have found yourself deep into this mess.Getting Loan is not a bad thing but i as a person,i could point out much laspes on your part,the reason things were south.
My advise to you is simple,sell that car and if you aint interested in selling then sell all your valuables to fix that car.

Brother just thank your star.Those guys are evil.pls cut any communication with them because that's how they'd hynotise you thereby asking you to send money to them.avoid any word with them.

Jesus!!! what is all this?
Money money money money and money is the tone of the day.People are jst so desperate for money.
Whether you be Trillionaire,billionaire,millionaire,thousanaire all nah six-feet.One naire wont follow u to your grave.
This days people worship money.majority are slave to money.people do unspeakable things all because of money.
From inception we are meant to understand that women owns this world.women are powerful,they can do and undo.Now a man who want power,wealth and fame from satan no doubt will need women for sacrifice and ritual.A woman who is not contented with her man,a lady who has swore never to have anything doing with a broke brother,an unsatisfied woman,a greedy woman,slay queens who dont want to use their hands to work most times fall in the hands of the nefarious men. guys are really not smiling this days.day in day out they are going extreme for money.

wait, is this not slimcase who is in the habit of praising fraudsters in his songs.
so him no won trade his peace of mind with anything.omolomo toh wise.

spiritedtete:
My brother... We are all equal forget about money now... My mentality and approach to money is different... I am not disperate too... The only thing that bit me everyday is how to better the people around me... This is my only worry and fear in life.

Otherwise personally there is nothing absolutely nothing in this world

On the 1m usd it was suppose to be a loan/share to a friend building a refinery... Which was supposedly a processing fee to secure bank guarantee from a foreign bank. But at last it was yahoo boys that was manipulating him...

Bro God bless you for saying this.You sincerely hit the main point.
There is nothing absolutely new in this world.nothing will forever remain permanet.
one can hit a jackpot of #30million tonight and lost everything within 24hrs.one can make a profit running into billions of naira from a contract and in the next 20yrs turn beggar.
Anyone who is a deep thinker will reason with me that our primary aim of coming to this world is to make IMPACT. No doubt money gives comfort,gives good life and will enable one to feeds fine.
Surely,there would be wealthy class of people during Michael Faraday era,but how many do you and i know.
My approah and view to money is different.i'm equally not desperate.I'm in my late 20s,unemployed.When i read the thread,"how old were you when you made your first million." last night i was never in a way moved.I dont wish evil and lost to all those who shared their wonderful experience on that thread,but if all of them should in anyway go back to that thread in the next 20-30yrs,you will see that not all will......

Cindy08:
God dammm it I jux see one clip today where maggots dey come out for one lady something swollen yes I call am something cos I no corrupt like oda nairalanders weh dey call am kpekus or d oda one

drop the link to the video

Dididrumz:
Saw it today too, I never fit un-see am, extremely disgusting

drop the link to the video.

IamD18:
A guy spent 31k for hot sex which they both enjoyed and you are calling him "Confirm guy"?

I just read thru his post again to comprehend.31k is too much.

Bro that's a typical naija girl for you.They claim they are into the relationship because of love.love my foot.
To them love means money and money is love.
i'm happy you got your sense at the early stage because not all men would have reason like this.
you did nothing wrong in putting her where she belong.let her carry her hustle elsewhere.

Before nko.
Trump call this Nation a shithole.Yes i concurr
Our leaders find joy seeing the masses suffering.
They dont give a damn about us.

IamD18:
Most ladies are walking corpse.

And majority of them are unaware.

Marriage is not for everyone.
The reason i'm never moved whenever i see pre-wedding photos of intending couples hitting front page on nairaland.Majority dont know what it entails to live a happy married life.money will make your marriage sweet but it doesnt guarantee how long it will last.The mistake many make.
Marriage is meant for those who are patient,tolerant,understanding,and those who can endure.

I dont grasp when guys say they are in love.To me love nah scammer.love is a scam.its steal ones emotion.
women use the word to dupe men and men use it on women to get what they want.it's only a fool who fall in love.
such a pity,this four letter word as sent many couples and the intending ones to their early grave.
The love people professess out there to one another is fake and pseudo.

Harlot.Simple

Deldevieno:
Whether Nigerian guys in their 20s are still broke or not, whether dem girls want broke guys or not, that's none of my business. My own na to hustle, make money, give back to my family and the society. If any girl one stay, either when money dey or not, that's her business!
There's more to this crazy life than me worrying about which of d girl wud be with me wen i'm rich or broke.

yaaga!!! Here you go.This is someone who is interested in making IMPACT in life.Yes,you're spotted.Same with me,i'm not just really interested in women palavar.There lives is somehow complicated.They can serve as a form of distraction.There is more to our existence in this life than sex,women and pleasure.
Every educated person knows who Michael faraday was,but nobody knows who the richest person was during his time.

Zoharariel:
Baba, may Obatala & Shango bless you. I am an Ijebu boy but if I tell you wetin young boys dey do in Ijebu to get money, omo your heart go cut.

Their motto is - "Money Is A Must"

I thank the irunmoles for making me a very contented person otherwise me sef for don join the gang of skull miners.

Shey na wetin I no do when I was in my 20s & 30s - na him I go talk say I wan go do now ?

All I know is - I will never marry an empty basket (apere ajase) or any woman that has been ritualized.

If dem like, let them continue following Yahoo Boys inside their Venza, Cross tour & Muscle - na their glory & virtues go suffer am.

Bro if i no grasp weytin you they yarn,i dey lie you.i'm equally an Egba man.if you no weytin Abeokuta guys dey do to get this money,baba you go fear.
Let me shock you.last month i went to buy fuel at a filling station nah so young lads drive in there venza into the fueling station to buy fuel.As the bloke who drive the car was counting the money to pay,he started barking like a confirm dog i was really scare.His groons came out and drag him into the car hailing him.after he stopped,he was asking he if bark very well.I was shocked and amazed
Baba i've seen a lot.The way they acquire their wealth and the way they spend.
I'm in my early 30s,i'm always contented with whatever i have.It'll be absurd on my part to involve myself into those rubbish.I dont have a single friend.i dont trust these egba guys.
I sincerely pity those ladies who called themselves slayqueens.Higher percentage number of them are walking dead corpse but they are yet to know.Those guys are more than desperate in having money.In fact desperate is an understatement.
Even married men are involved into this.They lie and use single ladies even married women who are not contented with their husband to upgrade and update there charm.After sleeping with them boom! there business begins to blosom and flourish.

Zoharariel:
Baba, the OP is even a small boy. With my age, the girl I am planning to impregnate na 16 (highest 17 years old).

It is not about having the confidence to approach people in my age group or not.

Yahoo Boys & Ritualists have finished all the women in my younger brother's age group, not to talk of women in my own age group.

I was at Ijebu the last weekend and na so dem tell me say a married man was caught recently & beaten to pulp before he confessed.

The guy went to an herbalist at Ago Iwoye to look for a shortcut to wealth and he was given a ring.

The ring was meant to hypnotize any woman he touches until he sleeps with them & then all their virtues will automatically be transferred spiritually to the guy.

Now, listen carefully. The guy confessed that he went to 911 (a very popular bar in Ijebu-ode where myself & friends go to drink too) and all the women (Olosho) he touched with that ring have already been used by other Yahoo boys & ritualists.

He went to another bar and all the olosho there too have been used.

He now became skeptical of the ring - thinking maybe the Babalawo gave him a sakamanje

Na so the guy enter house & touched his wife (who had just given birth) with the ring and it worked.

Omo, na so the wife start to dey sick & shrink until her people asked her and she told them her sickness began the night her husband touched her.

They started beating the husband until he confessed.

Baba, dem talk say all the girls wey dey TASUED, Yahoo Boys don use all of them finish. Even Unilag, Laspotech & LASU female hustlers (Oloshos) are not left out.

As I dey so, if my 16 or 17 year old babe no gree for me on time, Omo last last, na 12 or 13 year old girl I go go impregnate.

Highest, the court will settle it for us by pronouncing us husband & wife.

I really pity guys wey still dey carry Olosho - I swear!

What guys are really into these days is really unspeakable.Believe me bro,i completely grasp what you meant.i quite understand your drive.People will tag you insane for saying this,but you arent.
It's pitiable seeing slayqueens out there slaying about either online or offline.Higher percentage number of them have been used unaware.They are just empty.Na jst body and flesh.That's all.Even those smart ladies who think they cant be used or better still those who think they covered because one baba don do work for them i feel sorry for them.Each days guys are going extreme for money.They dont give a damn,they dont care destroying lives.Also,Due to ignorance on the part parents,a lot of innocent babies will grow up to amount to nothing in life.This is just the simple truth.
I do tell people who cares to listen that there is nothing like Yahoo yahoo.What guys are involved now adays is Money Ritual and majority of there victims is Women.The urgue these guys have for money(kudi) is something else.
Ladies who covet,who are greed,who dont want to use there hands to work,who have made-up there mind not to have anything doing with a broke brother,ladies who love hanging out and sleeping with married men are those who largely fall prey.umpteen number of married men preferably uses single ladies and married women to renew there charm/ritual not there wives
Ladies who still think those who appear flashy and lousy are those who to run away from are doing there self great harm,those guys now come coded and appear on a low-key until they successfully carryout there evil intention.Guys are really not smilling.

lefulefu:
see my spec

lefulefu meat.
where is Alexialin? i notice are non-presence on this forum along time.i do love are beautiful submission to issues.
i'm asking because both of you're pals.

otunba cash wanted to celebrate christmas in a big way. fraud,crime doesnot pay. Otunba cash e moni(in Qdot voice)

foreveryoung1515:
NO

So sorry,i read your diary.I pray God manifest Himself in your home.
The thing is majority of men dont want marriage.Higher percentage are into it only for procreation.After that,they begin to exibit their true-self.Just be patient with him.