₦airaland Forum

Kaolaniyi:
She is not ready to be submissive to you
You better run as far as your leg can carry you free advise

This is deep man

Nawao na y I like Nairaland

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mrchineke:
@bold

Rubbish! May be your brother is super lucky and belongs to 0.005% of the population of married men in today’s Nigeria.

The guy you quoted is 200% correct!

And I observe his comments hit you really hard!
The truth is bitter.

See this one, go back and eat from mummy's pot.

Before I ask how old you are, plz have you check your Waec exam center

Frezhkid10:
..yup...do you have job for me??..

why earning 30k for 2 years..that's a long time, you suppose don upgrade my guy..na advice sha

Frezhkid10:
...too much sense in this...I currently earn 30k monthly at my place of work. I have being working for two years now and to say the truth, I have been able to save far more than what my other colleagues who ventured into marriage with the quote "Nah God dy take care of pickin"..I used my savings to start up a business early dis year and now my income has increase exponentially...I barely think of the next payday whereas my colleagues who ventured into raising kids just because they had a job paying 30k can't feed comfortably for a full month talkless of providing for their family..

Are you a graduate?

Acidosis:
How did marriage plung him into poverty? Let's start from there.

He had a Lexus 2020 model and a duplex in Ajah before he got married? And suddenly after he got married, he relocated to an uncompleted building in a remote area in Nassarawa axis? Is that the story?

You didn't even ask this young man about his marriage but somehow you concluded in your mind that marriage plunged him into poverty.

You didn't ask him whether the food he ate earlier that day was prepared by his wife without any contribution from the young man. Somehow, you're indirectly blaming his wife and kids for his misfortunes. Do you know whether the same wife has been the one contributing and saving his life?

What about the emotional support? Do you know whether his kids and his wife are reasons the young man hasn't commited suicide?

Take away marriage from that young man and one thing has remained constant in his life since birth - poverty. If you're poor, you're poor.

The Op an still small boy in terms of life, make he grow up first.

He just dey mislead people.

mmadu4:
i just dey observe your comments you be real mumu .I'm sure your suffering in your slavery called marriage

I hear u. Marriage comes with maturity...You're not mature for it yet, till then, so F**K off!

Your opinion. Naso una go do till u enta late 40's

Feel like taking step but fear of the unknown is holding me back. This pandemic has dealt a huge blow on importation market.

And the purchasing power of people have been crippled due to covid19

EVILFOREST:
U have said it all.
Dis is exactly what I scream everyday on NAIRALAND.
I hate POVERTY....
I hate BEGGING....
I have always tried to programmed myself in such a way that I will be the last person to beg on earth.
Do you know why...?
The ANSWER is simple:
I am always contented with what I have.
..... and I always try to save.
Always envisage the number of kids you plan to have. Stop having unnecessary erections as a man.

MY ADVICE:
As a struggling hard working man, never never marry a Lady who lacks vision compounded with enormous BURDEN.
No matter how beautiful she is, just avoid her.
I can assure you that, you will never see that beauty again 2 months into your marriage with her.
It's better to marry a visionary WIDOW than marry an empty beautiful VIRGIN.

IF you Fail to PLAN, you have already planned to FAIL.

Eggxactly... Lol

If you're 30 years old, you should marry a visionary lady and start your life in peace.

No be say you go come dey useless going to beer parlor, brothel and hotel unto say you dey form single man till money come.

Marriage is companionship

Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?

Stop misleading people with your nasty view.


You failed at marriage doesn't mean others will.

... Are you God that determines when one should marry or not?

My bro married when he has nothing. Today he is Madly in wealth.

Just so you know, marriage give you this hustling mindset to be on your toes.

Look for someone understanding,and plan towards a future.

There's some certain age man will seek companionship

God determines one's destiny.. Sh.it happens in a jiffy.

gsparks01:
Take note... this guy has an open scammer issue of which he has not been vindicated.

The guy is a scammer bro.. I tells u

Hope he didn't scam you sha...?

I contacted him for US Fiverr review buying.


I sensed TWO things as street wey me be...


I quickly checked his Whatsapp name and it was "Anthony Esiri."

Then, his fake ECO Bank account details he dropped was "Abdulazeez Yaqur."

How *Anthony Esiri* and *Abdul Yaqur* take resemble...Lmao

I already know you can easily create a virtual Eco bank account without BVN.

Reason I usually refuse sending money to ECO account because it can't be trace.

... So, I asked him to drop another account, he started abusing me.

Lol


Immediately, I know the guy is a scam.

I mean who the HECK sell US Fiverr review for 2,300N

Let's be careful

nnamdi65:
Hi,
I'm a contract staff like you, A student too, and Also does online business.

Though here in Abuja not Lagos,.

I've been on contract with a multimedia company for 3years and now with a Bank for 1year.

Good news is I've a house of my own during my last three years of my first working place.

Working in the bank or multimedia old workplace give me alot of CONTACTS that enable me do work for my client during weekends like Web designing and internet Networking for organizations.

So you can run the two simultaneously and we'll balance.
You're a graduate, that a good news cos any moment you get converted to core Banking.

Meanwhile you can save up for a particular period of time and go-to business full time in you so desire business.

But you need to start from somewhere. Cos nobody just wakes up to be Rich.
So dear,
Save up, make contact from ur current work station while also have plans...

You make sense my brother

Nuel4:
Look at how happy you are. Obviously, you are either 19 years old or you are short, black ugly with small moustache and mouth odor

Lol.. U 5ine pass me ni

I'm ur elder

cruxgemmata:
U r happy kissing n telling.

Is she talk her own now say i just allowed him get d cookie but d idiot's d*ck isn't worth it, he cant even drill very well, he was just shaking on me like a wet leaf. He didnt even last long.

Lol I'm badda than

Jasseyfrd:
. congratulation bro...2020 is a good year..more blessing to ur gbola

Na man u be

Robnectar:
hmmmm u come dey do like say ur bet9ja ticket enter

Bet9ja collected my 10k last weekend.. Plz don't remind me of dat shit

Say no to betting...

Imagine

Liverpool VS burnley 1-1

Chelsie lost 3-0

Juventus lost against Milan

khengxlei:
drop full gist nu

See gist

master69:
That is not Okafors laws sir, the law state the any babe u done fxxk before there is tendency that u will still fxxk her, in your own case the first one was just an attempt u didn't fxxk her.

In 2017, I don bleeped her thighs before, but not her punna. Sucked her Bobby as at then sef, and made her wet like crazy.. She kept declining my effort to get into dat her wet hole

I no blame her.. I'm surviving on allawee then


Now she came, saw my settings, babe tripped and started having feelings

She declined again

But as a sharp guy, I used most ladies weak point to get in *her bobby*

Naso God pick my call

Ooops: this is an achievement, 3 years dream came through by spending less than $1.

Now she want more but I'm now doing shakara. No more!


I actually bleeped TWO ladies yesterday

Vyzz:
Kiss and tell


You are not doing well...

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Am kidding


Congratulations bro.....

E be like say u are sex starved...



More power to your gbola

no oo I be sharp shooter

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Nigerian profile is good, what matter is your delivery and packaging.

MY STORY

I had been on Fiverr for a year without seeing nothing...not until I came across this best thread ever!

Just this morning, I was online on my Fiverr account, a Nigerian client chatted me up ...He was new and looking for an email copywriter to help his affiliate marketing business.

As a fellow Nigerian, he was happy seeing someone who is from his country.

We discussed at length and even exchanged contacts. In the end, we agreed on $110


I noticed, I've been happily doing $5 jobs and getting good reviews, this propelled my profile on Fiverr to visibility.

Let start from $5.


Thank You Venzal, Cutezt, Meklex for the teachings

Never give up on Nigerian profile.

Eberechi24:
Pls what is obow?

Puss.y

Oyinlomobambam:
90% of ladies out now are feminines come join am with your age mate or circle. How e go be?

Seriously, I was advised not to date my age circle but I insist I love mature ladies.

She might love you so much o but after one or 2kids, them go show you true colour

Jesus

MejiLoyon:
If you stay around egbeda holla me. By the time I fuel you with beer and obow depression go japa.

You think too much. You need to calm down

Weyrey

Oyinlomobambam:
Don't try it....
I take God beg you don't dare it.

I am regretting it now

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Pls can you open up a little for people like us to learn...I'm in such situation too

A305:
Lies - No one gets paid 60k in Nigeria of today.

Some are earning 45k in my place

stchinedu:
You need to sit down and think over. Before you set out for any business or any form of hustle make sure your driving force is for Freedom and not survival.

Best of luck.

My bae has advice same thing you said

ojoduoludare:
it is better for you to save little and quit as soon as possible,because if you don't quit now bank will soon send you parking any time , I work will first bank as a teller for 10 years my pension is just 2500 a month , when bank quit us we stay for 3 years without job because they needed experience person,no organization will want to employ you cause they don't see you as an experience person.it take grace of God that I see this one , but you see those my friend who stopped every early and join business? some off them now a big boy , some are abroad , look at me here still struggle .... say no to contract job not when u are still single because when you start having children ,to quit na wahala , to start business na war, it will be waist of youth age ( God forbid

Best advice ever... Will bookmark this too